#Personalized Mother’s Rings
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why does so much of mel discourse on this site centre on to what measure she did or did not manipulate jayce like that's the extent of her complexity and grey morality, as if she has not directly and indirectly been contributing to the opression of zaun not because she's prejudiced or hates them but simply because she profits from it, like i am so sorry my queen that they don't get you like i get you
#arcane#mel medarda#ella originals#in fact i do think it's soooo interesting that mel being an immigrant didn't really grow up with the ingrained prejudice like most piltovan#(it's cait's lines in her first ever scene--she's not at all malicious it's just a part of her worldview that the undercity is dangerous)#(and that's not something she ever grows out of which is such a huge fail for the show but that's a discussion for another time)#mel doesn't hate zaunites or anything she just doesn't care#she is a kind and compassionate person but all that is hyperfocused on directly opposing her mother's violent imperialism#and not in the sense of well the price in blood to be extracted for our advancement is too much and not worth it#but the advancement--progress if you will--can be accomplished through avenues other than violent imperialism and expansionism so it's fine#and it doesn't matter to her that those other means are just as bloody and that it's very much NOT FINE#it's such a fascinating contradiction and a blind spot and i am SO ANGRY s2 made her a wizard instead of exploring it#a zaunite revolution could have had her whole world collapsing around her#WE WERE ON OUR WAY#IT WAS ALREADY HAPPENING WITH THE BRIDGE MASSACRE THAT'S WHY SHE ORIGINALLY SUPPORTED ZAUNITE INDEPENDENCE#because the blood she's been spilling finally came to flood her door too and she had to face the fact that she was not so different from he#mother at all that's why she took off her ring before she cast her vote#and we could've gone so much further with that i wanted to see everything this woman believed she knew about herself collapse around her#i wanted DRAMA and EXPLORATION and CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT#anyway this got away from me but my point was i see so many people acting as if the reason mel's morally grey is bc she manipulated jayce#as if she's not actively profiting off of violent oppression of zaunites#in case it was somehow unclear none of this is me being anti-mel i adore my queen with all my heart
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Elrond: Ya know, I didn't understand that whole love thing until I met Celebrian.
Galadriel: Stop talking or you lose your tongue.
#Elrond. my guy. wrong person to talk about your crush to.#maybe not her mother next time. or her dad.#maybe try Gil-Galad or Celebrimbor next time.#lotr#lord of the rings#incorrect lord of the rings quotes#silmarillion#incorrect silmarillion quotes#incorrect quotes#elrond#lotr elrond#elrond peredhel#celebrian#lotr celebrian#galadriel#lotr galadriel
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Commentary on religious "redemption" in Soulsborne
To think of it, the rebirths magic used by Rosaria and Rennala, and more particularly people becoming addicted to it and getting corrupted by it gradually, is a very clever satire on the Christians that can't understand their own darn religion?
And, yeah, I know:
But fdhdfshfds I mean like, the sentiment of being "born anew" and furthermore believing that they could basically conjure up atonement and be "purified" upon request, instead of putting actual effort in change and fixing consequences of their actions, if it applies.
Both man-grubs addicted to being reborn by Rosaria and juvenile scholars addicted to Rennala's amber egg (which is still a piece of Golden Order) grow weaker with each next rebirth. The time spans between rebirth grow shorter and shorter after each next one, meanwhile effects grow more and more detrimental rather than beneficial. And, just.. doesn't it all sound awfully familiar?
The first experience of being "purified" and starting over as new, better person is REALLY great. It feels like finding true peace of mind, feels like a bliss, you are full of hope and it is like your sins and suffering got left behind and were like a bad dream, right? But over time, the truth, the deeply ingrained flaws you didn't truly work on, and the rot of this world start to creep in, and you are becoming put back to the "worse" version of yourself that you had hoped you cast away. And you don't want to lose that sense of bliss and being good, so you seek it again. It can feel like you are able to start fresh again for a while. And then again, and again, and before you know it you become just a pitiful parody of that initial experience. It becomes frantic and very quickly changing cycle of "being bad again", and then "casting that sin aside" by praying and moving on, instead of genuine long term effort of fixing what you did (or working on this flaw).
I guess man-grubs are for sure a more plain reflection out of the two? Grubs that will never curl up and become butterflies! In the very same game, there are 'Angels' that sprout from within hollowed humans' Darkness, even against their will!
They, on the contrary, can reflect losing faith to the point of truly finding it, if you see what I mean. Symbolic of becoming so lost in hopelessness, confusion, sins, mistakes and suffering that in the end it becomes faith for its own sake, without any tangible or perceived benefit. The more conscious variant of it, the Angelic Faith, is more like comprehension that blessing is to not wash all your "filth" away but to seek God within it. Not to get too personal here, but it is something I can understand too; I remember feeling SO drowning in my critical flaws and wrongdoings that I thought "damn, only God can truly love the rot and shit that I am fr" and.. it gave me more peace of mind than it sound, to be deadly honest.
Of course, either concept is not a supplement for real growth and effort, but one is deliberately trying to cheat truth and fate and another is unfortunate result of being driven to your lowest by either the world or yourself.
Interestingly enough, Rennala's unity with the Golden Order started with the similar concept of cheating fate.. Celestial Dew doesn't raise the dead back to living or rebuilds the broken things, however, it does do something with your mind. It makes me wonder whether her own attachment to the Amber Egg is not just for the sake of clinging to all that was left of her marriage, but also for the sake of recollection of that feeling where everyone left tormented with the Liurnian war just "forgave and forgot". The scholars are being reborn "fresh and pure", there is still accent on casting away the "filth"
In any case.. I think Fromsoft are just trying to say that if you want to become a better version of yourself, you really should accept that simply washing all your sins, pain, grudges and flaws down the drain won't work and instead you should either work for it (if improvement is possible) or salvage what you can (if improvement is impossible).
#dark souls#dark souls 3#rosaria mother of rebirth#elden ring#rennala queen of the full moon#dark souls observation#elden ring observation#soulsborne#I started to think about it because of that 'bliss' I've experienced recently#Like... I reflected on how I genuinely felt like a better person. like phoenix raising from its own ash#don't feel hatred or grudges or pain currently at least not significantly..#and I thought how nice it would be to just do this on command. to shed the skin that grew bad like a snake.#and then I realised it would become addicting and replacement for actual healing so- here we are lol
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Sometimes I think about how Miquella literally threw away all aspects of what he once was, INCLUDING his Grace. We see that from his character model his eyes are gray, which means he's Graceless.
You could view this action in two ways:
1. Miquella was so confident in his plan that he deemed nothing would stop him at this point, and since he's going to start his own order anyways, he doesn't need grace anymore (not expecting our Tarnished to come flying from the bleachers with a steel chair)
2. Miquella was so desperate to show he was atoning for Marika's sins, and was so desperate to succeed, that he threw away his Grace in the hopes it would help him ascend, danger or no
It's really up to the player to decide which one they think is more likely.
Either way, when we kill him...he's dead dead. There's no coming back for him; he doesn't get placed in the Erdtree and his soul will never be reincarnated. Which is...really, really sad, imo. Not only did he sacrifice everything, he FINALLY achieved his goal, and then we kill him right out the gate and...it's over.
That's it. That's all that Miquella will have done or will ever do. His legacy is an unfinished one, even when he finally got the power to finish it all.
#no one asked but i personally think its option 2#because miquellas whole story is a tragedy so its pretty fitting#imagine it#the world is dying; basically dead. miquella is literally in the hell marika created#both figuratively with his curse and literally in the shattering and the land of shadow#miquella couldnt save godwyn. he couldnt save malenia. he couldnt acend via the haligtree. and caelid is now a wasteland because of him#the world will keep suffering without him. his mother will keep suffering without him. malenia will keep suffering without him.#in his mind only he can fix everything#what else can he do?#so he abandons everything. his fear. his doubts. his love. his grace#all in the hopes he can finally make everything better.#for a kinder world.#thats my interpretation at least#elden ring#elden ring dlc#elden ring shadow of the erdtree#elden ring sote#miquella the kind#elden ring miquella#elden ring tarnished#elden ring lore#elden ring lore discussion#miquella the unalloyed#er
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Yeah I like the headcanon that the Carian sorcery sword was his. Have some sketches about it 🗡️✨
#do i like the thought that what he experienced in the finger ruins changed his mind to the point of leaving it all behind? yes. yes i do.#im just saying we only know about one person who taught Rellana and she's known for one specific thing#he must have had some sorcery catalyst prior to making his staff to emulate Metyr#he's hot... like.... yeah he's hot idk what else to tell you about this#devon yaps#elden ring#count ymir#elden ring shadow of the erdtree#my work#elden ring dlc#shadow of the erdtree#elden ring sote#sote#elden ring art#elden ring fanart#elden ring headcanons#ymir mother of fingers#ymir elden ring#count ymir elden ring
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You don’t realize how much progress you’ve made in therapy and executive dysfunction management until you have to help your middle aged parents (undiagnosed audhd and autism respectively) get ready for your sister’s wedding in a few days and realise they have absolutely no time management or organizational skills except for shouting and panicking
#me and waffles’ childhood was way more dysfunctional than I thought#dad’s over here having an adhd meltdown over not being able to locate a suit bag that possibly never existed#mother somehow thoguht she didn’t need to wear ANY jewelry to her eldest daughter’s wedding#I have somehow located a suit bag and lent mother pearl earrings AND located her diamond ring#while visiting from two continents away#personal#being more of an adult than your parents (who resist insight because of internalized ableism) is sobering#my post
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Heya, I'm guessing you didn't see this when it happened:
https://www.tumblr.com/badjokesbyjeff/758144861510762496/el-shab-hussein-heritageposts-you-and-your-team?source=share
Re: "verification" which is clearly not actual verification, meaning either the verifier is doing a laughably bad job, or is in on it.
Donating to actual aid organizations like WCK, PCRF and Anera is always a better idea than random people on social media.
Wowza that is something alright. And there’s still people in the comments defending them I.. media literacy is dead my god.
#my mother used to mess with scammers using similar methods scammers would use#it’s so easy to fake anything online these days#I saw one where someone messaged someone on IG to check if they were legit#and the person gave very short bot like replies#but they said they were that person so it must be legit!#not a ring of scammers or one person with several fake accounts#ok this is the actual last ask I’m answering on it#this one couldn’t rot in my inbox
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i am not sorry for the Carmine reblogs, she has fully taken over my brain at this point.
A mixture of her being so unhinged and neurodivergent that it feels like she was made for me to like her and her very unfortunate dynamic with her little brother make her a character that I was just made to get attached to.
I want to study her under a microscope and get her help with the Kieran stuff, I want to make things worse between the two siblings, I want them to blow up at each other in a way that will make them unable to reconcile, because she failed to do everything right for her brother, because he took everything so personally and lashed out, because the two just can't fit together nicely, they're just not made for that. no matter how hard she tries to be a perfect sister, no matter how much she cares about him, I want things to go so wrong between the two. I want the pain to be so gut-wrenching it tears them appart.
but I also want them to reconcile; in another world things could be saved. carmine could recognize the way she acts hurts her little brother that she loves so dearly, she could try to reach out to him and be better, and he could accept it and they'd be able to rebuild things together.
it's a tale of two siblings that struggle to coexist. Carmine's technically the one in the wrong because she hurts Kieran, but she doesn't intend to. she struggles to realise how he feels an just tries to do it her way because she's the older sibling and knows best. she loves him and wants only the best for him, that's why she made the player lie to him, but it backfired alomst immediately.
she failed and that's the real problem. now let's hope that the Indigo Disk lets them reconcile (in a satisfying way)
#morningtalks#pokemon#carmine#rival carmine#trainer carmine#pokemon carmine#yeah I am a younger sibling#with a very weird relationship to my older sister#she's 9 years older than me and went through So Much terrible stuff in our family#constant fights between our mother and father plus also our grandparents and our grandparents with our mother#same father who was an alcoholic and really not the best person even though he cared in his way#abuse in even more sordid ways from our uncle aunt and cousin#and she took it out on the one person she could: me#I got to deal with quite a lot of stuff she went through. kinda like a continuation of the cycle of abuse that chokes our family#so Carmine's treatment of Kieran feels so mild compared to my stuff but it rings bells
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she eld on my ring till all of my children are born accursed and i start tossing them into the sewers forever and shit
#mohg this mohg that i wanna talk about morgott in a post-hornsent world#duuuuuuude. oh my god. everybody look at the man who's taken on the role of his own torturer once his parents were no longer around to fill#the role! whose stigmatisation and self-hatred was all borne from his mother's personal grudges!#the hornsent are right you gotta watch out for that fucking spiral dude#elden ring
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once again haunted by the boostle soulmate au
#not one that actually exists#but the one that lives in my head#soulmates as a tool of propaganda in the 25th century#a piece of propaganda that booster is so into but his sister and mother loathe#a piece of propaganda he can't cling to when he is convicted of a crime because again the 25th century does eugenics#a piece of propaganda that he steals along with a robot and a time machine and a ring#a piece of propaganda that doesn't exist in the 20th century#a piece of propaganda that leads booster to the wrong person time and time again#a piece of propaganda that does eventually lead to ted kord#a piece of propaganda he has to unlearn to truly grieve and move on#and once he lets go of soulmates only then does he have a second chance at a meaningful romance with ted#it's about the removal of personhood through the enforcement of heteronormativity
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preliminary thoughts on be my favorite (because i really do think this show deserves involved analysis not a few scribbled notes): but the complexity!!! a show that respects its viewers. there was no miscommunication trope, just people hurting other people because of decisions they made even after careful deliberation. but no amount of careful deliberation can change the impact your choices have on other people’s lives. kawi and pisaeng’s tough conversation at the end of this episode left me in tears because it recognizes exactly just that, how hard it is to be someone among others at all. no matter how many times he’s traveled back and forth between past and present, no matter how many calculated choices and variables fixed, kawi can’t find an optimal timeline where everyone will be happy. everyone has their own demons to confront, pearmai has to learn to deal with her mother as well as accept kawi and pisaeng getting together, kwan has to disentangle her complex relationship to not, not has to become an actual adult and not the manchild he currently is.
one step in the right direction doesn’t fix everyone else’s journey. kawi is not the main character of life.
#be my favorite#someone somewhere needs to draw a comparison with moonlight chicken because the themes Are There#i do have a bone to pick with the bl penchant to paint the mother as the one to leave the family for personal and career success#as it doesn't ring very true to reality where fathers tend to be the ones doing that usually#but that's just media in general bcuz portraying complexity in motherhood makes it 'about gender' or 'about motherhood' and not just#a 'neutral' story /s#anygays i am hoping the show will tie it up more neatly by the end#love pearmai a normal amount#bl.txt
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you need to read this if you haven't (on arthur's [mother's] ring)
#I've seen it mentioned before that arthur's ring belonged to his mother but#I thought it might've been mentioned by bradley in an interview or something#maybe a personal headcanon of his#but no you can actually see it in the show#so it's 100% canon. I love this so much#merlin meta#ygraine#arthur pendragon#arthur's ring#merlin
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#i had a scream inside of me all day clawing at my insides and ringing in my teeth#on account of the being treated like complete and utter meaningless garbage by the person who had touched my soul with his bare hands#and i went to rehearsal in tears and in terror and do you know what that scream did?#it made its way out as big belly laughs at my funny friends#things are so fucking bad but i can still laugh and i can still make people laugh#and my mother promises with 100% certainty that i will be okay and in fact be good and happy and fulfilled
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5.0 TCW Slanted Marquise Diamond Band 14K Solid White Gold Promise Band For Her Engagement Band Anniversary Gift eternity band wedding band

#diamond ring#engagement ring#personalized jewelry#jewellery#explore#gold rings#jewelry#vintage jewelry#fine jewelry#vintage rings#anniversary gifts#birthday gift#gift for wife#gift for her#mothers day gift#gift ideas#christmas gift#unique gifts#small business#handmade
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New nightmare unlocked: finding more and more spelling errors that werent therw before everytime i read through a text, i edit them out, and after I've submitted it i find more spelling errors.
#also had a much scarier nightmare the ring style where a demon kills you and takes over your body when you save an attachment they send you#woke up from it only for there to be literally one minute left before my alarm went off#like the whole time theres this person that people are trying to find and when they finally get a hold of them it turns out that they have#invited a demon into there house#it was making its way through a child friend group in the background while the adults were trying to solve a mystery#and when they finally get rid of it (their son is dead only his friend survived) oops no it just moved to that friends mother and shell have#to live this all over again and probably not survive#waking up to the feeling of fear is fucking awful#i do forsee the editing dream to be reoccurring tho
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If the reboot goes ahead, and SMG plays an older, wiser Buffy who shows up a few times to give advice and encouragement to the new Buffy (named after her, of course), I hope they keep her romantic life as vague as possible. The original Buffy didn't want to know too much (if anything) about Giles' dating history, or her own mother's, and why should the new one?
I hope the most we get about the last twenty years of our Buffy's life are some scattered hints that she's in a long-term relationship with somebody who used to be a vampire -- "a vampire with a soul?" the show's new Buffy can scoff -- but who became human again "decades ago" after fulfilling the terms of an ancient prophecy. I hope they have the original Buffy let slip that she met her partner when she was a high school student, but it took her a while to realize that they were the one. That they used to be evil but have since reformed and help her fight against evil and save the world. That they're the most important person in her life after her sister and her nieces. I hope the Bangel and Spuffy fans spend hours refighting old wars about which character Buffy is "meant to be with", both convinced that the show is building up a cameo by their preferred (now older and in-universe human) leading man.
I hope that, in the last episode of the first season of the new show, our Buffy's phone rings during a key bit of exposition -- in the library, ideally, because it won't be Buffy without one of those -- and she apologizes, saying that she has to take it because "that's my wife". I hope as she walks out of shot, phone in hand, we see her smile and we hear her say "hey, Harmony". And I hope the show never, ever expands on any of that again.
#btvs#buffy reboot#obviously I would also take canonical Fuffy but we're not going to get that and this would be funnier
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