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The fandom has gotten really dark since you left.. certain shippers are really aggressive about their ships to the point of bullying. I kno you’ve dealt with stuff like that in the past and you handled it all so well I remember reading some anon asks.. any tips n’tricks?
OOF, WHELP -- not sure I'll be much help given that I have no idea what state the fandom is in. All I can really say is that you're going to find aggressive shippers no matter what fandom you're in. My method to dealing with people like that was to just block them and add them to my blacklist. The only times I ever engaged with them was if they came at me directly (which rarely happened -- the more aggressive they are, the more cowardly they were when it came to confrontation) or if they put a callout post about me directly in the main fandom tag. I always clapped back at those people just because like lol if you've got a problem with my fics or my decision to delete them all, okay cool, I don't care, but doing stuff like putting a long-winded complaint post in the main tag is so childish and stupid.
The best advice I think I can give for this is to just not care LOL I sure as hell never did and still don't. Never will! Shipping is supposed to be fun and the people who actively try and take that fun away from others are struggling with issues outside of fandom, but shipping is their outlet so that's where their aggression manifests. Happy people don't care about drama over fictional characters, so go be a happy person! Utilize that block option and live your best life!
#anon#for real you will find this in every fandom#I've been too involved in my own stuff to get involved with any other fandoms after this one#but if you'd like an example of a fandom that went absolutely feral in terms of bullying#lookup what happened to the Voltron fandom#I wasn't even active in it and I heard so much stuff about it#sending voice actors death threats#sending food laced with nails and poisons#lying about trauma to get people to donate to a gofundme#stealing thousands and thousands of dollars for zines#the bloodshed between Shiro/Keith and Keith/Lance#it was all so incredibly stupid#for the love of god be a happy person#indulge yourself in what you enjoy#ignore everything else#even if you try to be nice to everyone like I did you will still experience haters#it happens and no biggie#do your best and learn your lessons then move on#HOPE THIS HELPS#sorry for all the tags#I forgot how much I enjoyed just whispering gently down here
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Well I was really passionate about that apparently
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I want to bite someone. I also want to be squished like a bug until I can hardly think. Somehow these co-exist, because... logic?
#ursa talks#I think. Being squeezed would fix me. That'd do it.#Ignore everything else#This would work!#wfm
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FRIENDO!!!!!
Who's the #1 undertale au character from your "hug list"?
lemme check ✨le list✨
Willow/Crooks, Horrortale paps is at the top :D
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New wall decoration 😌 he's shining on me all the time ✨️
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He’s in his photography era
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ROTOMBLR EXCUSE ME
#ignore everything else#except for the owo#i'm bored#rotomblr#pkmn irl#irl pokemon#pokemon irl#irl pkmn#pokeblogging
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Sha Po Lang Drama make a sound if you're still alive
#like i know it'll be shit like word of honor or whatever that was called but i just want to see gu yun look good and then#ignore everything else#chang geng too i think? god i don't even remember the actor's face
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Please look at his crotch region fabric for the results of my newly discovered light painting technique 🙏🙏🙏
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#ao3#writing#ignore everything else#but look at the word count!!!#i did it#1000000#yas!#me and my writing
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aha! discoved that this shift does not in fact work as well as my boss thinks it should
stop post cancelled why did my coworker come sprinting through the studio with a guitar in hand
#shelby stop ranting#i cannot actually write/edit/produce an entire show in two hours.#IGNORE EVERYTHING ELSE#MIKE? WHAT R U DOIN BUDDY?
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“feel the burn” like no??? you don’t need to enjoy it. it might be happening but you don’t take pleasure in it. just ignore it. got back pain? try to ignore it. ran too fast and now your legs feel like they are made o stone? just ignore it.
#feelingtheburnisoverrated#ignore everything else#focus on your goal#but also#make sure you have fun while doing it
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thinking about neil straight up tossing his phone aside mid-makeout session 'cause he could nooot be bothered about his death sentence countdown. horny brain neil is so important to me
#he wouldve ignored the entire building being set on fire in that moment#and he would be right to#its so funny cuz being alone beside andrew his first thought wasn't even 'hmm i want 2 kiss him' he was literally doing homework#but the second andrew was like kissy time neil was like ok fuck literally everything else actually time to do the most important thing#in the world#beautiful#aftg#neil josten#andrew minyard#andreil
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breakfast!
btw i started drawing food and i don't think i'm gonna stop any time soon
#disco elysium#kimharry#kim kitsuragi#harrier du bois#yes it is just an excuse to draw food but heeeeeeyyyy first de fanart!#i'm training >:3#please ignore the fact that this is a completely different style than everything else#this is what i'm like when i'm not trying to draw conventionally beautiful things#food#ITS NOT A HEALTHY BREAKFAST#I KNOW WHAT NUTRITION IS
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like was the penis pillow theirs or like. was it from the airbnb
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pick your battles
#my art#my stuff#art#comic#original art#pride 2024#pride month#trans allegory..... or not even allegory. just trans .... ^_^#i technically cannot come out yet but i don't think the people who i need to not see this stalk my tumblr#i know they stalk everything else like my twitter and my instagram but this might be safe#so fuck it we yap. this is a comic about picking your battles#this is a comic about how for almost a year now everyone at home in singapore has been crying about my sore throat#my terrible fucked up voice. my you know. etc#i came out as not cis and using they/them pronouns in 2015 when i was 14#but no one ever used my pronouns. none of my classmates or friends even up until i left for college in 2020#from 2020 onwards every year i wrote an angry vulnreable essay about how much it hurts that they dont remember#and people would dm me apologizing on their hands and knees and commending my bravery#and then forget about it all over again. id ont mean 'they misgender me and then catch it and apologize and correct themselves'#i mean they dont even get that far#and so you might ask yourself: why have you kept them around all this time?#and i would have to explain that by pure bad luck i grew up in the most conservative close minded community#that all of my ex classmates that stayed in singapore are cishet and upper middle class and chinese singaporean#that i Am the trans person. that they were able to ignore me for a decade partially because there was no one else#so this is a comic about how there is dignity and grace in staying in the closet sometimes#about how not everyone deserves to see you at your happiest. about how some people can go fuck themselves#you know your truth and THATS THE ONLY THING THAT MATTERS!!! YEAH!!! i love you
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