#I've got a few more in me 🥶

[takkkoshi]

Posting old fanart for his birthday

[7ndipity]

Helloooooo Sara❄️how was your weekend ?

I saw the ask game repost and ngl wanted to ask everything 🤡but here are a few I chose

🌸 Best compliment you ever received?

🌿 Describe your favorite outfit.

☕ Coffee or tea?

📷 What’s set as your phone’s lockscreen?

Anddd yeah I get you when you say that you’re in front of the heater like a cat , because same here!! 🩵🥶 and yep your stories remind me a lot to bluejoons’, you both are on my top 3 here 🥹 sooo feel the compliment A LOT PLEASE ✨

Lol, you can ask as many as you want, I don't mind! As I've said before, you're always more than welcome to ask questions anytime!😘

🌸 Best compliment you ever received? - That I made someone's day better/helped them through a rough time. Or that I would be a good parent.

🌿 Describe your favorite outfit. - skinny jeans with either this dark green, shrug-neck sweater thing I got at TJ Max or just an oversized hoodie, and Converse hi-tops.

☕ Coffee or tea? - Usually I prefer coffee, but lately I've been drinking more tea, specially hibiscus tea, cause I heard it's supposed to help with anxiety and depression symptoms. Idk if it works, but at least it tastes nice😊

📷 What’s set as your phone’s lockscreen? -This pretty art piece I found a few years back on here.

[wave2tyun]

Moomin cookies?? :0 I'll gladly take some, I'm sure they're so delicious😋💞 I'LL MAKE SURE TO TAKE YOU TO MOOMIN LAND SOMEDAY!!😽❤️ (I think that's the name of it? It's like a Moomins amusement park!!)

Winter definitely get very cold here but over -30°c for like a week straight isn't the usual...🥶 (We even had a new cold record this year! I think it was over -40°c?) I remember as a kid in school we weren't allowed to spend recess inside unless the weather was over -15°c, so I'm used to the cold😼 You just have to put on layers... and I mean layers of clothes,, though when it's as cold as it's been I've decided to just stay inside when I can👍 I'm not a big fan of freezing☺��💞 and don't worry, I don't think the questions are silly at all!! :3❤️

I very much agree on cold>heat!! You can put on lots of layers but there's a limit on how many layers you can take off😣😣 It's been a bit warmer now but the cold is about to make another visit, so I'll have to stand it a bit longer :// but again, at least the snow is pretty!!! :D💞💞

My birthday was on the 12th of december so unfortunately you missed it, but that's alright!! :) I'm honestly just happy you're back🥰🥺❤️ All my friends always joke about how I'm the baby of the group, since I've got such a late birthday

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hehe they're gonna be sweet just like you😚😚💓 THERE'S A MOOMIN AMUSEMENT PARK??????????? you can take me there whenever no questions asked!!!!!! my schedule WILL be cleared anytime!!!!!!😋😋

-40°c........i get shivers just thinking about it oh my god!!!! it's so cool how people are able to develop a tolerance to it over time :00 even at -15°c i don't know how long i'd be able to last outside😳 i fully support your decision!!!! grab a blanket, make some hot chocolate- in this situation it's best to just stay inside and get cozy😼😼💞 also i'm glad you don't find it silly, i've always found it fun to discuss all kinds of differences like this!! :D<3

yessss the layers is such a good point!!!!! it's so much harder to find relief with the heat, and i hate feeling all sweaty and sticky😖😖😖 hang in there!!!!!! i'll make sure to send over warm hugs so you can withstand the cold for a few more days😔🩷

noooooo i would have loved to make something for you:( guess i'll just have to take you by surprise now🤭🤭💞 and that's so cuteeee!!!😔🩷😔🩷 for some reason december birthdays feel so much farther away, even though it's still just one year difference :00

[beautifullyboldphotography]

#happynudeyear everyone!!

Some things I'm looking forward to for the coming year:

>>A new camera! I'm planning to purchase it early 2023. I've been back and forth on sticking with DSLR or finally take the plunge to get a mirrorless camera. I think I am going to take that plunge

>>Starting a new job with a steady income. This will help me financially with a new camera, as well as save for a studio for my photography business. Outdoor shoots are the bomb, but in the wintertime, few peeps wanna be out freezing their bits off 🥶🥶

>>Trip planning!! I love that my gf (fiancee?? We aren't really into that word since we got engaged haha) loves to travel! I would love to be a traveling photographer when I'm not at home with a studio. We are in the works with an NYC trip for fall of 2023 as well as someplace warm in March (Cuba maybe??). I also want to book some trips closer to home too that involve meeting up for shoots!

>>More shoots (both paid client work and artsy, creative work) and meeting new peeps! 2022 I met some awesome people and reconnected with others. Hoping 2023 is more of the same!

Some changes/new habits I want to create:

>>Slight name change/modifications to my business. More deets to come!

>>More vids/BTS/reels in my stories. Get to know me, and my work process, a bit better.

>>Black and White photography. I like when I strip colour from a photo sometimes, but working in monochrome to begin with will make it easier for me to spot good photo ideas

>>Starting a new series (or 2?) I'm definitely really excited for one I'm starting soon!

>>Having an exhibition of some kind with my work in it

I am super grateful to all who support me and like my work either just this past year or have been here from the beginning. Thank you for following me and double tapping the occasional post or two ☺️☺️ I love what I do! I love helping people! I love making a positive impact in people's lives! It makes me feel good and want to do it more. I love making cool art! I love making art period! I love bringing people's ideas to life! All these things bring me joy and I want to continue to do them this year and beyond!

Model Credit: @forbiddenfairychild

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[mrs--edge]

Hello Mrs Edge. My husband has been reading your and Tom's blogs for a while, and he finally showed me your (this one) blog last week. I have enjoyed reading your thoughts about keeping your husband locked up. I do have a question for you.

We also like to keep my husband locked up for a few weeks at a time. I kept him locked for the entire month of October, the longest I've ever kept him locked. In preparation, we bought a Vixskin like yours so he could continue to have PIV with me. I enjoyed it, but... I felt like something was missing. I missed the intimacy of having him inside me, and I missed the feel of him coming in me. Is this normal? Do you miss Tom in that way? And how do you manage to feel "intimate" with just a dildo?

I'm not saying I didn't enjoy it (it was wonderful), but I'm not sure how you can do this full time.

I think I understand what you mean - I think you are asking about the feeling of physical intimacy with him locked. This is going to be a long answer.

When we first got into this, I did miss him inside me. Looking back, I think that was partly because the different faux cocks that we tried were not very good. They felt "off," if you know what I mean. I was getting orgasms, but like you, I felt something was missing. I would unlock him once in a while to feel him inside me, although I didn't always let him come.

For me, getting the Vixskin was a big step. Maybe because we tried half a dozen others first, it felt so much better that I liked it right from the start. But another thing that turned out to make a huge difference was Tom learning how to warm it up beforehand. Feeling something "room temperature" inside me wasn't very sexy. 🥶 But feeling something that was actually very warm and firm (and I mean, warmer than body temperature, like 120 degrees) turned it into a completely new experience. 😊

That was the, I don't know, the technical part? What you want to know is how to make it feel more intimate.

While the warmth felt amazing, Tom had to learn how to use it to my liking. It sits in a slightly different position than his caged one used to, so he has it sitting low on his hips. Before, when we made love he would position himself to do a lot of thrusting but without giving himself too much sensation so he could last longer for me. But the Vixskin will last as long as I want, so he can get his entire body really, really close to mine. He learned to move his hips differently, and his weight is now more on his elbows than on his hands. It's like every part of his body is touching mine now, which I absolutely love! And as he becamse used to reading my reactions, he learned how to make the Vixskin his own, if you know what I mean. The closeness of his body makes me feel so much more intimate, and the way he reads my responses "tells" him how to move, which adds to my own pleasure.

Also, it feels more intimate for him, which adds to his own excitement. And he makes a lot of the same noises when we make love - moaning, grunting, talking naughty in my ear, and kissing me very hard and deep. I can tell that he's getting aroused, and the feel of his cage against my ass just reminds me of the control that I have over him. It has become a much more intense feeling for me now, which also triggers him. And that leads me to another part.

I know that some of these chastity memes talk about never allowing your husband to have an orgasm, but I don't like that idea. I like making Tom come because it makes me feel all sexy and hot inside to watch him and listen to him. And back when we started locking him up, even though I used to keep him locked for as long as possible, when something happened, like the stupid cages breaking, I was usually happy to go back to making love with him, just to feel that happen. Feeling him move and pulse inside me was both sexy and intimate.

When I learned how to make him come in his cage, though, and especially when I learned how to work him up to having really powerful orgasms in his cage, I found that I didn't miss it happening inside me. Or maybe, the combination of all of those other things together made it so I didn't miss it enough to want to unlock him.

I can make him very aroused, and I know when he's getting close. I make him ask permission (I almost always allow it), or sometimes he tries to hold back, so it's a game to me to try to make him come. But now, everything else feels the same to me - he moans and gasps, and bucks his hips, and grabs me to pull me close to him so he can bury himself (his Vixskin) deep into me, and after I give him permission, he comes as hard as he used to... or maybe even more. And it makes me feel all hot and sexy and powerful that I can make him do that.

So, that's where my own mind is at with this. I'm not saying that you're doing anything wrong - you are going to enjoy what you enjoy, and it doesn't have to be what I enjoy. But for me... for us... it's probably the combination of everything that makes everything so hot and intimate and fun, so much that I don't miss how things used to be.

[foxymoxynoona]

Aahhhh just finished chapter 47 of flux and I want to say I FUCKING LOVED IT. first of all Sasha and eomma finally meet???? Hello??? It’s been a hot minute since I told you I wanted them to meet and it finally happened. What I want to focus on here tho is how fucking relatable this chapter is. Since I’m a language student, I want to say thank you because you’re giving me a chance to talk about something I can at least pretend to know😉. This was linguistic insecurity portrayed at its finest! (Mixed with the fact that she was meeting the family which is probably one of the most nerve wrecking moments in a relationship. I didn’t have to meet them and I got second-hand anxiety🥶).

Again, her processing everything that had been said in Korean and not being able to respond is so realistic. I’ve been speaking French for 10 years now but if I have to speak to a French person? I don’t know French, don’t know what a baguette is. Even when I write these things to you I get insecure and my brain creates the dumbest doubts humans are capable of thinking. You should take a look at my Google search bar, it’s usually something like “is the sentence “I like music” grammatically correct?” Or sometimes when I have to speak to NES suddenly my accent gets super fucked up and weird and mechanic over words. I’ve been speaking English for something like 16 years so my scientific conclusion is that it never goes away.🤡

Also, anxiety doesn’t help at all. Every time Sasha did something and then be like “why did I do that? See now they hate you” PLEASE THAT WAS SO TRUE. I could be breathing and out nowhere my brain just goes “damn you look so dumb right now” ugh intrusive thoughts understood their assignment🤪🤪

Well, I’m sensing a little (lot) bit of stress for Sasha in the next few chapters😀 but hopefully it gets better with time and I won’t feel this pressed reading👀👀

PS. I want to hug Appa. Please he’s so kind and funny, I hope him and Sasha will grow fond of each other as time goes on. I’m envisioning this wonderful scene of both Sasha and Appa forming a coalition and teasing jk until he begs them to stop.😫😫😫

PPS. Thank you for posting today, I woke up with chaos aka Jin enlisting and now I’m going to sleep with a nice thought (aka your stories that inevitably distract me from real life issues cause if you can’t solve ‘em you gotta ignore ‘em! Said no one but me)

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Yeah the pILING ON of insecurities here was enough to drown in: language insecurity, cultural isnecurity, attachment insecurity, just on and on.

I'm absolutely the same way on the language stuff, I'm terrified anytime I speak to someone in German or Spanish on here because I doubt even the most BASIC things I know haha. I've been signing a lot more lately too and I'll ace all the tests, and then when I need to actually understand a conversation in real time it's just all gone.

The accent difficulties and Jungkook not hearing it I lifted directly from my own IRL meeting haha. Blending families across cultures can be so fucking hard, and my husband even lived in the US for most of his life so it wasn't even as sharp a culture divide as Sasha and JK!

Glad the update could help distract you a little. Probably that's why I'm writing so hard haha, can't stop to think when I'm busy writing the fantasy world I control instead!

[papirouge]

Have you ever been to the U.S.A.? Or traveled? I'm so curious for your thoughts!

I want to travel to all 5 continents and I've yet to go to Oceania and America. Europe is tiny so I've been in a few places already. UK, Spain, Netherlands, Belgium... I disliked the Netherlands (they're cold hearted🥶) but I liked Spain. *If you want to travel to Europe, you should start with Southern countries that are much friendlier* The UK is filthy expensive but it's cute. Belgians are sweet donuts.

For Africa: Congo (Republic of), Tanzania and Kenya. Wonderful people all around. I fell like a demon bc they were just too kind, it's unreal. Fell in love with Kenya. Masai men are BEAUTIFUL. Their skin is surreal. Being in Africa truly made me feel like a female - the men are soooooo hot and masculine yet very skinny which is totally my type😩💗💗 They cooked for us and made fire, changed tires and repaired things and were so polite uuuughhh #husbandmaterial When I got back in France it took me some time to readjust bc everyone looked so old and fat lmao (especially men - men shouldn't get fat)

In Asia: only did Japan (Mochimune + Tokyō) and it was okay. Tokyō is overrated. If you're not a weeb or a party girl you'll get bored easily. I'd like to go to Osaka next time I got there. White Westerners exaggerate the weirdness of Japan when deep down it's just another rich country. The truth is: the biggest cultural shifts are between rich and poor country. Whites love going to Japan for a very superficial cultural change thrill, but they'll conveniently avoid places seriously challenging their usual lifestyle. Living in a place with no running water, no fridge, and no internet connection is more exotic than capsule hotels, let's get real. Same for human relationships.

I am Black African and I reconnected with cultural & social code of my people which confused me a lot more than what I've learned & observed interacting with Japanese. It's interesting how Westerners acted like japanese was the only place culturally different from the Western world, as if there was only the Western vs Oriental block. Subsaharian Africa as a whole is whole different world but hey, maybe it's not that bad that nosy White Westerners aren't flocking there to make shitty vlogs about #weirdCongo or trash like that lol

Covid halted my plans but I wish going to America, maybe not the US. Jamaica and Costa Rica look very beautiful. Too bad my Spanish sucks. If I go to the USA I'll most definitely aim for the West coast.... or Texas! 🤠 White trash America fascinates me lmao. Cowboys & rednecks are SO exotical from a Western Europe perspective. I've got to meet one!

I'd like to go to Iceland too. Seeing aurora borealis is one of my longtime dream💙🌌