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The funny part here is that I got sent to India years ago for an entire month. I locked up Tom right before I left, and spent the next few weeks thinking about him being under my control half a world away.

Something "clicked" for me during that time. I can't really explain it, but I felt so much more secure and in charge, and I knew that I didn't want that to end. When I got back, we had some hot lovemakingz and I asked him... no, I told him that I did not want to unlock him just then. He held me until I went to sleep.

We woke up and had some nice slow morning sex, and that's when I told him that I wanted to keep him locked longer. Like, a lot longer, with no end date in mind. He was so horny that he would have agreed to anything, but he told me that my having all the control was the hottest part.

I kept him locked up for another 5 or 6 months. It only ended because the plastic cage broke.

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Control. When my hubby came to me about the chastity idea, initialy I didn't get it, but then I thought "Control!" . He needs to be controled, he just asked me to lock up his member. The part of him that he wants desperately to be inside me , and let's be honest , before me , in any other piece of ass he thought would say "yes". Now he has come to me to say "control me". This is a big step!

It may take some women a while to seize this opportunity, but not this women!  While I don't want to control his whole life , he's an adult, we are equal partners, and that will not change. I do like the idea controlling sex. Men's sex life can be a wild place. Thinking about sex almost constantly , masturbating, looking at pornography, pressuring women for sex, I could go on. But like a game with no structure or rules, it can be less than satisfying.

I've heard some women say "I have the pussy, I make the rules"  but most of the time it's not true. The woman are like a dam struggling to hold back the water.

But the cage gives structure and true control. You gave me an opening to lock you up and control your sex life (thank you!) and I took it to it's logical conclusion: permanent default-lock up. More to follow.....

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Hi Tom, I'd really like to know when was the last time your penis was sexually stimulated outside the cage? And how does it make you feel? Do you miss it, are you frustrated? What are your feelings? :)

I've written before that chastity is a scorekeeping game for a lot of guys. How long, how many days, weeks, months, how many orgasms, how many days since being locked/unlocked, how long since last coming, etc. So in one of those twists of fate, I have absolutely no idea when I was last unlocked for sex or an orgasm. All I remember is that it was in the winter of 2018, probably late February or early March. See, being locked up so often and for so long when I am, neither my wife nor I thought about tracking it. At the time, neither of us realized that it would segue into a permanent thing.

In the seven-plus years since then, I have had to come to terms with being locked permanently, with going from ruined to full-on caged orgasms, and with being "replaced" by first the Vixskin Tex, and then later, with the bigger Vixskin Ranger. I've documented some of my feelings about that here, and of course, much of it has been displayed in the caption text that I have posted.

Back in the early part of the year, I pointed out to Mrs Edge that she only allowed me to come twice in the past year, and just twice the previous year. For some reason she seemed to enjoy that idea, and so now it's been at least a year since my last orgasm, and she does not seem disposed to allowing any for a while. Maybe a long while.

I have not processed this yet, so I don't really have an answer. So far, I'm finding it more hot than upsetting (which, I should point out, is exactly how I feel about everything in the past seven years). Will that change? Maybe, but probably not. Good sex is mainly in the brain, and our relationship has only improved on our sex life. 🔏