#SA trigger warning

[wellen-katze]

Astarion short comic [SA trigger warning!]

If you are not stable enough, please consider on waiting to read my stuff till you are feeling better.

A drawn idea probably happening around the 2 act I think, once you decide to romance him.

I always thought that something very extreme must have happened between the player and Astarion during the nights, especially with the background knowledge of how much experience Astarion must have had. Maybe the combination of bonded tadpoles and satisfied hunger help him, but after his confession, I could imagine that something much more eye-opening could have happened between the characters. The possibilities are endless, I enjoy playing around with that!

[oroontheheels]

Not to be an apologist. But.

I too hate that Curly first response to finding out what Jimmy did to Anya was to go and try to talk thing out with Jimmy.

But.

I honestly feel like he did that because he genuinely freaked out. I think If it was “regular thing” for Jimmy to harass female employees, Curly wouldn’t act so panicky and erratic.

I feel like it was the first time something like this ever happened (or it was the first time Curly found out about it).

And yeah. I’m speaking from the similar but somewhat different experience, but when you find out that your friend, a person you generally trusted and knew for years, did something utterly despicable it hits you like a ton of bricks in the face. It sends you slowly and painfully trough 5 stages of grief. And good luck getting trough stages of denial and bargaining.

And I feel like when Curly reached Jimmy he was at bargaining stage. That’s why he was saying like “we will get trough this” and stuff.

(I also saw how enabling works in circles of men. They don’t panic, don’t worry when their “bro” harass women. They don’t feel sorry towards the victim. They only worry when there’s some sort of punishment on the horizon.)

So yeah. Curly should’ve throw Jimmy into the airlock here and there. He didn’t. He tried to fix the situation in a way that would not be possible. It was stupid.

But it also was very well written, very human behaviour (at it worst).

P.S. also I’m a generally a dumbass so if I missed any details or misread something, feel free to correct me in the comments. 💕

[littlelunardevil]

TW: Mentions of SA

As someone who is both coming to terms with my own sexual assault and watching DanDaDan as the anime comes out I have to say I do love how it addresses both of the leads SA at the start of the series. Obviously it’s presented in a very hyperbolizedd light and blown up to match the shows tone, but both the leads are assaulted and then the show seems to be centered around how that shared trauma bonds them. Momo revealing her powers are like hands holding Okarun while Okarun uses his powers to protect her. They both use what they inherited from their trauma to make the other feel more safe and by extension loved.

[bdxpelik]

There was a time in Apothecary Diaries where Jinshi casually admitted that he was (almost) s*xually assaulted. LIGHT NOVEL SPOILERS and TRIGGER WARNING.

It disturbed me to no end because he acted like it's a common occupational hazard. It didn't surprise me at all that it happened before (given his physical attributes and obvious clues left throughout the series) but the way he recalled it was heart-wrenching to say the least.

The first time it happened (i.e. this particular memory he recalled) was when he first started out as a eunuch in the rear palace. He couldn't remember how it even started but he realized he was in danger before anything irreversibly happened. He punched the perpetrator in the face and ran away. He was 14. Gaoshun was with him that day but the perpetrator was sneaky enough to seperate Jinshi from Gaoshun to assault him. Can you imagine how scared he was? Can you imagine how ANGRY Gaoshun could've been?

After remembering it, Jinshi muttered to himself,

“Funny. I never got to where I could look back on that and laugh,”

He was still hurt. Six years had passed and he was still traumatized. Over the years he's learned to be more wary. He was glad when new employees he hired didn't so much as smile at him because, "A smile usually means trouble." He installed a path at the front of his office to enhance the sound of footsteps so people can't sneak up on him.

I could barely move on after reading that, I was HORRIFIED. Just as horrified as I was when I first heard Maomao's freckles story. But I also gotta give credit to the author for writing such a topic. Cuz... Jinshi is a man. A stereotypically strong, able-bodied man. He can defend himself no problem. But the fact that such a thing can happen to him as well and how badly it affects him...

[thegaygrimreaper]

y’all, I’ve been sitting on the news abt Neil Gaiman for a few days and I wanted to vent to the void.

I believe the victims. That is a hard rule, I don’t want to say anything that comes off as these women are lying. But all the news has been copy pasted from one article written by a vocal transphobe, poorly summarizing a four episode podcast, on a media site I have never heard of before in my life and was founded by a former BBC head to make ‘slow, fully researched news’ which is not evident in this article. It repeats descriptive phrases, it does not give the full story, and I feel that if it was meant as a summary of a more indepth podcast, it should at least be a full summary. I watched a brief trailer for the podcast (which, in my opinion, is a really weird thing for a media site to push. These are not movies, it is news. Why are we publishing trailers with sensational words and phrases), and that still did not provide what sources they used for research, there are no sources other than a victims name, an extremely general term of ‘New Zealand Police’ what station? What officers? What town? The whole country? And any quote from Gaiman is not “stated” by Gaiman, the writers simply “understand” what his stance is. Did you interview him?

Until someone with actual new information comes in, rather than every news station rephrasing one article over and over again, I am not going to jump on the train of Neil Gaiman being a horrible person. We do not know that. We have gotten no information other than one article from a bigot. I believe the victims, not the news. No one close to Gaiman has even spoken on this, it is simply news repeating each other.

I understand other people are hurt by this, and I get that. But please, do not jump to conclusions when all we have to go on is unsourced research from a Rowling apologist.

Anyway. Please don’t be angry with me, I’m trying to process all of this too. I just want to enjoy my books without feeling like I’ve killed someone.

Feeling crazy, thanks for reading (or not, idk, this was a self soothing method, if anything)

[trashblarg]

The same people who ship Curly and Jimmy together are the same people who jack off to Killing Stalking, you people need help.

Feel free to harass said shippers by linking this to them, idc y'all are hideous

[angelicwh0r3]

I wish I've never been touched without my consent, I feel like I've lost parts of myself that have been touched and I will never win them back

[irlangelsdiary]

Facts about intrafamiliar sexual abuse, COCSA, and CSA.

• COCSA can happen with children of any age, but potential incidents can increase as children enter puberty and adolescence.

• 40% of Children who were sexually abused the perpetrator was older and or more powerful

• 5% of children have been affected by sibling sexual abuse.

• It is one of the lowest disclosed forms of sexual abuse, meaning the statistics around this are likely to be higher.

• More than 90% of abusers are people children know, love and trust.

• 30-40% of victims are abused by a family member.

[finding-comfort-in-pain]

i don’t remember it happening but i do. i dont know when or where it would have happened, or who would have done it. but i know i can feel their hands on my body, i know i have panic attacks when people touch the back of my neck or approach me from behind. I know i have nightmares of being assaulted or raped.

[anjelicawrites]

Aemond allegedly going back to the brothel could be framed as him punishing himself for his bad deeds, if, and only if, framed and written right. I am not holding my breath. It's probably going to be gross, if not offensive for SA victims. Thank you HBO. Truly needed.

[ineffablejaymee]

im sorry, people are actually shipping edwin with the cat king?????

???? what

the super old creeper who bound edwin to himself and constantly manipulates him??? who gave him an ultimatum "either have sex with me or lose time COUNTING CATS while Death is looking for you" which basically means fuck me or go to hell, ur choice?????

thats an actual ship????? the cat king is one move away from being a rapist yall read too many books where toxic is the new hot

[littlelunardevil]

DanDaDan episode 4 spoilers

Mentions of SA

A big of an update on my previous post. The fact that the reason Okarun got cursed is because of spirits of women who where assaulted and the defender of those spirits also ties into my theroy of the show being about how trauma survivors interact and support each other. He literally was possessed by a spirit of feminine rage. God it’s such an amazing concept and I love it.

[sapphichorsegirl]

I'm still so not over how Rick killed Mr. Jellybean over him being a disgusting pedophile towards Morty, like, if any scene cemented into me how Rick actually does care about Morty even if he doesn't put it into words, it was that one

He didn't have to do that, they were already leaving the place and Morty wasn't there to see it happen anymore, but he still killed the guy that almost SAd his grandson

[thedeskofaltoclef]

Wait, was the original 166.... good? Please check out my friend Saba's take on the story or the original Meri, the teenage succubus

[2000sbxtchh]

TW: This art depicts commentary on SA

“I don’t scream, though I know it’s wrong

I just play along.

I lie there and breathe,

Lie there and breathe.”

This piece is titled “The Dark I Know Well,” inspired by the 2006 musical Spring Awakening song “The Dark I Know Well.” The song follows girls speaking on their struggle with sexual assault and not being able to speak on it due to the social climate of 1890s Protestant Germany

[softetherealmess]

Saw this comment on a speedpaint video of mouthwashing, and I agree with everything.

I just wanted to profess my undying admiration for Anya. She was just an amazing person within the game, strong, kind, smart, talented. She deserved justice, but she didn't get it. It's so fucking tragic. I still love her character though. Wish I could hug her (if she wanted to, the last thing she needs is someone invading her space without her consent) and tell her what a kind woman she is, that she is so intelligent, an amazing nurse, that I am with her, and that I will support her no matter what happens.

Well, trigger warnings on tags because the game is very triggering, I know I cried a lot once I realized what Anya went through. Even though it is a heavy as fuck game, I still think it is amazing and I love Anya so much that I needed to say that here, on my main blog, because it's just a character that I love.