#Losing the woman you love to a man?
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My biggest pet peeve with Harry potter is that jkr did not write Snape the way she seems to think she did 💀
#I've been listening to the books A LOT lately#And there are definitely more things I dislike#But that is the main one and has always been#I'm genuinely so excited for the audiobooks to be released with a full 100+ cast#But yea Snape is an asshole#A creep#And a bully#And pathetic#That being said#If HP was exactly the same but Snape was a woman?#Losing the woman you love to a man?#I still wouldn't like Snape but at least that'd be relatable#I mean can you imagine
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#golden kamuy#satoru noda#ogata hyakunosuke#mangacap#chapter 187#sugimoto saichi#TOME MENTION!!!!!#Do you every just lose it thinking about the fake woman Ogata came up with#who was so loved by a man he literally went through hell to get money to support her#he gave the same name as his mother#like goddamn man go to therapy ily
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actually I love Tentoo and he is the Doctor and it was the only ending for Rose that worked and it is a huge gift to be able to have the man she loves grow old with her, they were always heading for that, y'all be quiet. I 100% understand the angst but it's okay, they're okay, good ending-
#did you want her to...not end up with the doctor?#she ended up with the doctor. she ended up with the doctor and they get to AGE together#they get to have a real honest relationship the way they both always genuinely wanted#it's hard that the full time lord version has to carry on without her but that is the way that character's story ALWAYS goes#the doctor does not get to keep ANYONE. it would be a different show if he did#meanwhile there is a version of that same face of his - the one that was MADE for love? particularly born out of love for ROSE? the one 1/2#2/2 that always wanted a FAMILY? and stability? and a normal life? the tenth doctor longed for that specifically because of rose#now he gets to have it AND be part-human so he doesn't have to watch her get old. he gets old WITH HER#and they're canonically growing their own Tardis so you don't even have to be sad that they're not adventuring in time and space as usual#because they ARE. it's the kindest ending for either character. and if the full time lord hadn't left without either of them-#-he would have had to lose them eventually. lose Rose because she's human? hello? painful? but instead he was selfless and left her-#-with a proper happy ending. which she CHOSE to have so you can't be like “he tricked her!” she chose to kiss one of them and it was Tentoo#they are the same man. Rose won in this scenario.#and I GET IT I am with Billie Piper I think it will always feel a little off that she was left with Tentoo and not the full time lord#I understand. it still makes me a little sad. but I know it's a good ending writing-wise. really the ONLY ending.#yes I know about the popular idea of Immortal!Rose or Bad Wolf Rose or whatever and that's cute and all BUT - it's not a GOOD thing#it's not PREFERABLE to be immortal. Rose doesn't want to live forever. she wants to be with the man she LOVES forever.#she doesn't want to not die or adventure for all time. she wants to be there to hold his hand. and when Tentoo is born she gets THAT!#Immortal!Rose is tragic. the Doctor would not wish the burden of immortality on the woman he loves HELLO#anyway#I ship timepetals. that includes Tentoo/Rose. because he is the doctor#so there#I have more thoughts on Tentoo specifically but I digress#maybe if provoked in an Ask or something idk#doctorrose#timepetals#opinion piece#tenrose#tentoo#handy
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My brain just hit an old hyperfixation (is this what it's called? I hope I used the word right) and oh dear am I losing my mind now. I need to write a story I think. About this one old guy. He's unhinged. There's so much information about him and yet not enough. I want to explore his character so much. He's definitely a criminal - at least he was one - and I'm 95% sure he can do actual real magic, and he's a musician and an artist and an actor and a magician and a philosopher and a traveler and a conman and so much more and also I think he's some kind of immortal. Maybe he just has a VERY long life. It's strongly implied he was a pirate at some point of his life. He started a cult by accident several times. My conspiracy theories about him include him being a secret god.
He's also a freaking round blue raven. Someone save me from my mind.
#seriously why is he so cool#he's like. a ball.#he's ROUND#if no one stops me I'm gonna make an au and introduce all my mutuals to a russian cartoon that lives in my head rent-free#it has an obviously mysterious old man and an old woman who seems to be very normal but actually has some weird past as well#and they're in love you can fight me on this THEY. ARE. IN LOVE.#there's a disastrous scientist who keeps forgetting to sleep and is kinda cute in a nerdy way#there's a mechanic guy who lives a bit away from everyone surrounded by tech and he's actually unhinged#he's a single father btw. he made a robot baby because he was lonely. it's very important for his character.#I WILL ship the scientist and the mechanic because no one can stop me <3#there's a local farmer who was a famous disco dancer an archeologist and a VERY famous actor in the past. he doesn't care about it anymore.#he was like. Captain America actor kind of famous. or Superman.#and then he just committed a bunch of crimes for his new friends and left to live in a village far away from big cities#all those people with very suspicious past raise a bunch of children together#absolutely inseparable adhd and autism best friends boys who I think are capable of destroying the world#and toxic teenagers couple:#a girl who honestly needs to figure herself out first before dating anyone and a poet boy who is SO deeply in love with her it's not okay#the farmer dude also has a rebellious teenager niece who visits him sometimes#and the mechanic's kid is usually in space but sometimes returns and I am not ashamed to admit that I cried during some of those episodes#I am going to think about them. they are so important to me.#I am going insane.#also yes they are all round animals. if you're wondering.#someone just tranquillise me already or something. it's 5 a.m. and I am losing my sanity
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Anyways more parallels because I can't sleep <3
#do you ever think Lizzie thinks about tommy in the same way tommy thinks about grace?#also do you see how he's sitting at that empty table? it's like he's trying to recreate that memory in his head#like he's desperately trying to remember what he's fighting for#almost like he's punishing himself over Grace's death#like he's trying to say “if you don't do something soon this could be our reality. we could lose EVERYONE not just grace”#i mean the man does talk to himself about himself#y'know i hate to admit it(no I don't) but Michael is just a watered down version of tommy#michael gray#tommy shelby#lizzie stark#lizzie shelby#grace burgess#grace shelby#Lizzie come home please. Charles misses you 😚#i love lizzie stark#grace is alright...for a dead woman at least
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"i'll just sketch Seven a couple of times here to get the hang of it yk simplify the shapes a bit yeah yea-" SLAPS far too detailed borg implant on the first fucking sketch les gooooooooooo
#seven of nine#star trek#star trek voyager#st voyager#st voy#etc#might as well post it yk. cant stop drawing pretty seven with stars around her head and dont even think i want to tbh it is what it is#also i just love teeny weeny tiny b'elanna losing it in there man. yess that's exactly how you react seeing a pretty woman. god bless you#my art
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maybe you have to lose me to love me.
#but its fine#i love you#tc community#teacher crush community#teacher crush#teacher love#male tc#teacher x student#teacher attachment#male teacher#girlblogging#male teacher crush#femaledaily#sad thoughts#student x teacher#male teacher x female student#love quotes#relationship#my diary#just girly posts#just girly thoughts#sadgirl#lose you to love me#oldermen#older man younger woman#diary#dear diary#tc crush#tc love#my tc
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i think it fucks immensely that bk moon went out of his way to 1) establish rakiel wished to live a long life and eventually pass away of old age, 2) have him very briefly envy an immortal being only to be told very clearly to be careful what he wishes for by that very same person because living forever isn't all it's cracked up to be, 3) make the main antagonist be another immortal being who is so desperate to die he's willing to destroy the universe just to finally rest and 4) have said antagonist psychologically torture rakiel with the threat of making him live for a thousand years as everyone he loves and knows eventually grows old and dies and becomes nothing but forgotten memories.
only to then end the novel by making rakiel also immortal
like. god. it's so fucking good i love it. i'm not being sarcastic i genuinely think it fucks and it's one of the best ways bk moon could've wrapped up the plot.
it's a happy ending by all means but it has consequences and through the entire novel we've been shown and told over and over again just how heavy the consequences are and/or will be on rakiel.
he got his happy ending but it was at a price and by the last time we see him he's only just starting to pay for it.
it's great i love it
#i talk a lot <3#cpsm#cpsm spoilers#rakiel magentano#i also think it's funny that this puts bk moon in the very awkward position when it comes to his 'romance' with adeline#because either rakiel allows her to remain human and sees her grow old and eventually die just like acheros threatened him with#(and like he will do with absolutely everyone he loves anyway <3)#or he keeps her alive and frozen in time just like acheros wanted to do with him forcing her to be cut off from the world#in most ways that matter and see the people she loves grow old and die. again. just like acheros threatened to do with him :)#like. either way. the situations sucks for them <33#i do think it's cheap if he can make her immortal without it being a big deal. because. why wouldn't it be.#it would be absolutely broken if absolutes can just. make people immortal for funsies whenever they want. that would be bad writing.#but again i also think it's cheap that he made alicia an angel for no other reason than bc someone needed to remind us lloyd is married#to a woman actually. like. she doesn't even do anything why did you ruin the absolute tragedy that is being an immortal being surrounded#by very mortal humans just to make awful 'my wife is annoying' jokes. i hate you.#sigh. it's lose/lose when it comes to women with this man and his choices.#either they're fridged to make his male characters sad or they become the butt of misogynistic jokes. i cannot fucking win.#ANYWAY. do i think any of this was on purpose? maybe idk i certainly hope so and want to believe it is because otherwise it would be#too much of a coincidence but like. this is also the man who wrote a character very explicitly and clearly wishing to live a quiet life#with his family in his middle-of-nowhere estate where nothing ever happens with no contact at all with royalty and court#so he can laze about and do absolutely nothing. and then married him to a queen who cannot stand lazy people and squeezes the last bit#of talent of everyone around her. and he saw nothing wrong with this. so like. i genuinely cannot tell with this man sometimes 🙃🙃
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X: Black Magic Woman
The most wonderful @jinfromyarikawa absolutely surprised me with this art by talented @felrija of Thomas and Morrigan 😭❤️ I’m literally so in love with this and how they look! The enamored gaze and the little blush on his cheeks 🤧 they look so perfect!! Thank you biggie and this is so amazing!
#do not tag as your ship#💕❤️💕❤️💕🥹💕🥹❤️❤️💕❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕#that’s the look of a man ready to lose it all and then some#you just know she runs his show 😩#Morrigan looks so amazing even and I am falling for her all over again 🥹🥹#love love love love this so much with all my heart!!!#thomas x morrigan#x: black magic woman#tom: dragon age verse#oc: thomas cousland#morrigan dragon age#morrigan x warden#oc: thomas#thomas tag#biggie tag#commissions/arts 4 me
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Wanting more homoeroticism in the tension between the show’s leads as the narrative introduces greater intimacy and higher stakes between them, especially in a landscape that lacks queer representation who isn’t a villain or dies within one or two episodes, but also recognizing that core values/motivation for these characters lie in their relationships with one of two major female characters in an on screen sausage fest where the only other woman is a morally reprehensible femme fatale and erasing and/or vilifying female leads in favor of conventionally attractive males is a common practice observed in fandoms that’s rooted in misogyny and justified under the guise of rejecting heteronormativity, thinly veiled double standards, or claiming the woman is simply not interesting enough and not wanting to bolster that mindset
#the worst of evil#you know who’s not interesting enough? haeryeon!! bibi’s acting the hell out of her and slaying while doing it#but idk anything besides she’s willing to subvert her dad for dick and values money over everything else#and also she’s hot which is great for me!! but also the male gaze#and I also get it - we don’t know much about euijeong in her limited screen time besides her relationships to junmo/kicheol#but she is given so many traits that are silently conveyed like compassion and bravery and sacrifice#she brought a fucking gun to her date with kicheol like the conflicts and motivations here are SO JUICY#her exasperation guilt and despair with the investigation; esp after listening to the voicemails#what’s the self respecting thing to do; do I still love my husband if he loses himself; can I continue a game I never wanted to play#at the cost of my life or my family’s life?#even though a lot of her choices are for her marriage she’s using whatever agency she has in her own terms#kicheol works to be an honest man and make a difference partly bc of her#not trying to place the burden of fixing men on her but ignoring her impact in the boys’ lives is wild#ship whoever you want hate whoever you want but don’t deride a woman just cuz ‘she’s in the way’ ya know#all this being said; kicheol bringing junmo home after he RAMPAGED seemingly on his behalf - literally who else is doing it like them#the yearning all around - I get it now; we need gangster mob!throuple to get any shit done around here (and for all 3 to stay alive 🫣🙏)#but the reality next week is gonna be so so bitter
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It’s actually so important to me to go into the wax salon my cousin works at looking like a redneck. Easily at least third level maslow’s hierarchy of needs
#gotta show those ladies what a real man looks like (<- slightly unkempt 5’3 woman in a lone star t shirt)#every time I see my cousin she says PLEASE let me wax your legs/pits and I say if you get anywhere near my legs/pits I’ll kill you.#which is how we say I love you in my family#I’m begrudgingly letting her wax my face for her training test bc I’m a good big sister. and bc what do I really have to lose on my face.
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tag drop !
#what was i made for | abigail hobbs#ocean eyes | alana bloom#i forgive it all as it comes back to me // amanda young#i forgive it all as it comes back to me | annie graham#you can't hide from me forever // amma crellin#am i making you feel sick // benson#all the good girls go to hell // amber sweet#cowboy like me // benny watts#what's it like in your head // dani ardor#welcome to the panic room // donnie darko#smells like teen spirit // ellie williams#if i could give you the moon // grace burgess#happiness is a butterfly // hannah grose#emotional motion sickness // jamie taylor#god loves you but not enough to save you // jane margolis#i am the face of love's rage // jennifer check#losing my religion // jill tuck#say yes to heaven // jules vaughn#pretty when i cry // kenzi malikov#bite the hand that feeds you // lilly#i am just but the wayward man // luke crain#know your power // madeline usher#hope is a dangerous thing for a woman like me to have // maeve millay#everything's easier way out west // marty mikalski#panic attacks in paradise // miss casey#emails i can't send // rachel goldberg#red wine supernova // rose tyler#bury a friend // shauna shipman#maybe i'm just the devil's girl // shiv roy#i'll die anyway // spike spiegel
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#look obviously this is not my fucking moment hence why this is an in the tags post#but. man.#'my heart hurts' is a phrase that was thrown around a lot by the adults in my life when I was growing up#& a lot of the time it was in reference to some real bullshit so I never really thought about it except to roll my eyes#but god my heart hurts#it makes me feel like a little kid wondering why it has to be so hard to help people#to know the names and faces and stories of so many people suffering & to be able to do so little to help#one person mentioned their grandfather was martyred & it hit me like a brick#my grandfather is so important to me & I know he'll die one day & probably relatively soon#but to imagine losing him to violence??? to hate????? it makes me fucking sick#I just can't understand it I can't make sense of it#feels like watching an older kid kill a baby bird for no reason except on a scale of tens of thousands#they're just people. just human fucking beings. familes & friends & communities & there is no fucking difference between us & them#like I know it sounds all john lennon or whatever but genuinely there is no meaningful difference between me & a 25y/o palestinian woman#I could know her. I could love her. people do know & love her.#the people of gaza don't deserve this. they didn't do anything to deserve this. no one *could* deserve this.#I’m so filled with grief and rage and I couldn't be further removed from the actual horror of it all#again. this is not my moment & I know that. but it hurts so badly I just needed to get it out.#please help if you can. donate to fundraisers if you can. promote them if you can't. stand up for palestine irl.
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i think it's just been long enough since the leviathan chapters where it seems I've forgotten how fucking intense endbringer attacks are
#the casual brutality!!!!#god!!!!!!!!#man. something about this hits so much different than . coil shooting teenagers point blank. or even like. anyof the s9#becuase with them youre like. oh those are people. and its scary and intense and . brian fridge. but its not the SAME#this is like. it just makes you feel small and helpless. and its fucking awesome for the record#its just like. all these capes that the main characrers have such a big time fighting.#any matchup with the undersiders and any othdr cape involves planning and strategizing and someone wins and someone loses.#with the endbringers its just like. they dont even fucking acknowledge your presence. theyre. and excuse the pun. youre like bugs to them!#they just keep moving forward and plow through you wituout batting an eye. woman gets her skull caved in . no big deal moving on#all these capes that seem so invincible and powerful are just. fucking crushed without a second thought.#its so insane to me how vast the difference is . i fucking love the endbringers dude#reaction time#anyway i HAVE to stop stalling and go back to my job now. unfortunately. god damn it now im thinking abt. endbringers all day
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god i need the algorithm to stop recommending lore olympus to me.
reframing a kidnapping of a woman as romance, and painting her mother as an overbearing shrew rather than rightfully worried and protective, and portraying the kidnapper as sympathetic ... what about my overtly feminist ass makes anyone or any algorithm think i'd enjoy ANY hades/persephone romance retellings.
at this point the only hades and persephone retelling i'm interested in is a retelling that focuses on demeter's love for her daughter. one where persephone's abduction and transition from kore, the maiden, to persephone, goddess of the dead and queen of the underworld, was one where she carries out a revenge fantasy against her abductor... She cannot fully escape the underworld, no; she is death, doomed by the narrative. Underground she will stay for half the year. But she will not subject herself to be trapped with him.
hades dies at dawn; hades dies in the spring light, by persephone's power, and a knife garnished with evergreen thistles. demeter holds him down, and persephone cuts the head. judith slaying holofernes; persephone slaying hades.
#i just cant stand it. i cant stand women simping over abusive and controlling men. begging yall... have some dignity#and i cannot stand women who write stories expecting their love of controlling and abusive men to be validated.#ladies... you dont have to like this........ the only things you have to lose are your chains!!!!!#also i dont like the girls outfits in lore olympus.#i cant be the only one who thinks theyre degrading.#why is dressing that way seen as sexy? and why is 'sexy' for a woman so humiliating and submissive? what would a sexy man wear by contrast?#lets stop treating ourselves as objects. we arent here to be ogled. you arent a sexy lamp. you can stop stop dressing as one.#also no amount of therapy speak in the world can cover up the fact that this is a relationship with untenable power differences#you can talk about boundaries all you like. hes 2000 years old ...and youre 19.#and the fact that all the older folk around her have their worries dismissed by the narrative........... side eye#ladies. sugar daddy and older 'mature' man fantasies are fine whatever. but lets not kid ourselves. theyre not *empowerment* fantasies.#you still dont have agency no matter how much money your boyfriend makes. not as long as it's *his* money.#you still dont have power no matter how powerful your boyfriend is. it's still *his* power.#its not empowerment if YOU arent the one that receives power. i dont care if you FEEL empowered. ARE you? in a material and objective way?#are you truly receiving POWER? or are you receiving gifts? if its in HIS power it isnt in YOURS.#and if you truly believe that there can ever be a relationship where he loves you enough that you have 'power' over him...#you fundamentally misunderstand the risks in dynamics like that. how abusive men can change in an instant.#women throughout history weep for you. please understand that you are not so different from them.#you are not inherently any smarter or better than abused women of the past. they thought they made the best choices they could too.#dont ever put yourself in a relationship with a man where he holds all the power. retain your power.#and when the older women in your life tells you something is a bad idea... run. run as fast as you can. they are trying to protect you.#ill regret posting feminist rants eventually but god i need an outlet
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Me during any poll: CARE ABOUT WOMEN YOU COWARDS
#sorry but you canNOT tell me that women being involved and ALWAYS LOSING is not related in any way to misogyny#it's not that it happens some times it's that THERE IS ONLY ONE INSTANCE I CAN THINK OF WHERE IT DIDN'T#BASICALLY EVERY TIME!! IF MEN ARE INVOLVED A WOMAN WILL LOSE!!! MAYBE I'M JUST AN OVERSENSITIVE MAN-HATING#[INSERT INSULT OF CHOICE] BUT I THINK THAT'S BAD!!!!!!!#mel screams about fictional ladies again#like I REALLY hate to keep fucking harping on this I'm SURE everyone would love for me to talk about something else ESPECIALLY ME#but SOMEBODY's gotta talk about it and I don't see anyone else volunteering as tribute
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