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Library girl texted me yesterday. I'm genuinely surprised. I thought she would ghost me.

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Who told God I was a soldier at all

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What I mean by this is that too often, people feel as though they go unnoticed or unappreciated when that's not true. People absolutely DO notice the things that you do. The little things that you think mean absolutely nothing/you don't think about. I remember when I was having a conversation with a man, and another man tried to interrupt us. The man I was speaking to turned to him, said "hold on, man. Hold on" and then looked back at me so I could keep talking. He probably doesn't remember this at all. I'm sure he doesn't think about this moment in the way I do.

One time, my theater professor told a group that they'd have to wait to perform because one of their members was absent. This was not common practice. Sometimes his philosophy was "if you're absent and your group decides to go without you then that's their prerogative" but he refused to let this girl's group go because she was "always willing to wait for other people when they're absent so they can perform and get a grade". He noticed that about her.

I've caught snippets of convos where people say nice things about me that I never thought about/that's specific to them. For example, one guy was telling someone that he's told me things he's never even told his gf just because I ask specific questions.

There's a guy I've never spoken more than a couple of words to but I dislike him because I don't like the face he makes when he sees me. I'm sure he probably doesn't even think about it. He's never wronged me. Never said anything mean, but just his expression makes me not want to speak to him.

People notice how you treat them.

Here comes the bad part. This applies in unsavory contexts, too. I am not an aggressive person. If I dislike someone then I avoid them, I don't bully them or make mean comments. One time, there was a girl I disliked but I couldn't avoid because my friend group LOVED her. She was always around, whether I liked it or not. One night, she turned to me and said that she felt as though I disliked her and I felt like I was cold towards her. I have never gone out of my way to be mean to her. Tbh, I actually can't remember any specific instance where I showed outwards dislike, but it obviously showed.

You are never as subtle as you think you are. Your intentions and feelings shine through in ways you genuinely can't even imagine. This is both a blessing and a curse. Your friends have memories of you that you consider to be insignificant. People think about what you said to them. People think about how you smiled or didn't smile at them. People remember how you made them feel. You're never as insignificant as you think you are. If you treat people well then they remember. If you don't like someone then they probably know more than you think that they do.

Good news: people are more aware of how you treat them than you think

Bad news: people are more aware of how you treat them than you think

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Good news: people are more aware of how you treat them than you think

Bad news: people are more aware of how you treat them than you think

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The clit has got to be the only thing in the world that comes out of a hood when it gets wet

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Respectfully, Caitlyn did NOT cheat on Vi. They obviously broke up. Caitlyn probably thought the next time Vi saw her she'd return the hit tbh (which would've been fair).

Also, Caitlyn was hurting bad thinking Vi had chosen Jinx over her, when she was trying to avenge her momma. She was blinded by rage and hurt. In the scene right after she hits Vi, her anger falters, you can see the regret they put in her expression before she turns and leaves.

Did Vi deserve any of this? Fuck no. But the show did do a good enough job of showing both sides of the relationship. Only thing they felt short in is the makeup/reunion - letting those two just fall back in together is bordering on unbelievable. But eh, it's a fictional show running on a deadline I guess

Cheating or not, I hate that Cait didn't remain loyal. In my eyes, if she can fuck someone else then she doesn't love Vi.

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TW Arcane mention: I was talking to one of my friends about Arcane today and she said she liked Cait and Vi's relationship because it was messy, she thought it was more realistic 💀.She said that she thought a lot of shows make the gay characters unrealistically wholesome and perfect and without any flaws. I don't think this has been my experience with fiction and I know it definitely isn't yours lmao but I thought it was an interesting angle I guess

Where are these wholesome lesbians?? Can your friend provide a list? 😭

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Is there any media you like that's similar to tamen de gushi?

No, but I'm open to suggestions ❤️

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Regarding Hazbin Hotel would you rather have Carmilla or Rosie as a mom? Silly and dumb question perhaps but I'm always fascinated by such concepts lol

I wouldn't trust any hazbin hotel character to have any type of relationship with me 😭

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I feel the same way as you about lesbian media. It seems like lesbians like toxic relationships that are filled with SA and hatred for one another. I think this reflects how lesbians feel IRL. From what I've read about older lesbians, lesbians just aren't the same today. They want to mimic straight culture which is obviously the most toxic relationship dynamic. I think that it's just us two who like media about true lesbian love where both are undyingly loyal to one another.

I think this is kind of a wild take 😭 I don't think this is the majority of lesbians at all. Of course some like toxic yuri but I mean, there are plenty of lesbians who will call out toxic media relationships. And I think, in general, lesbians are very loving to their partners.

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I actually hate CaitVi so much and Caitlyn too even though I always thought she'd remain one of my faves. And I'm not even a fan of Vi in any kind of way but that relationship should not be a thing at this point and she deserves someone better and suddenly the scene where Jinx knocks Cait out is so satisfying. God, and what's worse than CaitVi are it's fans who glorify this relationship or continue to glorify and love and romanticize it. No shade against those who liked CaitVi in season 1 but those who are still into it after all this are red flags for me. And the most annoying ones in my opinion just shut up omg, most of them don't even view Vi as an individual human being, she's just some walking fucktoy for Cait to hop onto whenever she wants. Also, Cait cheated didn't she? What promises that she won't ever do this in the future to Vi too? And Vi with all her vulnerability and attachment would probably let it slide or something because she doesn't think she has anyone else and for the sake of not getting abandoned would just accept it. Fuck the writers and this entire show tbh. And the writers who tried to victimize Cait by having Maddie betray her? Like??? Bro..

"fuck the writers and this entire show", God you're so real for that. Hate how they chose to write this story.

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Please tell me how you'd like arcane to go ^° Also sorry if Maddie jump scared you lmao, I love her though:')

I would have liked it to feel less rushed. I would have liked it if Vi didn't suffer so much. I would have liked it if Cait didn't quite literally hit her and then cheat on her. I knew caitvi were gonna have issues but THOSE issues?? Insane. No thank you. I don't even want them together at this point. Vi deserves better than a woman who is willing to hit her and then sleep with someone else, I mean come on 😭

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Isidora will be like "is anyone gonna fuck Ro" and then not wait for an answer

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Hozier

ya’ll…

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Great thing about being a woman is that people aren't as likely to assume that you're a creep and have bad intentions

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Caitlyn kiramman, I fully understand why Harry Potter dumped your ass

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I'm not sure if this has made the rounds on Radblr yet. Indian feminist Vaishnavi Sundar has released a four-part documentary on gender identity and its effects on girls and women. You can watch it for free here.

You can donate to her paypal to support her. She was also the creator of the documentary 'But What was She Wearing' - the only film of its kind about sexual violence in India. Refer to this post for more info on that documentary.