#Queerplatonic

[mis-placedeyes]

me when im snug as a bug in a rug

[qprconcepts]

qpr who, on March 31, will have been together for THREE! YEARS! qprs are real and they last y’all

me and my qpp are celebrating 6 years on TODAY(MARCH 30)!!! <3

[eddathegreat]

This was a key passage that was left niggling at me. It was thanks to Pale that I found out what queerplatonic relationships are, and it felt like things really started clicking into place. I am now comfortable saying that this passage was a key datapoint of wildbow's tendency to include relationships that blur conventional boundaries, for good and for ill. It's very queer and absolutely fascinating and I love it.

[undead-tboy-swag]

if your weird enough with the homies you can break all boundaries of platonic/romantic love and make a third, more evil thing

[midnightcrisisstuff]

actually no, we're not "dating". we're bound together for infinity. like the stars. so, fuck you, actually.

[romancerepulsed]

i keep seeing misinformation about this, so: queerplatonic relationships do not have a set definition. the name comes from the idea that it's "queering" the platonic relationship, tailoring it to the individual relationships' own desires. it isn't necessarily romance lite, but it also isn't necessarily whatever definition you want to impose on it. the point of queering the platonic relationship is to break away from strict allonormative views on friendship, romance, and sex, not to make a new categorical box to fit in.

the answer to "what is a qpr?" is "whatever you want it to be." sometimes that is romance lite. sometimes it's a deeply committed friendship. sometimes it's friends who have a sexual relationship. sometimes it's based on an entirely different mode of attraction. sometimes it's fluid and impossible to put into words. it's whatever you want it to be. it's queer.

[arrows2art]

Feeling this again

Never been kissed

Never had a crush

Never been in a relationship

Never wanted sex

Never wanted to kiss

Never wanted a crush

But I want a partner

Platonic Partner

Because

I want love

Not family love

Not a friendly acquainted love

Not a love that sits on the side

Not a love that has to cry to be heard

I want someone to lie next to

Wake up to

Hold hands with

Get close with

Hold each other closeness

Say the truth to

Scream and cry to

But wipe the tears from there eyes to

To let them know that they aren't lied to

To let them know I will die to

The very thing that I would fight to

To keep you mine and protect you

To be yours and no one else's

That is why I want to.

[tremendously-crazy]

"Do you want a boyfriend/girlfriend?" no i want a best friend/roommate/soulmate that I can go on silly adventures with and hang out with and have deep intellectual discussions with and we can be life partners without any of the romance stuff

[agrebel18]

i love you polyamorous relationships, open relationships, friends with benefits/friends that have sex with each other, queerplatonic relationships, friendships that have some weird queer element to it, relationship anarchy, staying single and i love anything that doesn't match what society considers "normal"

[asexual-fandom-queen]

i don’t want a ROMANTIC PARTNER. i want a DEAR FRIEND i can use as a HUMAN WEIGHTED BLANKET

[rocksandaces]

"there is no platonic explanation for this" when characters hug, care for each other, support them, are worried when they are in danger, smile at each other etc

Some of yall just don't have any good friends and it really shows

[mis-placedeyes]

more gold slop hehhe emotional support stand WHO WILL BE THE GOLD EXP TO MY GIORNO PLEASSSS PLELSLSLELSL

[qprconcepts]

Qpp who has SOOO many gift ideas and can't stop making/getting them x qpp who can never come up with gifts and ends up being spoiled on accident /pos /aff

-🌻☁️

<3

[mcr-themed-brain]

"Not platonic not romantic but a secret 3rd thing" its called a QUEERPLATONIC PARTNERSHIP and u better put RESPECT on its name!!!!

[twinklerei]

The point of queerplatonic relationships is literally having relationships out of the common, that go against what is expected in a normal friendship or in a romantic relationship, its about breaking those society imposed rules, so guys, there is no correct way to have a qpr, or some kind of definition, you can do and have whatever you and your partner/s want always if you feel happy and comfortable!