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afriblaq · 1 month ago

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#medicalapartheid warned us years ago, but we don’t read.🥲

"This is why our elders never wanted to go to the hospital. They feared for their lives"

"Thank You too often we are ignored and treated as if we don’t deserve quality care 🖤🖤🖤"

"Have a law that requires a hospital to allow Doulas and birth assistants who are trained is required!"

@dtr360books__

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thorndrool · 2 months ago

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Crusty phone pic. Quote is by me also lol

#my art #traditional art #mouthwashing #captain curly #curly mouthwashing #polle mouthwashing #polle the pony #polle #curly #holding that cartoon horse like he is the virgin mary and polle is baby jesus #im still thinking about the ultrasound scene and whatnit says about jimmys mental state to attribute the pregnancy to curly #and not anya . the woman he assaulted. idk bro!#anyway quote is mine also i just think jimmy is like many rapists #objectifying and using women because as is the case with a large percentage of the sexually violent: they dont care or often know if-#their victim is pregnant. its “none of their business”#use the quote whatever if it resonates but i wanted to elaborate bc my friend thought it was from somewhere #mouthwashing fanart #mouthwashing curly

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dykedvonte · 3 months ago

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Ty for answering my asks! Recently, I saw some fanart of the gender bendered crew and it got me curios, how much would the plot change if Jimmy was a woman. I mean, she would still be emotionally abusive (esp to Fem!Curly), but at lest, I guess, the crash would've never happened (?)

Also, her relationship w/ Anya: if she was assulted still, it prolly would've been dissmissed, since it's between 2 women. Or, if Anya is male in this scenario, he couldn't really be able to talk abt it, since society decided that "women can't r*pe men", so it's not serious and he should suck it up. Man, it's just sucks to be Anya in any scenario my poor girl 😭

What do you think? If you have an opinion on that at all, that is

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I think the scenario's where the gender was flipped or any level of gender based intersectionality is expanded makes it so much more complex.

If this is the scenario with fem!Jimmy, it comes with the territory of questionable internalized homophobia. Does Jimmy brush it off in this scenario because she doesn't think lesbian encounters are real ones? Is she struggling with her identity and taking it out on Anya who may be openly queer compared a fem!Curly who is either straight or just not interested in Jimmy? Perhaps it's a sort of weird entitled that can occur in female dominated spaces "We're both girls, I know what you have, it won't matter." It's still is something I don't see Jimmy denying in this scenario, he never really denies it in canon just talks around it with Curly. Here I can see it's less about the pregnancy and more so about the internalized homophobia. Not seeing Anya as anything but an unwanted aspect of her femineity and the allure of it, there's a lot more objectification of both Curly and Anya in this alteration as I would believe feels better thinking of them in that light if they are just fodder in her mind. Guilty pleasures that no longer bring her such. It's a careful situation because I don't want this to fall into predatory lesbian stereotyping, Jimmy is just a person who does not respect other people or their choice, if it conflict with what he wants or perceived is owed.

The idea of Curly having to report it and outing her not only as a rapist but queer and the denial, especially in the case Anya and Curly are both out as she feels a sort of resentment she can't be secure with herself that way. If it is masc!Curly, there could be the jealousy of him being able to actively pursue relationships he wants while she feels she can't, Anya and Curly playfully flirt, its casual but it's something she longs for in the same way she doesn't. She obsesses over Curly because she wishes she could be Curly in a social sense in both aspect male or female Curly.

If it's fem!Jimmy and masc!Anya? It's a much more delicate situation. In this scenario Jimmy gets pregnant. Maybe Anya does a blood test after the incident and finds out Jimmy is pregnant. It's a very sensitive matter because if it's fem!Curly her first assumption is Anya may have done something. That is just the immediate assumptions in cases like this. I think the fact that Anya is telling her would make Curly think it's not that simple, especially since Jimmy isn't brining it up or really caring but everyone reacts differently. Jimmy is pregnant however, and that's a big deal, she'll figure that out eventually on her own but how will she react? Curly knows it won't be good, Anya knows too.

I think the crash is instigated in this scenerio by fem!Curly actually doing more, refusing to sweep it under the rug because she can conceptualize that fear, likely she and Jimmy are the only girls on board. She trusts everyone, well did trust everyone, but it's just something you live with. She can't just live with that double standard but I feel like she really doesn't know how to address it. How does she bring it up to superiors without implicating Anya? What does she do with Jimmy, it still feels like she's catering to Jimmy but now the concern is primarily focused on the life this baby will be born into. If it is born at all. I don't think Jimmy would try to kill Anya in this concept but try to spin the narrative it was mutual up until she got pregnant. Curly doesn't really buy it but it's a lot of processing, a lot more he said she said but what Jimmy is saying just doesn't make sense. It gives Jimmy too much time to really settle with the fact she's pregnant and likely can't support a kid nor wants to give birth out in space. Jimmy feeling like she's being othered from the only other woman could also be a factor, maybe even starting into her thinking Curly is behaving like a "pick-me" for siding with a guy over her. The crash is more spiteful in terms of having to protect herself alone, due to Curly not outright supporting her delusions.

It really adds a certain horror to Jimmy's pregnancy hallucinations because after the crash they are about her, her symptoms the sign of showing. She doesn't want the child either and considering what being pregnant can do to your mental/physical state, especially some of the more negative symptoms, I doubt she is handling it well. A lot of Anya's struggles are with the stigmas around male victims. His body reacted so did he want it? He's gonna be a father and courts likely will make him pay or care for the baby even if they take Anya's side, their world is just like that. Would the other's blame him for not doing more, he is a man after all? Should he be considered lucky a woman was that into him? It's eating away at him because not only does he not feel safe, he actively blames himself.

In the case Curly is still a cis guy, its that weird feeling guys often get when talking about male victims of assault. I don't think he'd victim blame but he likely asks or thinks about how it could've happened, why wouldn't Anya just overpower Jimmy? Maybe he couldn't? Maybe Anya didn't have it in him to strike a woman. He wouldn't. Now he thinks of what he would have done if Jimmy did something like that to him. SImilary to my trans!Curly post, he's wondering if it could've been him. It's likely one of the first times in his life he has to think of that type of vulnerability in terms of himself and other men and against likely his girl best friend. I think that arm pat right before Jimmy crashes the ship would really make him feel weird, not like he'd have the time to really dig into those feeling but y'know WERE GONNA CRASH!!!.

In terms of Jimmy and Curly's specific relationship, it just gets messier if they aren't both guys or girls. There's a lot of misogny on Jimmy's side with fem!Curly. He often points out she's a woman captain or makes a point of her being one of the few independent woman in her field and how certain men hate that. It's insidious but Curly doesn't think about or like to cause she likes to believe Jimmy isn't one of those guys. He can be a bit antiquated, maybe a bit of a pig but no ones perfect! Here a lot of his resentment is more gear toward a woman having that power over him as Captain/filling the typical male roles he fails at. He can't stand that she's above him in almost aspect and he likely takes it out on other women. Similarly, fem!Jimmy and cis Curly is just as bad. It's a fact of not knowing if she wants to be him, wants him or wants to destroy him. It's obsession without anything positive. She feels entitled to his space and life and time and he has a hard time setting up boundaries cause, well, Jimmy's a girl, his bestfriend and it comes with all the stigmas around boygirl best friends. To him it's a sort of oppressive doting, he feels wrong telling her not to pick and like he's being controlling. That's how she'd spin it whenever he'd try to make boundaries with her.

They are still just friends but most people can't tell even if they can tell it's not healthy, in both cases. Either way I feel like if they were opposite genders to each other there would a specific infatuation Jimmy would have with Curly that would be less hidden but sort of unaddressed because the idea of Curly rejecting them would make them lash out in a way Curly may just leave for their safety. It's also Jimmy wouldn't want to be with Curly specifically but just want what would consistently provide/available.

If they are both girls, its envy. It's that sort of hate that someone fits the standards you don't, wanting them to be picked second or crack. She likes to get into Curly's head, point out flaws and act like it's just her being helpful. She wants Curly to be a girls girl but only for her. There's a sort of possessiveness like purposely jeopardizing relationships because why would a man come first? That girl hates me and is a pick me, why are you friends with her still, Curly? Like this is silly but think about how Regina George treats Gretchen Wieners and that's effectively how fem!Curly and fem!Jimmy would work but technically Curly has the sway of Regina.

I believe the crash would always happen. Jimmy would try to escape responsibility or really thinking about what they did in any world, any gender. It's about facing the consequences, losing things he refuses to let go of or having to deal with responsibilities he's not ready for. The switching of sex or gender really doesn't change those core aspects.

#this is long cause theres so many ideas to play with here and how jimmy and Curly would work but the specifc things happening with Anya #like if she wasnt pregnant thats a relief but its the sort of situation where she has to think about her own sexuality in the scenerio shes #queer and how Jimmy affect her. Its addressing it with Curly who may get it but maybe she gets it too much maybe its hard to hear about Jim #cause for all she knew Jimmy was straight and now she has to think of all the odd conversations and nights they shared beds and maybe #feelings she had but she has to focus on putting Anya first but what does she do? Outing someone is bad but this can be dismmised?#Would the pony express just punish both anya and jimmy and curly what if theres a dont ask dont tell policy? what if they dont care cause #they are all women. its not an issue if its just girls not getting along after “experimenting”. Back to male Anya and female Jimmy they wil #assume it was consensual and anya just doesnt want the kid often that is pushed on male rape narratives. Jimmy is pregnant and on edge #does Curly also have to factor in the child? I feel like the feast scene would be Jimmy delusionally thinking Curly is helping support the #child i mean he is the most well off the bread winner he puts food on the table he is the food! Would polle being Anya talk about how Jimmy #doesnt have it in her to foster a child to support one emotionally without damage? Why so focused on making Curly the idealized male #or provider in her life when she went after him? For female Curly is it envy that she did this to herself and Curly has even more prospects #than her now? What if Anya was fawning because he didn't want the kid but hated the idea of Jimmy killing it to spite him? Or perhaps using #it as a means of control because even if he doesn't want it i doubt he wants it to be punished or abused. It is a burden something no one #wanted but it is being fostered five months in and Jimmys showing a bump and Anya cant ignore all the implications of it being born to her #maybe he kills himself to avoid living in a world its subjected to that pain to to save himself from it. GOD the pills with Curly are worse #for male Anya fem!Curly because its so much more direct he cant shove something down a womans throat who is clearly unwilling it makes #him feel like Jimmy to watch her struggle against him and he cant do it and with Jimmy it is so much more direct about a mother feeding #theri child and abusing it like the nuance if any gender flipping was canon would tear this fandom apart now imma thinking crazy about this #thanks skull anon like really ur asks get me thinking #mouthwashing #mouthwashing game #💀 anon #ask #curly mouthwashing #jimmy mouthwashing #captain curly #nurse anya #anya mouthwashing

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kithj · 3 months ago

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the quiet place game sucks ass, they really said how many misogynistic tropes can we shove into one game? and didn't wait for an answer

#even in the apocalypse all women are good for is just having babies #OR they can be the overbearing bitch mother in law who hates her son's gf and only cares about baby. good job team!#woman can only become strong for baby. before that she's useless #also the gameplay just sucks its so boring you can go almost 30min of playtime without encountering anything at all #but ugly ai posters lol #shame bc i do think this could be a good concept for a stealth game. but. they didnt even do that part right #anyways the trope of 'wow.... pregnant in the apocalypse... let's name her Hope' is one of my least favorite of all time #getting pregnant is like worst case scenario. it's a horror story. but they're always like wow....... how beautiful............#nevermind the woman is going to have 0 access to any kind of natal care and will probably die #already malnourished and ill and now you have to carry a baby too.... stupid stupid stupid lol #this whole storyline is just so tired and unimaginative. abort that thang

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butch-bakugo · 2 months ago

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Its not a shock to me that most "transandrophobia doesn't exist" people are trans women, mostly white trans women. They have a very specific image of what a trans man looks like and it's only two categories: the hyper fem, tits out, make up, twink trans man who doesn't pass nor try to and the hyper masculine, bearded, t'd up, all the surgeries, big buff trans man who you could never clock. They genuinely think every "transandrophobia truther" is lieing about not getting privileges they don't fucking have.

They genuinely believe every trans man passes and therefore we get male privilege and they get backed up by trans men who do pass and think a cis man making rape jokes with them and asking about their lift set is male privilege. Lemme shatter the illusion because as much as you like to scream about some wide spread privilege that doesn't exist, most trans people, in general, do not pass. This is especially true for trans men due to the hyperfocus society puts on feminine features. I have never met a fully passing trans man and I've met over a hundred personally irl. never. I know they exist but the fact y'all think we, en masse, get male privilege is factually just fucking wrong.

Trans men are not more acceptable or palatable to transphobes. Trans men are not more likely to pass. Trans men in mass do not get male privilege by virtue of our lack of passing and our medical history. Most trans men are still affected by the gender pay gap and thus can not afford surgeries.

You do not acknowledge the existence of non-passing trans men, only uphold the voices of trans men who pass and have the money for surgeries (a small percentage) then wonder why trans men laugh in your face when you make claims about male privilege we do not experience.

We are more likely to be conversionally raped than you. We are more like to be forcibly detransioned than you. We are more likely to experience domestic violence than you. We are more likely to experience hate crimes than you.

Trans men's hyper visibility in online spaces dose not transfer to real life visibility. You are more likely to see white cis gay men and white trans women in any media or ever mentioned than even white cis lesbians or white trans men. Your rhetoric is the origin of the "theyfab" myth. Our issues are invisible to you cause you do not care about other trans people besides yourself and other transfems. Everyone and their trans mother knows about transmysogny and the issues you personally face yet you expect trans men to be silent about their issues and feel like they should be silent because they are men. Trans men are more likely to experience litterally all forms of violence over trans women in every single avenue of violence that exists; religious, sexual, domestic, familial, etc. We are more likely to be stopped and abused before we socially transtion than anyone else due to hyper vigilance of society over afabs. You can scream all you'd like about how we only bring up our sex/the gender we are often raised as when it's convenient but you always ignore those often traumatizing experiences when it's convenient for you.

Many Transmascs and trans men had a traumatizing upbringing because society views us as "bad women" and " bad women" get treated so much worse and by many more angles than "bad men" specifically because we were forcibly assigned as women. You take advantage of a lack of nuance in the community by trying to group us with cis men specifically because you group yourself with cis women. News flash, neither of us and our experiences should be grouped with ANY cis group because we do not have cisgendered experiences.

I seriously think you think you are the most oppressed group in the trans community and you are not, not by a long shot. You are not the most oppressed group in the transgender community and that's a statistical fact. The most oppressed group, by far, are two spirits and cultural genders by virtue of them being inherently indigenous and indigenous people being the most oppressed race of people in the community regardless of the location they are indigenous to.

You are literally taking advantage of the things that were drilled into transmascs at a young age to be seen and not heard and to be quiet and let others talk, that they are lesser than everyone. Everyday there's a new story in the community of a cis man or a trans woman getting a trans man/masc pregnant to hurt them or force them off t or to detransion, this is not a fucking accident. You are not men, no one ever said you were, but you sure love to silence them like they do.

I'm not quiet, you do not intimately know our issues the same way we do not intimately know yours, You don't get to tell us what we do and don't experience and the fact you'd rather cry wolf and suspiciously call us "bitches" than hear us out, tells me everything i need to know. That alt right to trans woman pipeline you said you escaped? Yeah, you didn't. Ur just an alt right trans woman, Try Again.

#levi speaks #people who arnt transmasc stop trying to claim you know transmasc experiences enough to say they are bs challenge #i see transandrophobia daily and i see their issues never addressed #theres a huge issue involving transmascs being raped to make them pregnant and stop their transition #its mostly cis men but ive seen multiple abusive transfems do it too and they dont talk about it #its like its a dirtt word like they cant acknowledge their own but expect us to apologize daily for the existence of kevin garrah #a trans man that wasnt remotely blair white Caitlyn jenner-ing up the trans community and disappeared 7 fucking years ago #curious why you guys keep haeping on our one guy when every week theres a new white transfem on my fyp #talking about the woke cult and how shes the only good one #then 3 weeks later apologizing cause the leopard ate her face #im not blind i notice a pattern #its always white trans women and cis gay men acting the fucking fool and i dont think thats an accident #i dont think theres no common thread #i still think they are women i also think they are still white and still think they have some masculine invincibility to criticism #then get shocked they arnt treated as darling princesses by the racists and transphobes they try to appeal to #i do think people that claim transandrophobia isnt real are doing so from a place of mysogny #wether thats internalized or not #they always sound like fucking reddit incels #just listening to the language they use when they talk about transmascs and cis women only tells me their fave podcaster is joe rogan #just bleeds pewdiepie asmongold ben shapiro nonsense #and then cry and point at you like every other white woman with her tears when you point it out 😂#i do not think most transfems are part of this issue #i do think they have general ignorance about issues facing the transmasc community but i think thats a two way issue #most transmascs dont know all the issues taking place in the transfem community #im specifically talking about the transfems who make hating transmascs and cis women a full time job #and claim they only feel safe around cis men #like ok you just outed urself as a run of the mill mysognist drawing weird lines but ok #before someone acts the fool im both #im intersex with transmasc and transfem experiences and identify as both #its ridiculous that i get slapped with an anti-self label cause i asked a transfem to care about the other half of the fucking trans communi

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theyreinsensibleshoes · 3 months ago

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im so scared. i'm so so so fucking scared.

#i havent been super active lately but im having very intense anxiety attacks about last night and i think the best course of action for me #rn is not engaging with anything political until i can calm down #so im signing off for awhile until the dust settles a bit #im trying to tell myself i have enough privilege that im gonna be ok because i feel like selfishness is the only thing thats gonna get me #thru this since i genuinely cannot save the lives of every gazan trans person pregnant woman latino immigrant etc #but unfortunately unlike the rest of this country i was born with care about other people disorder #im also trying to tell myself that social progress always prevails because it does in fact always do #so even if it takes lots of dirty work and it wont happen in my lifetime it will one day come thru #so yeah those are my thoughts.... see ya'll a bit later

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audriandae · 1 year ago

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idk if this has been said much or anything but i feel like some people who want to become parents kinda forget that theyre not just getting a baby. theyre getting a baby thats gonna grow into a toddler into a child into a tween and a teenager and an adult and parenting doesnt stop once your kid stops being 'a kid'.

and parenting is a lot more than people think it is. like youre committing yourself to take care of a whole new person. and you're responsible for that whole new person for their whole life- parenting that person maybe stops when they move out or whatever but its not like all ties are cut yknow. you may not be actively involved in every moment of your child's life, you may not be making decisions for them and such, but you're still their touchstone in this world

and what does parenting even mean like its not just giving them a house to live in and food to eat its also taking their emotional needs into account its also taking care of their physical health its also teaching them how to be a person. and everything and anything you say to your kid is The Law. if you make a joke about eating the seeds of a watermelon making a tree grow inside them theyre gonna think that's true. and if you offhandedly comment on something in a negative way theyll take it to heart and holy shit i could go on forever.

there's so much. and some people are aware of the muchness they're getting into when they decide to have a baby. but most people arent i think, and that needs to change

#parenting #i guess that tag makes sense to use???#random thoughts #but also not that random #parenting is more than you sign up for #sincerely a 'child'#im saying this as someone who's technically responsible for themself but is still being parented if that makes sense #but i was on public transport and there was a pregnant woman looking over at this mom and her toddler #and i think she was looking at me too but i cant be sure #and idk if she was thinking about how long she'd have to take care of her kid or anything #but i started thinking and this came out #tldr parenting is hard and people should know what theyre getting into

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arttsuka · 8 months ago

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Just something that's been bothering me. What's up with the whitewashing in trigun stampede?

Somehow the 1998 version had more diversity in skin colors than the 2023 version

#I don't like being negative in fandom spaces because people come here to have fun not fight #but I feel like tristamp had way too many problems and I don't really see people talk about them?#I understand that people like it for it's good parts (I do too) but I feel like the negatives outweigh the positives?#I didn't like the changes in the personalities of the main cast. I didn't like how Millie wasn't there #I didn't like the pacing (why do we have to be invested in that one pregnant woman in the beginning? she never even shows up again)#the models were ok (but I strongly dislike these 'skinny' pieces of technology. that's a personal preference tho)#the animation was pretty stellar (the camera movement too)#these weird incest-y undertones creeped me out(I don't know if it was intentional but some people in the fandom definitely took it that way)#anyway #don't come after me #just expressing my opinion #I still really like trigun. stampede just wasn't the one for me #thank god I decided to watch the 1998 version first #trigun #not art #talking about this a whole year after I watched it who cares #delete later #maybe

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visual-hedonist · 1 day ago

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Fainting Without Warning _ No Service Dog _ Pregnant With Chronic Illness

#woman #fainting #i feel faint #i feel sick #chronic illness #medicine #pots syndrome #pots #pregnant #eyesclosed #healthcare #medical care

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buck-yyyy · 9 months ago

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wild how for so many years feminists fought to have people say the words they mean with reference to reproductive health, like saying vagina or uterus out loud, and now if you use those words in a gender-neutral way to describe reproductive health you’ll have people at your fucking throat yelling about how women are getting erased by these terms and “just say WOMAN” despite the fact that 10 years ago that’s what they would’ve advocated for

wonder would could have possibly caused this change?!???????!!???!?!

#i promise saying pregnant people does not erase women because surprise surprise! WOMEN ARE PEOPLE #if you’re a pregnant woman then call yourself that. it is truly okay #anyways. hate the fact that people turned on body-descriptive language the moment that trans people used the real words to be more inclusive #uterus-haver doesn’t exclude women and terfs know that. they just don’t care

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youmakethelight · 1 month ago

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In case I thought twd fandom doesn't hate women, I just went on instagram to see a bunch of rick and negan smiling faces comments in response to a major twd account post that said negan (a rapist) is just a chill guy

#yeah its so great how forgiving twd fandom are you know you can literally rape multiple women and brutally murder someone in front of their #pregnant wife and as long as you dress cool and youre funny then youre forgiven #:)#but if youre a grey haired woman who ran into a cave bc you werent sleeping and couldnt think straight bc all 4 of ur children died brutall #well then fuck u #lying???? absolutely disgusting #no not forgiven not even bc you have ptsd over your dead daughter nope #but hahahahaha look at negan swinging his bat around isnt he endearing #twd fandom is TRASH #dont even think about urself as a twd fan if your favourite character is one of the women thats not a TRUE fan #and if its daryl ur not a true fan then either #its rick and only rick (and his little boyfriend oops who said that i mean BROTHER daryl)#TRUE FANS ONLY CARE ABOUT RICK #i hate it here #obviously this is sarcasm dont report me my favourite character is carol lol

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lexa-griffins · 2 years ago

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Oh God someone stop me from creating a full backstory for a amnesia au that popped up into my head!!!!😩