#I'm confused

[rdqt]

I agree with you op, but can I ask what happened? I've never seen any posts like "does this character eat pussy?"

Is this like a new meme or trend? What happened?/genuine question

actually i've been thinking about this for a while i think it's SO interesting to look at the perception of eating pussy over time

"it's misogynist to believe that ppl with vulvas dont orgasm, and it's misogynist to see vulvas as uniquely negative, repulsive, or not worth pleasuring" <- these are true statements

"which is why it's both misogynistic and poor etiquette not to give your pussy-having partner reciprocal pleasure" <- over-generalization with some truth in it

"pleasuring anyone with a vulva always necessarily means eating them out" <- this is not true, there are a lot of other ways to pleasure your partner

"misogynistic men are bad at sex specifically because they don't eat pussy" <- no, they're bad at sex because they don't respect you as a person

"if you don't eat pussy you're a misogynist + bad at sex" <- false equivalency

"eating pussy is feminist + makes you good at sex" <- false equivalency

which combines with all the other popfeminist fallacies on this site to create a dynamic where "does this character eat pussy?" is not actually asking whether your blorbo would partake in that totally neutral sex act, but rather ranking them on a feminist, moral, and sexual yardstick.

and you also see a lot of the radfem influence here, as "feminism is when woman, bc womanhood is inherently feminist and good, and misogyny is when a man, bc manhood is inherently misogynist and evil" gets translated into "men would never eat pussy. and women would always eat pussy" in this particular context.

and like i get it, okay, yes, you probably get better head from someone whose bodily experience is similar to your own, but that is not the only factor and that is not what this is about. so help me god if you keep fucking equating oral with feminism and feminism with gender and gender with morality and morality with sexual prowess i will personally come to your house and give you as many orgasms as it takes for you to admit that cunnilingus is not fucking praxis

[mjlor-chan]

what in this scream nsfw? like ??? He is just chasing a laser like a cat and then is embarrassed about it. i'm confused

[mxd-mortells]

reading posts made by the locked tomb fandom having never read the books is so wild. Like on one hand i think people must be exadurating but on the other i've been in some batshit fandoms before so all this could be entirely plausible.

why did the tiny bone lesbian give herself a lobotomy???? did jesus call someone a slut?? what does that mean?? is everyone really a lesbian? do people switch bodies or get reborn or something what is going on?

[hannibard]

So is Lettenhove part of Bremervoord? Jaskier is from Cidaris? What is happening with the lore?

[birdiebirdjay]

wait,, i sort of just realized something

snaters like to throw around the word 'friendzoned' when talking about him, but severus and lily weren't even friends in the end? it was never 'i don't like you romantically', it was 'we were friends and now we are not'.

canon snily was never actually romantic in the first place, it was more of a close sibling-like best friends bond (i think). (it was a pretty unhealthy friendship for both of them in their later years, but that's completely unrelated.) where did the friendzone thing even come from? was it just because lily ended up dating james and then people interpreted severus' hate for him being caused by that? because as far as i remember, severus hated james for making his life a living hell during hogwarts.

i don't know, i just feel like a lot of snape hate comes from misconceptions within the fandom

[dolefulsunfish]

I like to imagine Astarion flipping every fey creature he meets just to see what they'll do :D

[tylovingkit]

the urge to scream "I love you Ody" at the top of my lungs as an EPIC: the musical fan fighting against the urge to scream "Oh come on Odysseus" at the top of my lungs as a canon Odyssey fan fighting against the urge to scream "Fucking DIE, Odysseus" as a Circe by Madeline Miller fan

[rochenn]

Hypothetically if you walk in a street and it's dark and there are cops (on foot) under a street light and you can see their faces but they can't see yours and they yell at you in Hungarian and jog after you. And you dip (brisk walk/light jog). And after a few minutes they stop chasing you. What did you do wrong to draw such attention

[ozonekid89]

Guys how the heck are the nublar 5 getting on a boat to go anywhere weren't they in Colorado???

I'm assuming they would've had to had taken the Arkansas River to the Gulf of Mexico orrrrr the Colorado River to Mexico and then go south to Costa Rica potentially??

[cartoon-cass]

While looking at Doll's design I found out that from episode 1 till 3 Doll wear's her mother's necklace as a bracelet and nobody seems to remember this?? Like it's plot relevant but somehow in all the art work I've seen of Doll I've only ever seen it once!

[ficsinhistory]

My pals...how old is Shadow in the movies?

You see, Shadow, as Sonic, is a hedgehog. And hedgehogs in movies grow at the same rate as humans. Sonic went from a baby to a teenager in 10 years. BUT the movie implies that Shadow came out of the meteor at the age of a teenage Sonic (14-15 years old). He was only 3 years on Earth. He grew up in another place?

What the hell is that supposed to mean? How old is this traumatized child????

[demial4]

[jcollinswrites]

Why is Petmes kinda....👁️👄👁️😏

I'm... not sure...?

[toomanydramass]

Okay guys hold on i though we were only getting a peck on the lips but they went full on make out session mode??????

Also it's diabolical that we need to wait 4 days for another episode, give me all of them now 😭😭😭

[ra5pberry-jam]

I'm so confused (not anymore)

Guys.. I'm writing a fanfic rn and am very confused by something.

Why- if Bill was possessing Ford on the daily- couldn't he just boot the portal back up after Ford found out he was being deceived? It clearly wasn't that hard if Stan and Ford can activate it as they're brawling on accident

Bill is like an infinitely intelligent near immortal being, able to cheat death and the one GIVING Ford the ideas for the portal. If Ford left behind enough information for Stanley to rebuild MOST of the portal with JUST Journal 1, why couldn't Bill just dig through Ford's notes, or brain, and go turn the portal on himself??

Help T>T

(Thank you to those who commented :D I am no longer confused lol)

[sophiakawaii]

I find it funny that the angel and vox of voxtagram had more things in common than the rest of the characters in the show, for example

both have a pet, and I assume both are animal lovers.

the vox of voxtagram was abused by valentino, and we all already know how valentino treats angel

We both like food, vox He preferred savory things angel He preferred sweet things which I remember well

Well this doesn't have much to do with it, but I like their way of taking selfies so similar that I find it funny XD

Stupid striped shirts with bow ties, I hate those stupid bow ties

Anyway I know voxtagram isn't canon but I'm just annoyed that none of the characters in the show have anything in common.

seriously charlie doesn't even know the people he calls friends, this is ridiculous.

However I don't know what to say, this has no explanation for me