#SORRY VENT POST

[bluebelledmoon]

can i just say i. don’t like it when people in a fandom complain excessively about the salt that there is about that piece of media, simply because they go looking for said salt, and ALSO because they are not surrounding themselves in a community that is ALREADY THERE to love and support said media?

[starry-eyed-never-satisfied]

Dear obnoxious bitch i work with

Saying I beg your pardon as you take from the ipad I am using does not make it polite.

Wait your turn. You know, like how we are taught in primary school.

[cptnbeefheart]

man idk if its depression or hormones or what but ive been crying like a little baby the last like 5 days. last night i cried so hard i passed tf out in my jeans 😭😭 

[berristrawberri]

I am so constantly frightened, I just wish it was next year already and all is okay. I feel so frozen in place

[punkitt-is-here]

transgender online

[snailprobation]

tw: DV, drug use

today i was told i was an inspiration to those wanting out of abusive relationships w a narcissist

a friend he introduced me to messages me and roots for me and has him blocked too because he pulled some shit on her and shes seen it firsthand

every day is so hard i lost my entire personality to survival mode and im trying to get to know my post trauma self lmao

literally all i can do is look at the home renovation project hes made for me and smoke a hole through my brain

i at least took a vacation from work and spent some time with a friend

someone to smoke a hole through my brain with basically

[plow-and-propose]

zionists are like "genocide is fine when we do it"

[goonssquadd]

OCD sucks man. I have a mutual friend tell me that my current like fav friend also has separation anxiety from me and misses me and I’ll still be like but what if I’m annoying what if they secretly hate me what if they’re lying I need to double check that they like me or I need to back off before they realize I’m horrible

[penroseparticle]

"Pride is not a party"

Yes the fuck it is, stop being a baby

Yes pride is a riot and a fight and yadda yadda yadda but you are not revolutionary for sucking the joy out of queerness. Sometimes, pride is a party. It is a celebration of the fact that we are here, we're queer, and we're not going anywhere. And that is just as important as throwing bricks and fighting cops, actually.

If your activism doesn't allow you to enjoy the fruits of your labors you will burn out babe. Go suck some dick. Hit on that lesbian. Get the faggy haircut!!! Dance, for the love of god.

[chatlote]

Not a moment of rest.

[sadbxtchthoughts]

how many more nights like this until I don‘t have to wake up aynmore?

[lilaczx]

Me stares at the guy in my Gaming Club who is on leadership and another guy (who isn't on leadership, but is a member of that club in that who have committed stalking and clearly misogynistic shit: "Well you can't blame them for this."

Me and all the other neurodivergent folks in the club:

"Now they fucking know what they are doing since these are the same fucks who mansplain and whitesplain about feminism to everyone especially to the BIPOC, Female, and WOC members and then claim to be such good lefists."

You should cut autistic people some slack when it comes to being blunt, not understanding social cues, or not understanding social norms.

But.

If somebody is being a dick to you, if they’re flirting with you and won’t stop when you ask them to, if they’re being really inappropriate or invasive, it doesn’t matter that they’re autistic! You’re allowed to be uncomfortable with that.

I am autistic and sometimes I do have trouble with social interactions. I often cannot detect sarcasm unless it’s clear from context, I can’t always tell when something is a joke or when somebody is exaggerating, I often can’t tell what people are ‘saying’ if they don’t say it outright, and, though I try to guess anyway, it is extremely taxing and confusing for me.

But that doesn’t mean I can walk around stomping on everybody’s boundaries after they make them explicitly known to me.

I have read far too many stories of specifically some autistic men being completely inappropriate around women, only for the women to be told something along the lines of, “he can’t control it, he’s autistic.” If he can independently go places, he should be able to learn to stop when you say to stop. If he really can’t learn that, then he needs more support (maybe a carer to be out with him and to help him navigate social situations), but, either way, it is completely unacceptable to write off sexual harassment or bigoted behaviour just because somebody is autistic.

[uzu-hime]

I fucking hate it here

[burned0utstar]

I'm sorry. I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm so sorry.

I didn't mean to be like that. I don't want to act this way.

I'm sorry I can't communicate. I'm sorry that I try and push you away. I'm sorry. I just want you with me.

I'm sorry that I can't say that to you. I'M SORRY.

I'm so fucking sorry please don't leave me?

I know I'm hard to love. I KNOW.

I don't want to be like this.

I promise I am trying to change.

I promise I can act normal.

Please?

[br0ken-cassette]

And during the hardest times, when all seems lost and you want to give up, never forget. We will always love you.

[bloodyrosesnthorns]

I'm sorry mom.