#TRANS PEOPLE I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU

[dinosaurwithablog]

I wouldn't want to live in a world where trans people didn't exist.

"A world without trans people has never existed and never will"

Poster spotted in Olympia, WA

[pennymaykittensworld]

Who wants the big surprise I have waiting for them ?

[auti-starshine]

The fearmongering around medical transition for transmascs will never not be upsetting to me.

“you’re gonna look ugly as a man” “but you’re such a pretty girl, don’t change that” Wrong. You will look different after T, but you will look happy. You will probably grow hair and gain weight and look pretty different, and none of that is bad or makes you less desirable. You are going to look like you and that’s all that matters.

“T makes you angry” “you’re gonna be a scary man i won’t feel safe around you” Wrong. Testosterone does not “make” you angry. Messing with your hormones will mess with your emotions for sure, but you will not immediately become some scary predator when you start T. Being a man/masculine does not make you a threat, a predator, or inherently angry. That’s radfem shit.

“bottom growth is gross” “no one will want you with bottom growth” Wrong. Bottom growth is cool and a LOT of guys end up loving theirs a lot more than they thought they would. For a lot of people it is a desirable trait, there are people who find bottom growth hot and attractive. And! If you’re sure you don’t want it there’s things you can do to work around that, just talk to your provider.

“bottom surgery is super painful and not worth it” First off, call it phalloplasty, because that’s what you’re talking about. Second, yes it’s painful, it’s surgery. There are risks to it and complications can happen, but that’s true of any surgery. Phallo might not be for you, but it is life saving care for other folks. It is beautiful and should be talked about as life saving care and not as some afterthought thing that no one actually does.

Being transmasculine is a beautiful thing. Transitioning medically is not something every trans person wants, but if you notice yourself holding back for the reasons i’ve listed above (or similar) maybe reconsider.

[busket]

hey, trans men. especially the younger ones. I love when you embrace the grungy teenage dirtbag aesthetic, I think it's very cool. love that you're not holding yourselves to societal standards of what it means to be a real man and you decide what your own masculinity looks like. thats wonderful. but you cant reclaim "incel". stay away from that word.

i know time moves fast and some of you might be too young to remember, but incel doesn't just mean "loser who can't get a date" incels were the very beginning of the alt right movement. we're taking about men who are violently misogynistic and racist. they fantasized about rape and mass murder to punish the girls that wouldn't date them, and many of them did it. these are men that believed in eugenics, and thought their skull shape was the reason women wouldn't date them, or that women were subhuman animals that only view things from an evolutionary perspective of who would make an ideal "mate".

"but i can reclaim a term used against men" you do not want to reclaim a name that a group of bigots gave to themselves. incels came up with the word "incel" and proudly wore that title. you cant call yourself an incel and expect the meaning to change and for people to not make assumptions about your values based on that word. this is not a term you want to associate with when you talk about embracing your masculinity as a transgender man, okay?

peace and love -a trans man in his 30s

[tirfpikachu]

it's also important to note that non-trans people can be post-gender!! and feel genderless without disassociating from their birth sex/agab in any way. they can choose to take off the gender that was forced onto them from childhood and choose to just be the animal they were born as, no matter how gnc they may be, no matter how little they start caring about social norms for their sex/agab class. and still not be trans at all. genderlessness isn't only a nonbinary thing, and it really shouldn't be if we want to abolish gender roles. some non-trans women and men can even use opposite-sex/agab pronouns or they/them and still be 100% solid in their non-trans identity! gender nonconformity has never been trans-exclusive or gay-exclusive.

cis/non-trans women especially should be reminded that they DO NOT need to stick with gender. while many people can play with gender aesthetics, gender subcultures etc etc gender as a concept has been used to oppress women and transmasc people for centuries. if you are a cis/non-trans woman, you do not need to even identify as trans to say fuck you to gender and think it's fake and bullshit and move on from it. you can be a genderless woman and still 100% be comfortable with sex/agab-congruent pronouns and the category of your body type. you can hate how you're treated for it. you can hate the struggles that come with it. but you can feel pride for it, and you can see it for what it is without the often toxic cloak of gender wrapped around it. many people find joy in being genderless in a trans way, but anyone and everyone can be genderless. it can be a feminist act of self-love and activism. it can be cis men showing allyship to gnc people and ofab/female people for being oppressed and denied basic human rights. they can also process their traumas and actually embrace the gnc parts of themselves as well.

i see a future where cis people embrace genderlessness. where they embrace being genderfuck beauties and gnc isn't seen as an only trans or gay thing to be. it will do wonders for women's rights, ofab rights, lgbt rights and gnc rights. stop telling people they're "eggs" if they don't feel an inner sense of gender - that's a GOOD thing. it means they haven't been corrupted by the patriarchy the way that rightwing brainwashed women/transmascs and rightwing male monstrosities have tried to achieve. stop telling non-dysphoric, sex-congruent cis people that they must be trans or gay if they dress or act a certain way, or if they think gender is bullshit and don't want any of it. we SHOULD be both carving out space for trans folks AND expanding the meaning of what it means to be a cis woman or man.

gender is just patriarchal drag, often toxic drag forced on us. whether you choose to play with aspects of it or ditch it altogether, to destroy the patriarchy we need non-trans people to realize this too. as a detrans woman, i would've saved myself so much pain if i had seen more representation of cis post-gender womanhood. and we WANT people to realize who and what they are as early as possible, whatever they may be. we need genderlessness and genderfuckery to be talked about more outside of trans/gay context.

post-gender gyns, i love you ♡♡

I think cis people should also be their gender of choice. Like, if you're a man, you should get to really enjoy being a man- have fun with it! If you're a woman, take the parts of womanhood that really deeply make you happy. If being a little androgynous or ambiguous or hidden is the part that really makes you happy, you don't have to be trans for that. If you wanna lean really hard into being femme or masc- do it! You have one life in your body, do what makes you happy. Ditch the stuff you don't like.

My sinister queer agenda is I think that everyone should be the gender they like in the way they like it.

[limeade-l3sbian]

Isn't denying trans women access to women's bathrooms and sports the same thing as denying black people access to those things? One is based on gender and one on race

Can I opt out of being black? Is there a difference in body and strength between black people and non-black people in sports? Is my race a state of mind or the very skin I cannot alter? I would LOVE it if y'all would stop dragging black people into this conversation. You can't even begin to understand how tone deaf it is to insinuate that we are fighting the same fight.

[maythedreadwolftakeyou]

over the last 3 months i have seen myself called (and sometimes blocked for being assumed to be):

a racist/a bigot

homophobic/queerphobic/transphobic

ace/demi-phobic

a fascist

for expressing opinions such as "I found the characters and background stories in Veilguard weaker and less interesting than previous Dragon Age games" and "i miss the amount of tension and conflict that we used to get to explore with the player character depending on their in-game background and life history" and "i did not feel Lucanis' character and romance arc was fully satisfying while I was playing through it".

and since this all started we now have:

seen the entire DA staff laid off from Bioware

heard many now-former bioware devs talking about how toxic the workplace was during the development of DA4

seen allusions to Bioware/EA executives overriding plot/plans that the Dragon Age writers/devs would have preferred

extracted large amounts of cut content from the games that show things like increased emotional response range for Rook, or alternate endings for companion arcs (NOT concept art content, but actual written and even voice-recorded dialogue in the game files), or increased impact from decisions you could make in the game

IN ADDITION to what we ALREADY knew about how many times the game changed direction/leadership changed/the mid-process layoffs, etc.

so can we maybe not keep putting "people who come into the Dragon Age universe from a place of love and were ultimately disappointed with the latest installment" in the same trash bucket as "dudes on twitter who were mad there were trans/nonbinary characters in their AAA game". can we FUCKING as a community acknowledge that there are many reasons someone might not jive with a change in direction other than jumping to "they disagree with me so they must obviously be horrible people, whose opinions shouldn't be counted anyway" (<-if this is your first impulse maybe examine that also).

i am so tired and i am never gonna get an apology for any of it but NOW that a lot of the people who were posting/reblogging these sentiments are hearing/seeing all these other things add up. it's like suddenly now it's "acceptable" to have problems with aspect of Veilguard or want more from it, because the writers/devs have shown they probably did too during it's creation. whereas when I said these things right off the bat (because the only thing we had was the game we got. not the game we can pretend they wanted to make instead) it WASN'T because apparently expressing opinions on my personal tumblr counts as "being mean to/harassing devs who worked hard on the game" or, again, assumed I am a racist/bigot/facist/queerphobic.

you're allowed to still like Veilguard. it's fine i promise. you can love the game if you love it and my not loving it has nothing to do with your own relationship to this piece of media. i am happy there are people who truly can enjoy it without massive Caveats. but i am still seeing like 3-5 posts Per Week express those opinions and it is really destroying my love for the community i once enjoyed.

[whatbigotspost]

Reporting in from social justice oriented non profits organizations and public education institutions in Texas where our governor is in lockstep with fascist EOs

gotta be vague but I promise this is all true

Some of us are getting kicked off college campuses where we’ve been allowed to exist rent free for decades (as we provide a public good)

some of us are having our corporate sponsors say “we love you but don’t put our logo on that event” (even if they don’t pull the funding wtffff?)

Some of us are having our programs that serve incarcerated youth who live in the toughest circumstances suddenly terminated and doors closed w/ very little to seeing kids who grew to depend on us

others are having our STEM k-12 events canceled with no warning because they target underrepresented groups

groups like the Girl Scouts are even wondering if their agency name and mission is too radical and will be banned from public school campuses by the fall

Fucking hell even the news is revealing shit like Anti trans sting operations are under way in San Antonio

it’s so bad. It’s all so bad.

it’s fully normal for people in my world to conduct meetings crying these days.

[transfemme-shelterdog]

I'm not a trans man and you should take my words with a grain of salt. But as far as fetishization and chaserism goes, it's like, what exactly do we identify as negative about those things? The harm it causes, right? But is there harm in what you post? Or is it just being lumped into the same catagory as harmful behavior? I think that's important to consider, if what you say on here is actually resulting in some tangible negative effect. Non-fat people into fat people go through this debate every day of their lives but I also think it's somewhat more normalized there, whereas with, like, trans people it comes off as more inherently suspicious to be really into them, just like it's inherently suspicious to be into a specific race. With fatness it's like, yeah, that's a kink thing, and people argue about it but through all that arguing they've carved out some space to post endlessly about how much they love fat people. I just feel like that's all kinna dumb. People do not react this way about people really into girls with red hair, or big boobs. I don't see the issue in liking particular physical traits, period. I have things like that. It's easy to be normal about.

Like has been said, the issue with being a chaser is how it reduces the individual, which you've never done. The issue is really that people might be unsure, that they see your posts and get a kinna vibe that you might be so into trans men you don't think of them as people, but is that actually true? I don't believe so, and I don't think it's fair to not give you the benefit of the doubt. A lot of trans men respond really positively to your horny posts and anyone who thinks you lay it on too thick can come to the conclusion that's not content they want on their dash and unfollow you.

Very good points Velvet. Thanks for chiming in ♡

[geopsych]

The reason I saw those red-winged blackbirds out back and I saw the snipe in the park the other day is that much of the marsh by the park has been destroyed and when I went down there I saw a bulldozer and a huge dump truck loudly destroying the hill next to it, what I used to call Fox Hill because whatever vixen had a den nearby would hunt there among the grasses, weeds and shrubs for the abundant mice and voles, to support the kits in her womb and then in the den. Along with everything else that's going on, the loss of the red-wings in that spot where I've seen them for all these years and possibly the loss of a viable fox population in the woods at the park (the woods now bought by the borough so they can "improve" it) it's all making me incredibly sad. I used to love glimpsing foxes, especially seeing the young ones playing. I counted on hearing the red-wings there every February. But it also made me think of something I wanted to say here. Everybody probably knows I support people of various genders and preferences. I hope everyone knows I support trans people and count a number of trans people as my friends.

But more than that I want to say that I also support and love people who are messes, including people who can't decide what gender they are but also including people who can't get out of bed in the morning, people who other people consider ugly or overweight, people who can't get their acts together, people who struggle with disabilities and those who are just sad and lonely, people who think of themselves as writers or artists or musicians but can't bring themselves to do the thing. And of course the people whose minds are always on their blorbos.

Do you know how much I would rather share this world and this life with you than with the business assholes and the people who lord it over everyone with their work ethic or their beauty or their fitness or their money or whatever? Yes, we need people who get things done but we also need regular people to just be regular people with. I feel this so strongly! Life is really hard right now for a lot of people. It's difficult just to face each day even if your circumstances at home and work haven't changed, because of the stuff we're hearing on a regular basis. Meanwhile things like what's happening at the park or other bad things we want to rave about or mourn for keep happening and we hardly feel like we have room to react the way we need to in this environment of constant horror. Our personal horrors and griefs get overwhelmed by the news and we don't get to process them. So it's really okay if you find it hard to live in this world. It's really okay if you're not living up to other people's or even your own standards. I know you want a happier life and I want that for all of us but it's hard to see the way there when it feels like everything's being torn down. The thing where they had to go in and shoot thousands of snow geese in the quarries here plus the bulldozing of the marsh and the hill next to the park and the purchasing of the woods aren't big things in the context of the world but those were things that helped me feel like there were good things around me. Now I feel like anything might be next, nothing is safe. I think a lot of people feel that way right now. Sending you hugs if wanted. <3 I'm glad you're here!

[drdemonprince]

sorry if this is too long but i really appreciate your perspective and would love some advice

i have a mixed gender friend group irl, however i am the only transmasc in the group (the rest of the group is queer transfems, queer cis women, and our token cishet guy) and ive run into a little issue in that im quite close to one of the cis girls of the group, and we occasionally have deep chats about our queer identities (we're both aro, im ace, shes bi) . these chats are great and i really appreciate her as a friend but one thing shes always bringing up, even in unrealted conversations is how much she hates men .

im not a transandrobro so this isn't gonna be one of those "im one of the good ones" or "i feel guilty for being transmasc" asks dw. the issue came up when i was discussing how i was going to start T pretty soon (i pass decently well without it already but as more of a butch/androgynous type look) and as we were talking about the changes she was acting... genuinley scared and disgusted??

especially when i talked about how i will likely grow more body hair, and how T affects scent and stuff. she was almost horrified. "yeah but you dont want that right? youll shave it?" . i already dont shave my body hair (she does) and i cant help but feel scared that one of my closest friends is going to find me revolting once i start transitioning medically.

i didnt even mention bottom growth after that because i was so scared of what her reaction to that would be.

idk if you have any experience or advice for this? or any reading on the subject? ive found that its only the cis women in my friend group who are acting this way as well. i feel like maybe its because theyve secretly been viewing me as "just" a masculine woman this whole time. i id as nonbinary with the group, but secretly i really do think im a trans man, but based on the disgust with those things im reluctant to come out again.

Honestly this is a really common way that cis women microaggress against trans mascs! Those two identities have competing privilege/oppression intersections and a lot of really wild shit can play out as a result, as well as due to the projection that can happen because both groups have shared a social identity at some point (whether we liked it or not). It may not be fixable, but I think you need to set the tone that this kind of negative commentary on your transition and body is NOT acceptable, and to do so EARLY, so that you are establishing ground rules for how you will be treated.

Example conversation:

You: So I started getting some hair on my neck around my Adam's apple.

Her: Ewwwww, but you're going to shave it right?

You: (pause and look at her seriously). Gender transition is something I'm very excited about and that's very good for me, you know. I am happy about everything that's happening and I hope that as my friend you would be happy for me too.

Let's say that she continues to be somewhat shitty about your transition multiple times. Here is how you might escalate without totally blowing your lid.

Her: Wow, your [voice is so deep/your acne is getting so bad/your hair pattern is changing/whatever thing she is being shitty about].

You: (stop whatever task you're doing if any to give this full attention. lock eyes with her, maybe even sigh). I have told you multiple times not to comment on my appearance. It makes me very uncomfortable. I don't enjoy spending time with people who comment on how I look.

I think your focus should be not on correcting her feelings, which she needs to go like stare at a pond and reflect about on her own, but instead reign in her shitty commentary completely -- and if she won't do that for you, then you will need start ending conversations/walking away/not inviting her to things/whatever other boundary setting strategy you like. I would prioritize nipping the personal comments in the bud over the "men are so disgusting and evil" kind of commentary, because I think that matters more and seems to bother you more -- but if it were me? I would also be pissed that she wasn't including me in the category of "men" when she was talking about them, and would say things like "I'm a man too, you know." Or "Yeah, WE can be kind of annoying/boorish/smelly sometimes." This isn't some transandrobro NOT ALL MEN thing, it's an anti-transphobia don't misgender me thing. And perhaps by taking accountability for all that manhood is -- the good and the bad, the euphoric and the just neutral, you will influence her in a positive way to think about these things more neutrally. If not, well, that's her fuckin loss.

[distortionenby]

I love you Latine trans people (not just Hispanic!) non-Hispanic Latine people often get erased more than Hispanic Latines, and this includes trans non-Hispanic Latines! It's important to remember that we're all here.

i love you black trans people. i love you asian trans people from all over asia (not just east asia). i love you hispanic trans people. i love you indigenous trans people. i love you poc trans people. you're doing great, i promise you, and i'm so fucking sorry the community erases you as much as it does.

[parker-artio]

Batfamily head cannons I have- in no specific order:

Jason went back to school/got his GED, then went to college and got his English, History, teaching, and musical arts degrees, just so he can shove it anyone’s face when they try to say he’s dumb or say he’s a drop out.

Damian fosters animals in the manor. He’ll show up with two boxes of kittens, and everyone will see like 10 kittens around the house until it goes back down to just Alfred- wait did he always have that cat named Knives? Yes? Okay, well then the 10- 9 my bad, the nine cats find homes and he’s left with Alfred and Knives.

Dick IS the male equivalent of Barbie, he’s got a full wall just dedicated to the degrees he’s accumulated over the years. He’s got an art degree and a business degree. No one knows where he gets the time and he refuses to elaborate.

Tim has albinism. Now I know some people hate the Asian Tim HC because of the stereotypes it makes him fall into, but I personally HC him as mixed (Wasian). I like to think that Jack was Armenian and Janet was white- can be interchangeable-, but Tim came out with albinism, white wavy hair, blue eyes, and skin whiter than paper. But because of how much he looked up to Robin and found him cool, he started to dye his hair black (kinda like Jason back when he was a ginger/strawberry blonde).

Duke is trans. This is a projection so don’t say anything about how we saw him when he was young. I know. He’s just one of my favorite characters and I love to HC my favorite characters as trans like I am. But I think he’s specifically a Demiboy or a trans man- I’m kinda on the fence. But either one works for me.

Cass is the shortest batkid- by a LANDSLIDE. I personally think she’d be like 5’2 (157cm) while all of the other bat kids are like 5’5+ (165cm+). I have no reason beyond the fact she’s scary. Like imagine you’re being attacked by this 6’5 (195cm) man who’s wearing a red helmet just for this girl over a foot shorter than him to be the reason you should actually be scared?? Id shit my pants.

Duke can SNIFF out a bargain. If you’ve watched the amazing world of gumball, think about Nicole and the way she straight up sniffed out a bargain and we met her parents. That’s how I think he is. They go into a store and Tim picks up a game and Duke pauses, for a second thinking, then shakes his head ‘Nah, it’s cheaper by 32 cents at Walmart. Trust’. Tim does not gaf about its price. But he puts it down just to please Duke.

Jason has all of his foster parent licenses and shit. He got them before he was even deemed legally alive again. Then proceeded to get them again as actually Jason Todd. He has his address listed as the only Safe House with normal neighbors. The apartment complex probably has like two-three rooms and the neighbors all have kids too.

Cass choreographs ballet dances to Tik Tok sounds and posts them and they go viral, to the point people don’t even know who the OG dancer is. (It’s her.)

Tim will not acknowledge someone if they don’t refer to him by name. If he’s at a gala and they try to talk to him by calling him ‘Drake’ or ‘Bruce’s son’ or anything else he just turns around and walks away. But as soon as they do refer to him by name he starts to talk about how shitty the world is. (From the verity of ages he says it to, they either don’t like what he says or agree 100%)

Dick can and will yell in your face if you try to disrespect someone in his presence. If you’re talking to someone and you keep cutting them off he will yell at you to shut the fuck up and let the other person say what they need to say.

Damian is that person who people will always go to if they need advice on how to get a new animal. Say you want a bird, you’ve never had one before, Damian will be the person you trust to ask the questions to. And he’d answer you no matter how dumb the question is. ‘How many times do I feed her?’ ‘Two to three times a day.’

[paracosmicka]

As a trans man I love mpreg as long as it’s not fetishized. I want kids in the future so seeing mpreg is like going oh hey! Another seahorse dad! I don’t get to see myself in media much. It makes me uncomfortable when people don’t separate the 2 mpreg can be fetishized but it’s also a thing a lot of transgender afab go through. I know this is a sonadow account and it’s not that deep lol but thanks it’s cool seeing it :) saying that: more plz 🥹

This actually makes me feel so relieved bc another reason why I’m always hesitant to post pregnant Shadow is I’m worried that it can be seen as disrespectful or that if it might be used for fetishization purposes which isn’t really what I’d like my art to be associated with.

I don’t want to kink shame anyone, as an agender aroace person who does not experience any romantic or sexual desire whatsoever (i think? still learning about the different types of experiences within the aroace spectrum) I feel that I am literally the least qualified to talk about the morality behind mpreg as a kink/fetish.

With all that in mind, I do wanna say that I wish there was more transgender pregnancy representation that wasn’t just fetish. Like just googling “pregnancy symptoms” will give you a wide range of experiences, but when I was trying to look into if there were unique ways that pregnancy can effect trans men, it took a lot of digging so either I’m just stupid and can’t search things on the internet very well or there really isn’t a lot of representation of trans pregnancies.

Although I did recently learn that in the r/pregnancy subreddit, FTM does not in fact mean “Female to Male” and is actually just “First Time Mom” which makes a lot of sense bc for awhile I thought half of the subreddit were just trans guys. Then I discovered there is literally a subreddit r/seahorse_dads and so I spent awhile just reading a bunch of posts in there.

Anyway I’m fine just existing in my own space with sonadow family fluff, but when I share it I get all nervous bc mpreg is cringefail or whatever and I don’t even know if it’s cringe for being cringe or if it’s cringe bc it’s a fetish. Just know that whenever I post any art of any kind, I try to think as little as possible about how people will interpret my drawings, bc at the end of the day I just drew it because it made me happy and thinking about sonadow fluff gives me warm and fuzzy butterflies that I think people are supposed feel when they’re in love but I’ve never experienced that for another person in my entire life and I don’t think I’ll be able to. So thinking about and drawing sonadow is probably the closest I’ll get to that feeling.

And it makes me even more happy when people say they genuinely connected with my art bc then I know that the warm and fuzzy butterflies feeling got through, and I’m just really glad we can all get our little serotonin boost from these stupid gay hedgehogs.

I genuinely don’t think any of this makes sense I’ve spent 3 hours trying to write a response to this ask and then I remembered that I got zero sleeps last night so that’s probably why brain no worky but in conclusion: thank you for the ask Anon it really made my day and I’m spiritually headbutting you like a cat as they say

[thekoalapastriesbakery]

another follow up nobody asked for but oh well!

NSFW OSCAR PIASTRI HEADCANONS PT.2

ft. bunny!ftm!sub!bottom!oscar, thanks to @babybearnation + @milessunflowers <3 (love u pookies)

whenever he rides you his ears flop soooo much

tugs them down to try to muffle his whines when you eat him out

massive secret slut

window sex, fucking in bathroom stalls, fucking where he knows people will hear because nobody will guess that oscar piastri is making those noises

he cries so easily and so much but it's so adorable

lil bunny nose twitchin as he rides you so desperately and tears stream down his face

hiccuping in between moans and semi-coherent thoughts about how good it feels

lowkey loves wearing lingerie and skirts. make him feel pretty i beg

he adores it when you kiss his tummy + thighs before eating him out

loves the idea of being marked up but his skin is so sensitive he just cries (in a bad way)

the compromise is that you draw "property of [your name]" on his pecs so he still gets the same giddy thrill without the pain

would definitely bend over any available surface at home n show off his bunny tail (+ how wet he is)

it's a stereotype but he still fits it *perfectly* so ... he has insane stamina. like he doesn't last very long but he can go for so many rounds and still want more a few hours later

this is where fingering him/eating him out comes in handy

because you physically cannot keep up with him otherwise

also those remote controlled vibrators w the apps n stuff? good investment

would brag to logan about how good you are at eating him out

^ especially if this is like all-the-drivers-are-trans au

he gets so pouty and his ears will be full-on shaking if anybody actually approaches you about it

he's your bunny! nobody else gets to feel it!!!

word spreads quick in the paddock tho. so it definitely happens

the solution is to eat him out until he's sobbing while making an audio recording

sends it to the unofficial drivers gc

make it very clear that you are only allowed to/interested in taking oscar apart <3

[samaspic31]

I love trans people’s love languages so much. Do you want me to do your nails ? Yeah sure ill buzz your head. You're not crazy that person was unkind you didn't deserve that. What color of hairdye you want this time ? here's the site i use to find movies. show me that new tattoo! I’ll teach you this craft im learning off the internet. Let's help you get a job together. Here's my netflix password. I can do your hair bleach. I wish we all moved in a big apartment and live freely motivating each other. This movie is terrible we HAVE to watch it together. Look at this piece of queer history i just learned about, old milestone of queer representation. You said you liked my make up, here's all i used and techniques in case you want to do it. I love you. here i made your flag but in a subtle form so your parents wouldn't catch on. i'll pass you that thing i pirated. Do you want to move out, how can we help ? you should tell your parents to fuck off and wear what you want. A partner should treat you better. Let's call all the characters in that movie gay together. I have one don't buy it i'll lend you mine. I wish the world was less awful to us. you make the world worth surviving.