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absolutebl · 3 months ago
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thai language question! what do tongthap and atom call each other in MLMU TH? it sounds like ‘nai’ or maybe ‘ngai’? it’s translated to both of their names several times on the YT subs. i’ve tried to look it up but i’m not sure i’m hearing it right 🙈
Thai pronoun: Nai
They are indeed using nai. Hold on I know I posted about that one at some point... AH HA here it is:
you want this section: (but I'll c&p it over here add to it at the bottom)
Nai & the Mafia 
So in 2022 Thai BLs seriously started moving setting outside of the school systems and thus added new pronouns (for us watchers) into the mix. KinnPorsche, Even Sun, and Unforgotten Night all use the pronoun nai (นาย) for you between men. Like many honorifics & pronouns, it’s derived from a minor title of nobility. In the 19th century it was declared the official courtesy title for adult males - regarded as a direct translation of “Mr”. 
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It has several different uses today. 
As a title, it only appears before the real given name (not surname), in official/formal contexts, e.g. when writing down one’s name on an exam paper, job application, or government form. If used with a nickname, it implies a bit of irony (like a teacher calling out a misbehaving student). 
As a pronoun, it’s usually an informal second-person pronoun used with males of equal status. It’s a decidedly non-rude word, so it’ll be used among friends/classmates if they don’t feel close enough to use gu/mueng (or if a person just doesn’t use rude pronouns, like swear words there are people who don’t feel comfortable ever saying guu/mueng). 
Rao/nai as pronouns used to be the default mode of address on TV before gu/mueng became acceptable to broadcast in the 2010s. 
When used by females, nai is pretty much equivalent to males using ter with females - so an old fashioned but intimate and sweet, loving. 
On TV, the use of ter/nai is probably most often associated with straight dramas in the acquaintance phase of courting. 
Nai also has the meaning “boss” (similarly to the combined form ��จ้านาย (jao nai/chao nai). If it’s being used as a pronoun in a more formal or deferential context (like organized crime), it is used in this sense. 
Usage number 2 & 6 are the ones we see in Thai BL. All that said I understand as a tourist in Thailand, you will hear nai but not all that often. It’s fine to use khun instead/back, but good to know to identify nai. 
Nai & My Love Mix Up
So My Love Mix Up is using #2.
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With adult males, nai is actually often paired with chan. (I know, right, but it's what they use. See any of the mafia shows.)
But in this high school setting, Atom & Kongthap seem to be using pom or sometimes even tan. (I haven't touched on tan at all because I find it the most confusing pronoun.)
Atom & Half use guu/mueng. Atom use rao/name with Mudmee, and she does they same with him. Although I think she shifts to chan with Half when they get closer.
Kongthap doesn't seem to ever use informal. Even Half uses nai with him.
So I think the use of polite nai in this relationship is being dictated by Kongthap's character's reserved gentlemanly stiffness (much as in the original show). In other words, were it not for Kongthap's personality, this show in this setting (and with this pair) would be using guu/mueng. But because of the original IP and the extreme reserve of Ida in Kieta Hatsukoi (who also uses quite formal Japanese) we are seeing a linguistic characterization of one half of a couple carry through to the tenor of the whole relationship.
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In other words, the use of nai was dictated by Kongthap's personality.
Frankly put, Kongthap would simply not use guu/mueng so they had to find some other way for these two to communicate. Rao/ter is too sweet and cute and old fashioned out the gate (these boys could graduate to it, I suppose, like in college or after).
Now they might have used khun instead of nai. If this were set in uni or the office that would have worked fine. Or even if this were a high school in Bangkok. But I'm not surprised they reached for nai.
In fact, since the announcement of the adaptation I was curious about how they were going to approach Kongthap's pronouns. I thought they might make Kongthap older to solve the issue with phi but they wanted to do the "going away to college together?" part of the plot, so yeah... nai is the solution.
This couple sounds a bit stiff and distanced from each other when speaking together as a result, but I understand why the script chose it.
Hope that explains.
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lurkingteapot · 1 year ago
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This is the single best English language summary/overview of different, relatively common Thai pronouns I've found to date. The article was originally compiled by Duke Language School founder Bingo (Arthit Juyaso); you can also read the original three-part article at the internet archive here: [1] [2] [3]
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absolutebl · 1 year ago
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I do harp on this a lot. I devoutly believe no foreigner should EVER use guu/meung
My Thai bestie, who I have known for over a decade and who is the same age as me, can’t bring herself to use them EVER. 
It’s a lot like peppering your English vocabulary with profanity. It works only in VERY specific circumstances and still there are personalities who will never do it. 
Guu/mueng has only been allowed on TV in Thailand for a very short amount of time. 
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Today I’m feeling well informed, because P’ @absolutebl taught me right at the beginning of my Thai BL life that you don’t ever use “Gu” and “Meng”…and what Mek seems to be implying in his thread is that it really has become an affectation of BL and less actually regular linguistic behavior.
In the following tweet Mek mentions that he really only ever uses it when he’s acting as a character…
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lord-yabadoo-rules-all · 1 year ago
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Hello hello everyone!! Long time no see :) I've had this frans in my head for YEARS...I started the character design sheet last year (or was it two years ago?) but recently decided to get off my ass and finish it! So here's a product of hard, August work!
I'm kinda sad to see so many of my frans peers gone, but I hope they're doing well! While I probably won't be some huge online presence going forwards, I'm still excited to support the new gen while I can!
ANYWAYS!! This is my interpretation of HT frans! (og creator @/horrortalecomic) that takes place around a decade after Frisk's escape from the underground. Their life kinda goes downhill fast though, as the combined survivor's guilt, insane trauma after battling the horror known as Omega Flowey, and the sheer lack of a support system just kinda destroys them in that period of time. I won't dwell too much on that time period, though! After moving away from the og Mt. Ebbot city, Frisk gets their fresh start, regularly going to therapy, taking their PTSD meds, managing a pretty popular bookshop downtown, and living with their super supportive roomates!
...And then the monsters are freed, which does throw Frisk into a whirlwind, but after a year or two they feel pretty safe. No monsters seemed to have moved to their city (especially since the monster population is significantly smaller than it was before), so everything would be okay. Until that fateful day...
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here they are! fyi frisk's skin, eye and hair colour (except for the blonde streaks) apply to all my frisks now!
I'll add some info here i couldn't fit in the tags! -> They have a fun coworker dynamic where Frisk does NOT know he doesn't remember them so they're constantly walking on eggshells around him.
-> Frisk: Oh god he's after me he followed me for revenge but I deserve it oh god he's so mad at me
-> Sans: wow my manager is so kind and pretty and fun :)
-> Also sans is going to therapy, specifically to treat his memory problems,, so we don't know how long his positive view of Frisk will last...
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visualtaehyun · 6 months ago
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I loved this episode so much 🥹 might write up another post about the emotional core of it and why I think it's the best ep. 11 I've ever seen, considering how much people love to bemoan the 'episode 11 curse' (which I think is just setting yourself up for disappointment). But right now, I'm just here to clarify some of the Thai, as per usual~
Disclaimer: not a native Thai speaker, still learning 🙏
Taking advantage
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Aylin: มนุษย์พี่นิสัยไม่ดี ฉวยโอกาส /ma noot phi ni sai mai dee. chuay oh gaat/ = [That's] bad behavior, human senior. Seizing the opportunity. Luna, after getting kissed: นี่มันฉวยโอกาสกันนี่ /nee man chuay oh gaat gan nee/ = This is seizing the opportunity!
ฉวยโอกาส /chuay oh gaat/ is not the same as 'taking advantage of sb.' aka exploiting sb./sth. It means to grab/take a chance or seize an opportunity when it presents itself. In that sense, it's more taking advantage of a situation.
Love
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ตั้งใจเรียนนะน้อง รักนะ /dtang jai riian na, nong. rak na/ = Study attentively, nong. Love [you]! รักรักรัก รักๆๆๆๆ /rak x8/ = Love [you] x8 จากพระจันทร์ของน้อง <3 /jaak phra jan khaawng nong/ = from your Moon <3 -> พระจันทร์ /phra jan/ = the Moon
The Sun
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สัญญานะ พระอาทิตย์ /san yaa na? phra aa tit/ = Promise? Sun? -> พระอาทิตย์ /phra aa thit/ = the Sun
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moerusai · 8 months ago
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I've said it before and I'll say it again, Man Suang is a movie to watch multiple times to unpack all the lies and twists and unreliable narratives, to appreciate the performances and choices that each actor makes to stay true to their character among such a big ensemble cast.
Even then, there are still nuances to catch with every rewatch (trust me, I'm on my fifth).
The lackluster English subtitle (partly due to the translator's negligence, but mostly due to the subtlety being lost in translation) certainly doesn't do the dialogues and the storyline justice.
So I think some of us, especially those from Western cultures, could do to sit down and contemplate a movie so rooted in a specific culture before sharing, frankly, insensible opinions on it.
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mephistopheleswasrobbed · 2 months ago
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I'm happy to say, I thoroughly enjoyed this last episode of The Trainee. I like what they did with it, and I especially think the 5 year time skip works really well here. I like that Jane and Ryan got to gain more security in their life and stand on an even footing before really starting their relationship. I like that Jane is a lot more flirty now that he isn't Ryan's superior anymore. I like that Jane and especially Ryan actually look 5 years older at the end because time skips but everyone still looks the same just with a slightly different hairstyle and different clothes is kind of a pet peeve of mine (I guess this is the advantage of having a 30 year old actor play an early twenties character. So I guess the props should go to them making Gun look 5 years younger for the majority of the show? Either way, good job!)
All in all I think this is probably the most consistently good 2024 Gmmtv show to me so far and has beaten Wandee Goodday as my favourite of the bunch (so far because most of my most anticipated shows have not aired/finished yet). It's also just so nice to have a Gmmtv show that didn't seem to forget itself somewhere between the midpoint and the end. Those have been somewhat rare lately.
Anyway to leave this on a lighter note, while I loved every character on this show my most anticipated character from the pilot trailer has always been Baimon and he didn't disappoint one bit in the final product! Pompam has once more shown me why I absolutely adore him and I would like to petition Gmmtv to please just put Pompam in all the shows from now on. Everything is instantly better with Pompam in it. Make it happen, guys!
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firstkanaphans · 1 month ago
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Have you ever noticed thai actor co-workers that use very polite language with one another? Is that a sign of people not being as close? Or is that also a preference for people? That they use only very polite and respectful speech?
It’s mostly just preference, but age difference plays into it a lot as well. Any CP with an age gap is going to speak more politely with each other—at least in front of a camera—because it’s seen as incredibly rude to use informal language with someone older than you.
Using polite language doesn’t mean a pair isn’t as close. All of the pairs are going to use polite language with each other in interviews and at professional events by default. Any use of polite language between agemates outside of that is usually seen as cutesy and affectionate rather than distancing. I know this is a very random example, but Pisaeng from Be My Favorite used rude pronouns with Kawi before they started dating, but polite pronouns after. It’s soft and can show both love and respect.
As for your question about whether any CPs speak politely to each other, it’s tough to answer with any degree of certainty because in order to know, you’d have to watch variety shows or Instagram lives where they speak to each other more casually. I don’t follow enough CPs to be able to give you a definitive answer, but the only couple I’ve ever heard being discussed as abnormally polite is BounPrem. You can watch a clip of Tay talking about it here.
GL couples also seem to speak more politely in general, but most of the ones I follow have a pretty large age gap as well. In general, the larger the age gap, the more polite they’ll be. If there’s any couple in particular you’re curious about, just let me know and I can probably figure it out for you!
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tua-braindump · 2 months ago
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Viktor is exclusively he/him so idk what your problem is
Okay, so I have a lot of things to say about this.
1. First of all, I didn't mean any offense using they/them for Viktor. I understand that doesn't absolve me of blame but I did not mean it maliciously.
2. Did you have to come on anon and be rude about it? You could have messaged me and I would have taken that criticism.
3. Where does it ever say Viktor is exclusively he/him? I based the pronouns off what Elliot Page uses, and he does use he/they.
4. LASTLY, VIKTOR IS A FICTIONAL CHARACTER AND THE SOURCE MATERIAL(THE SHOW) SAYS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING ABOUT THEIR PRONOUNS.
I just wanted to make it clear that I'm not trying to be a dick. I've learned that they/them can be invalidating for people who exclusively use other pronouns, so thank you for helping me learn that, which was something I did not know.
Please, if you have an issue with me, please either tell me directly, or if that is too much, just block me. Okay?
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absolutebl · 6 months ago
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And the 2nd part is that I was at the Italian fanmeet and noticed that when Khaotung is referring to himself instead of using Pom he often uses his name while First if I heard correctly either uses pom or nothing (if that is even possible). So I was also wondering about your opinion on that. Because to me as a person not even close to understanding Thai it reads more cute than anything really. 🫣😅 Thanks so much if you're taking the time to answer. 🫶🫶
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Khaotung when referring to himself often uses his name.
First either uses pom or nothing.
First and Khao are line mates (1998, only a month or so apart) and also about the same career timelines, which means they are both age & professional piers. Equals.
The use of own name is a bit cute, but Khao is cute, and he plays to that as part of his brand, both with First and his previous pairings. I'm not surprised. First is a little less cute (or at least, when opposite Khao, he is that way) hence his use of pom or nothing.
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I wouldn't be surprised if they use informal with each other in private (off screen). But on circuit? Certainly NOT.
These two are good polite GMMTV boys and they always act that way in public. (Unlike some of the OGs. New slips into rude a lot, Tay's all over the damn place as per usual. So is Krist.) FirstKhao are very on point with their promo and very professional about their publicity.
Essentially, what you are hearing is standard informal but polite language between friends and piers in public. Because the pairs are branded with seme/uke leanings this adds another dimension to their promo language.
So in Thai there is a non-codified distinction between formal and polite. In BL you'll hear:
formal & polite (khun/name, nai/chan, younger: pom or name)
polite but not really formal (age gap: pom/phi or even hia, piers: pom/name)
formal but not polite - careful there's implied intimacy in this one, it's old fashioned, and because of that when misapplied can be quite insulting (rao/ter, nong+name/phi, and a few other iterations)
and rude (guu/mueng) which is neither formal nor polite.
All of these can be mitigated by polite particles.
On circuit you will always hear the boys using krap. So for what we see IRL on screen connected to BL promos, particles aren't in play. But in Thailand (in my experience on the ground) ha is super commonly used with friends and family, and ja within the queer community.
Which brings us to the 5th option "curt" which leaves off the polite particles and can leave off pronouns altogether and is basically not formal and also not "really" polite, but not all the way to rude. Usually only heard in males older than their conversation partner (Dean) or older childless females in positions of authority and genderfluid characters like June in Love Area.
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Okay, I got a flight to catch!
Bye for now. Hope this makes sense.
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daily-purple-character · 4 months ago
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day 157!
mitzi! (here for sweethearts)
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wormteeth2004 · 3 months ago
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since realizing that i'm bigender I've noticed the immense lack of she/he or he/she pronoun pins anywhere that sells pronoun pins... :(
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idk-i-want-mcl-content · 4 months ago
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Me rn:
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(not mine)
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visualtaehyun · 1 year ago
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Lots of brilliant, thoughtful, funny posts out there about today's BMF episode so I just wanna jump in with some Thai!
Disclaimer: I'm still learning but want to share my love for Thai more! So feel free to correct me or expand on anything 🙏
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What Pisaeng says here is that he wants them to stop using the pronouns กู (guu) / มึง (mueng) that they have both been using with each other so far. From my experience watching Thai series, they're most common in male friendships but Not and Kwan use them with each other as well in this show! In most school and university settings, you'll hear it between guys all the time but they're actually quite rude. You might see parents in Thai shows scold their kids for using them. Here's Punn from Be Mine Superstar using กู (guu) / มึง (mueng) while he's fighting with his little brother in front of their mom and immediately-
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You might see someone intentionally switch to these pronouns in anger, like Payu in Love in the Air when Stop spits on his bike. He repeats his sentence, just switches out the polite 2nd person pronoun คุณ (khun) for มึง (mueng).
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Between friends they express closeness and there's a long list of Thai BL couples who start as friends or school mates and thus continue to use them after they start dating. But there's also lots who decide to change how they speak to each other. A compromise I see a lot is foregoing pronouns and using names (yes, you can refer to yourself and others by name in Thai, it gives a bit of an intimate or cute feeling though). Like super sweet Khabkluen and Daonuea from Star in My Mind (here Our Skyy 2) who call themselves and each other by Kluen and Dao and also use the polite ending particle ครับ (khab).
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Now where the hell am I going with all of this?
After Pisaeng brings up the pronoun thing and Kawi goes "Like what?", I was expecting the option Names. But then Pisaeng pulls a sly happy face and I adjust to expecting เธอ (ter) maybe?? considering its frequent use in (love) songs and in some recent memes such as โอ้เธอหวานเจี๊ยบ (Oh ter! Waan jiab! = Oh you! SO sweet!) - if you at all follow GeminiFourth, you have certainly heard or read it before lol
What Pisaeng actually says though is the epitome of lover-cutespeak:
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เตง (dtaeng), a version/shortening of ตัวเอง (dtua-eeng) which originally means 'oneself', and is mostly used along with the 1st person pronoun เค้า (kao), which itself is a version of a 3rd person pronoun. Confused? The idea here seems to be a Call me by your name/I am You, You are Me type of deal. The only couple I can remember off the top of my head who actually uses them is Liu and See-ew in The Warp Effect.
Moving on though! Kawi expectedly and hilariously shoots that down and:
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...his 'you' here is มึง (mueng) again, to Pisaeng's disappointment lol
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So Kawi repeats his question, using the polite 2nd person pronoun คุณ (khun) and the polite ending particle ครับ (khab), that he intentionally pronounces sweetly by elongating the vowel. Pisaeng responds by using the polite male 1st person pronoun ผม (pom) that works in lots of situations.
Maybe it's that I've been conditioned by too many university settings in Thai BL but I somehow didn't expect these friends-to-lovers university students to go with this choice (P'Waa managing to surprise me again). It reads as mature in a way? Like intentionally being not just polite but formal. It's a thing you might hear from parent characters/spouses but also just normal working adults, like Tan and Bun in Manner of Death. They continuously work towards building a long-lasting relationship while the show keeps subverting expected BL tropes left and right!
Throughout the rest of this episode, they omit pronouns where possible but Pisaeng starts using them repeatedly during dinner at the restaurant and in the preview they both use ผม (pom) / คุณ (khun) comfortably.
After many lines of omitted pronouns during the amusement park date, Pisaeng makes it a point to use ผม (pom) / คุณ (khun) right here, by the way:
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legendaryrooftopscene · 9 months ago
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If you’re reading a fic in English about Thai characters, how do you feel about Thai words being part of it? For instance if I’m writing a fic and characters changing their pronoun usage is significant to the plot/characters, should it be included in the fic? (Ex: “I’m so tired, mom,” she said, accidentally slipping into calling herself noo, as if she was a little girl again).
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airenyah · 1 year ago
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"I'm starting to like it now" my guy, my dude, only an episode ago you were gonna threaten it with a gun
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