! TUMBLR INTRODUCTION !
(Apologies if it bothers anyone, I tend to write in all caps ^_^')
HELLO!! MY NAMES INKSY BUT I ALSO GO BY BIT!!)))))
IM A MULTIFANDOM ARTIST AND ANIMATOR WHO ASPIRES TO BE A CARTOONIST YET SUFFERS HUGE BURNOUT AND ART BLOCK AT TIMES o_O
(i also have some other career interests like astronomy, biology/chemistry, and 1900s world history!)
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I DO COMMS!!!! IF YOU ENJOY MY ART AND WOULD LIKE SOMETHING DRAWN, ALL THE INFO FOR COMMS IS HERE!
-> https://www.roblox.com/games/7067623360
(unrelated but if you drop stuff in my ask box, i would love to respond and or draw stuff requested!!)
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VERY REBLOG HEAVY ON HERE! MAYBE SOMETIME ILL MAKE A MASTERLIST OR SOMETHING FOR MY ART POSTS HAHA -- FOR NOW, REFER TO MY TWITTER OR DEVIANT IF YOU WANT TO FIND MY ART EASILY T_T (TYPICALLY CROSS POST)
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ENG/РУС (HALF AMERICAN, HALF RUSSIAN! I SPEAK MOSTLY ENGLISH + IM A LITTLE ROUGH ON MY RUSSIAN TYPING SKILLS BUT I CAN READ AND SPEAK IT!!) (ALSO I CAN READ GREEK FOR ANY OF THOSE GREEK FELLAS OUT THERE)
ANY PRONOUNS + CHERI/CHERIM (NEOS)
ENFP 7W6
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CURRENT FIXATION(S) AS WE SPEAK:
KASANE TETO (specifically masarada)
FOSTERS HOME FOR IMAGINARY FRIENDS (+other CN shows)
DOORS
MODEST MOUSE
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IF YOU READ THE FANDOMS DOC, YOU CAN TELL I DONT REALLY STICK TO ONE FANDOM TO POST ABOUT HAHA!! I TEND TO INTERACT WITH MANY DIFFERENT THINGS
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LINKS/USERS:
MY CARRD!!! (being fixed LLLL)
DISCORD: inksy_pop (my inactive server: https://discord.com/invite/9ewvzcu)
YOUTUBE: b1tstar
YOUTUBE ALT: mushroomys
TWITTER: b1t_star
DEVIANTART: b1tstar
ART FIGHT: candycoatedrocks (GONNA BE MY FIRST YEAR!)
TIKTOK: b1tstar
SPOTIFY: b1t (I MAKE PLAYLISTS FOR ARTISTS OF EVERY SONG THEYVE POSTED!! BE EXPECTING MORE)
CROB: PNWVV1447 (inksy#7177)
ROBLOX: b1tstar (Skitty)
(psssttt... i have slides for my EPIC roblox ocs... take a look... mayhaps)
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HAVE A GOOD DAY, FELLOW TUMBLR USER!!))))
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Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".
Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"
And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".
Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.
At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.
So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!
Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!
Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!
Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.
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Reverse trope
where instead of the Bats forgetting that they’re adopted (something actual adoptees do on occasion and is hilarious) they forget that some of them *cough Damian cough* aren’t
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Jason in the heat of a probably ridiculous argument: Yeah well YOU’RE adopted!
Tim just as invested in said argument: So are YOU! We all are!
Damian who had previously been quietly watching this unfold while he drank his tea: Actually I’m not
Tim and Jason who didn’t realize he was there but are already DoneTM: ……
Damian continuing to sip his tea entirely unbothered: :)
Damian: Because I’m not an orphan-
Jason: ok, yoU KNOW WHAT-
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or like in their group texts (that we know they have thanks to Nightwing (2016) #79)
*Steph changed the group chat name to “Bruce Wayne’s Personal Orpanage”*
Jason: Really?
Steph: ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Steph: It’s the truth
Damian: Both my parents are very much alive
Steph: Shhh you don’t count
Cass: Mine too
Duke: Technically so are mine
Barbara: I still have a dad so there’s that
Steph: YOU GUYS ARE RUINING THE JOKE
Tim: Stephanie aren’t BOTH of your parents alive???
Steph: KNOW WHAT? FINE
*Steph changed the group chat name to “The Technicality Police”*
Tim: well that’s more accurate at least
Steph: :)
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Damian in his 10th argument with Tim of the day: That’s- this is-
Tim in full Antagonizing Big Brother mode: I’m listening
Damian -a Gen Z and best friend to Jon Kent- extremely frustrated: This is such Motherless behavior!
Tim taken aback: [voice cracking] W-what-?
Damian who didn’t mean to say that but doubling down anyway because his bloodline doesn’t believe in admitting mistakes: THIS! This is such Motherless behavior!
The rest of the family who is also motherless: :O
Cass whose been spending way too much time with Meme Queen Stephanie Brown and not involved in the argument but finding it entertaining regardless: [nodding along seriously] Facts
Tim: [visibly betrayed] CASS WHAT-
A video copy of the interaction gets sent out anonymously to the entire family. Barbara is the prime suspect but there is no proof as of yet (and they will never find any)
Steph, Cass, and Duke continue to respond “Motherless behavior” everytime one of the bats does something they deem questionable/insane. It is said often
It only stops when one night in the middle of patrol. Batman is in full Dark Knight mode (possibly in the middle of threatening someone) and descends from the ceiling into the middle of a warehouse drug deal, dark cape billowing out behind him-
and Steph just automatically whispers “Motherless behavior” forgetting her com was still very much on
She immediately realizes what she said and frantically apologizes but it’s too late.
Bruce just- Blue Screens. Completely stunned into silence
Dick -who was unfortunate enough to be the one teamed up with Batman tonight- is fighting for his life to choke back his laughter
Jason doesn’t even try to stop his and has collapsed to his knees from lack of air from how hard he’s laughing. Cass try’s half heartedly patting his back to help to no avail
The criminals are terrified into surrender from The Red Hood just laughing hysterically at seemingly nothing while Batman just Stands There
Damian ends up being the only one still functioning enough to continue arresting everyone, though he is privately amused and strangely proud
Tim and Barbara have saved both the com recordings and cowl footage to at least three different servers and sent it to absolutely everyone before Batman even recovers
Duke finds out second hand the next morning and is furious he missed the chance to see it in person. He declares he is moving to the nightshift so it doesn’t happen again. (He is all talk and goes to bed by 9 pm)
Bruce bans the phrase for life and promises swift and server punishment to anyone who dares to use it again
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