#RHETI

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Riso-Hudson Enneagram Type Indicator

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a follow up to my last post

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Olivia (1951) Jacqueline Audry

May 13th 2023

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@sweetlilbird gave me the idea to draw them together so i threw together a little doodle for it (￣▽￣*)ゞ

what's the beanie baby for April 1st? :3

You share a birthday with

Punchline the Chihuahua!

[raindropsofloev]

papa log really need to understand the extreme importance of their home maker wives ki they are literally making lives ghar mein rhekar and laakh cheezon ka dhyan rakhti hai yeh nahi ki poora din ghar mein rheti hai kuch kaam nahi hota, if you are earning then she is the one jo uss earning ko dhang se use kr rhi hai distribute kar rahi hai she is the owner of your future generations and a literal life giver to you and your kids toh she deserves a lot more respect than you.

Ghar mein rheti hai iska matlab yeh nahi kuch nahi karti jitna kaam you do usse zyada they do, kamaana is important par uss kamai se ghar ko banana internally is the majority and most difficult work.

And apne bacho ko bhi yeh sikhao izzat karna.

[mythratica]

The Heruwet

The heruwet was a group of villages that formed an interdependent structure of trade, marriage, and mutual support. It can be traced back centuries before Rekhet to clan groupings that predate the formation of imperial power. Indeed, each heruwet has been observed to have distinct rituals & material culture developed over extraordinary periods of time, as evidenced by examples of pottery, clothing and religious items recovered from craters K1, K5 and K7 demonstrating persistent features particular to individual heruwet spanning across multiple historic epochs. The essential function of the heruwet was to overcome the limitations faced by a single village. Essential goods, particularly those scarce to one but plentiful to another were traded freely between heruwet members, as well as high-quality livestock to enable inter-village animal husbandry, typically on market days taking place in one village and attended by others. Marriages were arranged primarily between families of a single heruwet, and newly married men would move to live with the family of their wife, creating familial ties that strengthened the bonds between communities. In times of hardship, grain was shared amongst heruwet villages to ensure collective survival as the less affected supported those facing the worst hardship. In periods where centralised imperial power was weak, the heruwet essentially formed self-governing units that would band together for defence and survival.This is not to suggest that relations between heruwet members were always harmonious, as a court record dated to the fifth year of the Shomu Empress demonstrates:

Record of a dispute between the family of Muti of the village of Het and the family of Sudra of the village of Nanu, in the fifth year of Shomu (Life! Prosperity! Health!), on the ninth day of Rheti. The case was adjudicated by the magistrate of catfish-rank Nenibetu.The headmother of the family of Muti alleged that she had lent five head best-quality red cattle  to the family of Sudra for the purposes of breeding, with the understanding that one-half of the resultant offspring would be returned to the village of Het along with the original five animals. The headmother of the family of Sudra denied these claims, stating instead that the cattle had always belonged to her family, and she possessed records proving this ownership from long before the agreement to share their offspring. She furthermore insisted it be noted that the people of Het are known to be cheats and liars and that its cattle are of inferior quality anyway.The news of these records of ownership was received by the magistrate Nenibetu with some interest, as  the court's taxation surveys contained no record of best-quality red cattle in the herds of the Het or Muti families. As neither headmother was able to account for this discrepancy, all five head of cattle were confiscated as back taxes owed. In this manner was was the matter resolved to the satisfaction of the court and of Mahat.

The scribe of oryx-rank Ah-Horati, who recorded this matter, swears that all transpired as it was written.

Life and all good things to Shomu (may she reign one million years)!

The heruwet was also a crucial structure of religious life, as it was common for each village within one to share a patron deity or deities, typically either a revered ancestor-figure or a god associated with a feature of the local environment such as a river or mountain. Priestesses and healers would move between the villages of a heruwet, and religious ceremonies, particularly festival days, would bring together the villages in shared observance and celebration. Heruwet often shared a single place of entombment and burial, in some cases co-opting much older structures that lay nearby and had otherwise fallen into disuse. 

Under the Zahn administration, the heruwet system was damaged by predominantly aristocratic land ownership, Myrnahn policies of strict tenancy, and the wide-scale use of slavery on estate farms. Cultural and historical bonds remained strong however, and in the wake of abolishment of private slave ownership by the Hemshu Empress and the significant land reforms that followed the heruwet structure began to reassert itself. This was, in fact, a major goal of the early Rekhet administration, which took further steps to strengthen traditional village structures. Prior to Rekhet, the heruwet had been an unmanaged and essentially self-managing structure, defined primarily by relations between family households and informal trade agreements. Important arrangements and decisions affecting the entire heruwet were typically made by a gathering between headmothers of each village's prominent families. In the early years of Rekhet however, the Hemshu Empress made efforts to formalise the heruwet as an administrative subdivision, instituting the mutual obligations of the villages to their sisters as a matter of law. While this was largely successful within those heruwet that lay within the central domains of imperial power, overseen by officials who adjudicated legal matters and exercised administrative power, outlying settlements largely continued in the fashion that they always had. 

Rekhet's  attempts to fold the heruwet system into imperial authority may have been an attempt to undercut the power of the Phaerarchical families. In previous dynasties the heruwet had at times proven problematic for imperial rule, acting as an alternate power structure that naturally tended to favour its own interests over those of the imperial court. While this reduced the burden on central administration it was also commonly exploited by competing internal powers, particularly powerful lineage families. The overthrow of of Zahn was in fact only enabled by the sway these lineages had over the surviving heruwet structures. When the Phaerarchical families were granted their administrative powers by the Hemshu Empress, greater integration into imperial bureaucracy was likely seen as a prudent measure to reduce the likelihood of heruwet siding with their Phaerarchs over the Empress in the event of civil strife. It also created a layer of administration underneath regional Phaerarchical rule, allowing the imperial court to monitor local affairs and counteract the power of the great families. The immense additional strain this created on the imperial administration must have been reckoned as worthwhile by an imperial court all too aware of the danger of leaving the power of the Phaerarchs unchecked.

[obsessionatthemoment]

Alright, so I randomly thought about this as I was writing my fanfiction: I wanted to see if I could figure out Mike and Will's enneagram types. I'm not sure if anyone has done this before, so I thought I'd try because it really interested me.

I'm planning on doing 2 parts to this post. This first part will be what enneagram I believe fits them best, and the second part will be about looking at how their types can become healthier, and how I think that could help us predict their character growth in season 5. (Also the compatibility of their two types.)

I will only be discussing the qualities of these types I think apply to them, and also simplifying everything.

Mike:

The most fitting type for Mike is type 2 (the helper). Let's start with the basic reasoning. Type 2's are afraid of being unwanted/unworthy of love. Their desire is to feel loved. An unhealthy 2 moves towards qualities of the 8, becoming suddenly aggressive and dominating. Healthy 2's are generous kind and considerate while a less healthy 2 can become overly invested in seeing themselves as helpful and become selfish. All this very much applies to Mike to varying degrees throughout the show.

Will:

A quick disclaimer for Will is that he is in an unhealthy state, and we never see him in a healthy state, so I'm going to go over the unhealthy qualities for the type that fits him the most.

The most fitting type for Will is type 9 (the peacemaker). Peacemakers fear loss and separation, and desire to have inner stability. 9's carry traits from all the different types, while also being their own unique type. They respond to pain and suffering by trying to find a state of peacefulness through denial. 9's often escape to daydreams because they don't want to face pain. They fear conflict, so they become accommodating. They minimize problems to appease others. They become stubborn, fatalistic, and resigned as if nothing could be done to solve their problems. They're into wishful thinking, and magical solutions. They are self-sacrificing. They would do anything to keep the peace. This all applies to Will.

I'll post the second part in a bit, stay tuned.

[sp6ghetti]

Hello!

I’m trying to find information on Attitudinal Psyche, specifically subtypes. do you have anything i can study?

Attitudinal psyche is one of those sneaky systems that's easier to find and understand than the one it’s copying, which in this case is psychosophy. I'm not as against ap as I am against 16personalities or rheti, in fact I would say that it's a decent place to start. But I do beg of you to not stop there!! you can find a lot of the info on ap on their site, and alongside py you can find a bunch of info on pdbwiki as well. There is a full book dedicated to py, "The Syntax of Love" by Alexander Afanasyev, which gets a bit questionable at times, hence I don't recommend to just jump into that immediately, but it's still one of the best sources considering its written by its creator. There's also this document on the subtypes, though i forgot who put it together :(

[delopsia]

del, can rhett handle spice the way robert “two chicken sandwiches with extra hot sauce, please” floyd can, and why is the answer absolutely not... but in the way that rhety absolutely thinks he can?

�� this question was brought to you by the slight high i just experienced after putting one too many shakes of korean hot sauce in my bowl of ramen ❤️‍🔥🥢

*whispers* also i say yes, please, post the unused ideas, i’m v intrigued because i was just re-reading dancing beneath the moon and thinking omfg this was actually such an interesting story concept and if you’ve inevitably got more of that lying around, i low key wanna know about it 💐👀🌷

sdjghf not Rhett and the spice😭I have to figure out where I stuck my idea lists (I organized my computer the other day, and now I don't know where anything is), but I think I will go ahead and post the unused ideas! 💐 There are some interesting ones in here, and I'm so shocked that I never used them???

Rhett's funny in the way that he thinks he can handle spice but absolutely cannot. "I ride bulls; a lil spice ain't gon' kill me." Spoken moments before his red-faced disaster.

Prior to meeting the Reader and Bob, his primary encounters with spice existed in the form of chips: Hot and spicy pork skins, Flaming Hot Cheetos, Jalapeno beef jerky...anything you can find at the gas station. Aside from chips, the next best thing was when Cecelia made wings every once in a blue moon, but those were usually...mild...

The problem is that Bob makes it look like a walk in the park. He's so adjusted to it that he doesn't really recognize how spicy things might be to someone else. So to Rhett, it must not be that bad.

Until he steals a bite and goes completely silent. Not saying a word, just staring back at Bob with these empty eyes until he finally remembers to speak, "The hell's wrong with you?"

"Whaddaya mean?" Bob's hand rises to cover his mouth as he speaks, caught in between bites of his chicken sandwich.

Rhett's reaching for his water, nose wrinkling, "'s horrible."

But he never really...learns...the problem with bull riders is that when they get bucked off, they turn around and get back on again. Every time Bob indulges in something spicy, he's entertained by an intermission of Rhett V. Spice™ But! Over time, he does earn himself a little bit of a spice tolerance. It's just never going to be as high as Bob's 😭

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what is the core aspect of enneagram 3? i see many contradictory simplified descriptions to the point of not even understanding what 3 is about

That'll be because you're using the wrong sources, but even for Naranjo and for RHETI, the E3 is the marketing-orientation Enneagram type. E3s confuse doing with being, and define/adapt themselves to what is considered successful. E3s live through performance and through the eyes of others.

[pollsgalore]

^^For reference if you want to know what it is^^

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omg old drawing of red i never posted

[lemonthepotato]

HELP WITH ENNEAGRAM

I was originally gonna post this on r/enneagram but changed my mind. Please help if you can. <3

Expressing yourself through song lyrics sure is cringy and edgy. Glad I didn’t do that this post. Also, yes, this post will be long asf too. Sorry, but I’m bad at compressing things. If you don’t want to read it, don’t. Go on. Do something else. I don’t blame you lol. I understand if you don’t want to read allathat. Idk I’ll prolly delete this. Maybe.

Some of this borders on yapping but I cut a lot of irrelevant shit.

Haha… 69. I’m just saying, a part of me really wants my tritype to be 69X. It would be funny. Sorry, I’ll grow up. One day. Also, here’s a cringy little slideshow. Hope you like it.

SO. The consensus last time was that I was either a 6 or a 9, so while I’m skeptical, I went to research the differences. Starting with RHETI.

Before you say “look at core motives” isn’t the whole point of core motives that they’re subconscious? I don’t think it would help.

(Yes, I’m serious about using RHETI. Sorry, it’s convenient.)

“These types are actually frequently mistyped. Sixes and Nines are both concerned with security and with maintaining some kind of status quo situation.” Uh, no, I hate the status quo. And I’m not sure what security even means. I mean, yeah, negative change makes me upset, but positive change is good. And my life is so boring that I assure you, the status quo is not what I am interested in maintaining. I need a change. I’m constantly striving towards a better, more action-filled life.

“They are both family-oriented, and both tend to take modest views of themselves.” Nope. I’m actually pretty anti-natalist, and have no interest in ‘starting a family.’ My mortality is my burden to bear, not any hypothetical child’s. I don’t care for my family either, they’re all corrupt. And ‘modest’… maybe. I put on, and have for many years, a false bravado, but on the inside, I think I am kinda modest? I’ve always been told my writing is amazing, but truthfully, I don’t think it’s very good compared to other authors. I think I have a bad-okay singing voice, better than some other people. My art is bad. I think I know my skills. People praised my baking, but I thought it was just meh. I always think people are lying when they compliment me, which isn’t often.

“In short, Nines like to remain easy-going and unflappable. Nines work steadily at their tasks, but show little sign of being upset by the day's ups and downs. Sixes, on the other hand, cannot easily disguise their feelings. They get more easily worked-up and rattled by mishaps.” Well I definitely lean six there. I mean, I can disguise my feelings easily, except my anger. It’s the only emotion I can’t hide, and I’m easy to piss off.

“While Nines can remain silent within their own inner peace, Sixes need to vent with others periodically to discharge their fears and doubts.” Leaning six there, but if I feel rejected then I don’t vent. The closest recently was when I complained in a gc about low-content authors saturating the market on KDP. I tend to take a very strong stance when stating an opinion, and I may or may not have said “I want them to shove their year planners up” andddd you can guess the rest. From an objective standpoint, I know there’s not much wrong with making low content books… my problem should more be focused on bots stealing from authors, but I just, I guess exaggerate my anger?

“Sixes are more obviously nervous and defensive when they believe there are problems. Nines remain strangely bland in the face of problems, although beneath the pleasant surface of average Nines, there is stubborn resistance and an unwillingness to be upset or troubled by conflicts or problems.” Lean six there. If someone pisses me off, I’m not gonna reject my emotions.

“tend to be suspicious of unknown people and situations–they need to test people before they let them get close. Nines may be protected by the disengagement of their attention, but they tend to be trusting of others–almost to a fault.” Nope, always been more six there.

“Of course, under stress, when moving in their Direction of Disintegration, Nines will begin to act out some of the behaviors of average Sixes, and for this reason, some Nines will mistype themselves as Sixes. But such periods of overt anxiety generally do not last long. As soon as possible, Nines revert to their more easy going approach to things.” Well… I don’t know. I mean, I’ve always been very reactive and angry.

Subtypes:

Sx6: Okay so, denying fear is a 50/50. If someone intimates me, I usually will fight back, but sometimes if they break me too much, I’ll break down. I definitely feel “you’re only as strong as you think you are.” But I don’t want to give off the idea that I’m strong physically, only emotionally. I’ve always been seen as weak, and to a degree, I want to give off that weak, broken, lonely persona so I can be saved, or at the very least, used by someone drawn to that kind of person. Because… I am kinda weak. And I don’t mind being used, because from experience, even though being used has always sucked, I’ve never felt lonely by them. I can relate to being stubborn. I view everything as a challenge.

“These characters walk around with the idea that anyone can become dangerous, so they do everything they can to not feel cheated, manipulated, taken advantage of, or attacked.” Yeah, maybe more so nowadays. When I’m out of the house, I’m constantly wary of people.

“Despite being aggressive as part of their effort to intimidate through strength, Sx Sixes tend not to acknowledge their aggressive side and may not be aware of it-or at least of the intensity of it.” Nah, I’m pretty aggressive and aware of it. I don’t think it was always that way.

“They also tend to separate their emotions: aggression is disconnected from fear, and sex is disconnected from feelings of love and intimacy.” Eh? Maybe? Not really tbh.

“They may have the illusion that they are spontaneous, but they tend not to be.” …Is this true for me? Idk, maybe.

“Sx Sixes tend to be very contrarian.”

Very true for me honestly. Sometimes I’ll argue even when I agree with people.

Sp6:

“They also have difficulty in looking at things as black and white, as they can see multiple shades of gray in between everything.” Depends.

“Seeing themselves as constantly at fault, they also feel persecuted: they project their internal persecution externally. It is a form of paranoid thinking which incurs the following: other people are always ready to catch your faults, attack you, and criticize you, and if they do not, it is only because it is convenient for them to hide their intentions at the moment to ensure they punch down the line.” Oh 100%.

“Self-Preservation Sixes fear anger, aggression, provocation, and confrontation. Being afraid of other people's aggression means they can't let their own aggression out.” I mean yes, but no. I don’t immediately resort to anger if I know the person is a loose cannon, but at some point, I have to protect myself.

“As the most phobic of the three Sixes, the avoidant Self-Preservation subtype equates love with protection, and in looking for love they search for a source of security to compensate for an inner sense of insecurity. This Six wants to find a strong person to lean on, and they many be excessively friendly and giving as a way of preventing an attack from outside. In order to feel the strength they are lacking, the Self-Preservation Six attracts the affections or protection of somebody strong-the more forceful presence of another helps them to feel safer.” I mean yeah. I guess I’ve flipped between sp6 and sx6 behaviours my whole life. I feel like the only way to be liked is to either be completely aggressive or completely submissive. Those are the only versions of me that “exist.” I just can’t tell which is real.

So6: “Consciously or unconsciously, Social Sixes fear the disapproval of authorities and believe the way to be safe is to do the right thing as determined by an authority. And knowing what the right thing is means having clear rules that tell you how you should think and act.” Kinda. I’m just saying, it wouldn’t be hard to trick me into joining a cult, that’s all really.

“Social Sixes have an intolerance of ambiguity. They fear ambivalence and have little tolerance of uncertainty, because to them, uncertainty equals anxiety. As a result, they have a love of precision and see things more in terms of black and white than gray.” Kinda.

I don’t fear making mistakes.

Sx9: “Sx Nines unconsciously express a need to be through another- to gain a sense of "being" they don't find inside themselves through fusion with somebody else.” Yeah, but it’s not unconscious… anymore.

“These Nines feel a sense of loneliness or abandonment that seems like it can only be filled by another person, whether or not they realize it consciously.” True.

“The problem inherent in this stance, of course, is that true union- a real relationship between two people - requires that both people stand on their own feet before coming to meet each other.” Oh see, that kinda gave me a chill… no. I don’t want to be alone, ever. I don’t think I can be alone. I don’t like it.

“Sx Nines tend to be very kind, gentle, tender and sweet. They are the least assertive of the Nines.” �� nuh uh. I mean again, if it was in a context where I fully trusted someone then yeah but nuh uh.

“Sx Nines may also share central concerns with Type Twos in that they can lack a solid sense of self and then look to their important relationships as a way to find self-definition or a sense of identity. Twos differ from these Nines, however, in that they focus more attention on constructing an image. Twos also usually enjoy being the center of attention, while this is much less comfortable for Sx Nines.” I mean yeah, I love attention and always have, but no one in the last post suggested 2, so it’s unlikely I’m a 2. Maybe sp2, but still, I don’t think so. Maybe? Maybe not. Maybe…

Sp9: Basically sx9 but if their partner was a potato chip. Also, I might be a black and white thinker considering my dad just said he was making breakfast or lunch and my first thought was “well, it’s one or the other.” Sorry, not related.

Reading this is basically just how I acted from 2018-2021. Not a good time in my life. I don’t like being alone. I haven’t “resigned” myself to not finding love, my whole logic in those four years was “well, when I’m 18, I’m gonna work hard for the rest of my life, so I should enjoy these years before I can’t do it anymore.” which consisted of barely being able to leave the bed. So fun.

I mean no, I don’t use physical activity to create a self. Maybe through my work, but I don’t like slacking off, so maybe not.

Oh yeah, someone suggested I might be a 1 in the last post. The only 1 subtype I even closely relate to is the old version of sx1. Core type? Sure, to a degree. But idk. Most people said either 6 or 9 so I’m not sure. And 9w8 > 9w1 at that degree.

I don’t relate much to the core of 2. It’s more that I want to be looked after than looking after others. I feel the only way to serve others is to improve my appearance and serve them through giving myself to them. As for 3, I really related to a degree, but no one else agreed, and honestly, maybe you’re right. Not a 4, I’m nowhere near having enough of an identity to be a 4. 5 just makes no sense to me. 7 makes a lot of sense to me but I don’t relate to ignoring negative emotions. I’m not confident enough to be an 8. I guess that leaves me with 6 and 9, along with maybe 2 as an option. Maybe 3.

I think 9 is unlikely, honestly, so let’s narrow that to 6, 2 and 3. Definitely had a lot of sp2 behaviours as a kid. Lmao, I was gonna say “but honestly, I didn’t feel entitled cuz I did anything, just for existing” and that’s literally the next paragraph written about sp2. I’m not gonna fall into the trap of relating to subtype over core type, because I don’t really relate to the core type of 2. Maybe when I was younger. I remember when my parents argued, I would try and mediate things, because I didn’t like it, but I just got yelled at. I would also sometimes do things for others to get validation, but I don’t remember if it was a core trait.

Wanna hear a fun fact? Growing up, my mom fell for an MLM, so me and her went door to door shilling makeup products… yep, she used a little young innocent me who was acting very friendly to the people there, for some reason, to shill products. I don’t know why I was so friendly to those random people. To prove myself?

See I relate to 3, but no one agreed with that in the last post, so maybe not. I do relate to cultivating a persona and hiding negative traits. It’s why these posts are so hard to make. But, I’m not exactly GOOD at getting attention. I mean, growing up, I wasn’t very well liked even if I wanted to be popular. I’ve always wanted to be famous.

Six is complicated because I can relate to the core to a degree, but none of the subtypes, or 50/50 on each subtype. Nine is just… I don’t see much 9 in me.

Anyway, uhh, what else should I say? This post has dragged on long enough. If you want to read my other type me post, it’s like, the post before the last post on this account I think. It’s also very long.

Oh yeah, I had another brief friend that destroyed my trust by telling me to end my life by insulting me using insults based on the things I vented to him about. Hence once of the many reasons I have trust issues. That guy was very fucked up though. Tried stabbing his dad n shit. Pressured me into doing weird shit. Fucked shit man. Anyway. That’s all.

Ok, that’s all.

…I thought this would be shorter. Anyway, I guess if you have any questions/need elaboration, comment. Again I’m very sorry this post is long, I suck at compressing shit.

If the consensus is 9 again, then I’ll just accept that I was in ~DeNile.~ 😅 I just don’t think I’m calm enough.

Idk I’ll probably delete this post. It’s just- I’ve tried figuring it out on my own and it’s very difficult.

Edit: This post is old (5 months old) and I doubt I’m a 9. I was torn between 3 and 6 when I wrote this, then I got torn between 4 and 6. 4 and 6 have been the most consistent parts of my typing, so I settled on 4. Sometimes I wonder if I’m a 5 due to this but I have a very strange relationship with type 5? It was the type I questioned the least except for 8, and like, I never had any valid reason to deny it other than not ‘feeling’ like a five and the only type I considered was sx5 very briefly. I could go more in depth but 9 is very unlikely now. Also I don’t use wings anymore, at least the way people use em.)

[raindropsofloev]

Bollywood and it's beautiful songs of the word "pal"

Main pal do pal ka shayar hu

Bichhad gaya harr saathi de kar pal do pal ka saath

Pal pal dil ke paas tum rheti ho

Aane wala pal jaane wala hai

Pal pal pal harr pal