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[kindnotestoself]

Important information!!! It could save the world!!!!!

You're amazing and fantastic and so cool and I hope you have a wonderful day

Love u <3

This makes me soo happy! Thank you~

[kindnotestoself]

How I deal with bad in my day.

First, take a step back. take a few deep breaths, focus on your body, what does it need? Have you eaten recently? How about drinking water? Did you get enough sleep? Are you getting enough sunlight?

Making sure your body is well taken care of is vital. Like a car, if you want a smooth trip on the road, you need to do regular maintenance and take preventive measures. It’s not going to fix everything, but it’s a small step that can help make you feel better

Our body is good. Let’s grab a pen and do some writing.

OK. Now make a list. Write all the ‘Good Things’ that happened to you that day.

Some one complimented your new shoes? put it on the list. Did you get the last of your favorite snack from the vending machine? Did you get an A on a test or come up with an answer to a question first? Add it to the List.

Make a new list. a ‘Kind Things’ What are some kind things that YOU did that day. Good things aren’t just for other people. 

Now let’s focus on the ‘Bad Things. What is making it bad? Write out your feelings in a journal. Make a list. break it down into smaller, easier to mange chunks.

is it Negativity?

is it bullying?

is it stress?

Are you mad at yourself because you forgot your homework on the couch and your sister sat on it?

Write down every bad thought that’s on your mind, no matter how small.

Now we’ve got our lists. Lets look at the three of them. For the bad list, go through each ‘bad thing’. Write down ideas on how to manage each one or things you can avoid to prevent it from happening again.

Now, will any of these things matter in a week, a month, or a year from now? Are any of these things something you need to involve another person in to fix? Is it something you can do on your own?

You’ve got your ‘bad’ more manageable. You’ve got your whole day written out. Is the Bad still overwhelming? If so, Go back to the Self Care. Your mind and body need it. Some problems take time to deal with, and when you come at it again with a fresh view, you might come up with new solutions you might have missed before.

Be gentle with yourself. Healing and Recovery are a process. Relapses happen. Depression is a beast. Not every problem has a cookie cutter solution. But it can help you not feel so overwhelmed. Above all, recognize that a bad day is Just a Bad Day. It’s not a Bad Life. You are going to get through this.

[kindnotestoself]

I send so, so, so much love. You’re an amazing person and you deserve the world. Thank you for making this blog❤️

thank you so much! I really needed this today~

[kindnotestoself]

mfqueen-ctsv reblogged your post:

My efforts aren’t enough..

your efforts are. You are trying so hard.

[kindnotestoself]

Just wanted to say, thank you SUPPORTIVE sister for your content and the love you give us!!

🤗🤗🤗Thank you! I’m going through a pretty depressive episode right now, and I’m trying to stay positive. These kind messages are really touching my hear. Thank you! I really do care about all of you and I’m glad that this blog I started for my own mental health has touched so many people. A lot of people have reached out to me since starting this blog, and I cannot express how grateful I am for every single one of you! 💖💖💖

[kindnotestoself]

I know your blog is amazing cause it's really hard not to reblog everything you post. Thank you so much for all that you do!

you go ahead and reblog whatever your soul needs to look at. That’s why I started this blog, so I’d be able to look at uplifting stuff whenever I was feeling down. And I’m so glad it helps others too

[kindnotestoself]

good luck with your surgery my love

thanks! My surgery is most of the day Thursday,

so hopefully by friday I’m awake/aware enough to update you guys! <3

[kindnotestoself]

i’ve been suffering from an eating disorder from a really long time and i just wanted to say that every time i see a post from your blog reminding me to eat or be kind to myself, it makes me smile. so... thank you.

*hugs* We all deserve recovery and to be kind to ourselves. You’ve suffered for so long, and I hope you finally get to a point where it doesn’t control your life.

[kindnotestoself]

What breed is your ginger dog?

Ginger is a mutt! She’s a Red nose pitbull/boxer mix, and she’s learned a lot of hearing service dog stuff. She even knows to press a blue light when the microwave goes off and a red light when someone knocks on the door. She’s also a really great walker and an absolute sweetheart. Adopting her from the shelter was one of the best things I did. I love her so much Here’s her in her  “service dog in training” vest

[kindnotestoself]

Can I ask why you’re having brain surgery? I’m new to your blog and I’m interested!! I love your blog btw and ur gorgeous!! 💕 good luck :)

Hi! I have a pretty rareish genetic disorder called neurofibromatosis type 2, that causes tumors to grow on my nerves. I’ve had 11 surgeries now over the last few years, and most of them have been on my head/brain. I’m having a brain tumor removed tomorrow (My 3rd tumor surgery) and having an auditory brain stem implant put in. So if this works, I’ll have sort of robotic ear, which sounds nifty.

[kindnotestoself]

BEAUTIFUL PERSON AWARD! Once you are given this award, you're supposed to paste it in the ask of 8 people who deserve it. If you break the chain nothing will happen, but it's sweet to know someone thinks you’re beautiful inside and out! ❤️

Oh! Thank you so much! This is so sweet!

[kindnotestoself]

I’ve beaten depression recently and i keep having these thoughts and feelings like i used to, and i’m finding it difficult & tiring to stay afloat. I keep wondering if i’ve chosen the right path in life and i feel so behind, all my peers finished school with decent grades meanwhile i dropped out due to poor health and i’m now struggling with jobs& college etc... i feel lost. (Sorry to vent this to you, i hope you’re okay! And your recovery goes smoothly as possible, you’re a wonderful person!)

I am sooo proud of you. I know it’s hard, and what you have done is incredible. You are so strong. It is the right path. It’s a hard road to walk down, but your future is worth it. You’re not always going to feel lost. For the most part, I’ve been ‘recovering’ for the better part of 13 years. Recovery is a mindset. it’s an attitude you adopt. a set of armor you put on. Go to therapy, it really does help, if you can find someone you’re comfortable with to help you learn how to help yourself. I’ll get ‘spells’ that are more difficult to deal with, but now I have coping skills that can help me get through tough spots. And if you keep going, so will you. The struggles are all worth it in the end. I am happy. I am alive. I am dealing. And I promise you anon, the future is bright and holds so much love. I’m proud of you for working for yourself. we’re gonna be okay

[kindnotestoself]

Thank you so much for all the inspiring words. Your blog is a safe place where I can go to find the encouragement that I need anytime that I am struggling. I just love when I'm scrolling through my dash and see just the words I needed to hear. Thank you for spreading hope to so many that need it.

I’m so glad to hear that you’re encouraged and feel positive in part because of me. Messages like this really do give me the positive strength I need!

[kindnotestoself]

Focus on the now. You can do this, I know you can. And hey, I’m proud of you. It takes a lot to talk about what’s wrong. I’m proud of you

I know what I’m supposed to do, my therapists tried to drill it into me, it’s just hard to remember it at the moment. I’m just, gonna keep breathing. I drank my tea and I’m about to take my meds and lie down and hopefully sleep. thank you for talking to me, it is really nice to be checked in on, and it really is easier to get my thoughts in order when I see them typed out in front of me

[kindnotestoself]

My boyfriend follows a lot of pretty girls on insta and I’ve talked to him about it and he’s unfollowed some but still follows A LOT. I’m extremely insecure so is this just a me problem and I should let him follow whoever he wants even though it effects me or should I talk to him again? I don’t want him to unfollow every girl because some are his friends but random girls who post revealing pictures ??? Idk what to do.

This is a slippery slope. Telling your boyfriend who he can and cannot be friends with is controlling and abusive. You’ve talked with him and discussed your thoughts on it. I’d bring it up again. Say what you told me, see what his reaction is. Does he care about your feelings? Is there another reason behind following “random girls”? Or should you re-evaluate the relationship?

[kindnotestoself]

What kind of surgery are you getting? (I’m saying this as a trans person- I know that this question can seem insensitive and rude outside of the community, and if that’s the case then feel free to ignore the message! Either way, good luck and healing vibes sent your way!)

No worries at all! This is maybe my dozenth surgery. I’m having a tumor removed in my brain and an auditory brain stem implant (abi) put in. It’s all very technical, and a little scary, but if this works, I’m going to start saying I’m a cyborg, cause I’ll have robot ears basically. (I’m deaf at the moment) I’m a little blase, only because I’ve had so many brain surgeries, but I know that any surgery is hard, and going through that isn’t something to take lightly. I don’t mind talking about this stuff, or hearing about what you’ve been through, and if anyone wants to talk to me and keep it between us, just stick somewhere that you’d like it to be private, and I’ll direct message you!