#Queerplatonic

[ask-asexual-crystal-gems]

Right on! Men 👏 and 👏 women 👏 can 👏 be 👏 friends!!

A man and a woman platonically raising a child together and not falling in love has to be the biggest plotwist in the Dungeons & Dragons: Honor Among Thieves movie AND my favorite part

[qprconcepts]

qpps who bite each other instead of kissing or hugging

<3

[ur-favs-are-queerplatonic]

Destiel (Dean Winchester and Castiel, Angel of the Lord from Supernatural) is queerplatonic!

Requested by: no one!

[neko-naruto]

the closest thing i'll ever get to romantic attraction is how deeply intrigued i am by my partner, like bro why are you like this, what is your fucking issue and can we hold hands over it, i love you btw, im gonna pick apart your brain later in the dm's

[e-wwis]

random thing but I noticed that "pookie" has sorta become a relationship of its own in this day and age. it could mean anyone you have a particular, special fondness for regardless of the nature of the relationship and personally I think that's a win for aroaces

[the-fallen-collective]

gang i love queerplatonic relationships

because theres relationships that dont fit the typical normal boxes, relationships outside of typical standards, relationships that cant really be defined as romantic or platonic, but some completely other thing (for me, at least). I can have deep committed relationships with these two people but we aren’t dating, but also they are my partners and i am with them, we are together but not romantically, but i love them in a way that isnt just platonic, its some alterous thing that i cant even begin to explain if i tried really hard to, but i love it

i love my queerplatonic partners

i love mystic, who i met through the roleplay side of tumblr, getting to know them mostly their character felix, then eventually talking with them more and more, becoming close friends, and then i was (totally purposefully) being a bit obvious that i wanted to be in a qpr with them and now we are and they are such an amazing partner to me, so patient and understanding and they make me so happy and i am so very grateful for them, and i love them so much, they mean so much to me, i dont think i could even measure it, because its just so much /pos and i hope i make Mystic feel as happy and appreciated as they make me

i love mercutio, who understands me quite well and is there for me a lot, someone i also met through roleplay, and talked to a bit after, becoming friends with him. Its very kind and such a good person, and we funnily enough both wanted to be in a qpr but both were too scared to say anything (but haha i managed!). Void’s such a wonderful person, so amazing and lovely and patient, i dont know where id be without pop. It makes me so happy, and he really is my everything, the person i love more than anything, so much that it hurts /pos, and he makes me want to be okay, so i can also help gore be okay, so we can learn to be okay together and find peace together, hand in hand. I just hope i make Tio feel as happy and safe as he makes me

@creatorbiaze @aredeemantagonist

[undead-tboy-swag]

if your weird enough with the homies you can break all boundaries of platonic/romantic love and make a third, more evil thing

[midnightcrisisstuff]

actually no, we're not "dating". we're bound together for infinity. like the stars. so, fuck you, actually.

[romancerepulsed]

i keep seeing misinformation about this, so: queerplatonic relationships do not have a set definition. the name comes from the idea that it's "queering" the platonic relationship, tailoring it to the individual relationships' own desires. it isn't necessarily romance lite, but it also isn't necessarily whatever definition you want to impose on it. the point of queering the platonic relationship is to break away from strict allonormative views on friendship, romance, and sex, not to make a new categorical box to fit in.

the answer to "what is a qpr?" is "whatever you want it to be." sometimes that is romance lite. sometimes it's a deeply committed friendship. sometimes it's friends who have a sexual relationship. sometimes it's based on an entirely different mode of attraction. sometimes it's fluid and impossible to put into words. it's whatever you want it to be. it's queer.

[tremendously-crazy]

"Do you want a boyfriend/girlfriend?" no i want a best friend/roommate/soulmate that I can go on silly adventures with and hang out with and have deep intellectual discussions with and we can be life partners without any of the romance stuff

[flora-tea]

Aaa I'm so glad you think so too!! You're most welcome! <33

Also Hi hi! I'm back with another recommendation! :D 💛💗🤍

are there any good music playlists on spotify/soundcloud about queerplatonic relationships?? im in a sappy mood right now hehe

[asexual-fandom-queen]

i don’t want a ROMANTIC PARTNER. i want a DEAR FRIEND i can use as a HUMAN WEIGHTED BLANKET

[qprconcepts]

qpp who likes cuddling x qpp who likes being cuddled

<3

[ur-favs-are-queerplatonic]

Speeding Bullet (Sniper and Scout from Team Fortress 2) is queerplatonic!

Requested by: no one!

[aropride]

i’ve begun saying people “obviously aren’t in a romantic relationship, they have something deeper and more intimate going on” as this seems to confuse and upset alloromantics

(ID: a banner with text over the aro flag. the text says: i don't care about blorbotags go wild but this post is about hating the hierarchial system of relationships & if you're mad about it you're probably been poisoned by ace discourse brainworms. and are also proving my point. /end ID)