#I need to try be nicer to him
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Hy vra na stukkie Van Der Merwe Kinsley!
@thesoulesscollection hi!!11! hiii11!!!1!
#honey kinsley#terrence suave#I like Terry#I need to try be nicer to him#[Narrator voice] That was not going to happen
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Erin, to her crush: You're a dick
Mason, the crush: I won't argue! But to clarify -
#my characters#its so sad that all of erins character development and kindness is on paper and nothing digital to show her growth#she picks on mason for many reasons and she kinda narrows her eyes at him but its more to squint than to glare#because she watches him from a distance when hes off laughing with others#though they are united on peter being worse than mason at least they can agree no matter what peter is worse#but also masons right arm is metal and she thinks its fascinating bc theres so many high tech prosthetics#why is he using the equivalent of a trash can ? is it some weird flex to not needing advanced stuff?#and its just he was from a poor family and was born with one full arm and then a stump#and he lived a lot of his youth with just one arm so once he got a second arm (installed basically) he went cheap#since he only wanted the other arm to get better jobs cause not many people would hire him with one arm#and he never really cared much about her comments because her lil verbal pokes of#so rogers whod you piss off? the mafia? is actually nicer than stuff he heard as a kid without the fake arm#so he tells her the only reason he has a metal limb is because god knew hed be two strong if born with two arms#and shes like uh huh sure thing rogers#and yeeeeah eventually something happens where mason is injured and erin is panicking#and hes acting like its okay to die because hes a dick remember TRYING to make light of it and she gets so sad#and after hes recovering and better he feels guilty making her so sad and hes talking to her#and she says that she doesnt have a lot of friends and she didnt want to lose one of the few people she liked#and hes just oh.......................... ididntthinkthatwouldbeme#so he starts to be super friendly to her and enforcing the crush that she doesnt wanna own up to#and then she does eventually confess and mason is baffled as to since when and shes like day one? and he just#erin you have got to be kidding me you were glaring at me for months#and shes just i have bad eye sight and im shy what did you expect#he isnt super smart or super stupid hes just exceedingly average
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wow am i glad jensen never became a historian
#do you know how many people would want to kill him. many.#im doing a peer review right now and wow i am dick! but also they're wrong. and at least im Trying to make it sound nicer#but jensen would never do that. hed say exactly what he thought in a very factual and accurately elaborated way and then move on#it is terrifying to think of him becoming a doctor in the academic sense..if he ever gets near research someone needs to cut him off#he says 'youre wrong' but in 12 different ways that would completely strip the entire foundation of your paper#and the worst part is that hes completely right!#anyway. i love putting jensen in humanities when he is in a typically stem-heavy field#but idk i think it would do the medical community good. but anyway.#jensen valentine
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real life drama moment eye roll sams apparently struggling bc he wants to move out and is touring this building hes been eyeing but his roommates dont want him to but also apparently theres beef and he just 'doesnt want to be friends with those people anymore' and he was really vague about what that was all abt and his friend group and who he wanted to even still talk to. and well. not my circus not my monkeys....... but im gonna go ahead and keep my feet in two lanes here does that make me a shady bitch. girl i literally dk any details and thats fine but like. idk whatever..
#personally me and ur roommate r fine so gonna just chill there and also thank my fellow dyke they went on a trip with#just for being a lesbian hashtag dyke swag (we met once and high fived over this)#again not my business but all i know is that apparently some of them planned trips even to where hes from over break and didnt talk to him#abt it. and i was like well did any of you just talk about spring break at all and he was like no. so. okay.. and then he talked vaguely ab#doing so much for them to try and make them like him again and i was just like well once again#did anybody in this friend group ever just like have a direct conversation about anything ever. lowkey. i said it nicer than that#and the answer is pretty much no#like ok blames not fully on u ig but if we had unspoken beef and u were adjacently doing nice things idk that id. recognize that..?#esp just with. the busy-ness of sams life. not trying 2 be callous#idk in general that group just needs to fall apart once again why have u known each other since freshman year#go to like. therapy. also. ok im sorry to be bitching abt somebody thats kind of my friend i dont like feeling like a two faced bitch#thats the gemini in me i guess. ahaha everyone laugh. but whatever this is tumblr dot com. also like the fact that he approached this with#ugh.... im feeling Complex emotions... and i dont like it... :(. im gonna keep it real idk that thats very complex#ur just gonna have to talk to them. a general them. whoever. 'well whats the end goal of that' idk dude u have to figure that out hello#abby talks
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went from characters with vague aspec vibes making silly mistakes to like explicitly aspec coded characters actively doing toxic aspec things
#is that bad#is it bad to have terrible aspec representation. is it fine if i'm aspec#it's the 60s it must be hard being aspec in an amatonormative world they have to do weird things to get by#basically one girl gets her boyfriend addicted to amphetamines bc she heard they lower libido#this other guy just keeps testing out on other people then fucking off when he realises he doesn't fancy them#and also keeps trying to stop his friend's engagement bc he doesn't want to be aromantically alone#btw both these people have some sort of relationship with the same guy who isn't aspec#i need to make him worse actually. he used to be a prat but i accidentally made him kind of nicer so now he doesn't deserve this 😔#i need to make him an arsehole again#everyone in window gazing is a prat <3#(oh yeah obviously this is about window gazing)#but yeah I've been watching too much moral orel and peep show so terrible people who fuck over other people have been on the mind lately#ramble
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All the younger spideys keep finding ways to annoy superior cuz they know he isn't going to do anything except verbally react in a way that's so old man core that it is funny to them. They frequently prank that loser and he genuinely thinks hes just struggling to keep up with Kids These Days </3 but also if they request him to do something he will try even if hes suspicious of it (because he has a soft spot for kids and if he doesn't they'll go running to Peter slandering him) and everytime it ends with him being hit with a Delicious Pie to the face
#ESPECIALLY miles gwen pav and peni and margo because i know superior would support them all the way#hobie does it the best but superior still only at most yells at him to GET OUTT because again he is trying so hard#this probably makes no sense but see my beautiful mind:#superior is some old man hes trying his very best to be nicer and wants to help whoever he can to make up for his past.#plus he has a soft spot for kids especially cuz he wants to give them the support he never got#thats canon btw and also he wants people to like him (canon also) and he knows he has to work with these people#so the younger spideys can just go up to him and prank him sillystyle and he will always react so genuinely its so funny...#again view my beautiful mind: miles tells him to put his hand on the table and hes like . ok morales do u need my help or...#and then miles puts a cup full of water on his hand and hes trapped there or the water spills on all his tech#(very fixable situation but its for the gaffs the goofs.. and also stick it to the old people)#one time hobie tells him to spell icup and he goes im not falling for that. next hour hobie tells peter superior creased miles' shoes and#[the wolves get me]#superior spider man#superior spiderman#elliot tolliver#synth speaks#to be very clear superior would 100% be on miles' side he believes strongly in always trying to save people and also deciding ur own destiny
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my hot take about descendants is that NONE of the core four were ready for a relationship until maybe like, the third movie (rant in tags)
#they were still adjusting to living life without struggling to survive#a girl should not be jumping into a relationship the same week she just tried her first piece of non-rotten food lol#thats not to say I don't like the canon ships#but mal married literally the FIRST man she met in auradon. at 18.#and even as far as in descendants 2 we see them still struggling to adjust in different ways (mainly mal)#in d3 they seem to have fully assimilated into life in Auradon (as much as a VK can anyway)#so it makes sense for them to THEN seek out relationships if that's what they want.#but disney ofc wanted to act like romantic love just automatically fixes a person's problems ig?? as if a relationship wouldn't just be#added stress given the position the VKs were in in d1#not to mention dating just like. wasnt a thing on the isle (mal even says this)#and I get that the kids are craving to be loved because their parents didn't gaf about them. But I wish the first movie focused more on the#finding that love in each other than romantically with outside people. a sort of “they had love in them all along” moment.#and then this fandom loves to argue about whether Jarlos/Janelos was 'rushed'. at least Carlos (and Jay +lonnie) waited a few months before#throwing themselves into the dating scene. Poor evie had her heart broken within like 3 days of being in Auradon. no wonder she was willing#to help steal the wand lol.#Anyway to wrap up this rant I didn't even mean to go on#I just think that kids who have spent the first 14-16 years of their lives fighting to survive and being put through continuous trauma on a#daily basis don't need dating right away. they need THERAPY.#if anyone here has seen stranger things its kinda an El and Mike situation were its like. the girl grew up in a lab and fell for the first#boy in regular society who was kinda nice to her lol. thats how I view Mal and Ben#same with doug and evie. he was nicer than chad but he still fell for her for her looks and she still fell for him because he was the first#guy in auradon to be genuinely interested in her. also evie had a whole “I dont need a prince” arc and ended up with a man anyway?#my problem with janelos was always that Carlos never quite worked out his mommy issues or his anxiety. I feel like he'd be afraid of hurtin#her even though that boy wouldn't hurt a fly. and we see Jane get pretty stressed out herself- have you ever been in a relationship where#both of you have anxiety? cause it either goes really well (you help keep each other calm) or REALLY terribly (you make each other spiral)#I actually really liked Lonnie and Jay (though I feel like it would've had a bigger payoff if she was in d3. not sure why she wasn't but I#wont dunk on that because it couldve been smth to do with her actress). I think Lonnie is someone who can 'handle' Jay well and match his#energy. And I like the idea of Jay finding someone he's loyal to after being commitment-phobic for 1 1/2 movies and the whole first book lo#and ofc I have to throw this in here: any auradon kid the VKs get with is never going to grasp even half of what they went through.#this doesnt mean they can't try to understand and be empathetic. but it will always cast a shadow on VK/AK relationships.
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Sometimes I think about how, back when the roster was much bigger, me and my old friend group all picked out WTL characters that we thought the others were the most like, and almost universally people thought Druid was the most like me. That probably should've been my first clue that none of them knew a single thing about me, but hindsight is 20/20
I also often think about how, after several days of going through things that had happened to me over the last four or so years, I was told 'You seem like a person who wants to be understood', and it hit me that until then, I had never met someone who ever really got me. Now that I have, I could never settle for less.
#for the record Sven is like two steps away from being my kinsona#like it's almost embarrassing lmao#i think between him and Leo (with his edits over the years) you can find 70-ish percent of what makes up me as a person#idk man I just. People think Im so aggressive and obtuse#and like. yeah when im backed into a corner im not the nicest#but i dont think anyone would be if they're in fight or flight mode and it feels dishonest to judge someone at their most vulnerable#but when im just like.... There and Alive and being my usual nerdy self#which is 99 percent of the time#i am just a Guy in a Room#and people assume the worst of me for it#like damn what about me is so evil and intimidating. please i want to be seen as soft and kind and genuine for once in my life#i wanna be able to express myself without it being seen as an attack or rude or aggressive#it wasnt until recently where i really started noticing this and by extension getting peeved about it#but i've been so mild-mannered and people-pleasing all my life because i was unknowingly compensating for how people view me#and even with all that bending over backwards it never worked anyway because I was still the weirdo at best and the aggressor at worst#And Im *tired* of that. I'm so tired of it.#I cannot in good faith keep trying to be this un-intimidating flower when people are only gonna see thorns regardless#nugget rambles#text.txt#vent tag#I'll go back to regularly scheduled shitposting soon#Also like clarity on Druid: I project some fears and traumas of mine onto him and he means a lot to me#but in terms of personality he is far nicer and resilient than I would ever be under such circumstances#Druid isn't me but he's someone I wish I had in my life when I needed it. He's someone I wish I could be
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they need to let me desecrate the corpses. as a little treat ^_^
#mine#i am going deranged again. girl.#also forgot i have a yandere blog hiii#no one takes me seriously :) nothing else matters. no one else matters besides him#they are nothing and they will always be nothing#my therapist is always like yayy its good to socialize but the people i try to socialize with make fun of me and i want them to Die#well not all of them. i guess i just need to hang out with my nicer friends more often instead of the idiot shitheads
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got my license today yayy tho i feel p empty inside and not v celebratory abt it ngl. im sure ill feel yay yippie happy in a bit tho i mean insane to think my practicing driving saga is over! tho im gonna have to pick up my sister later so i think once after that ill be able to rly chill. im gonna have a celebratory coke in a bit ^_^
#barely passed made 12 mistakes w/ 15 being the max u can make...#mainly for driving over the speed limit and he said i crossed the white line on stop signs but im not too sure abt that lol#regardless the guy was much nicer and super chill than the guy i got last time so im def grateful 100% yay :D#mainly a bit annoyed cause i ended up having to go w/ my dad and he always comments on my driving even tho#he says its normal like he'll give me orders on what to do n stuff and then#wheen i got home i tried parking inbetween two trash cans and a car and was struggling a bit#and he just grabbed the wheel from my hand and told me to control the gas and brakes which was annoying#especially since parallel parking is smthn ive told him b4 i need to practice so kinda like hypocritical for him#to tell me i need to practice than to just grab the wheel when im trying to practice lol
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I feel like I should put this out here with everyone calling Taliesin selfish and saying that the other people at the table should be mad at him, but I am currently going through that with one of my newbie players right now. I'm a newbie DM, and none of my players watches any DnD-related shows and this is their first-ever game, and we are three games in. There was a very real discussion last week about wanting to kill off a player character and wanting to know what to do about it if he actively does things that go against what the party wants or does things that put them in danger. He wants his character to be 'unpredictable' and 'chaotic' but has been doing things that routinely get himself into trouble or put the party in jeopardy, like drinking the blood of a poison frog after killing it and getting poisoned, or trying to sneak up behind a band of bandits robbing town after being explicitly told to hide and rolling a nat1 and nearly getting the group caught.
As a new DM and a people pleaser at heart, I've really struggled to come up with fair but appropriate consequences for these actions, and the rest of the party (his fiance especially!) are super pissed off with him for being reckless to the point of asking me what they should do about it and how they can get rid of him and make him roll a new PC.
I felt really bad for him because its obvious that he wasn't doing any of this to be malicious but he was playing a pirate and he wanted to demonstrate him being unhinged and crazy and unstable, so it was a really hard discussion to have and I could tell that he was a little disappointed no matter how much I told him he was going a good job and the character is really fun even if he does have his moments, but everybody else was seemingly against him. If he was doing it on purpose, it would have been different, but he was very apologetic and listened to what was being said but didn't know what else to do because he likes his character but doesn't know how to portray what he wants to portray without putting the others in danger and sacrificing a core aspect of his character. I didn't have the answer either so it was really difficult. And I still don't think we've reached a solution.
I don't know where I was going with this, but I guess I just wanted to say that everybody is super mad at Taliesin (I'm not, the man has never done anything wrong in my eyes) but it's almost impossible to know what's going on in somebodies head or how they are interpreting certain things or the story they are trying to tell. So no matter what you're feeling about the choices that were made tonight and the outcome that occurred, can we all just be nice and not make such horrible comments? I've been seeing some really awful stuff and I know the gang has to develop some thick skin working in the career that they do, but I just know if it were me or my players experiencing such hate and backlash over a decision they made, like eating an obviously cursed cupcake or tearing a significant doll in half, I would be devastated.
#critical role#taliesin jaffe#i know this was a little bit of a rant about my own starting campaign but i really do wish people were nicer#no matter what your opinion is there is no need to be so mean. these are people too. sure they're famous and are on a super popular show#but these are still people and they still deserve respect#if any of you talked shit about my own player the way some of you are talking about tal i would be throwing hands by now#yeah he's a little shit who makes narrative and mechanical bad decisions but he's trying his best and i appreciate him giving it his all#some of you people are just mean#not everyone but there are some people who i have had to scroll by very fast because i have felt seething rage at such mean comments#it's ok to hate the character but please remember that the player is a real person and doesn't deserve your wrath
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This this this this is the screenshot I was on about look at this and I know I have more but I can’t find them anymore but just. Head in hands fine ,,,,,,
#just.#remember that Eichi 3*#where they wanted to go to that cafe to try that parfait that was supposed to bring luck or someth in that vein#but Wataru had a job that day so they all decided that it would be nicer to do that together after Tori mentioned that#and how Tori once made Wataru cry after he told him he considers him family#I’m quoting very liberally#but you get what I mean#and how they all came up with the concept of Eichi days so Eichi wouldn’t work himself into an early grave#and how Wataru came up with that name and how it’s a stupid pun#and how wataei#and I need to ead more into watarus and Yuzuru relationship but they care each other#YUZURU AND FINE AS A WHOLE THAT IS SUCH A NICE THING TO EATCH#BECAUSE AT FIRST HE WAS SO POLITE AND QUIET AND RESLLY FULLY IN HIS BUTLER ROLE#AND THE IN THE LATER STORIES HE MAKES QUIPS AT TORI AND EICHI AND COMMETNS ON WATARUS EXTRAVANGANZA AND HES JUST GENERALLY MORE COMFORTABLE#I LOVE THAT SO MUCH#YOU DO NOT EVEN KNOW
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not rascal's deadbeat owner coming around when im not home and telling my roommate she's taking him for a week (our break is 4 weeks or so, implying he's gonna be back here even though That's Her Cat Not Ours) and then just picking up the new toys i bought for him and taking them with her without even asking. hey. hi. those are mine
#like yes i want rascal to use them so he can be happy and fulfilled but also i dont fucking trust you#she didnt even ask. i wasnt even AROUND and she just yoinked them#she also took the new litter box my roomie got for him bc the old one was so caked in shit that 20 mins in a powerful sink didnt even#change it. like bedrock-hard cat shit. who fucking knows how old that was bc they never clean or empty it. fucks sake#and obv he needs a litter box and my roomie threw the old one away bc again it was Unsalvageably And Hazardously Filthy#like we could get sick he could get sick. get a grip#but like i dont wanna be feeding her replacements for her stuff she doesn't take care of over and over#just burning money trying to make rascal's life a Little better bc again our control over his situation is limited bc hes literally her cat#it's so frustrating. like i waited a full month to get him new toys bc i didn't know how long this situation was gonna last and i dont have#cats and cant have them for a while (not that this is stopping me oops) so it's not like the toys'll be used w me#like if she decided to up and drop him at a shelter like she'd planned less than a couple months ago I'd be sittjng in a pile of cat stuff#but he needs more stuff yknow. theyre not providing for him and i have the means to atm. and just when i bite the bullet and surprise him#with a bunch of new things he was SO excited about she swoops in without warning and takes him#god. my roommate told me he just froze up when his owner came in..and he looked so pissed about it#having to go back and leave us and leave all his fun new stuff to go back to the room where they cant even bother to feed him regularly#much less play with him or take care of him#it's heartbreaking. it's such a delicate situation im trying to move carefully so we don't lose him completely but it's so frustrating going#slow. ughhghhgh AND THEYRE ALWAYS LIKE man he's so much nicer to y'all. MAYBE IT'S BC WE TREAT HIM WELL. CRAZY THOUGHT I KNOW#fucking. i love that little man this sucks for him so bad. trying to get him back for a couple days while im here but no response yet#and my roommate's staying on campus over break so she's gonna show up as soon as that week's over like I'm Here For Rascal. Your Time Is Up.#rauguhhhhh sorry if these rascal vent posts are a downer guys. it's just. god dude. fucking hell#i know this is a stupid situation i have gotten myself into i know it's stupid to try and finagle someone's pet from them BUT SHES ABUSIVE#AND SUPER LIKE. INDIFFERENT?? AND APATHETIC ABOUT WHETHER OR NOT THE PPL SHE DUMPS HIM ON CARE FOR HIM WELL OR NOT. AGH#sighhhh. whatever. gotta focus on tmr's exam and then i can complain about rascal some more.#i get she prolly thinks it's a team effort but the only reason we take her stuff is bc we didn't have a cat and werent planning on it#ggggghhzgzzjzjkkzkzkkzkk. grinding my teeth
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also me and swim crush number 2 got mentioned in the local paper bc we're such good swimmers hehe
#we had a meet today and we also both puked this tells me we are connected#i need to be nicer to him. i need to tone down the sarcasm#im trying i rly am when i like someone i panic and get mean#i try to compliment him for his swims and stuff cuz he's crazy good. crazyyyyy gooooddddd
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reminding myself we kept egan alive & happy with idiopathic megae (disgusting and evil disease) for almost 2 years. sacrificing literal time with family and friends. sacrificing holidays. sacrificing time together. so much money. and we did it happily, for him, and never in a million years would i have let him go if i didn’t know in my gut it was right. i would have sacrificed again and again for him. i don’t care
i need to stop listening to people who are like “i spent $1738283 on my dogs care and never gave up and now they’re okay again!” cause that’s 1) so privileged and 2) not the norm. if a vet recommends euth, and they’re a good vet, it’s usually because they’re right. it’s time. anything outside of that is an outlier
#text#made a mistake and watched julien’s video on peach#now i’m like. i should have tried.#even though i KNOW. i know. his chances were so fucking low#egan’s good days to bad days ratio was abysmal at the end and no vet. even the specialist.#thought that was going to change. no matter what we did#we COULD have tried. of course. but we had BEEN trying#we couldn’t keep him pneumonia free long enough to figure anything the fuck out!#what was i supposed to do. let him keep getting pneumonia just so i could maybe figure out a way to keep his body going#he was getting tumors in his mouth again. back legs were getting weaker. he would have#needed surgery (SO dangerous in megae dogs) and more diagnostics then what. MORE meds?#i need to be nicer to myself. i did a NICE THING FOR MY DOG#THE MOST LOVING THING I COULD HAVE DONE#i took his pain so he wouldn’t have to carry it anymore.
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I hope everyone has a great day...
except for the people who think Jake Sully is a bad father
you have a very bad day
#jake sully#avatar the way of water#avatar 2022#listen i love him so much and i'm gonna need you all to be nicer because my man has been through enough#he's a fantastic father who loves ALL his children including the mini him that keeps putting everyone in danger#i will fight anyone in defense of jake try me
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