#Its Okay to not be Okay

[disablednotdifferent]

no, i’m not saying i can’t go to the store because i’m lazy, i’m saying it because i can’t feel my legs because of how much pain they’re in

no, i’m not saying i don’t feel up to the mall because i don’t want to see you, i’m saying it because i’m too ashamed to tell you i can’t walk right now

no, i’m not saying i don’t want to shower because i’m “gross” or “lazy”, i’m saying it because i don’t think i’d be able to hold myself up in there or raise my arms to wash my hair

no, i’m not saying i haven’t changed clothes in a few days because i’m “being lazy” or “being nasty”, i’m saying it because i’m tired and in too much pain to change my clothes by myself right now

STOP CALLING DISABLED PEOPLE LAZY OR GROSS FOR THINGS WE CAN’T CONTROL!!!!

a little reminder that you are not gross or lazy because of any of these things, you are just struggling more than usual and you know what? thats okay. don’t listen to anyone who tells you otherwise, you can’t control how many spoons you have in a day and that’s okay too.

don’t forget to love yourself a little today <3

[girl-trying-to-escape-reality]

You are overthinking again.

Breathe.

It's okay.

You'll figure it out and even if you don't that's okay too.

[brokenheartbunny]

<33

[writteninlunarlight-years]

It's Been A While

Hey Moons. Let's talk,

It has been a while since I posted and spoke to everyone. I tried really hard, but every time I tried hard to overcome everything going on in my life, I just managed to dig myself deeper.

Where to begin. Simply put, I have really been struggling with my mental and physical health in the last few months.

Though I know none of you have put me on a pedestal, I, in fact, have put myself on one. I am beyond thankful and appreciative of those who support me and follow me. To those of you who sent me amazing prompts, words of encouragement, and kindness, I thank you.

I will not lie; I was growing frustrated with my lack of growth. I would see my friends and peers who were so successful doing amazing things, and I would compare myself to them. I went from being happy and content just writing to write then switching to writing purely to try and prove to myself that I was just as competent and good.

I lost my drive and passion doing this, which caused me to no longer produce what I would deem good-quality content for those of you who support me and want to read my writing. I had hoped a few days off would help, but it turned into weeks and then months.

My personal life has also been hectic, I have been struggling financially, and that has taken a toll on my mental health, especially since I live in a really hostile home environment. Because of all these factors, I was slowly beating myself up more and more for being a failure, not only to myself but to all of you as well.

I ended up getting really sick about a month ago. I thought it was a simple stomach bug, but it only worsened. After a few hospital visits and doctor's appointments, we finally managed to get my physical health mostly under control. However, I was in denial about my mental health.

Nothing felt right when I opened Tumblr every day for the last two months. I have no motivation to write, none to read, and none to even find joy in the fandoms I once loved.

I am seeking mental health counseling, and I am hopeful with some elbow grease and good luck, I can get out of the financial situation I am in.

I felt it was only fair to inform those who once loved my writing what happened to me and why I disappeared off the face of the earth.

I would love to return to writing and find something I am passionate about again. My drive and passion for writing have been ruined for the foreseeable future, and it is no one's fault but my own.

Thank you for understanding and supporting me. This is not goodbye but merely a check-in to let those who care know that I will be back, but I will be back when my mental and physical well-being allows me.

Love,

Luna

[enii]

🐱🫂

[keichanreads]

Gold Medalist photo updates for Actor Kim Soo Hyun 💐🍀

[letscallitadiary]

𝘐 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘬 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘣𝘰𝘳𝘯 𝘦𝘪𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘓𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘢𝘣𝘴𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘪𝘵.

[amphitriteswife]

This is a safe place for minors. If any minors in the Ror/snv fandom wants to vent or wants a shoulder to cry on. I am here for you. If it’s one of the adult mutuals, i am here for you too. I want you to know that you are loved and i am willing to support you trough everything.

Do not feel the need that you are a bother because you are not, you’ll never be and i would never see you as a bother.

@miss-seanymph-pani @heldril @vilereign @nicasdreamer @snowmantita @tinyy-tea-cup @brokensenseofhumor @artemishuntress8

[sehos-world]

When you never find anything about you favorite kdrama actor beacuse he is so underrated<<<):

[bioskoop]

[verademialove]

“People are all hypocrites. We all live with a lot of hatred but act like that's not the case.”

It's Okay to Not Be Okay (2020)

[munbanie]

They grow up 🥺🤍🔥✨

[veturdraugur]

Just one chance Ko Mun Yeong. Please, I beg 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[nabiiyu]

"The first step is always the hardest. But once you take your first step, things will get easier from than on.➷♡

[perfectlyfinespacebacon]

daily dose of sunshine kdrama ramble

just would like to preface this by saying i don't watch a lot of kdramas, mainly ones that my faves are in

it felt so much like a sister to its okay to not be okay. they both use a fantastical way of portraying mental illness where it captures the feeling when mental illness is such an invisible illness. both shows also had their main characters deal with mental illness but with daily dose i love how they approached it where its like one isn't "recovered" per se, you just learn to live along side with it and also how it explores the stigma that korea has with mental illness. obviously im not from korea so im not sure how accurate it was but as someone whos family background is also asian, i know how hard it is for people to destigmatize mental illness. it was also really interesting as someone who grew up in the west to see how different it is portrayed in the east.

spoiler alert! but when da-eun was outed with being hospitalized for depression i was so upset at the caregivers protesting against her to get her fired like she has depression not leprosy? shes still capable of doing her job and at the meeting head nurse song was spitting FACTS. i also loved how the people around her were like "it's not your fault you're sick, don't worry" and its so true. mental illness can hit anyone at anytime, people don't ask for it... that is to say although there is still a stigma in the west (canada specifically where im from) i find that among the younger generation its "normalized" to a certain extent.

park bo young as usual, kiiiilllled it. i love watching her in dramas cuz they never disappoint. i like how da-eun was grounded and felt real. her depression wasn't kinda overblown that a lot of kdramas might do. also whoever decided yeon woo jin's character needed their hair permed should be fired. it does not look good on him.

also side note: whoever did the ADR mixing also needs to be fired because i noticed all the ADR in the show. it was SO obvious. that is all :)

TL;DR - if you liked it's okay to not be okay, i think you would like daily dose of sunshine.

[enii]

I just wanna cry...