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Jungkook: when I say I’m ‘feral’ it doesn’t always mean I’m angry

Jungkook: it usually means I’m just stupid and if you give me food you’ll earn my trust and I’ll follow you around.

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Y/n: hey, if I ask you a boy question, do you promise not to be weird?

Yoongi: I promise

Y/n: so there’s this guy, J-

Yoongi, firmly: you can do better

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Hobi: when was the last time I asked you for something?

Y/n: yesterday. you asked me to look into your ear to see if there was a ladybug in there

Hobi: okay! when was the last time I asked you for something and it wasn't a MEDICAL EMERGENCY!

Y/n: yesterday. you asked me to look into your ear to see if there was a ladybug in there

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Jimin: I win

Y/n: I'm literally pinning you down

Jimin: I know

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Taehyung: this world is dark and cold and everyone dies alone

Namjoon: I’m sorry y/n forgot to kiss you goodbye this morning, but we have to go rehearse-

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Jin: i don't really feel comfortable around large groups of people

Y/n: well, what do you consider a large group?

Jin: anyone more than me

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Jungkook: hey

Y/n, working: *silence*

Jungkook:

Jungkook: everyone's bones are wet

Y/n, horrified: why would you say that?????

Jungkook: no one said hi back

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Namjoon: i know school is hard, but it is important. trust me, everything will work out well. you should think about your future. you just need to hold on, i’m here for you

Yoongi: drop out, do crime, be gay

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Hi, sorry for bothering you, but I need to vent with someone 🤧

I have this "Friend" from another town that I knew last year, and this year, I moved to the town she lives in.

We both organize Cup Sleeve Event for Bangtan (She on his town and me in mine) well, I moved to her town and when I meet her again in June I told her that I was going to open a coffee shop and I wanted to both of us work together and made events, helping each other.

Well, time passed, and I invited her to the opening which was on JULY 26 (She didn't even read the text I sent her) she showed up a week and a half later, just because she was going to leave some stuff she sells in the coffee shop so her clients would pick them there, I told her that was okay that It was no problem (because it wasn't) there she told me that if we where still working in the cup sleeve events together and i told her that yes, well she told me that because we didn't spoke since we meet in June she was going to do the Namkook event in another coffee shop but that we will work together for Jimin's, and I told her that was okay that I was going to do Jungkooks (I invited to this which was last weekend and she didn't showed up) and Namjoons birthdays separately.

Well, today I announced that I was going to do Namjoon's cup sleeve this weekend and she told me: "It's the same date as mine", and I told her "I know but I have another event next weekend so I couldn't do it on next" (I Knew it that this weekend was going to be her because she announced two weeks ago, (She didn't mentioned i saw it on Instagram and I told myself "Oh well it's going to be the same day but I have planned mine since I opened my coffee shop and she didn't showed up and i can't change my schedule because of her and both are two days so people can go to both without any problem because both eventare different (In hers they do ramdom dance, games, dance covers etc) and i mine you can just show up, go for the drink and take pictures and go or stay if you want to come with friends)

Well, right now, she unfolllowed and removed the follow of the coffee shop Instagram from her page and the same from my other small business, which we will have collaborated on in the past.

I don't know if I was wrong for not telling her about my event's date or if she's the one who is being childish. 🙃

Hi dear,

I really don't think you were in the wrong, it's pretty clear that your friend wasn't keeping the line of communication open between the two of you and was focusing only on her own projects.

The fact that she got mad that your events were the same weekend is ridiculous. She didn't bother to even tell you when her event was, whereas you've had yours planned for months. That on top of the fact that she's not made any attempt to be a part of your other events, or even text you, makes it really clear she's focused only on herself and not on working together with you.

You're not in the wrong, and she's definitely overreacting.

I'm sorry you're having to deal with that, I hope you find much kinder friends who will support your events and new business🫂💜

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Their Partner Has Sensory Issues

Ot7 x Reader

Summary: How would the members handle a partner who has sensory issues(specifically if they hate certain textures like denim or paper because of how dry/scratchy they feel, or they're always putting lotion on their hands to combat the unpleasant feelings of certain materials)

Warnings: implied sensory issues, reader wears a dress in Tae’s scenario, not proofread

A/N: Thanks to the lovely anon who requested this! Sorry it took me a bit to get to, I hope you like it. I wrote these a little differently than usual as more of a scenario type instead of reactions, so lmk if y’all like this.

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Jin: He was so proud of himself as he wrapped up the sweater he’d bought you. He’d noticed you eyeing at the store earlier in the week, but when he asked if you wanted it, you’d said no, turning away without another word, but he could tell by your expression that wasn’t quite true. So he had decided to surprise you with it as a gift. When you opened it however, he caught the way your expression faltered, and he knew something was wrong. You then explained rather apologetically about how you had sensory issues with certain textures, which is why you hadn’t bought the sweater in the first place. He felt slightly guilty for not realizing sooner, but he absolutely understood your reasoning. He makes sure from then on to get your opinion on any clothes he buys for you(though tbh he can’t help but laugh a little now and then when you practically hiss at certain textures like an angry cat, you’re just too cute to him)

Yoongi: He had noticed your preference for certain fabrics and textures, but he never thought too much about it until the day when you explained your sensory issues to him. After that, he tries not to put too much focus on it, but he does try to find little ways to help and make you feel more comfortable. He keeps extra bottles of whatever cream or lotion you use at his place and studio(and in his car and bag tbh, lol). He also asks about what fabrics or textures you’re uncomfortable with so that he can try to avoid buying them, just to make sure you’re comfortable when you’re at his place. His couch is a bad texture? Next time you’re over, there just happens to be a cozy throw blanket conveniently placed so that you can drape it over wherever you're sitting so that it’s comfy for you. He never says anything about it , but you notice his little gestures and they make you feel so seen and loved.

Hobi: When you made yet another excuse for not staying over at his place, he didn’t know what to think. Was there something wrong between the two of you, were you not comfortable around him? When you explained however that it was simply because the texture of his bedding was super uncomfortable for you, he was beyond relieved. That he could fix, easy peasy. He immediately took you shopping with him for new bedding, making sure that you tested the feel of everything he picked out before he would even think of buying it, wanting to make sure it was all as sensory friendly for you as possible. He won’t hear a word of argument about it either, you’re his partner and your comfort matters to him. He might not fully understand your sensory sensitivities, but he can at least try and make you feel as comfortable at his place as possible.

Namjoon: As the two of you were walking home from a date night, he noticed that you were getting cold, repeatedly bracing against the cool evening breeze and shivering slightly, but every time he offered you his jacket, you would politely refuse, even though he could plainly see goosebumps on your arms. After the third attempt, he finally asked what was going on, and you explained that it was because you really hated the feel of denim, especially on your arms, it was soo rough and heavy. He nodded along as you explained and let it go in the moment, but the next time you went out together, he made a point to wear something much softer and sensory friendly, biting back a proud grin when you later accepted it being wrapped around your shoulders on the walk home. It might’ve been just a little thing, but sometimes the little things mean the most.   

Jimin: He was starting to get really freaked out. You’d been keeping him at arms length all day, barely touching him or letting him hug you. Normally, the two of you were practically joined at the hip, especially after he’d been away for work, but today it was like you couldn’t stand to be near him for more than five seconds. When he finally asked if he did something wrong, you looked so confused before realizing, turning apologetic as you explained it wasn’t anything he’d done, it was just the sweater he was wearing was a sensory nightmare for you, and you’d just been trying to avoid touching it, not him. As soon as you said that, he was yanking off the offending piece of clothing faster than you could blink, throwing it across the room and tackling you in tight hug. After that, he makes sure to wear fabrics he knows you’re comfortable with, because there’s no way he’s missing out on cuddles with his favorite person for the sake of fashion.

Taehyung: Honestly, Tae has mentioned in the past about having sensitive skin and having issues with certain fabrics or clothes fitting too tight, so when he noticed you squirming and fidgeting uncomfortably with the material of your dress, he understood almost immediately what was going on. He gently asked if you‘d like to maybe change up your date night plans and head home a little earlier, which you gratefully agreed to. Once you get back to his place, he gets you some of his comfiest clothes to change into and sets up the living room for a cozy night in watching movies and cuddling on the couch. He doesn’t usually draw attention to your sensory issues if he can help it, just treats them as another little piece of the puzzle that makes up who you are, and he loves every single piece. 

Jungkook: He had noticed some of your little habits, the way you only sat on certain chairs at his place, the way you kinda shook your hands out or wiped them off after touching certain things like paper towels. Finally curiosity got the better of him and he asked about it, not in like a rude or invasive way, he just wanted to understand you a little better. When you explained your sensory sensitivities to him, he feels guilty for putting you on the spot like that, but he can’t help but ask a few more questions, wanting to understand as much as possible so that he can make whatever adjustments he can to make you feel more comfortable. The paper towels he buys feel like sandpaper to you? He starts keeping a couple rolls of your preferred brand for whenever you come over. He doesn’t push or make a big deal of it, but he tries to make little changes to show that he sees and supports your needs, even in the smallest things.

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Hobi: I am HIGH AF!

Hobi: AF stands for April Fools, don't do drugs kiddos

Jimin: it's September

Hobi:

Hobi: ...well shit

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Y/n: there’s no “I” in team

Taehyung: there's no "U" either. so I guess if I'm not on the team and you’re not on the team, nobody’s on the goddamn team! this team sucks!

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Jin: I've been told that a bald refusal of an invitation is rude and one must instead offer up a polite excuse, so...

Jin: I'd love to go, but, unfortunately, that sounds awful

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Y/n: treat spiders the way you want to be treated

Yoongi: killed without hesitation?

Y/n: Yoongi, no-

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Jungkook: welcome to McDonalds, can I get your McOrder?

Namjoon: Jungkook, you don’t have to put Mc in front of every noun

Jungkook: oh okay

Jungkook: welcome to Donalds

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Jin: I got the birthday cake!

Y/n: it says happy 23rd birthday Jessica

Jin: ...fuck, he’s gonna be 25, isn’t he?

Y/n: his name is Jungkook

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Hobi: you know it doesn’t cost anything to be nice

Yoongi: it’s also free to be disrespectful

Hobi:

Y/n: he has a point