#I’m the mother of your children
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being told you don’t deserve kindness or empathy because you won’t fuck someone is so ridiculous you’d think it wouldn’t hurt to hear, but it does. it really fucking does.
#Like you don’t have to like me#but I’m a human being#and I watch you extend kindness to strangers and people you’ve never even met over the internet and coworkers you don’t even like#I’m the mother of your children#I almost died and went to hell and back twice to carry on your shitty as bloodline#and despite your cruelty I am kind to you#as kind as I can be#so kind it’s fucking embarrassing and pathetic#I make you coffee and breakfast in the morning and lunch for work and I take care of everything and I almost never ask you for help#you don’t shop or cook or clean or get up in the middle of the night and you can hardly even spend time with your family#because you need hours to get Hugh and drink and play games before you can exist near anyone#I always text to make sure you got to work safe and home safe and I always ask you how your day was and#I posted on the internet to get you local friends to play magic with and I literally try so fucking hard to make you happy#so our son can stop witnessing these fights but every day you find a new reason to scream at me and then I’m the crazy one#the argumentative one who lost all her friends because I’m too awful to withstand#and yeah I’m not my best right now but I am trying and I have never been this cruel#I’d sacrifice every piece of my soul if it made you happy enough to be a good father but nothing I do is ever enough because I won’t fuck#You BUT somehow when I was fucking you#when I tried to fuck every negative thing out of you so you’d be happy#it still wasn’t enough#and somehow that’s my fault too#how the fuck do you look someone in the eye and say nothing you ever do will be enough until you fuck me and I have no kindness or sympathy#for you because you don’t deserve it#I made you fucking soup and brought you meds when you had a cold and I took care of two kids alone while I had the flu and you complained I#didn’t get enough done??#like not once have you asked me about my day or offered any support or helped when I was hurt or sick or on no sleep you left me in the#hospital alone the day I gave birth#BUT I AM THE ONE UNDESERVING IF BASIC HUMAN DECENCY#I’m gonna throw up. I’m stupid for my choices and the kindness I extend to you and I’ll never deny that#but even stupid people and broken people and people who make mistakes deserve kindness and that is a hill I’ll die on
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what do you MEAN American public schools don’t teach what a verb’s aspect is??? what do you MEAN they expect all students to take foreign language classes without teaching them the foundations of their own language?!?!? what do you MEAN you want to address literacy without providing a deep education of descriptive grammar usage they already subconsciously use!?!?!?!? WHAT DO YOU MEAN!???
#TEACH CHILDREN THEIR OWN LANGUAGE#WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU’RE FOSTERING ILLITERACY IN YOUR CLASSROOMS#WHAT DO YOU MEAN#I WANT TO SCREAM AT THE STATE OF PUBLIC SCHOOL EDUCATION#thanking God and my mother that my mom homeschooled me#g.txt#reasons I’m an English major#I already fixed the typo#so sad it got spread before I caught it
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Trying to work out my Rook de Riva’s family history, and I’ve gotten distracted by Viago and the Antivan royal family. Who could possibly have predicted.
Previous king: King Natale. He was still ruling in 9:28. Natale had a lot of children - at least 11 legitimate enough to be in the direct line of succession, plus who knows how many bastards. Did not appear to cover himself in glory.
Known children of Natale:
Current king: King Fulgeno II. We don’t know many details about him, but he’s Viago’s father, so can be assumed to be at least in his 60s. Has been on the throne since at least 9:41. Does not appear to be covering himself in glory.
Prince Azrin and Princess Ferenna, who joined forces to work Azrin up from 11th in line for the throne to 4th through assassination of their inconvenient siblings/niblings - including possibly arranging/inducing Estefan’s assassination. Zevran was part of the mission to assassinate them both.
Prince Estefan: probably one of the older sons of Natale? Father of Rinna and apparently a lot of other bastards. His assassination for sleeping with married noblewomen was the one that was duplicated for Dante and Viago in 8 Little Talons.
Other descendants:
Rinna: was sent to the Crows, presumably on the same deal as Viago, at around about the same time. She was Zevran’s (and Taliesin’s) lover, and was assassinated by them as part of Crow Politics (ending the Rosso Noche faction that would have tried to put her forward as a legitimate successor to Natale, getting Eoman Arainai the seat of 8th Talon and reminding Zevran of his place in the House - the inciting incident for Zev taking the contract on the HoF. )
Did Viago know Rinna? They’ve got to be a similar age - was she competition? Is the aftermath of the Rosso Noche conspiracy/faction still a hinderance to his dreams of taking the throne? How unpleasant was it for him when his cousin’s ex/murderer came back as The Renegade and how much has it influenced his politics as a reformist Talon?
#Viago that is quite literally how your uncle & his lover died#Viago: yeah whatev. did you see that snake though? that’s a cool snake I’m keeping the snake#how does the economics of the Antivan royal family work?#it’s got to cost a hell of a lot of money to keep your legions of illegitimate children in luxury in a foreign country#how long before Josie asks Teia if there are any crows sufficient deft with a knife to do an involuntary vasectomy?#anyway I have decided:#my Rook de Riva is a cousin rather than a half-sister#her mother was a princess her father was dead shortly thereafter#she was sent to the circle and then sent to Viago after the circles fell#they were both absolutely delighted with this development.#viago de riva#dragon age the veilguard#antivan crows#zevran arainai
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just thinkin about it…………
#da posting#lucanis dellamorte#yes *I* hate caterina deeply on a personal level and think she’s heinously evil but Lucanis and Effie do not#veilguard spoilers#datv spoilers#and at the end of the conversation Caterina doesn’t give approval either way because that’s not her voibe#but she DOES say as she leaves ‘I would like one of the children to be named for your mother’#and that’s close enough#also tho another scene where Lucanis is like ‘yeah sooo I’m expected to provide heirs’#and effie says ‘say LESS babygirl I am open for business’#effie de riva
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I made this post before we knew Focalors and Furina were different people, and the fact I still find it accurate to Focalors but not Local Fatui Harbinger Fucker Furina is rly funny to me
It is my humble opinion that Focalors and Arlecchino WOULD argue about who is worse for Furina, tho
#Focalors: Furina ilu so much ur like a little angel to me — but wtf is THAT?? *pointing at Arlecchino*#Furina: m…my boyfriend…?#Focalors: put her back where you found her now#Furina: but—#Arlecchino: that would be quite difficult considering I’m the one who snuck up on her#Furina: Arle you’re not helping—#Focalors: you motherfucker—#Arlecchino: I suppose you’re right. the children do consider her their mother these days so I am something of a ‘’motherfucker’’ aren’t I—#Furina: you’RE NOT HELPING ARLE—#Focalors: NEUVILLETTE WE’RE REINSTATING THE DEATH PENALTY#Neuvillette: I-I’m not doing that…#Arlecchino: why not? it’D BE LESS CRUEL THAN WHAT SHE DID TO FURINA#Focalors: YOU DON’T EVEN WANT TO START WITH ME ABOUT ‘’CRUEL TO FURINA’’#Arlecchino: SHE’S HAD CRIPPLING DEPRESSION FOR 500 YEARS AND WHERE WERE YOU? YOU DIDN’T CHECK IN ON HER EVEN ONCE#Focalors: I WAS ALWAYS THERE#Arlecchino: THEN WHY WOULD YOU EVEN LET ME ATTACK HER IF YOU WERE ‘’ALWAYS THERE?’’#Arlecchino: YOU WERE JUST GOING TO LET HER TAKE THE FALL FOR YOUR BULLSHIT PLAN???#anyway that’s how I imagine a typical Focalors and Arlecchino conversation goes#Focalors is the local absentee big sister and Arlecchino is the motorcycle riding boyfriend (who also does some murdering on the side)#both of them think Furina would be better off without the other#and then there’s Furina who is just so mentally ill and loves both of them#and Neuvillette is the only stable one and he lets Furina cry to him when both of them are upsetting her#I think about all this a normal amount. ahem#Arlefuri#Furina#Arlecchino#Focalors#Neuvilette //#Genshin Impact //
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killing people who don’t get an animals consent before touching them &/or ignore when animals are visibly uncomfortable with being touched.
#MOTHERS FRIEND DOING THIS WITH OUR CAT RN IM PISSED.#SHE DIDNT EVEN GIVE TOFU ANY TIME TO SNIFF OR ANYTHING??#Sigh.#tofu came downstairs to see what was up bc person was in the house#But person just immediately started petting her#even tho tofu was visibly uncomfortable and clearly just wanted a sniff test or sm#went to my room asap after that and tofu followed quick on my heels#obvs I let her sniff as much as she wants before petting her (if she even wants fuss) so she had a sniff and very much seemed to want fuss#so I gave her a few strokes and then sorta checked in and she swirled around and bumped her head into my hand (all the while her tail was#pointed straight up with the tip quivering a little every few moments - a sign of happiness/excitement to see a familiar person)#so we had cuddles for a bit until she hopped off my chest to go get water or sm :3#BUT I DONT GET WHY MORE PEOPLE DONT HAVE SIMPLE WHOLESOME INTERACTION WITH THEIR CAT LIKE THIS??#LIKE. CATS ARE SENTIENT. THEY SEEK AUTONOMY - ESPECIALLY BODILY AUTONOMY. WHY TF WOULD YOU NOT LET THEM GIVE/DENY CONSENT??#like. if you aren’t willing to learn enough about an animal to understand when it’s unhappy at the very least *why* would you interact with#one?? (This person literally has a cat as well.)#idk man these are the same sorts of people that’d probably do the ‘awww just give me a hug! I’m your auntie(/whatever)! why can’t i have a#hug? 🥺’ sorta thing.. like. BRO. It isn’t my/the cat ‘s fucking job to regulate/look after your own grown ass feelings.#SIGH..#just. The fact this person has like.. met tofu once. Lived in the same house as her for maybe 4/5 days one time and thinks the cat is#obligated to put up with her or whatever.#(This is how I imagine people be acting around cats when they’re like ‘idk man cats just don’t like me! Cats are just independent by nature#I’m just stood there having to listen to them shit talk a whole species bc they don’t understand consent (or at least don’t universally#value it - eg; with children; with animals) ANYWAYS. CATS ARE A SOCIAL SPECIES WHO HAVE DEVELOPED TO LIVE CLOSELY WITH AND DEPEND ON HUMANS#THEYRE OFTEN VERY AFFECTIONATE AND LOVING AND FORM LASTING RELATIONSHIPS WITH THEIR HUMANS AND WILL MOURN THEIR DEATH PROBABLY MORE THAN#HALF OF THE HUMANS WHO ATTENDED THEIR FUNERAL.)#If tofu doesn’t like you I don’t like you mate. I am wholeheartedly willing to cut people off if they act wrong with my cat - like - BRO.#IVE KNOWN HER LONGER THAN I HAVE MOST OTHER PPL IN MY LIFE. SHES GOT ME THROUGH WORSE AND IS ALWAYS HAPPY N EXCITED TO SEE ME.#That cat has done more for me than you ever have! She loves me with her whole fucking soul and I her with mine. If she picks up the wrong#vibes from you/you break any of her clearly set boundaries we are DONE.#(Obvs /nbh - nobody here. & generally lighthearted but uhh yeah needed to rant abt this bc I care strongly abt it and other ppl should too)
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I was chilling, and now, alas! I am not.
#Brought to you by my stress that my mother is parenting my younger siblings poorly#She’s not keeping her emotions out of it in a healthy manner#And thus she’s attempting to rule teenagers via fear and guilt/shame#When they don’t respond immediately to reason#And I’m like. Ma’am.#If your 24 year old daughter won’t fold her laundry to this day#How do you think this method is going to work out for your 13 year old daughter when she grows up?#I observe that with lots of chores her method has merely instilled guilty avoidance on the part of my siblings#(And to a lesser extent myself as well)#Because guess what!#associating cleaning with guilt for not doing it#AND more guilt during the process#AND further guilting for not doing it sooner once it’s actually been done—#None of that has created a consistent cleaning ethic in any of her children!!#There is no love for tidiness#Only guilt and apathetic despair at its absence#With complete aversion for the work of tidying based on years of shaming#I’ve had to do so much relearning in how I think about and practice tidiness#And most of it’s come from advice on here actually#anyway#pray for my family please#Thanks
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tw kinda suggestive I guess ???
anyway you gotta make sure that you give your Pomni plush a little bit of time everyday with her face pressed into your chest. Like engulfed entirely by your bare tiddees ok. It’s called breastfeeding and she needs it or she’ll die
#Some of you bitches don’t have what it takes to be a mother#And believe me… it shows#ha. Anyway#Sorry I just got off work and I’m so eepy#I immediately threw off all my clothes (I work in a restaurant they were covered in ranch)#And leapt into bed with my Pomni#(I missed her)#(Also babies need to be held like a lot in the early months of their development or they’ll be really fucked up and unwell)#(I am a great example of what will happen if you don’t hold your children)#(I refuse to let that happen to Pomni)
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if you ever feel like you’re bad at your job just remember that joe jonas’ own pr team managed to turn the internet’s view of him from completely neutral to public enemy number one in the span of 48 hours
#turns out badmouthing the mother of your children in the press on a daily basis doesn’t make people like you! whoda thunk!#especially when the things you’re badmouthing her for are *checks notes*#1. booking one (1) role after being a stay-at-home wife and mom for 4 years#and leaving you with the arduous task of… being a father to your children while she’s at work#2. allegedly wanting to party (even though both of you have said in the past that she’s an introverted homebody)#(but even if she wasn’t partying is not a crime especially when sophie turner is 27 and has spent most of her 20s at home)#3. saying something on a ring camera#i don’t normally care about celebrity drama but i’m captivated by how every new article meant to make joe jonas look good#ends up just making people hate him more
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aegon saying (in episode 8) that whatever he does, no matter how hard he tries, would never be enough for alicent literally stabbed in me gut. because here’s her firstborn son, her FIRST child, the very best and very worst parts of herself made human - and he’s saying everything that she’s said to otto before.
he’s begging for love and attention and to be let go from the chains of his duty, and what does she do? she ignores aegon’s pleas for freedom and mercy in favor of her and her father’s political agenda.
and i feel like there’s something so gut-wrenching and poetic - in a darker sense - to see this character you watched grow up (alicent) ultimately treat her child, who - emotionally - is a carbon copy of herself (aegon), the same horrifying way she was treated.
#i can sit and talk about aegon and alicent’s relationship for hours on end#there’s something so horrifying in becoming your parent especially when you tried so hard to become the antithesis of them#if someone told her she had become otto alicent 100% would have a breakdown#can you imagine after all these years of trying to love on your children (ESPECIALLY your oldest one) you get told that you failed abysmall#aegon you poor unloved child it’s okay#i mean it isn’t but i’m gonna make everything okay so don’t worry#asoiaf#dance of the dragons#alicent hightower#hotd#team green#aegon ii targaryen#alicent wasn’t the best mother but she tried so that counts for something right?
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JoJo Siwa doesn’t deserve all the hate (and homophobia) she’s getting for her style and music; but she does deserve scrutiny for defending Colleen Ballinger and being both active and complicit in abuse that happened on her TV show. Like the girl has been under the public eye in unhealthy environments all her life; cut her some slack — not too much; she’s still a responsible adult — but if you’re going to dogpile her, then at least dogpile her for the right reasons. Jesus Fucking Christ.
#jojo siwa#discourse#Her comment sections are VILE#I actually don’t hate her songs. They’re basically early-2000s new old stock and I like early 2000s music#Is she trying too hard to look like an “adult?” Yes. But that’s understandable.#What isn’t understandable is screaming at children for no fucking reason#and JoJo not helping at all when a girl was hemorrhaging out her belly button#when JoJo’s mother told the girl to “put a pad on it”#I don’t care how afraid you are of your parents; you END that shit the second you see it#I was raised in a cult and I actively sabotaged my parents’ preaching work on multiple occasions#I didn’t know if I’d get kicked out if they found out I did that; the only reason I still have a relationship with them#is because they never found out about my later sabotage#Dad preached to a waitress dangling a cure for her sons’ disorder in front of her nose as incentive to join and gave her literature#So I went to the restaurant with him and insisted I pay for the tip.#I gave her eight dollars and a sticky note with a bunch of keywords about the cult’s abuses to look up#The next time I went there#she said didn’t understand the sticky note and asked me while he was gone what I meant#I hate talking to people especially when I’m under pressure because I trip over my words even when I’m NOT anxious#But her kids’ lives being free of a cult meant more to me than avoiding a momentary discomfort so I gave a quick rundown#She thanked me and heeded my warning basically playing along with me and not saying anything to my dad about it#I was 20; JoJo was about 19 when her show was going on#She had no excuse for allowing her mom to do that.#At the very least she could have said “Oh god I’m so sorry she said that. Please don’t hurt yourself for my show; go to the hospital.”#But no. She didn’t do that. In fact she screamed at children and joked that if they were crying then it was a good show.#Bitch come here and do that in front of me. I double dog dare you. I may only be 5’5” but I fight dirty and I’m angrier than you#Sorry. I guess I do hate her… for THAT specifically.#Like yeah I’ve fucked up with the kids I help and yelled when I didn’t have to but I HATED doing it and tried to do better later#Why someone would SCREAM at kids on purpose for long periods of time for no reason is beyond me
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gang my mom just said naan bread I can’t
#Spider verse#Chai is tea bro#I tried to correct her but she got mad at me#“It’s a type of bread”#Like I’m aware mother but the word means bread you don’t need to say it twice#You don’t say brioche bread either#You just say brioche#Smh#to all parents#your children may have lived shorter than you but they’ve experienced more of life than you think#I’m aware that sentiment isn’t meedeed for this post but ima say it anyway
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I have a question about modern fcc. Why you insist on Myrah being a baby machine? Like you said maybe 2 years ago that she is much more than just a mother so why you write her as such that only when she popped up 4 babies (and wants to have 5 one because she has middle age crisis and wants to be 20 again) she is worth something? If they had only Baelor it'd be alright, her worth doesn't depend on whether she births 10 children for targ dynasty lolll
I was thinking about just blocking you (like I’ve done for most if not all the ignorant frankly delusional people I get in my inbox) but I actually want to show people why I genuinely dislike writing for this fandom now. Not saying my writing is perfect or I haven’t made mistakes bc I know I have but like really…. Is this necessary???
#‘middle age crisis and wants to be twenty again’#I really need to know if people are born this obtuse or if it something that has to be worked at#like it would be one thing to have this conversation in the actually fcc universe#and the societal pressure she feels to have children#(newsflash: a pressure that exist NOW)#but I write about their family unit?? about hers with her family and her interacting with Aemond’s#I’ve written about her and Rhaenyra bonding over Viserys being sick and her and Alicent/hel being friends#I’ve written about her and Aemond breaking up bc of how fast things are going#if all you took from all the stuff I’ve written is her being a baby machine… maybe that’s your lack of literacy babe#it’s funny bc asks like this remind me of the ‘why are people looking at Alicent’s decisions through the lense of her kids?#bc she’s their mother… the mother of the king and queen…. yes motherhood is a part of her story sorry to break it to you#I’ll probably delete this bc I don’t like negative shit on my page and I get far more love than weirdos but really….#if you genuinely don’t like it I’m sorry but just don’t read it????#this ask is even crazier when you realize I haven’t written anything for modern fcc in MONTHS#were you just sitting on this and decided to wake up on a Sunday to be mean? couldn’t be me
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Mollie, a good person: I’m sorry, I don’t mean to bad mouth your girlfriend.
Me, yelling at my screen: I DO mean to bad mouth your girlfriend. She fucking SUCKS.
#the warp effect#the warp effect the series#i cannot explain how angry that whole scene made me#your gf decided to get pregnant because YOU wanted a baby#but then you’re just gonna move countries?#while not actually communicating to your gf anything#i mean sure they talked but it was all about biew and what SHE wanted#what a selfish asshole#relationships are about communication and compromise#but if only one person is communicating and compromising that’s not a healthy relationship#and biew thinks she’s ready to have a baby and be a mother???#does she not understand that not only are children work but so is pregnancy#and she’s just up and leaving nim like that#does she know she can’t do that to a child?#oh look at that I’m screaming again#can y’all hear me all the way over there?
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TW transphobia
#I spent an hour and a half in the car tonight with my mother#where she proceeded to tell me all the ways she thinks trans people are severely mentally ill and shouldn’t expect to have rights#or to even be respected#and about how she would beat and disown any of her children if we came to her ‘spouting any of that made up horseshit’#so I will simply never ever ever ever ever ever never be coming out to her as nonbinary ever#she doesn’t even believe in bisexuality so I don’t know why I’m still so hurt over this#but goddamn#she clocked that I was upset about it too and kept demanding to know why I was so upset about what she was saying like#idk mom use your fucking head???? think a little???? perhaps???? about maybe why that may upset and offend your gay gnc kid????????????
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Idk I just think that treating your child as less-than on the basis of them being your child (whom you are responsible for having) is kind of very shitty
#I had a whole long ass post written out#but#‘do as I say without any questions asked’#and ‘you have no choice in any decisions made here’#and ‘respect your elders even if they treat you like shit’#and ‘your feelings don’t matter’#are AWFUL lessons to teach to anyone#especially children#I don’t care if someone is a million years old if they treat me like shit I will walk away from them#I dont know why I’m still treated like this#I’m an adult#and it’s not like my mother treats my older brothers (who are only a few years older than me) the same way#the only difference is they don’t live with her#my younger siblings and I get screamed at and called names by our entire family#and WE get punished for walking away#it’s always ‘stand up for yourself’ until the people I’m standing up to are older than me#THEN im being disrespectful#but they aren’t#because it’s impossible to disrespect a child#there are ways to teach your children respect and responsiblity without treating them like slaves who’s only purpose is listening to you#and all of the older people who preach ‘just deal with it because life sucks’ can fuck right off#life does suck and you will have to put up with shitty situations and shitty people but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t avoid it if you can#God I can’t wait to move out of here
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