#I'm a bad mom
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Hey Google, How do I show my kid that I'm not betraying him because I have a brother?
#on todays episode of#I'm a bad mom#hunters upset because I won't fight him#because I have a brother#because we lost Bella#because I wouldn't let him cry by himself in his room instead I followed him to check on him#because I walked away to give him space#because he wanted to watch the movie that he's already watching (which I didn't even suggest changing)#and so on#all these big feelings man#the main problem is the fact I have a brother and it's not him#i tried explaining that#i didn't choose to have a brother but I did choose him and that didn't make it any better#someone send help#i think we're gonna have to go for a car ride and maybe get some ice cream to fix this
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I fucking hate when one of my silly incorrect quotes post is successful and people reblogged it with some Bruce's slander. Get the fuck off my post.
"Talia took care of Jason because Bruce abandoned him."
Wtf are you talking about. Bruce didn't abandoned Jason, he died. And he didn't abandoned him when he came back, Jason was not in the right to ask people to prove their love to him by killing others. And he also tried to kill the Joker after Jason died, he thought he had succeeded. Like, shut the fuck up.
"I don't give Bruce credit for anything regarding Dick's education."
Well, who the fuck raised him from 8 to 18 then? Alfred Pennyworth? The same Alfred Pennyworth that raised Bruce Wayne? The one that maintained the "employee/employer" distance with the grieving child he raised. Look at young adult Bruce Wayne and I dare you to tell me Alfred Pennyworth can raise a child better than Bruce, I dare you. And don't you fucking dare blaming Bruce for it, that would be ableist af to fucking blame him for being mentally ill and labelled it as "difficult", I don't tolerate that shit. Bruce Wayne was there for Dick when he lost his parents, he helped that kid through grief and showed him love, he held him close contrary to how Alfred held him. He taught him how to be a great detective, how to be a great fighter, and all he wanted was Dick to be a better man than him. Go tell that bs to your fav and see if he agrees (he doesn't, Dick doesn’t agree and would bite your head off for saying that)
#bruce wayne#batman#dick grayson#batfam#dc comics#my ramblings#sorry I'm annoyed#n°1 Alfred's critic it's me#and the shit people use to describe Bruce as a kid is the same bs my mother uses to excuse abusing me#so no I am not accepting any “he was a creepy weird kid” bs#one day I will rant about the harm of Alfred raising Bruce by keeping him far from him#and how it is 100% why Bruce is so bad at relationship and communication with his kidd#like he was raised with NOBODY wanting to be his family or at least not looking as if they wanted to be his family#blood family? Hate him. Surrogate mom? doesn’t even live with him. Alfred? call him “master” and refuse to accept his father role
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Unexpected reunion
#part 1 of possibly 3?#we'll see how it goes this took me forever and I'm still upset that the lineart ended up looking bad#but hey its him! The myth the legend its Halsin!#and Jyothika is thinking about kicking his ass but she won't#she will yell at him though and be pissed at him till Act 3#but yeah he got pressured into proposing to her by her parents and him not realizing that he could say no and it would be okay#At the same time? No one had ever told Jyothika no except for her mom and her mom was totally on the I love Halsin you should marry him#train but yeah#Jyothika is also quite young and inexperienced with love#Halsin is basically her first love#and technically her major love before Bhavan so#bg3 tav#c:jyothika#baldur's gate 3#bg3#tav#baldurs gate tav#halsin#halsin silverbough#Astarion#shadowheart#dark urge#baldurs gate durge#bg3 dark urge#c:bhavan#bg3 durge#baldurs gate dark urge#durge
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a frickin magical girl who fights with the power of dance and conversation? Hell yeah!
#princess tutu#digital illustration#my art#duck princess tutu#i was dumb and didn't look up a reference#i think it looks pretty oaky though#i'm just worried in dance language this mean doing your mom or something generally bad ):
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sick sick sick and twisted!! - tim drake x reader
"I'm dyinggggg." You groan, trying to lift yourself off the mattress as you fall back down with a thud, groaning as Tim hums.
"You're being dramatic. The road to recovery is only uphill from now on." He mumbles, pressing the spoon to your lips.
"Yeah, you can say that when I'm not coughing my lungs out and waking up in our shared bed at 2am because I knocked out only to wake up bc of my god-awful coughing." You mumble. "I don't like this."
"Been a while since you've been sick and not hungover."
"I'm killing myse—" You pause. "Becoming a trout."
"In Gotham waters?"
"Sure." You grumble, drinking the soup with a huff.
"At least they put you on antibiotics."
"Some days I wish you went into the medical field."
"Not happy with your CEO husband?"
"I'd be much happier with a doctor."
"You sure?"
"No. I'm plenty happy with you." You mumble. "I'll nurse you back to health if you get sick."
"With this spleen? Yeah, you will be."
"How romantic." You turn the other way to cough, falling into the mattress with a thud as you groan. "In sickness and health."
"Includes richer or poorer."
You smack him.
#☾.pretty bird#tim drake x reader#☾.blurbs#this is for me n ext tbh we're both sick#u ever had a sickness so bad you had to pull out a blorbo from the depths of hell#im at the point in my sickness where I'm like 'wow i want a boyfriend not to date just to take care of me n then im like... do i want a mom
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Legend bloodied and drooling in your style please! The juxtaposition will be so tasty.

He tripped and got very severe injuries, it will be a difficult task for Rulie this time 😔���, RIP Legend.
I tried but I think gore isn't really my style *wink wonk* 💀. No but seriousing now, I find it really hard to draw serious or angsty drawings, my mind is rotted with memes and my artstyle (is this even art? 💀) doesn't help XDKJASDH. So I try my best, and here's Legend all bloodied, not drooling but crying, he had a bad day before falling (he hit his little toe with the drawer) :( and he's done.
Thanks for the ask my friend, hope you like it!!!!💖💖💖💖
#linkeduniverse#linked universe#lu fanart#my art#lu legend#linked universe legend#lu hyrule#linked universe hyrule#I swear I try my best#I think my drawings are kinda poop quality lately#I feel like I'm giving you frozen pizza for dinner#and I just want to give you nice homemade soup with all the meat and stuff#I'm a bad mom y'all :(...#I have a lot of requests already done so I'll be posting them these days#hope y'all like them#they may look poopy but at least I kinda have a lot of fun doing them#and it's been months since I've just posted simpler doodles like the pencil ones I did back in august#ok nevermind those are really poopy 💀#but it's fun anyways
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the beginner's guide asks, "i did this to you; how do i be good? am i good, despite everything i've done to you? despite me hating myself?"
and wanderstop replies, "yes. yes, you are good. say it back to me. okay. good. trust yourself a little more. sit with the pain, discomfort and loss. let yourself grieve. we will be here for as long as it takes. we will only move again when you are ready."
#the beginner's guide#wanderstop#wanderstop spoilers#davey wreden#i'm thinking about monster so so so fucking bad.#i'm thinking about how alta's mom said yes. if you have ocd i can help you. but don't tell dad.#i'm thinking about boro asking you if you're ready to move on. multiple times he asks and offers you this unrelenting peace.#yes you have to move on. yes you will change and progress. yes this is how life will be. it may be harder beyond the meditative#but as a game we can offer you this. just a little while longer.#unrelentingly kind. when you are ready we shall move on.#thinking about what it means to trust yourself.#i'm going to get a diagnosis next month.
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Been rewatching the early Marvel movies and apparently this is the time of my life where I just get re-obsessed with characters I love so here's some random thoughts about Loki/Thor the Dark World:
Why. In the world. In the universe. Did Odin not ask Loki ANY questions when Loki was brought before him for judgement in Dark World? Like, at the BAREST MINIMUM he should have asked where Loki got an ARMY, the last time he'd seen Loki was when Loki fell off the Bifrost and then he vanished for a year and showed back up with the glowstick of destiny and an army that Thor says "are not of Asgard or any world known". ODIN. WHY ARE YOU NOT ASKING QUESTIONS ABOUT THIS?!
Like, we are aware that Odin is. partial to giving his kids harsh punishments. He obviously doesn't care about Loki's motives. Like, a good parent would look at their kid who disappeared for a year and then came back insane and be like "hey so what happened to you when you disappeared? you didn't get captured by a super powerful being and tortured into submission did you?" (Thanos tortured Loki I have SOURCES and I WILL cite them upon request) But even a bad parent who was a decent king would wonder how their kid suddenly got an ARMY out of NOWHERE and yet Odin never questions this at all. Even Thor in Avengers at least asks Loki "Who showed you this power? Who controls the would-be king?" (which just shows Thor would honestly be a better king than Odin tbh) but Odin is just like "nah this is not important. imprisoning my son for life and telling him how worthless I think he is is more important in this moment."
I wonder if she'd had more time if maybe Frigga would have been able to get Loki to tell her what happened and if maybe that was part of her goal of visiting him (beyond just, you know, actually being a decent parent who cares about her child and wanting to keep him company) because we know she's clever (she's smarter than Odin good gravy, is there like an age difference between them is he going senile or something) so PERHAPS she thought if she talked to Loki she could puzzle out what had happened to him and find out if there was, you know, a potential universal threat Asgard should be aware of. And like, if she had found out anything what was Odin going to say? He can't actually punish his wife in any meaningful way (lol imagine he tries and she just grabs her two grown sons and leaves, help xD) especially if she found out IMPORTANT INFORMATION that he SHOULD have discovered on his own.
This does kind of highlight an underlying problem with Odin, where he seems to think that Asgard is invincible and is, well, lazy about defending it. Like, I've seen posts about how Loki letting the Frost Giants into Asgard in the first movie is actually him not just showing that Thor is not ready to be king, but also demonstrating that Asgard has dangerous holes in its defenses. Because yeah, Loki can HIDE HIMSELF FROM HEIMDALL and sneak into Asgard. Heck, he can sneak OTHERS into Asgard while he's not even WITH them. That- that is a security threat, because if anyone BESIDES Loki could do that then Asgard could easily be invaded and- wait a second, that happens in The Dark World! The Dark Elves hide themselves from Heimdall and sneak an invasion force into Asgard! Destroying it's defenses and KILLING ITS QUEEN. Like, my goodness, do you think Loki is the only person with these abilities? Are you even trying Odin? At all?
TLDR; Odin is an idiot for not questioning Loki about the Chitauri/where he was for a year between Thor and Avengers, not to mention an awful father and an incompetent king.
#long post#loki#thor#thor the dark world#odin#marvel#this is really just me dunking on odin akjlghjafhgsf#the more I rewatch the movies the more this stands out like#my dude why are you like this#he's multitasking he's being both a bad king and a bad father!#loki in the first thor movie is such a smol overwhelmed bean I want to give him a hug#thor 1 gets so much more interesting when you watch the deleted scenes with loki in them my word#I showed my parents the one where the asgardians made loki king and my mom was like 'THAT WAS TWO MINUTES WHY'D THEY LEAVE IT OUT'#because it was IMPORTANT#like. I'm not saying Loki was making great decisions that whole movie#but he was overwhelmed and highly emotionally compromised and felt trapped#he was doing his best#he's just quiet and doesn't yell his plans to everyone like thor so people suspect he's Up To Something#which might also be a little bit of commentary about how society favors extroverts#anyway#getting deep in these tags at almost 3am about movies that are 10-13 years old wheeeeeee
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#he drew#drawing#art#onceler#once-ler#the onceler#oncie#my art#my husband#the lorax#isabella#mom issues#Onceler Mother#IsabellaLer#sexy tumblr man#tumnblr#once ler#artists on tumblr#tumblr draw#i'm sorry#don't think bad#mother
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people being like "hunter needs structure and stability" respectfully hunter DOES need stability - in that he needs an environment where he's no longer afraid of the people around him & is confident that he'll always have a safe place to stay n safe people to call - but the kid absolutely DOES NOT need structure. if anything hunter needs LESS structure. this is mister "teens are probably into the same things as me, like authority and rules" please be nice to him.
my absolute favorite hunter darius dynamic is one with like, hunter asking to stay out late on a school night or whatever bc luz has some cool-as-shit event happening in the human world that he wants to attend & darius is just like "you can do whatever you want forever" & hunter's like "aren't you...??? going to....??? give me a curfew????"
darius: why would you need a curfew?
hunter: because i-! what if i'm TIRED before SCHOOL
darius: then you can skip a day.
hunter: [HORRIFIED GASP]
darius: kid. look. you already extensively weighed the risks and benefits of going to this thing on a school night. right?
hunter: ......i did make three charts.
darius: and you determined that the benefits outweigh the risks. with your three charts
hunter: .....yes
darius: ok.
hunter:
darius: so.
hunter:
darius: in conclusion. you can do whatever you want forever.
#and rheyre perfect. thank you.#toh#dadrius#hunter toh#darius deamonne#hunter does not need anything even REMOTELY approaching authoritarian and/or heavily structured parenting.#hunter needs a parent he can call to be like 'i may have overestimated my human alcohol tolerance' and have them come get him without#getting him in trouble. and darius is that! darius covered for hunter wrt flapjack u think that man has RULES??#or that it's a bad thing that he doesnt?? maybe it's just because i grew up with an authoritarian dad and extremely permissive mom#but i'm still friends with one of my parents and it's not. the one who wouldve cared if i was home by ten.#hunter needs someone to tell him it's literally fine to make his own rules and not sweat the small stuff#long post ?
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Mal's Avatar: The Last Airbender rewatch: The beach 3.05
#atlarewatch#avatar the last airbender#atla#azula#princess azula#zuko#prince zuko#mai#ty lee#gifs#avatarthelastairbenderedit#atlaedit#azulaedit#useramys12#tusersimone#userthing#smallscreensource#will not hear anything about 'ursa wasn't a bad mom to azula she just didn't enable her' cause that's not fucking true#i'm not saying ursa should've let azula get away with the bad stuff she did or that her intentions weren't good (which we literally have no#way of knowing ursa is barely a character) but if your child EVER feels like this you have FAILED as a parent sorry not sorry#she said out loud when she clearly knew azula could hear 'what is wrong with that child' DUDE WHAT IS WRONG WITH *YOU*???????#you gotta balance out reprimand with actual affection otherwise the child will not take in the message you're trying to teach them they'll#just think you hate them#AND SHE DID THAT RIGHT WITH ZUKO WHEN HE IMITATED AZULA AND THREW BREAD AT THE TURTLEDUCKS! she scolded him then showed him affection after#on another note!#i think the pause azula takes after saying she doesn't care is super interesting! cause it's VERY similar to the 1x20 zuko moment i#giffed when he's talking about how ozai favoured azula!!! i might make a separate parallel gifset just for that#GOD these siblings make me insane
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"this is acting!"
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i love seeing mark all anxious and protective over oliver but it also makes me sad bc it reminds me that oh yeah. just a few months ago he saw his brother be lifted by his little baby arm and flung around like a ragdoll and he couldn't do anything to stop it huh :(
#i think some ppl don't realize just how fucked up the whole angstrom thing was and how that event is influencing mark's mindset in season 3#like yes it's also a teenager thing but em. i don't think it's particularly weird for mark to be more aggressive and emotionally volatile#his mom and brother were almost killed and he murdered someone for it. that's... a pretty significant life event#in fact i'm a little disappointed they aren't having debbie act more outwardly affected by it#though i do think her not even letting oliver go outside and /try/ to make friends can definitely be construed as a bad coping mechanism#invincible spoilers#invincible#willow whispers
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i need to talk about this line here for a second, because it's an attack on me personally. but not the english translation of it, no, it's the og thai line that really gets to me. because he says:
มันโอเคนะเว้ย ที่จะมีความรักอ่ะ [man - oh-keh - ná wóiie • thêe - jà - mee kwaam rák - àh] it - okay - [particle] • that - will - be in love - [particle]
he specifically uses the term มีความรัก which is more like "to be in love". which means rather than "it's okay to love", this line is more accurately translated as:
It's okay to be in love.
and as someone who really really really struggles with self-acceptance for my own romantic feelings for others, this distinction is really important to me. i can deal with loving others. i love my family. i love my best friend (you really don't go here but hiiii @magsimags i love youuuu 😘 (i know you're rolling your eyes reading this as usual)(i don't care)(i love you)). i love my other close friend. i love my summer camp gang. i love my friend that style reminds me of. i love each and every single one of the friends i've made in this fandom over the past few years (you know who you are 💖). i KNOW it's okay to love. i do it all the time. loudly. as evidenced by the fact that i just HAD to tag my best friend in this post to publically tell her i love her even though she really doesn't care about my thai blorbos, just because i really couldn't NOT tag her to tell her i love her. anyway. i can love. loving is fine.
but to be in love??? that's a whole different story. having (in my case romantic) feelings for someone feels like a heavy burden. it feels humiliating. i hate it. i don't want it. it stresses me out. and the person i have feelings for especially can't ever know about it. see, i will talk about my crushes/romantic feelings, but mostly to family and friends (the better they know the person i have feelings for, the harder it gets for me to admit to it), and even then the word "be in love" won't ever come out of my mouth in my native language. in english it's easier, but in my native language i just can't say it. it feels heavy. it makes me cringe. being in love is horrible.
so when style said "it's okay to be in love" specifically? that was a punch to my gut. because this is a truth i have not yet managed to accept for myself. and if the person i had feelings for specifically told me "it's okay to be in love" so firmly and so earnestly? yeah, i would crumble too
#some lore about me i guess#the heart killers#stylefadel#fadelstyle#thk ep4#thk#airenyah explains thai#adrm#holy fuck writing this post i just realized something:#loving someone (lieben) is something i ACTIVELY do#but being in love (verliebt sein) is something that just HAPPENS to me. i have less control over it#maybe THAT'S what's stressing me out about it#ooooof i need to sit on this. maybe have a Serious Conversation™ about it with my mom or a friend#anyway coming back to thk:#i think style phrasing it specifically as ''to be in love'' rather than ''to love'' is a distinction that is important for fadel too#esp when looking at it from a ''loving is sth you actively do while being in love just happens to you''#we know that fadel's life is planned out to the tiniest detail and we know he likes to have control over things#but his developing feelings for style is something he CAN'T control no matter how hard he's tried and it freaks him out. it scares him#style is telling him that it's ok to let go. it's ok NOT to be in control for once. it's ok to allow things to take their course naturally#it doesn't have to be a bad thing#i'm about to cry bc i'm saying words that i desperately need to internalize myself
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a YouTuber just asked rhetorically, sardonically, if "Salvador Dali would be making NFTs if he were alive today" and the answer is emphatically yes. he would have loved that shit are you kidding
#dali was cringe sorry#people think the famous mid century artists were cool and fancy like classical painters#they were not#all of them were annoying and had bad opinions regardless of talent#all the classical painters were also extremely annoying#da vinci probably the least annoying main guy tbh#have you ever seen a picture of how gustav klimt lived#his mom and sister waited on him like maids and he spent 24/7 in a sort of dirty mumu#theyre all like that#im allowed to say this because I'm one of them but i dont have a Wife to wipe my ass#this is why “there are no great women artists” btw#klimt was not a “classical painter” im using him as an example of general profligate behavior in artists
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underrated but very important moment from DFF ep10: TanNew promptly hiding behind Jin ready to use him as a human shield as soon as Fluke, the one holding the gun, says his name:
10/10 man, what an unpologetic deranged iconic king i stan him with my life
#as jin's unofficial mom i should be scared for my boy but as an impartial viewer and a woman with a questionable taste in men i'm impressed#where's my own unhinged cutie :(#used this scene as a coloring test and it's not bad btw#might gif more tannew in the future#dead friend forever#dff the series#dff spoilers#dff tan#dff new
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