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dykedvonte · 21 days ago

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Ty for answering my asks! Recently, I saw some fanart of the gender bendered crew and it got me curios, how much would the plot change if Jimmy was a woman. I mean, she would still be emotionally abusive (esp to Fem!Curly), but at lest, I guess, the crash would've never happened (?)

Also, her relationship w/ Anya: if she was assulted still, it prolly would've been dissmissed, since it's between 2 women. Or, if Anya is male in this scenario, he couldn't really be able to talk abt it, since society decided that "women can't r*pe men", so it's not serious and he should suck it up. Man, it's just sucks to be Anya in any scenario my poor girl 😭

What do you think? If you have an opinion on that at all, that is

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I think the scenario's where the gender was flipped or any level of gender based intersectionality is expanded makes it so much more complex.

If this is the scenario with fem!Jimmy, it comes with the territory of questionable internalized homophobia. Does Jimmy brush it off in this scenario because she doesn't think lesbian encounters are real ones? Is she struggling with her identity and taking it out on Anya who may be openly queer compared a fem!Curly who is either straight or just not interested in Jimmy? Perhaps it's a sort of weird entitled that can occur in female dominated spaces "We're both girls, I know what you have, it won't matter." It's still is something I don't see Jimmy denying in this scenario, he never really denies it in canon just talks around it with Curly. Here I can see it's less about the pregnancy and more so about the internalized homophobia. Not seeing Anya as anything but an unwanted aspect of her femineity and the allure of it, there's a lot more objectification of both Curly and Anya in this alteration as I would believe feels better thinking of them in that light if they are just fodder in her mind. Guilty pleasures that no longer bring her such. It's a careful situation because I don't want this to fall into predatory lesbian stereotyping, Jimmy is just a person who does not respect other people or their choice, if it conflict with what he wants or perceived is owed.

The idea of Curly having to report it and outing her not only as a rapist but queer and the denial, especially in the case Anya and Curly are both out as she feels a sort of resentment she can't be secure with herself that way. If it is masc!Curly, there could be the jealousy of him being able to actively pursue relationships he wants while she feels she can't, Anya and Curly playfully flirt, its casual but it's something she longs for in the same way she doesn't. She obsesses over Curly because she wishes she could be Curly in a social sense in both aspect male or female Curly.

If it's fem!Jimmy and masc!Anya? It's a much more delicate situation. In this scenario Jimmy gets pregnant. Maybe Anya does a blood test after the incident and finds out Jimmy is pregnant. It's a very sensitive matter because if it's fem!Curly her first assumption is Anya may have done something. That is just the immediate assumptions in cases like this. I think the fact that Anya is telling her would make Curly think it's not that simple, especially since Jimmy isn't brining it up or really caring but everyone reacts differently. Jimmy is pregnant however, and that's a big deal, she'll figure that out eventually on her own but how will she react? Curly knows it won't be good, Anya knows too.

I think the crash is instigated in this scenerio by fem!Curly actually doing more, refusing to sweep it under the rug because she can conceptualize that fear, likely she and Jimmy are the only girls on board. She trusts everyone, well did trust everyone, but it's just something you live with. She can't just live with that double standard but I feel like she really doesn't know how to address it. How does she bring it up to superiors without implicating Anya? What does she do with Jimmy, it still feels like she's catering to Jimmy but now the concern is primarily focused on the life this baby will be born into. If it is born at all. I don't think Jimmy would try to kill Anya in this concept but try to spin the narrative it was mutual up until she got pregnant. Curly doesn't really buy it but it's a lot of processing, a lot more he said she said but what Jimmy is saying just doesn't make sense. It gives Jimmy too much time to really settle with the fact she's pregnant and likely can't support a kid nor wants to give birth out in space. Jimmy feeling like she's being othered from the only other woman could also be a factor, maybe even starting into her thinking Curly is behaving like a "pick-me" for siding with a guy over her. The crash is more spiteful in terms of having to protect herself alone, due to Curly not outright supporting her delusions.

It really adds a certain horror to Jimmy's pregnancy hallucinations because after the crash they are about her, her symptoms the sign of showing. She doesn't want the child either and considering what being pregnant can do to your mental/physical state, especially some of the more negative symptoms, I doubt she is handling it well. A lot of Anya's struggles are with the stigmas around male victims. His body reacted so did he want it? He's gonna be a father and courts likely will make him pay or care for the baby even if they take Anya's side, their world is just like that. Would the other's blame him for not doing more, he is a man after all? Should he be considered lucky a woman was that into him? It's eating away at him because not only does he not feel safe, he actively blames himself.

In the case Curly is still a cis guy, its that weird feeling guys often get when talking about male victims of assault. I don't think he'd victim blame but he likely asks or thinks about how it could've happened, why wouldn't Anya just overpower Jimmy? Maybe he couldn't? Maybe Anya didn't have it in him to strike a woman. He wouldn't. Now he thinks of what he would have done if Jimmy did something like that to him. SImilary to my trans!Curly post, he's wondering if it could've been him. It's likely one of the first times in his life he has to think of that type of vulnerability in terms of himself and other men and against likely his girl best friend. I think that arm pat right before Jimmy crashes the ship would really make him feel weird, not like he'd have the time to really dig into those feeling but y'know WERE GONNA CRASH!!!.

In terms of Jimmy and Curly's specific relationship, it just gets messier if they aren't both guys or girls. There's a lot of misogny on Jimmy's side with fem!Curly. He often points out she's a woman captain or makes a point of her being one of the few independent woman in her field and how certain men hate that. It's insidious but Curly doesn't think about or like to cause she likes to believe Jimmy isn't one of those guys. He can be a bit antiquated, maybe a bit of a pig but no ones perfect! Here a lot of his resentment is more gear toward a woman having that power over him as Captain/filling the typical male roles he fails at. He can't stand that she's above him in almost aspect and he likely takes it out on other women. Similarly, fem!Jimmy and cis Curly is just as bad. It's a fact of not knowing if she wants to be him, wants him or wants to destroy him. It's obsession without anything positive. She feels entitled to his space and life and time and he has a hard time setting up boundaries cause, well, Jimmy's a girl, his bestfriend and it comes with all the stigmas around boygirl best friends. To him it's a sort of oppressive doting, he feels wrong telling her not to pick and like he's being controlling. That's how she'd spin it whenever he'd try to make boundaries with her.

They are still just friends but most people can't tell even if they can tell it's not healthy, in both cases. Either way I feel like if they were opposite genders to each other there would a specific infatuation Jimmy would have with Curly that would be less hidden but sort of unaddressed because the idea of Curly rejecting them would make them lash out in a way Curly may just leave for their safety. It's also Jimmy wouldn't want to be with Curly specifically but just want what would consistently provide/available.

If they are both girls, its envy. It's that sort of hate that someone fits the standards you don't, wanting them to be picked second or crack. She likes to get into Curly's head, point out flaws and act like it's just her being helpful. She wants Curly to be a girls girl but only for her. There's a sort of possessiveness like purposely jeopardizing relationships because why would a man come first? That girl hates me and is a pick me, why are you friends with her still, Curly? Like this is silly but think about how Regina George treats Gretchen Wieners and that's effectively how fem!Curly and fem!Jimmy would work but technically Curly has the sway of Regina.

I believe the crash would always happen. Jimmy would try to escape responsibility or really thinking about what they did in any world, any gender. It's about facing the consequences, losing things he refuses to let go of or having to deal with responsibilities he's not ready for. The switching of sex or gender really doesn't change those core aspects.

#this is long cause theres so many ideas to play with here and how jimmy and Curly would work but the specifc things happening with Anya #like if she wasnt pregnant thats a relief but its the sort of situation where she has to think about her own sexuality in the scenerio shes #queer and how Jimmy affect her. Its addressing it with Curly who may get it but maybe she gets it too much maybe its hard to hear about Jim #cause for all she knew Jimmy was straight and now she has to think of all the odd conversations and nights they shared beds and maybe #feelings she had but she has to focus on putting Anya first but what does she do? Outing someone is bad but this can be dismmised?#Would the pony express just punish both anya and jimmy and curly what if theres a dont ask dont tell policy? what if they dont care cause #they are all women. its not an issue if its just girls not getting along after “experimenting”. Back to male Anya and female Jimmy they wil #assume it was consensual and anya just doesnt want the kid often that is pushed on male rape narratives. Jimmy is pregnant and on edge #does Curly also have to factor in the child? I feel like the feast scene would be Jimmy delusionally thinking Curly is helping support the #child i mean he is the most well off the bread winner he puts food on the table he is the food! Would polle being Anya talk about how Jimmy #doesnt have it in her to foster a child to support one emotionally without damage? Why so focused on making Curly the idealized male #or provider in her life when she went after him? For female Curly is it envy that she did this to herself and Curly has even more prospects #than her now? What if Anya was fawning because he didn't want the kid but hated the idea of Jimmy killing it to spite him? Or perhaps using #it as a means of control because even if he doesn't want it i doubt he wants it to be punished or abused. It is a burden something no one #wanted but it is being fostered five months in and Jimmys showing a bump and Anya cant ignore all the implications of it being born to her #maybe he kills himself to avoid living in a world its subjected to that pain to to save himself from it. GOD the pills with Curly are worse #for male Anya fem!Curly because its so much more direct he cant shove something down a womans throat who is clearly unwilling it makes #him feel like Jimmy to watch her struggle against him and he cant do it and with Jimmy it is so much more direct about a mother feeding #theri child and abusing it like the nuance if any gender flipping was canon would tear this fandom apart now imma thinking crazy about this #thanks skull anon like really ur asks get me thinking #mouthwashing #mouthwashing game #💀 anon #ask #curly mouthwashing #jimmy mouthwashing #captain curly #nurse anya #anya mouthwashing

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thorndrool · 13 days ago

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Crusty phone pic. Quote is by me also lol

#my art #traditional art #mouthwashing #captain curly #curly mouthwashing #polle mouthwashing #polle the pony #polle #curly #holding that cartoon horse like he is the virgin mary and polle is baby jesus #im still thinking about the ultrasound scene and whatnit says about jimmys mental state to attribute the pregnancy to curly #and not anya . the woman he assaulted. idk bro!#anyway quote is mine also i just think jimmy is like many rapists #objectifying and using women because as is the case with a large percentage of the sexually violent: they dont care or often know if-#their victim is pregnant. its “none of their business”#use the quote whatever if it resonates but i wanted to elaborate bc my friend thought it was from somewhere #mouthwashing fanart #mouthwashing curly

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yuridovewing · 5 months ago

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i understand the frustration with “i made this gay pairing cis x trans so they can still have biological babies” with no thought to other methods and how ppl assume thats the case when it comes to mothpool aus where mothwing is also the mother of the three, but also…. idk i kinda dont give a shit if someone wants to do that and i dont really think its inherently transphobic as long as its handled with care and respect.

what really concerns me about this debate is how some people are adamant that you cannot portray trans people having biological children in media or youre being disrespectful. and im gonna say as a nonbinary person who doesnt want children for themself- thats kinda fucking weird? like i understand that for some people, theyre trans themselves and theyre speaking from a place of dysphoria, and i absolutely get that, which is why i think the topic should be handled with nuance and diversity in trans characters, but like…. guys. pregnant trans men exist irl. trans women get people pregnant irl. trans ppl’s ability and right to parent and have biological children are being debated irl. we get denied the opportunity to adopt as well.

in a climate like this, are we SURE we want the stance on rewrites and headcanons in the silly cat books to be “if you portray trans characters having children, especially with a gay couple, youre a transphobic freak no matter what!” does it really matter? especially if its being done by a trans person handling the topic with nuance who has a lot of trans characters with varying perspectives?

obviously yes, remember that thats not the only way certain gay couples can have kids, remember that not every trans person is fully comfortable with it and keep that in mind, remember that surrogacy and adoption are also perfectly valid ways to give fan babies- but remember that there are OPTIONS. not that you need to condemn the idea of transgender parents in the first place unless they fit the very specific criteria of “proper transgender representation” and anything that dares deviate from that is proof the op is a transphobic monster (bonus points if theyre a trans creator bc i mostly see trans people getting shit for this and it kinda pisses me off. although idm if cis people do it either as long as theyre handling it with respect)

#and this isnt getting into how trans mothwing outside of mothpool is a really good way to read her character #sorry. remembered the shit bonefall got despite being trans as well and got annoyed #that especially annoys me bc hes got plenty of surrogacies but the second hed touch a trans pregnancy #‘’no you cant do that!!! you freak!!! obviously you only see trans people as a loophole for gays to have babies!!!’’#also my gf and i were talking and obviously take this with a grain of salt bc this is our experience #but…. i think a lot of the ppl saying this……. havent really talked to trans women?#dude some of the ones i know LOVE the idea of getting people pregnant #did you know trans women have sex? did you know trans people in general have sex?? did you know trans people irl wanna start families?#did you know that? did you? or do you black out at the idea of a trans woman being anything but strictly pure and nonsexual #and OBVIOUSLY this is not every trans woman. some do have dysphoria around the idea #but im genuinely starting to wonder how these people act around irl transgender parents #whether they had kids before or after coming out #bc ngl. the attitude that thinking about this makes you a transphobic pervert?#directed at trans people making content for themselves?#im starting to think you all just dont want us to reproduce. if we reproduce we arent ‘’good’’ trans people #because a ‘’real’’ man wouldnt carry a child. a ‘’real’’ woman would carry the child. and god forbid the gays even THINK about reproducing #and being around children!#if we have children then we’re doing things that might make cishets look at us and declare we’re not perfect #we’ve proved we’re not just identical to cis ppl!! (and therefore deserving of respect!)#idk. i think this was mostly a case of tumblr going ‘’oh someone said no to this so lets push this to an unhealthy extreme!!’’#and i cant help but notice nobody really brings up nonbinary parents at all in this discussion #not that we have it ‘’better’’ or anything for that but yknow. are we supposed to swear it off?#is the idea of us having kids inconcievable? or worse…. does it mean we ‘’picked a side?’’#so its not even worth getting mad at a pregnant nb person bc ‘’well thats a woman so who cares’’b #HMMMMM.#ohhhh i bet they also get mad if you make transfem pregnancy possible too. no winning #idk really think about it when you go ‘’you can NEVER EVER portray a trans person starting a family. bc REAL trans people would never.’’#ohhh you probably get mad when trans ppl dont get surgery for one reason or another dontcha #whether we want to or its not in the cards for us for whatever reason like cost and such #(while also getting mad if we do bc we cannot win in this no matter what)

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kithj · 1 month ago

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the quiet place game sucks ass, they really said how many misogynistic tropes can we shove into one game? and didn't wait for an answer

#even in the apocalypse all women are good for is just having babies #OR they can be the overbearing bitch mother in law who hates her son's gf and only cares about baby. good job team!#woman can only become strong for baby. before that she's useless #also the gameplay just sucks its so boring you can go almost 30min of playtime without encountering anything at all #but ugly ai posters lol #shame bc i do think this could be a good concept for a stealth game. but. they didnt even do that part right #anyways the trope of 'wow.... pregnant in the apocalypse... let's name her Hope' is one of my least favorite of all time #getting pregnant is like worst case scenario. it's a horror story. but they're always like wow....... how beautiful............#nevermind the woman is going to have 0 access to any kind of natal care and will probably die #already malnourished and ill and now you have to carry a baby too.... stupid stupid stupid lol #this whole storyline is just so tired and unimaginative. abort that thang

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catsithkelpie · 3 months ago

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"If you hate them, draw them pregnant" ☑Technically true, but missing something

"If you love your trans gf, make her oc pregnant"✅ Yes, very nice. Gender euphoria

@lilac-the-void-pup @astronomical-jam

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audriandae · 10 months ago

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idk if this has been said much or anything but i feel like some people who want to become parents kinda forget that theyre not just getting a baby. theyre getting a baby thats gonna grow into a toddler into a child into a tween and a teenager and an adult and parenting doesnt stop once your kid stops being 'a kid'.

and parenting is a lot more than people think it is. like youre committing yourself to take care of a whole new person. and you're responsible for that whole new person for their whole life- parenting that person maybe stops when they move out or whatever but its not like all ties are cut yknow. you may not be actively involved in every moment of your child's life, you may not be making decisions for them and such, but you're still their touchstone in this world

and what does parenting even mean like its not just giving them a house to live in and food to eat its also taking their emotional needs into account its also taking care of their physical health its also teaching them how to be a person. and everything and anything you say to your kid is The Law. if you make a joke about eating the seeds of a watermelon making a tree grow inside them theyre gonna think that's true. and if you offhandedly comment on something in a negative way theyll take it to heart and holy shit i could go on forever.

there's so much. and some people are aware of the muchness they're getting into when they decide to have a baby. but most people arent i think, and that needs to change

#parenting #i guess that tag makes sense to use???#random thoughts #but also not that random #parenting is more than you sign up for #sincerely a 'child'#im saying this as someone who's technically responsible for themself but is still being parented if that makes sense #but i was on public transport and there was a pregnant woman looking over at this mom and her toddler #and i think she was looking at me too but i cant be sure #and idk if she was thinking about how long she'd have to take care of her kid or anything #but i started thinking and this came out #tldr parenting is hard and people should know what theyre getting into

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arttsuka · 6 months ago

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Just something that's been bothering me. What's up with the whitewashing in trigun stampede?

Somehow the 1998 version had more diversity in skin colors than the 2023 version

#I don't like being negative in fandom spaces because people come here to have fun not fight #but I feel like tristamp had way too many problems and I don't really see people talk about them?#I understand that people like it for it's good parts (I do too) but I feel like the negatives outweigh the positives?#I didn't like the changes in the personalities of the main cast. I didn't like how Millie wasn't there #I didn't like the pacing (why do we have to be invested in that one pregnant woman in the beginning? she never even shows up again)#the models were ok (but I strongly dislike these 'skinny' pieces of technology. that's a personal preference tho)#the animation was pretty stellar (the camera movement too)#these weird incest-y undertones creeped me out(I don't know if it was intentional but some people in the fandom definitely took it that way)#anyway #don't come after me #just expressing my opinion #I still really like trigun. stampede just wasn't the one for me #thank god I decided to watch the 1998 version first #trigun #not art #talking about this a whole year after I watched it who cares #delete later #maybe

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buck-yyyy · 7 months ago

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wild how for so many years feminists fought to have people say the words they mean with reference to reproductive health, like saying vagina or uterus out loud, and now if you use those words in a gender-neutral way to describe reproductive health you’ll have people at your fucking throat yelling about how women are getting erased by these terms and “just say WOMAN” despite the fact that 10 years ago that’s what they would’ve advocated for

wonder would could have possibly caused this change?!???????!!???!?!

#i promise saying pregnant people does not erase women because surprise surprise! WOMEN ARE PEOPLE #if you’re a pregnant woman then call yourself that. it is truly okay #anyways. hate the fact that people turned on body-descriptive language the moment that trans people used the real words to be more inclusive #uterus-haver doesn’t exclude women and terfs know that. they just don’t care

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lexa-griffins · 1 year ago

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Oh God someone stop me from creating a full backstory for a amnesia au that popped up into my head!!!!😩

#ignoreme.jpg #the wheels are turning everything makes sense oh no #a grief stricken Lexa by the death of her fiancee who has this hatred for anything love and family related #waking up in a hospital bed married and /pregnant/#and Clarke is everything she doesnt like - far too touchy far too caring far too needy of being needed #and the baby fucking hell even when she was with Costia they decided they didnt want kids HOW is she pregnant #far enough along to feel it move too and she went from being a fit mid-20s girl #to a pregnant early 30's woman and this damn body doesnt feel like her own #she doesnt recognize the woman in the white dress smiling next to her wife who is this full of life and love Lexa?#her mind is still in a deep grieving state for a woman who has been dead for over 7 years now #and replaced by Clarke who seems to optimist about her Lexa coming back but to Lexa 'her lexa' does not exist its not who she is #Lexa's plan now is deliver this baby - for all she cares shes nothing but a surrogate at this time - leave it with Clarke and disappear #she's so determinate she doesnt tell Clarke when her memory slowly starts to come back - not enough for her to be who she was before #but its returning slowly #although the day she remembers them trying to get pregnant and how excited she was is the day she realizes she cant just leave the baby #but then.... what about clarke?#bye

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theyreinsensibleshoes · 17 days ago

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im so scared. i'm so so so fucking scared.

#i havent been super active lately but im having very intense anxiety attacks about last night and i think the best course of action for me #rn is not engaging with anything political until i can calm down #so im signing off for awhile until the dust settles a bit #im trying to tell myself i have enough privilege that im gonna be ok because i feel like selfishness is the only thing thats gonna get me #thru this since i genuinely cannot save the lives of every gazan trans person pregnant woman latino immigrant etc #but unfortunately unlike the rest of this country i was born with care about other people disorder #im also trying to tell myself that social progress always prevails because it does in fact always do #so even if it takes lots of dirty work and it wont happen in my lifetime it will one day come thru #so yeah those are my thoughts.... see ya'll a bit later

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echidnana · 24 days ago

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honestly thinking more about mouthwashing and how badly every one failed anya. especially curly

#like. the way jimmy didnt even see her as a person but as proof of his wrongdoing #which he didnt even see as “wrong” only as consequence #like the baby horror sequences. he did not care aout anya at all only of the evidence of his crimes #and the way anya only told anyone (curly) about the assault because she was pregnant #and knew that jimmy was going to react violently #and the way curly did literally nothing tangible to help anya #after she trusted him. and he said he would do anything to help her #while not even bothering to protect her in any way #because he believed jimmy was a “good guy” while knowing he assaulted a woman #and boy curly sure did suffer for it!#thinking about how “take responsibility” means different things for jimmy and curly.#for jimmy “taking responsibility” is about heing punished for the things he did #and for curly “taking responsibility” is about helplessly witnessing the events he allowed to unfold #through his inaction #thinking about how swansea suspected what was up with jimmy but his first instinct was to protect daisuke. not anya #and how daisuke just didnt know what was going on. and was unaware of the dynamics between the crew.#or rather than being unaware was possibly trying not to think about it #because he jad to have noticed anya withdrawing. jimmy's odd behavior. the severity of the situation #and he remained oblivious because he could #because he was in a position where he was not targeted by jimmy and he had swansea looking out for him #anya didnt have either things #anya was the most vulnerable person on that ship from the beginning and was successfully taken advantage of #and hurt time and time again #not to say curly deserved what hapkened to him but.#being forced to witness the consequence of his inaction while completely unable to do anything but literally witness it #is like a poetic fate #confluence.txt

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ihamtmus · 11 months ago

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#so i have covid #for the FIRST time since this pandemic started i can't believe it :((#i must have gotten it from someone at work :/ everyone kept coughing last week #and i felt sick for the last few days #and since several elderly people and a pregnant woman were supposed to go to my sister's for christmas just like me #i decided to take one of those fast tests from the pharmacy #i know they are not 100% accurate but still #i am SO glad that i was careful and didn't go to help out with the cooking as i had planned #because the pregnant woman was there and i wanted to be as careful as i could #so i didn't see her thank God #but now i have to spend christmas sick and alone #my sister will bring me some food so there's that at least #i think this is fitting at least seeing the state of the world #this is not the year we should celebrate christmas as we always do #so there's that #my post #personal

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cowardlycowboys · 11 months ago

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GOT CALLED A PASSAGER PRINCESS 😭😭😭😭

#omg kiera no one cares #IS TRUE BUT STILL 😭 I TRIED DRIVING IS JUST SO SCARY I CAN'T DO IT 😭😭#i hit a pregnant womans husband's car and even tho they were so nice about it i haven't done it since

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lovelyrotter · 1 year ago

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yknow i think a lot of the really far-gone transfemme vs transmasc people who still play by the 6th grade milquetoast "trans women are targeted way more than trans men cause femininity is bad and masculinity is good In Our Society, so trans men get free acceptability passes" feminism forget that trans men/transmascs started life. as. little girls. we were mistaken, from birth, for baby girls. and we were raised by our parents to believe that we were little girls.

a lot of trans men and transmascs then grew up to be teenaged girls

a lot of trans men and transmascs were adult women too

and for a while we *believed* we were girls and women. some of us even WISHED we were girls and women (points at myself). and much more importantly, we were continually seen as girls and women. a lot of the time, we are STILL seen as girls and women, even with full fuckin beards and baritone voices. especially if we need to go to any kind of medical professional. this is what our free acceptability pass looks like?

its just so much more nuanced than these 'boys vs girls' people ever seem to care to think about. even binary trans folks dont have the same sense of cisgendered binary that cis people do. we literally cross from one fake end of the fake-binary to the other. thats where the trans in transgender comes from. i dont know how some other trans folks seem to forget that?? i don't know how, somewhere along the line, we forgot that trans men and transmascs also directly suffer under misogyny?

#my t #sorry for more gender based griping i saw smth on twitter that reminded me of this.#the bright spots of Little Girl euphoria i had in my childhood were rare and beautiful. i refuse to forget them.#my perception of myself i had as a child is important to me.#possibly in a different way to others because. yknow. i am plural.#and plural folks have a different brain and sense of understanding of themselves that singlets wont have. its just a neurological differenc #but my little girl self is an important part of my present day adult man self.#and looking at the adult trans men in my system who are still under my care today-#the little girls they were - however fucking briefly - are still important to me and to them too.#and i fully understand that a lot of other trans folks cannot think of themselves this way #but trans mens experiences of being mistaken for little girls are as important as trans womens experiences being mistaken for little boys #we are all trapped in the same systemic cycle of gender-based abusive conditioning.#really we just have to do away with assigning gender to baby bits completely. its weird.#trans men are either eternally confused women or just invisible #and crushed under the weight of maintaining a cis-man image.#i mean for fucks sake #my partner system and us have been talking about having a kid for ages #if i were to get pregnant i'd just have to accept the fact that i have to masquerade around as a woman for 9 months.#because there is NOTHING for pregnant transmascs.#nothing.#there aren't even a lot of gender neutral options for maternity clothing.#even the term 'maternity' denotes femininity and motherhood.#paternity clothing isn't a thing that exists for me for look forward to or even mildly worry about.#and i'm just talking about a *planned* pregnancy involving a trans man. what do yall think happens to transmascs with unwanted pregnancies.#what a privileged life i lead as a no-op no-hrt trans man. big cishet loves me because i am obviously exactly like a cis man now #just want people to stop infighting and being stupid tbh.#breaking: bro strider fictive gets really fuckin pressed about gender and systemic abuse again!

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hotchocolatelovesyou · 1 year ago

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Honestly man, I just wanna go home

#i literally (and i cannot stress this enough) do not care #wolf bride #wolf bride choices #wb choices #playchoices #also like there is a pregnant woman right in the middle of danger so u know #maybe she SHOULD go home

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black-salt-cage · 7 months ago

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I've got a couple more chapters of squirrelflight's hope left, and it ALMOST made me a bramblestar hater but it seems he's come back to his senses at the end. however, I am now a sworn hater of tiger(heart)star and dovewing

#dovewing really went “well thunderclan just acts like they know better than everyone else and they suck” judging them as if she didn't #boink another clan's deputy. like I wouldn't even care if she wasn't being a bitch about it #like oh so it's okay when YOU OUTRIGHT break the warrior code but thunderclan doesn't wanna harass a pregnant woman? how DARE they #the warrior code is super important til you don't got fuckin superpowers anymore then it's the woe is me thing #*look at tigerstar* AND DON'T THINK YOU'RE EVEN SLIGHTLY INNOCENT YOU LIL CLONE #starclan shoulda let you stay dead #talk tag #Shio.txt

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