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#marvey#suits usa#harvey specter#mike ross#can't stop won't stop#All of Machel#Remember when Katrina walked into Harveys office that one time#Or when Mike worked for Louis#Or got a job somewhere else#Or Harvey represented Logan#Or... Or...
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I just don’t understand how I’m supposed to explain that you’re supposed to care about other people
#and at the very least not be malicious towards someone just doing their job#I’m usually quite good at avoiding discourse because that’s how I’ve set my blog/dash up#but that twitter thread got through somewhere and I can’t comprehend it#I cannot conceive of the kind of person you would have to be to take a tragedy like that and use it to wish harm on someone else#because you#don’t like a character they play on tv??????#because your ship isn’t canon????#like what is wrong with you#grow the fuck up#I’m so mad about this I could scream#911 discourse
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Emily I know we are only tumblr mutuals and this is unsolicited advice but you deserve SO so so much better than this loser ass man. He sounds so boring and you are so cool and interesting. Even platonically (or not, idk what y'all have going on) you are out of his league. also just because you decided to move in with him does not mean you can't change your mind!!!! you don't have to wait for it to get worse before taking action!!!! okay sorry again this is so unsolicited but you are a beautiful shining star and he is a nothing man. he is nothing.
i knowwww i know i really do i promise :( my brain is just latched on to him and i don't know how to get it to let go. i don't think i necessarily have bpd but every description and experience I've read about a favorite person feels like exactly the dynamic ive put on to him and everything i try in an attempt to distance myself feels like it just makes things worse. but you're right he's nothing
#and I can't afford to break our lease and find somewhere else to live and i don't know anybody else here because my entire social circle is#our shared coworkers at the place we both work at because he got me my job. and i really really like it and i don't want to leave :(#i kinda put all my eggs in this basket and i can't see myself getting out without completely overturning my life in a way that i don't want#whats wild is i really really really didn't see it being THIS bad. like the whole weird tension thing i knew was going to hurt but i thought#that at the end of the day we'd at least be friends. like i rreeaally really trusted him. thats wild huh. wack even. who woulda thunk.#sorry im over sharing in an anonymous message lol this is probably more than you asked for#ask#anon
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do you ever feel casually suicidal? like you're not depressed or anything you're doing fine but also it feels like a convenient option
#if you can't make connections with people or be seen by anyone then like. at least you can feel like you're helping a better cause#to like charities and gfms and anyone else#but you have to tone that down bc you're slowly losing money bc you still can't get a job#and bc you don't have a job it means you're just stuck in the house all day. which gives Way Too Much opportunity to Think about everything#and also so like. i still share a room with my sister but it was fine bc she'd stay at her bf's a few nights a week#but he's got a job that's a bit further away and basically she can't go round his as much. so now it's maybe like once a week#the room is getting messier so it gives me less energy to do anything#you can get really into an unhealthy weight loss obsession bc at least it feels like you're getting towards something#but idek is set weight theory real? bc once i get down to a certain point it suddenly resets#like honestly counting calories and donating money to every gfm i saw and writing a film script was what kept me going#but first one isn't working and second i need some sort of income and third is finished and i have no way of actually creating it#and then there's the whole lack of stable hyperfixation and ability to find new music i enjoy#and realistically what would fix me is having a good job that i enjoy and somewhere to live on my own#but until i get a job that's currently impossible. and even then it probably won't feel like enough#my entire life is lived on my phone i need more physical objects but i don't have enough space#bc i share a room with my sister. it's like all my problems are connected#and i have enough optimism that i still think it'll get better in the next few weeks. maybe i'll be able to get a job and that'll#get everything going again#but at the same time i could easily just die#I've graduated from uni. I've seen the who live 3 times. I've crashed my car twice. I've watched 30 years of corrie. I've met various dogs#what else is there to do with my life honestly#(<- joking)#but yeah like. in summer 2021 i almost got suicidal (it was just letting the occasional thought linger in my mind etc)#but that was bc i was so depressed#but now it feels like i could just kill myself. but more just out of convenience#idek. i'm not gonna kill myself. bc i have a job interview on tuesday. and just in general i won't#but there is this casual feeling of like. well i might as well. i can't describe it#ramble#suicide tw#weight loss mention
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girls is it ok to not be loyal to your employer? Even if you begged for a second chance at one point?
#so i rejoined and was given a 3 month contract thing#and my immediate manager whom i begged to had made all the arrangements#but i applied and got a job somewhere else within a month of rejoining#and my employer is sending strongly worded mails and messages#im torn bc moral compass but also they'd treated me like shit the first time I was working for them
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#hm. im in limbo. but at least i can draw again at last. ive never spent so long not wanting to draw. it was terrible#my job search lasted 4 days before i secured a position at target but i dont start until the 26th so im drifting until then#it feels so weird. like i dunno. i keep thinking abt jobs in a weird way now bc i just sorta drifted into what i do#weird academic stuff but i think most jobs arent like being a grad student and that never really occured to me#i dunno why. i could have done so many things but here i am. an ecologist mostly. i dunno. well see what the summer brings#maybe ill grow some social skills. its sorta weird but like the medication has made my head less terrible with intrusive thoughts. like i#can actually drive my car without hyperventilating which is fucking wild. so Maybe ill grow some confidence abt interacting with the world#going back in the fall still seems impossible rn but so does starting a job somewhere else. but i dunno#not where i expected to be in my life. im just lucky i dont have to worry much abt money#especially bc i got an ultrasound done so they cold make sure something wasnt wrong with my uterus#and its fine. guess it just hates me but that means i spent like 350 dollars for a 10min scan that showed nothing#ay. the us medical system#anyway. i guess ill continue drifting until the 26th#probably i should find something to do. or work on my old unpublished data#unrelated
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still no internet, also I had a bit of a breakdown over our dishwasher today (the damn thing doesn't fit with the door that we've got, but we'll figure it out, and if not I'll just explode or whatever).
BUT. I started listening to The Thursday Murder Club yesterday because it was on my phone and I've listened to almost all the other audiobooks on there now, and oh my god? I love it so much. haven't been obsessed with a book in a long long time but this might do it lol
#I didn't know anything about it#if I had known that it's about a bunch of old people..... well I might have listened to it sooner! I love them all so much#but especially Ibrahim#that's my 80 year old baby boy!!#they're all so funny#i think I expected it to be a bit boring because I only read thrillers and well 🤷 but it's not. it's adorable and funny and I'm really#enjoying it#I can't remember if I've got the other ones on my computer. I hope so#😬😬😬 I can't wait until we have internet#ugh i guess I'll have to set up my computer somewhere tomorrow and check.#I would have had to do that anyway since I'm almost out of books now (I mean. only on my phone. there's plenty on my computer lol)#anyway yeah love this book so much 🥰#also I will never let my partner check things that depend on accuracy again. he promised he checked if the dishwasher would fit and#I guess I should've double checked but there was so much else to do 🙃 he just doesn't really care about detail so it makes sense that he#didn't do a very thorough job. still irritating but. he'll have to find a solution so hopefully it'll work out in the end#personal
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i hate not having any energy! i really need to make sure i'm eating enough 'cause that's why i can't do shit...too bad i don't get paid until thursday :/
#i got literal cents in my bank account#tinytrashkid#and it's depressing af#rent takes up 70% of my paycheck#i gotta find somewhere else to work#there's a carpenter apprentice#there's a carpenter apprentice job that pays well#it would get me out of retail!#and i still might be able to get parts for things 'cause i would have more money!#and once badger helps me pay my rent#we should be good!
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Chat how do I give a two weeks notice after only working at a place for two months in the least awkward way possible 💀
#like it's been a perfectly fine job. people are pretty nice#buuutttt i got offered a manager position somewhere else at a place my friend works and im not passing that pay raise lmaooo#i feel really bad though i NEVER leave jobs this soon and i dont hate it or anything 😭😭😭#and i was like oh i'll be working here for awhile! :).....hnnngh anyways#literally considered not interviewing cause of the social anxiety of putting in my two weeks but that would be stupid fr😭😭😭😭#chen.txt
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What is it with emails? Why can't people just read?! You have the message right there, if you scroll back up when replying, you can read it again. I don't think I've ever, in my entire life, have gotten an answer to all the questions I asked in an email...
I've tried bullet points, I tried bold font, I tried separating each question into a different paragraph. I don't know what else to do.
Is it an unspoken rule I know nothing about that you have to choose only one of the questions (or sometimes none of them) to reply to? They're not options for a fun little activity, they're actual concerns I have as someone who's going to work for you!
What the actual fuck is wrong with people?! Just fucking READ!
#i'm so so tired#the amount of times i've taken the time to reread an email to make sure i got all the info they asked for in there#only to get send another asking the same thing again BECAUSE THEY DON'T FUCKING READ!#i just don't understand#like i literally don't get what the mental process is#i get that we're all busy and our minds are somewhere else sometimes#but then don't reply to an email unless you can put in the fucking mental effort!!#it's part of the job!!#sometimes i'm not in the right state of mind to work and you know what i do? take a little break#I don't keep working fuck everything up and then make it your problem!!#i'm so angry today. excuse me ahgnshngjd#angel talks#personal
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The magical job interview question, everyone, to ask is "What does your dream candidate for this position look like?" How you respond is essentially, it sounds like you're looking for X, Y, and Z and here's a fun fact about how I meet those qualifications that I haven't already mentioned. But also, it tells you the work environment you are entering and gives you good data on what they expect of you. If they want someone who isn't going to ask for help, guess what, they don't want to help you.
I find that it allows the interviewers to be way more frank then they had been up to that point. IDK what the magick in it is but I think now that we're in fantasy, I'm going to say what I really think.
Anywho, you only really need to ask like one good question in a job interview and it can be this one.
#job interview#just saved my ass from burn out#capitalism sucks#lets lift each other#i def got this question from somewhere else#so if someone has a source like let me know so I can site#it may have been tumblr for all i know
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being even slightly overwhelmed at work is like a one way ticket to becoming the world’s most mentally unwell man
#it doesn’t help that we may have to cancel our trip to see my family tomorrow bc we got exposed to covid and my parents r high risk#so i’m sad and anxious and stressed abt that and now also have deadlines to worry about on tasks i do not fucking know how to do#the second apps are open for that new job i want i am going to leap on them. and if i dont get it i will shrimply get a job somewhere else#lol.#漫言
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feels weird to not have much to post, i feel like i basically disappeared off social media compared to how i used to post but. there is simultaneously so much going on (things that are boring/heavy and not fun to post about) and nothing at all going on (i have not been able to play anything very much and havent been watching anything besides random documentaries i stumble across), leading to me having nothing to say lmao
i did finally write down a bunch of hypixel worldbuilding headcanon junk instead of having it only be word-of-mouth between me and ark lol. only 1700 words, i can do better 👍 it was literally only about admin magic, what exactly it means to "hack," what a server is, and limbo kjgfhk. i might make a big post about the limbo section one day :]
#things that arent worth having their own post bc it's boring normal life stuff#I LOVE MY JOB!!!!!!!!! i've only worked one day but i had a lot of fun#and i like my coworkers. im scared of tomorrow tho bc my manager who has been guiding me around isnt gonna be there#so second day in and im already on my own DFGHKJG it'll be fine.........#also I GOT MY DESK ORDERED LETS GOOOOOOOOOOO. SOON I WILL BE BACK ON THE GRIND I WANNA PLAY SKYBLOCK SO BAD#i've only been able to play on weekends or at ark's ;-; pain and suffering i need somewhere to sit#also fun fact. remember how the house was full of mold. well there was ALSO a gas leak for the past couple weeks#my existence is a miracle#im blaming all past behaviors on this. im normal now dont worry 👍👍👍#i think i already mentioned this but my snes power cable is missing and i need a new one Pain And Suffering#on the brighter side of my old games. i found by gbc! AND THE BATTERIES STILL WORK SOMEHOW LMAO#i can finally do a miserable gen 2 shiny hunt yippeeeeee#trying to find my gameboy copy of tetris attack but i dont see it anywhere 😔#uhhhh yeah that's about it i guess. been busy with sorting out work stuff and money problems and Everything Else#currently taking care of health stuff i havent done in years. time for dentist today wahoo#gonna try to get an eye exam soon. it's been like. a decade-#im not sure my vision is still 20/20 im having trouble reading some things digitally#billboards are fine. electronic ones are not those are just smudges#i dont know enough about eyes to know what that could be#chat
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cannot fucking WAIT to quit my job
#law was not worth it it was literally not worth it in the slightest#my boss is a workaholic with no boundaries#quite honestly its just an office job with too many responsibilities#i have got to get out of this state like genuinely. just start completely from scratch somewhere else in a different industry#missives
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I'm not sure why confusion seems to override sadness/anxiety/fear/almost any powerful negative emotion but I'm very glad it does
#spitblaze says things#its like a priority bug#your brain has to drop everything to go 'wait what'#i got snapped out of a depressive spiral at work once bc someone somewhere else#was singing along to 'closing time' in the most off-key renditiom ive ever heard in my life#and i just. snapped out of it to look around and go 'who the hell-'#also#>'are you like legit sad'#classic#same job my supervisor managed to get me out of a funk by showing me an apple that looked like a butt#gotta say. LOVE it when apples look like butts
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see the thing is i'm a huge fan of bsing and lying your way into jobs until i'm the actually qualified applicant
#x#never said i wasn't a hypocrite. hey this is how my dad got his job i respect the grind however. do it somewhere else.
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