#advenduromantic

[pawssclawss]

me: identifies as queer for about a year-ish because idk wtf i am me: figures out im aroace-spec but i still feel romantic attraction and sexual attraction its weird me: figures out im advenduromantic and orchidsexual without a gender prefrence me: can barely find anything about them (especially avenduromantic, even on tumblr where it was coined) me: very mad me: still polyam so ill basically date anyone i feel attraction to atp

[bobinandco]

My goat OC, Gordy! I love them sm. I haven't drawn them much but I have been planning a lot for them if I ever get back to writing for this universe again!

[isonoe-kallichore-kirby]

a silly flag (btw this is the new flag

Advenduromantic:

Advenduromantic is a romantic orientation on the aromantic spectrum, derived as a romantic parallel to advendurosexuality. It can be considered a subcategory of the greyromantic umbrella.

Advenduromanticism describes the conditions of infrequent romantic attraction, fading into the background before coming back either suddenly or slowly, which can be triggered by something or just happen. It is also described as being hard to distinguish from platonic attraction. An advenduromantic can experience a crush towards strangers and friends and can have romantic relationships.

Advenduromantic experiences may include:

Relating to some aromantic or grayromantic experiences.

Having only limited experiences with romantic attraction.

Having very brief crushes.

Only getting crushes several years into a friendship.

Not understanding the point of blind dating, speed dating, personal ads, or a generalized desire for a romantic partner who isn't an already-known person.

Being in a relationship without being romantically attracted to that person most of the time.

Like with any romantic orientation, advenduromantic individuals can identify with any sexual orientation. The name comes from the Latin words adventus, meaning arrival, and durum, meaning hard.

Two flags have been created, both by the coiner of the term, lgbt-i-guess this site The first, a red-orange-white-grey-black flag, was made at the same time the term was coined, Jan 13th.

[gay-aunt-jackie]

After much research, this is where I identify on the aroace spectrum:

Cupioromantic

Frayromantic

Nebularomantic

Bellusromantic

Platoniromantic

Quoiromantic

Arospike

Aceflux

Nebulasexual

Autochorisromantic

ceterosexual

skoliosexuality

trans admirer

transfan

transromantic

demiromantic

demisexual

Aroflux

Advenduromantic

Apothiromantic

Requisromantic

Hostiamantic

Queeromantic

[aceandarothingies]

Microlabel Pride Posts! Day 7

Advenduromantic people are amazing!

Advenduromantic: a romantic attraction that doesn't often come up, often sparking up for brief periods; tends to be triggered by something, can be hard to tell apart from platonic attraction. Some describe it as "wandering" romantic attraction.

[Image description: two pride flags with varying degrees of orange, white, grey, and black on them. End description.]

[alloaro]

advenduromantic? for the arospec thing

Their favorite pastime is diving into the wonderful world their favorite books have

[They/them only]

I'll be honest it took me a couple of tries to get the flag lol, I blame my dyslexia on that tho

[Edit: I used the wrong version of the flag at first unfortunately, however it was a quick fix]

[the-local-punk-devil]

7. Have you changed labels since realizing you were LGBT? 4. Favorite color? 3. What is your gender identity? 12. Which pride flags do you like the most design/color wise? 30. Pineapple on pizza?

7 -

Definitely. And I still haven’t set it in stone that I am who I want to be. It’s okay to take years on deciding who you are.

4 -

Black, Red, Purple.

3 -

Genderfluid. Mostly male identifying and Agender/nonbinary.

12 -

Lithosexual

Advenduromantic

Placiosexual

30 -

I like it on something I order from domino’s but never had it on anything else.

[bigolechompers]

https://aromantic.wikia.org/wiki/Advenduromantic

holy shit its me

[lgbt-i-guess]

im coining a new term (if theres another term for the exact same thing just say) (also if theres another flag really similar i can redesign

advenduromantic

latin

coming back - adventum - adven - represents its coming back, however infrequently

hard (to distinguish) - durum - represents its difficulty in distinguishing it from platonic attraction

meaning - a romantic attraction that doesnt often come up, often sparking up for brief periods; tends to be triggered by something, can be hard to tell apart from platonic attraction

can be oriented

[colour meanings:

red - attraction "sparking" back up

orange - attraction dulling back down

white - changing, fluidity of attraction

grey - difficulty to distinguish from platonic attraction

black - lack of attraction]

@uncommongenders @mogaiheaven @beyond-mogai-pride-flags @imoga-pride @nebularomantic

[zombiecourse]

here’s what my introduction says!

all pronoun flags in this post are by the-gender-collector-emself (wouldn’t let me tag)

according to this, my identities and pronouns are:

- several unnamed gender identities

- he/him, fae/faer, it/its, and xe/xem

we’re gonna start with the pronouns!

he/him - solid pronoun set, binary, apparently not valid? checkmate cis men

(nonbinary he/him flag)

fae/faer - coined in 2014 (possibly earlier), most common nounself pronoun set according to the nonbinary wiki’s survey

(demiboy fae/faer flag)

it/its - solid pronoun set, I use it to counteract the dehumanisation I’ve experienced as a queer autistic person

(nonbinary it/its flag)

xe/xem - coined in 1973, likely before anon was born, very nice

(xe/xem flag)

gender identities!

transmasculine - my gender identity is masc, while I am AFAB

faergender - unsure when it was coined? i found it in a discord server, ‘A gender that your understanding of is inhuman/aligned with the fae understanding of gender’

faergender does not have a flag as far as i can tell

nonbinary - neither male nor female 100%

(nonbinary flag)

genderfaun - my gender is fluid, never female but always male in some way

fluidflux - my gender changes in intensity and what it is

demiboy - partially but not totally male

autigender - my sense of gender is altered by my autism

now the attraction!

aroacespec - i’m on both the ace and aro spectrums!

asexual - I do not feel sexual attraction!

advenduromantic - coined by @lgbt-i-guess, means ‘a romantic attraction that doesnt often come up, often sparking up for brief periods; tends to be triggered by something, can be hard to tell apart from platonic attraction’

gay! i’m attracted to men and nonbinary people

and queer!

hey in case no one’s told you yet your identities and pronouns are not valid and never will be !

give me like 5 minutes to get the laptop and I'll respond to this

[alloaro]

hey i saw u did advenduromantic with this flag (lgbt-i-guess(.)tumblr(.)com/post/181986203083/) but the coiner changed it to a different design (lgbt-i-guess(.)tumblr(.)com/post/185627525788) because it was too close to the lithro flag

Oh! I had no idea sorry! I'll edit the photo now and repost it, thank you for letting me know!

[alloaro]

hey i was just wondering what advenduromantic is? i haven’t heard of it before and i’m curious!

It's a term coined by @lgbt-i-guess here is the copypaste definition on their post about it

a romantic attraction that doesnt often come up, often sparking up for brief periods; tends to be triggered by something, can be hard to tell apart from platonic attraction

I think it's pretty neat! And the flag Is nice on the eyes

[aceandarothingies]

My contribution to Arospec Awareness Week 2019!

Top row: Caedromantic, Fictoromantic, Wolandromantic, Requisromantic, Recipromantic.

Second row: Greyromantic, Aromantic, Demiromantic, Lamvanoromantic, Quoiromantic, Abroromantic.

Third row: Arovague, Oriented AroAce, Aroflux, Schroromantic, Implaromantic, Idemromantic.

Fourth row: Proculromantic, Cuddlioromantic, Placioromantic, Aegoromantic, Aeturomantic.

Fifth row: Icularomantic, Anattractional, Lusiromantic, Apothiromantic, Arospike, Cupioromantic.

Sixth Row: Aromantic Terato, Caligoromantic, Aesthetiromantic, Lithromantic, Frayromantic, Cupioflux.

Seventh Row: Advenduromantic, Apresromantic, Meroromantic.

Final Row: Oligoromantic, Sorozaromantic, Ailuromantic