#MainCharacterEnergy

[girltalkcollectives]

Solo Dating: Why Taking Myself Out Changed Everything

Remember that restaurant you've been dying to try? The one with the cute fairy lights and the pasta that looks amazing? Yeah, I finally went there last week. By myself. On purpose.

Listen, I know what you're thinking – because I used to think it too. "That's kind of sad." "People will stare." "Only lonely people eat alone." But can we talk about how weird it is that we've been conditioned to think we need someone else to do the things we want to do?

It started with a cancelled brunch plan. My friend had a last-minute emergency, and there I was, all dressed up with nowhere to go. I stood in my room, staring at my outfit that I'd spent way too long picking out, and thought: Why can't I just go anyway?

So I did.

I walked into that restaurant, asked for a table for one, and ordered exactly what I wanted (yes, including both the french toast AND the eggs benedict – no sharing required!). At first, I felt like everyone was watching me (spoiler alert: they weren't). I awkwardly played with my phone, pretending to look busy. But then something magical happened – I actually started enjoying myself.

There was something incredibly liberating about sitting there, taking up space, not having to make conversation or worry about anyone else's preferences. I could eat at my own pace, think my own thoughts, and just... be.

Since then, I've been on quite a few solo dates with myself. Some highlights:

A morning at the art gallery where I spent 30 minutes staring at one painting because I felt like it

A sunset picnic in the park with my favorite book

A spontaneous movie showing (and yes, I got the popcorn all to myself)

Window shopping without feeling rushed

A fancy coffee shop where I journaled for hours

Here's what I've learned about dating myself:

1. It's helped me get comfortable with my own company

2. I've discovered what I actually like, not what I pretend to like for others

3. My self-confidence has skyrocketed

4. I've become more spontaneous

5. The voice in my head has become a much better friend

And can we talk about how empowering it is to take yourself out? There's something about saying "Table for one, please" without flinching that makes you feel like you can conquer the world.

Of course, some people still don't get it. My mom thinks I'm "giving up on finding someone" (Mom, that's not how this works), and I still get the occasional pitying look from servers. But honestly? Their discomfort is not my problem.

The plot twist? Dating myself has actually made me better company for others. When you're comfortable being alone, you stop depending on other people for your happiness. You start choosing to spend time with people because you want to, not because you're afraid of being by yourself.

To anyone thinking about trying it:

Start small (coffee shops are great for solo dates)

Bring a book or journal if you want a security blanket

Choose off-peak times if you're nervous

Dress in whatever makes you feel confident

Remember: you're not alone, you're taking yourself out

The truth is, learning to enjoy your own company is a superpower. It's not about being antisocial or giving up on relationships – it's about building the most important relationship you'll ever have: the one with yourself.

So here's my challenge to you: Take yourself on a date this week. Go somewhere you've always wanted to go. Order what you actually want. Stay as long as you like. You might just fall in love – with your own company.

[glowettee]

Hi! I love your page and everything about it!

I need help……I feel as tho I like all these post about glow ups and self help…..but I never and I mean NEVER apply it to my life and if SUCKS….. I just wanna know if you have any advice for that?

Thank you!! And merry Christmas

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Hi angel!! 💌 First of all, thank you for the love—I’m sending all that sweetness right back to you! 💕✨ And a very Merry Christmas to you too 🎄🎀!

Now, about your question (which, btw, you’re so not alone in feeling this): It’s one thing to consume glow-up/self-help content, but actually applying it? That’s the tough (but doable!) part. Here are some soft girl tips to help you bridge the gap:

🌸 1. Start Small & Romanticize It You don’t have to overhaul your entire life overnight—pick one small habit you’d like to focus on. Maybe it’s drinking more water, journaling for 5 minutes, or even just making your bed every morning. The key? Make it feel cute and fun. Add a pastel water bottle to your desk or light a candle when you write in your journal. Turn it into a ✨moment✨.

🌷 2. Make It Visual Create a dreamy vision board (digital or IRL) with quotes, pictures, or even Pinterest-worthy vibes that reflect the life you want. Look at it daily as a reminder. This isn’t about pressure; it’s about inspiring yourself with aesthetic goals you actually love.

🌟 3. Set the Vibe for Success Sometimes the hardest part is just starting, so make your space your ally. Put on a playlist that feels like a main-character montage (soft pop, lo-fi, whatever makes you feel unstoppable), wear a cozy outfit that makes you feel ✨put together✨, and take one small step toward your glow-up goal.

🎀 4. Keep it Gentle, Bestie You don’t need to be perfect. Even one small step is progress, and it counts more than scrolling through posts! Celebrate the tiniest wins, like choosing to journal once or taking 5 minutes to stretch. Growth is a process, not a race, and you’re doing amazing just by trying. 💕

💌 Lastly, Remember This: The fact that you care enough to ask this question shows that you’re already on the right track. You’re capable of so much more than you think. Glow-ups are just as much about the journey as the destination, and I know you’re going to shine brighter than ever in time. 🌙✨

Sending you so much love and sparkly energy this holiday season! You’ve got this, and I’m cheering for you every step of the way. 💕 Let me know how it goes—I’m always here for you! 💖

xoxo, Mindy/Glowettee 🎀✨

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𓍯𓂃𓏧♡I also just launched a YouTube Channel, and I just posted a video with motivation for you all inspired by Wonyoungism! (It's a TikTok compilation of wonyoungism-esque videos) So definitely check it out!𓍯𓂃𓏧♡

[rizzlitty]

OMG, Have You Heard About the “Gen Z Wrote My Script” Trend?! 😱✨

Y’all, this new trend is EVERYTHING! 💅🔥 Brands are out here making older peeps read scripts full of our fave slang like “slay” 🕶️, “gyat” 💥, and “main character energy” 🎬. It’s literally HILARIOUS watching them try to keep up! 😂 Wanna get in on the action? 👀 Create your own vid with your boss or fam reading a script YOU write with all the Gen Z vibes. ✨💀

This trend is blowing UP on TikTok rn 🚀, and it’s a whole MOOD. 🎧 Whether you’re looking for laughs or trying to put your brand on the map, this is how you do it, fam! 💯👌

[artanissnow]

Be that main character energy we all know is deep in there somewhere. Everyone one looks to women like Elizabeth and Catherine or Cleopatra or Marie Antoinette for that main character energy. No no no. Go for the bigger guns friends, Hatshepsut. That women ruled an empire brought peace and stability as well as big trade routes to a place that Egyptians didn’t set foot in for 500 years! She is even thought to be the one who may have pioneered eyeliner. So pick up that crown, wear it and with pride. #maincharacterenergy #thedegreelesshistorian #beinspired #styleover30 #styleblogger Follow my shop @glamorouslysteph on the @shop.LTK app to shop this post and get my exclusive app-only content! #liketkit #LTKcurves @shop.ltk https://liketk.it/449qx https://www.instagram.com/p/CptKwZlLVjd/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[thewaybackcloset]

Party in the front… existential in the back ✨🫠 heading out on the road again! 👗 @huntandorchardstore

[undeniablytmack]

It’s me… hi 🫶🏽😏 #maincharacterenergy #maincharactervibes #itsmehi #naturalhair 💋 https://www.instagram.com/p/CoQ4SqaOMeI/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[megpie]

I love these little beautiful quotes, on the inside of packaging from @valentiaskincare. 🖤 Sometimes the princess has to be her own hero and save herself. Sometimes the dragon is safer than the prince. Some fairy tales don't have a heroic quest or dramatic happy ending, but the journey is still worthy. ✨️ This life is a Choose Your Own Adventure story... and even though I often choose wrong, I will still continue trying to make it beautiful, forever and ever amen. 😘 #fairytaleaesthetic #fairytales #princesssavesherself #beyourownhero #beYOUtiful #chooseyourownadventure #chooseyou #maincharacterenergy #prettypackaging #prettyquotes #selfcaredaily #prettyheart #prettythings (at Terrace Heights, Washington) https://www.instagram.com/p/CoH-Qv1LTpf/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[bonheurjewelry]

@LaurenJauregui 😍🌟👑‼️ bringing #MainCharacterEnergy 🌟❤️‍🔥 while shooting the video for #Piña wearing our 𝗔𝗹𝗶𝗮𝗻𝗲 𝗠𝘂𝗹𝘁𝗶 𝗦𝘁𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗥𝗶𝗻𝗴 💍 and 𝗟𝗼𝘂𝗶𝘀𝗲 3 𝗣𝗶𝗲𝗰𝗲 𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗰𝗸𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗲 𝗥𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗦𝗲𝘁 ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥 - #Style by THE 👑 @itsmerazzie 👑👑 - #LaurenJauregui - #ShopBonheur #BonheurJewelry - #celebrityStyle #goldRing #ItGirlStyle #GiftsForHer #JewelryGifts #ItGirlApproved #RingStack #StackableRings #BonheurBeauties #BonheurBeautiesOnTheDaily #JadoreBonheur (at Beverly Hills, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CmrsORKpvR8/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[doctressstory]

Swimming is my happy place! 🧘🏾‍♀️🪴🏡🌊🌻🩷🙏🏾

[geekgyrl]

What Five Nights at Freddy's Character am I? Main Character Energy Baby #filter #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #trending #viral #meme #subscribe #subscribers #rizzo #subscribetomychannel #youtubelikes #youtubelike #2024year #youtubevideo #youtubemarketing #instavideo #fnaf #fivenightsatfreddys #maincharacterenergy #ravenclaw #instayoutube #agegracefully #looksgood #timburton #mine #atleastimcute #iamthatdaughter #sitatmytable #craftme #nickname #overtheyears #johnnydepp #wednesday #goth #addams #filter #iykyk #looksgoodonme #loveit #love #allaboutit #mystery #blackismycolor #iykyk #loveislove #bi #bisexual🏳️‍🌈 #GeekGyrl #tiktok #shorts #youtube #instagram #reels #twitter #youtubechannel #genderfluid #youtubeshorts #witchtok #libra #witches #twitch #egyptianpagan #twitchmoments

[glowettee]

🌸✨ Channel Your Inner Wonyoung ✨🌸

Ever wondered what it feels like to live life like an It Girl? To embrace effortless elegance, radiate positivity, and sprinkle a little bit of magic into your everyday? 💌

I just dropped a dreamy Wonyoungism TikTok Compilation on my YouTube channel, and it’s everything. Think preppy outfits, aesthetic routines, and that undeniable main character energy we all adore. 🌷

If you’re looking for your next dose of inspiration to glow up and elevate your vibe, this video is the moment. ✨

🖇️ Watch here: https://youtu.be/YMojvst5lN8?si=ocsEME1ztk8aE3vM

Please support me if you can, and subscribe and like if you'd like more. Thank you so much everyone!

👑 Join me on this journey of glow-ups, grace, and Wonyoung-inspired dreams. Let’s be iconic together! 🌸

[cobolt-crusader]

Yeah Deku, do go around thinking you got that #maincharacterenergy.

Fucking end my life, jeez

[eyeliner-and-c1garettes]

Nancy drew meets Sherlock Holmes meets vintage fashion 🕵🏻‍♀️

[guywithaguy]

I just saw a guy skateboarding full speed down the street holding a venti iced coffee—no lid, no sleeve, just raw chaos in a cup. He hit a pothole, the coffee sloshed like a tidal wave, and not a single drop spilled.

No flinch, no wobble, no nothing. Meanwhile, I’m on the sidewalk witnessing a miracle, looking like I’ve seen God in the form of a skater who broke the laws of physics.

Whoever he is, he’s the protagonist of this simulation.

#CoffeeJesus

#PhysicsWho

#MainCharacterEnergy

[kimberlychapman]

@entropicthymes

[tmblrgirlie1]

S4E20

⚠️SPOILERS and OPINIONS ⚠️

1. Not Luke's sister-cousin 😂

2. They don been through so much

3. I never would've guessed this outcome for Dan

4. I think they gon name the baby Journey. Just because Keith mentioned how he liked the group and it was so random?

5. OF COURSE she goes into labor during graduation #MainCharacterEnergy but is it one of those one in one out situations?!