#They're assholes

[goodluckclove]

hey man, is that incredibly intense comment you posted online a product of how you would actually talk to another human being standing directly in front of you? or are you just emboldened by the fact that you're operating on a detached, online medium that removes both the full context of the situation and the consequence of saying something to someone that - while maybe being based in truth - is definitely worded to be incredibly passive-aggressive, if not outright cruel?

[leavemetoplaythesims]

hey i went through old screenshots and found angelo and cristian so naturally i remade them eeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

most of you probably don't know who they are, this is what they used to look like three years ago.

[didnt-want-to-sleep-anyway]

Just finished playing Stray

And holy shit, that made me feel things :D

[vizthedatum]

I am so serious about this.

I am at a point right now where I think it is ABLEIST for narcissists (or advocates of UNDIAGNOSED PEOPLE and/or PEOPLE WITH NARCISSISTIC TENDENCIES WHO DO NOT TAKE ANY ACCOUNTABILITY) not to acknowledge that:

they are one

they know that you are empathic and that you have either had a past with codependency issues OR are a codependent

they think your emotions are silly

they impose ultimatums and call it boundaries

Because if you don't acknowledge this, then you're targeting us.

I do not think it is ableist to call out literal narcissists who REFUSE to acknowledge their own patterns of behavior, take any accountability, and straight up use people all for the sake of *control*

And what's more:

Here is an extreme "fuck you" to both of my exes from last year (my ex-spouse and my other partner), who I've identified as undiagnosed narcissists (most likely, covert narcissists). The latter ex-partner may be diagnosed, but who knows since they lie/conceal their DID from people and throw a tantrum when they can't get their way. Read it and weep; both of you are fucking children - call me a villain and a monster when I have TRIED MY UTMOST BEST TO LOVE THE BOTH OF YOU.

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I do have a lot of respect for those with NPD or narcissistic traits WHO LITERALLY ARE DOING THE WORK TO GROW/HEAL - this post is not about them.

[scaryscarecrows]

How healthy is Crane and Kitty’s relationship? From a normal standpoint, like, good communication and the like.

The issue here is that they have a surprisingly healthy relationship. (Then again, they've both taken psych classes and have the sense to use their words. :p)

It's other people that are the problem. They? Get on fine. Enter someone who doesn't use earbuds in public and chooses to blast Bad Pop Music on the subway and, well, they use their words to agree that that person needs to be taught some manners. With fear toxin. Collateral damage be damned.

[vera-dauriac]

Just officially told the Met to not auto renew my streaming subscription at midnight when my year ends, and man, it felt good to tell them why I wasn't renewing.

[postsfromthedark]

Wanna see a scene in the next book where sophie I'd asked (by forkle? The council? Her friends?) To choose between humans and elves and immediately choose humans

[rudolphsb9]

the angst about Ahkmenrah not getting to have an afterlife like he probably always expected when he was alive is real rn

[logankisseswade]

if you hate transgender people go fuck yourself

[wiisagi-maiingan]

You are allowed to exist alone in public btw. You're allowed to go to the movies alone and go out to eat alone and hang out in a park alone and go for a walk alone and whatever else. It isn't weird or creepy, it doesn't make you lonely or a loser or whatever. You are allowed to just exist as yourself.

[a-scary-lack-of-common-sense]

I think I made some of you guys a little sad with my last post, so you can have some happy aftermath twins before part 2, as a treat ❤️

[dykekarkat]

the ideal aaron neil dynamic is one where they're constantly bitching at each other like feral cats who hiss and spit whenever they're in the same room. i do not want them to be friends i want them to be mortal enemies that have to play nice at thanksgiving dinner for the rest of their lives. neil sends aaron a picture of an apple once a day for the rest of his life type dynamic do you guys get me

[tofuingho]

My family kept chickens for a while.

The rooster was basically a guard dog because he would run up and attack anyone who visited unannounced.

[weekend-conspiracy-theorist]

given cass's canonical love of reality tv, I am absolutely certain that every year babs has to go into cbs's recruitment email and delete her survivor audition video

[shortmexicangirl]

obsessed with how ryan gosling's barbie promo consists solely of him treating the role like it's the joker and he's going he's going turbo but instead of becoming an insufferable douchebag to everyone around him he's just become a human bubble machine who only opens his mouth to spout FUN and spread the silly little guy agenda

[chiyana]

this is the stupidest crossover possible but I want Tim to make House his doctor

yes that House

why? He needs someone who is very good, will not give up or send Tim out to a different specialist just because his medical condition is difficult, will not be overly concerned about the danger Tim puts himself in, and will lie on Tim's medical records AND to Batman/Bruce Wayne/all of the Bats without hesitation or fear.

House is and will do all of those things without hesitation. He has no shame, no boundaries, he WILL get into a public fight with Bruce Wayne if it means keeping that man out of his patient's (and House's) business. He will help Tim lie to and gaslight the rest of his family without hesitation.

in exchange, Tim is his favorite patient. Not because they get along, necessarily, Tim is a know-it-all little shit and they constantly bicker and House hates how practically every facet of Tim's existence is a lie (and Tim thinks House is a smug know-it-all jackass who is needlessly cruel and callous bc he thinks the world owes him and never delivers just bc he's in pain, news flash a lot of people are in pain and manage not to be assholes) BUT, 1, Tim brings him really interesting cases and problems, and 2, Tim NEVER lies to House about his medical conditions or what he was doing when they happened.

He lies about literally almost everything else under the sun TO everyone else, but he is 100% completely upfront and honest about his medical history and what is going on with him with House.

admittedly it takes a while for House to realize Tim ISN'T lying to him because some of the shit he says is completely insane ("the vigilante thing is pretty obvious but what do you MEAN you got the Apocalypse virus TWICE, AND SURVIVED, AS A FOURTEEN-FIFTEEN YEAR OLD")

but once he realizes Tim doesn't ever lie to him, he becomes House's favorite patient because at least TIM gives him all of the data he needs as best he's able the moment he asks. At least House doesn't have to waste his time following up on bogus information or figuring out the truth, he can just get right into the meat of the medical issue at hand.

also it's so fun to lie directly to Batman's face, know the man knows, and know he can't do anything about it