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shortcakelils · 10 months ago

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Charlie Morningstar Redesign !!

#hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel charlie #charlie morningstar #she’s one of the few characters designs I actually really like #I just made a few small changes #like giving her a tie instead of a bow #and buttons on the blazer #I also softened the colours a bit #one thing I had in mind the entire time was her silhouette #I wanted to make sure it wasn’t muddled #I think I did alright #my art #redesign

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moe-broey · 8 months ago

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Got inspired to revisit this FEH comic redraw I did when it first dropped! Specifically these panels:

Ended up freestyling that second Xane though LMFAOO he is just so impish to me...

If you wanna get Old Art Jumpscared I'll also include the original sketch under cut!

AAAAAAAAA JUMPSACRE AAAAAAAAAHHH!!!!

In a way though, I'm glad that I dropped it and picked it up again later... like I feel like this isn't even from that long ago (guy who has no sense of the passage of time voice), but the characterization and even design of Moe is so different. The Scrunch and :< face were game changers for it LMFAOOO (also just making it autisticer 👍)

Beyond that I think everyone looks a lot better and closer to how I envision them, esp Loki!

#fire emblem #feh #please do not the moe. it doesn't like it :(#TRIED. to capture that really pretty hair gradient that's in loki's mythic but idk if i got it #i am really satisfied w the little changes i made to xane's pallette though! his halloween alt is just. So Red LMFAO #WHICH. UNDERSTANDABLE. that is his signature color. i feel like just a few changes pull it together more though #which does tempt me to do a full body art of him...... but don't hold me to it LMFAO #ALSO DAMN....... moe interactions with other charas that aren't the askr siblings/unofficial extended family.......#like in universe it probably happens frequently/casually but. it's rare for me to actually draw it LMFAOO #i just.... always have the askr siblings on my mind.......#also i am just deeply in love w alfonse here like. this WAS the initial pose i was imagining when i first drew this #i ended up cropping it so much though. wasn't as skilled in Drawing Really Small yet #also just. i feel like there's more layers here w the updated moe characterization like. he's not just In Too Deep for the summoner #he knows it really doesn't like that (being touched ESP without warning/permission).#like beyond his own feelings he has a reason to be so intensely protective. which i'm also sure #is what he tells himself.#they just have a really funny dynamic. that i hope shines through every now and again! 😅#fe alfonse #fe xane #fe loki #moe tag #summoner oc #my art #my comics

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wings-of-sapphire · 1 year ago

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It has been brought to my attention that my Wish rewrite is being seen by people

And I want to add something I didn’t in my original post

Of course it would be in 2D— a celebration of Disney’s 100th? No other option

LOOK AT THIS PICTURE

(Click for better quality bc I see other people say that)

LIKE IMAGINE ASHA IN THIS STYLE

A COMBO OF CLASSIC 2D AND THEIR 3D ANIMATION

BUT LIKE

WHY DID DISNEY TURN 2D DOWN

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kuromi-hoemie · 1 month ago

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hhhh talking about my writing was fun but 30 tags is not enough.. yes i have 3 major influences but i have minor ones too.. it is a lovechild of my favorite things.. writing is so fun and i have no self control or a concept of pacing myself i will sit there for 16 hours and get hit with every status effect but by god does it all just flow out of me. I've always been a music person yes but i also used to write a lot into early adulthood until The Incident™

but i am ready 2 jump back into it. i think comics are a great middle ground between the two mediums so i don't get As into writing bc i kind of started going crazy last time 🫡 i can take a more structured approach to it that forces me to pace myself and think about it differently. i love art.... i love making things i love knowing how to do things i love knowing how to play things i love having so many creative outlets, even if i don't do a lot of them regularly lol. it is enriching 😳 and nice to know that it's always there to come back to when u want.

#if u want the tea my imagination at the time was like i could space out and straight up just be another person POV doing every little #thing as if i were them for hours and the experience would come together without having to even think about it.#different times/places/contexts/conversations etc. forced 2 to to my mom's lil cult meetings for 2 hours twice a week #i would opt to do these imagination exercises instead to rly put myself in a character's perspective. every step‚ stumble‚#riding in a carriage together for the entirety from point A to B etc. WELL i was working on a horror anthology somewhere 18/19 #(that had a small local following 🫶🏾) and it its concept was like the Twilight zone but a lot darker. it was called interdimensional #and the main recurring character never actually shows up in the story. they r an omnipresent god of death who exists everywhere but #exists outside of our realm‚ and it picks random people to reveal itself to as a symbol. it can be apparent or just in passing that #the entry's MC sees it in‚ it will appear on something somewhere and once it's brought up it's a cue to the reader that this person #has just been sent to an alternate reality that leads towards their inevitable death. for the character nothing ever changes immediately #but the different starts to creep its way in‚ as does death's approach at its crescendo but the path's i took to get there were 😨#and after enough entries i started to see the symbol irl and hallucinate some other stuff from my stories and it really scared me #and made me stop 🫡 but i think in retrospect i just went too hard on the imagination exercises and wished i tried cultivating it instead #give myself time to settle and get in control.. but alas‚ she has not written seriously since. to this day it still flows out of me if #i just sit down to do it‚ but i don't think I'm at risk of something like that happening again anymore :3 so yeah ♡⁠ i am learning how to #draw and trying not 2 force it bc i want it to b fun as a little journey for me and i look forward to the day i can come back to actively #writing again too 🫶🏾 i miss it but i also want to b able to draw ૮₍ ˃ ⤙ ˂ ₎ა #learn the hard thing first then do the stuff that comes naturally.... i also want to get back into music sometime but clearly i got a lot of #other stuff to work on 💀 i burnt myself out on it learning too many things and not having enough fun with it anymore‚#but i have a better healthier with art these days and i know it'll be great to come back to when I'm ready 😌💕#i have been considering getting an acoustic or bass guitar tho 🧐 the beauty of physical instruments.. they're just there ready 2 go..#I've been doing mostly digital the past few years‚ when i was making music. it was also rly hard to when i was w my ex ૮ – ﻌ–ა #that's a whole other rant lol. but ugh digital is like u gotta set it up u gotta make space and then u gotta be in one spot the whole time #i just wanna lay in bed and vibe or something yfm.. walk around maybe idk. do something less structured.#maybe.. hm. hmmm 🧐#I'm going to guitar center lol c ya ✌🏾 getting a bass and amp and maybe a guitar too depending on the price

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chipistrate · 1 year ago

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Little Roxy colors edit I made yesterday cause I wanted to see what her normal render would look like with the purple fur her cutouts have in Ruin

Alt without lipstick cause I'm on the fence about the purple but can't make any other color look decent

#Chip Chatter #also changed a few smaller details cause I wanted to tie her colors together a bit more #her having two different nail colors never made sense to me..#just make all her nails green it matches with her green hair bit #also something something have the same color on the bottom of the design as the top of the design to tie the colors together #dunno how accurate that tip is but I heard it awhile back and it hasn't failed me yet I don't think #also the gold accents to match her eyes cuz it looks nicer than the grey/white imo #anyways love Roxy no matter what<3 just some small changes I made 4 fun

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sergle · 2 years ago

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Your nails look so pretty! If you don't mind me asking, I've never mixed nail polish colors before but now I really want to. Is it that you later them on top of eachother, or do you actually mix the liquids before applying? And if you mix the liquids, do you pour them into some other container? How do you know how much to use? Do you use an eye dropper or some other kind of tools? What do you stir them with? Sorry that this is a lot of questions 😅

Omg... It's less complicated than you're thinking! It basically goes like this for me, for when I want to make myself a Whole bottle of a color: I'll use a not-new bottle of polish with a base color I don't really like. I had a bottle of bright yellow that I didn't really like the formula, and I didn't really wear the color. Then I just kinda. reach for other polishes and pour them directly into the bottle! arbitrary amounts at a time. For the goldenrod color, I used some really bright orange, a couple drops of black, some neutral jelly polish and a few drops of white. I also normally add some drops of polish thinner, if the polish has thickened, but it's optional tbh. As far as mixing it together in a nice homogenous way, most nail polish has a couple of small steel balls in the bottle, specifically to mix the polish up! So, if you're shaking up a bottle of polish and you hear clicking, that's what that sound is. I just shake the shit out the bottle until the color evens out, and I swatch it a few times, adding more drops of polish until it turns into the color I want. tl;dr you just pour the polish all in the bottle. But for very small batches, you can buy miniature nail polish bottles for really cheap!

#And for VERY very small batches #you can plop a few dabs of nail polish onto a piece of plastic or a silicon mat #mix it together real quick #and apply it before it starts drying down.#sergle answers #nailposting #I have a lot of polishes that I've Edited or just made a new polish from scratch by mixing shit together that I already have #this opportunity presents itself anytime I have an Empty bottle #but it's also just good to breathe life into an uninteresting shade that I don't really wear #I have a lot of polish so I have a lot of options for shades I can mix but you can still do a lot by just having #a black and a white polish #darkening and lightening a shade tbh... changes everything

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gaarasboyfriend · 3 months ago

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going to be as vague as possible but i was recently in a space where it was clear we were not welcomed by certain organizing members, but also we just didnt connect for another big portion of the attendees which does happen sometimes

#there was a very clear in and out group #weirdest experience traveling for an event in a bit #there were still some very nice people but it did change my opinion on the event organization #and there are several people i wouldnt care to see again lol at least not in a position of power #bam speaks #i usually do a little event discussion thing after but i would have a mix of negative and good things to say and idk if i want to put the #bad stuff out there especially because it is such a small community lol #but i also dont want to be inauthentic bc i dont want to promote this group for future events unless thats 100% that persons interest #tough one #thinking back on it it was just a few select people who were rude as fuck which made me not want to interact as much with other people

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cherrirui-official · 1 year ago

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Are your gijinkas (race wise) based on the actors for the most part or the pokemons design for the most part? I'm curious to know :3

I don't really have a definitive answer for this, but when think abt it, it's a bit all over the place if that makes sense??

Like some of them aren't really a specific race (Like 4est, Pastey, and Lark), some are based on the actors (Like Jayweed and the Mykyie redesign I plan on posting soon) and some are based on the Pokemon's design (Sara and Braidy I think are good examples of this)

Tbh the only one who doesn't fall into either one of these categories is Grunpilo, that weird little freak.

#I hope this makes sense im rlly sorry if I worded it weird or made it sound confusing #Honestly Grunpilo just spawned into existence while I was drawing concept designs for other characters #and hes looked the same ever since #like the others have gone through at least a few small changes but not Grunpilo #I dont even remember how I created his design except for the fact that I wanted Grunpilo to be a lil puppeteer #and the rest is history #i didnt expect to be rambling abt Grunpilo in the tags but here i am lmao #Also i specifically mentioned the Mykyie redesign bc I barely knew anything abt Mikey when I first got into friendlocke #and my dumbass ended up making his first gijinka design WHITE!!!1! BIGGEST FUMBLE OF MY LIFE IM SO SO SO SOO SORRY MIKEY MY FELLOW FILIPINO #technically im white but a large part of my family is filipino so its even more embarrassing for me to do that AUGH! Im so ashamed of mysel #so yeah that's basically all I gotta say abt the subject. Ty for asking!#rui replies #friendlocke #friendlocke violet #violet gijinka AU #sugarlime83

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reflectionsofgalaxies · 4 months ago

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coping with things so well today so i’m bragging about it ✨

#had a SMALL emotional reaction to something but then like breathed through it and was very normal #and then something that might’ve made me feel kinda alone and insecure a year or two ago #actually just made me feel happy which is a MUCH preferable reaction #and one that matches the reaction in my head #my emotions are not me #they tell me things but they’re only a piece of the puzzle and I can still decide how I process things beyond the immediate emotions #also did a bunch more organizing of my stuff for packing #and wrote things in my planner for the first few weeks of school #I already have several plans and events!!!!#and instead of pushing someone away I suggested some plans a few months away #bc that gives both of us kinda a sense of security in the friendship?#they’re worried about losing me with me going back to school #and I’m worried about losing them bc they have kinda a major obsession w/ someone else rn #(which is pretty cute when my brain isn’t being an insecure dick)#so this makes us both be like ‘even if things change we still have plans and our friendship will withstand those changes’#anyway gonna get ready to go walk up a big hill for fresh air #today has been a good day overall #OH AND ANOTHER FRIEND DROPPED BY OUT OF THE BLUE #AND GAVE ME A HAND SEWN EMBROIDERED CHARM FOR BACK-TO-SCHOOL!!!!#and a little card about how they’re proud of me and will be there for me on this journey!#god now I’m gonna cry #I have the most amazing friends in the whole freakin world #personal

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lovelyrotter · 1 year ago

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thinkin about dragon age for the first time in like ages but smth that always struck me as odd is how often cole is mischaracterized and misrepresented. like i can tell when someone hasnt read asunder from how they depict cole. dudes half avvar like hes not a tiny little boy. thin yeah but have you SEEN his LEGS?? and his SHOULDERS? this is a full grown half-avvar man. the avvar are fuckin massive like theyre chasin up the qunari regularly in terms of height. spreading my tall cole agenda

#my t #daveposting #continuing my cole is a full grown adult w/ full grown adult thoughts and wants agenda too #im gonna give him so many boyfriends #just as he deserves tbh #anyway my personal hc for cole body specs is that hes perpetually malnourished but sinewy and shockingly strong #hovering somewhere btwn 6'-6'4''#the juxtaposition of his frame vs Who He Is vs What He Does should be eerie and weird #plus thinking abt the human cole feeling scared of growing 'too big'#catching too much attention #he wants to be small but his avvar genes doesnt let him so he slouched and was quiet and kept to himself #and then he starved to death in the white spire cell #so when the spirit found him and became him the spirit imitated how quiet he made himself to be #and in-game-cole only is able to really change his body re gaining weight/muscle after becoming fully human #we like there being a considerable gap in og human cole's life where he wanders as an apostate for a few years so he grows like a gd weed #i have a lot of feelings about cole dragon age

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deus-ex-mona · 2 years ago

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we are united in a common cause on this ✨#blessed✨ day

#hi bots why do you keep liking my lxl posts lmaooooo they aren’t even good mans #n o t that any of my posts are even good to begin with but… my lxl posts are the worst of the worst o k #i mean. they’re p much bot bait at this point.. well! at least the bots like ‘em fruity too~~~~~#though. speaking of this hellsite.. does anyone else get annoyed when the dumb app makes you follow people you’ve never heard of?#like i can never tell if someone i’m following has changed their url or if they’re someone the ‘site possessed my account to follow #like… well… backstory time: i originally made this account to browse the ship tags for a c e r t a i n ship from a c e r t a i n fandom #back when the year was still somewhere in the 2010s i think.. then i lost interest in the ship and the fandom (rip 狛 x 日 y’all the ogs)#and then i deleted the app without having ever followed any accounts. but when i next logged in a few years later. m a n.#i was following some account that i’d never even heard of lmao. like whoaaaaa who you #the account seemed to have been abandoned though.. but they made some really pretty non-fandom art i think…#idk i just thought about it bc i keep seeing accounts i don’t recognise on my dash and i m just like w h o y o u 👁️🫦👁️#i feel kinda bad when i see posts from the accounts that use this site like an actual blog y’know..#like there you are; using the site like it was probably meant to be used.#while im just here making shitposts and the occasional tl for a small-ish fandom #hm. i think i could make t h e most boring blog ever if i ever tried to be a blogger lmao #like i once made a w o r d p r e s s jokeblog that had nothing but a post about kale chips on it… i think #i wonder if that site is still up though… can’t rem if i deleted it or something�� o h w e l l #o h c o w. what point was i trying to make again? i forgor—#though. speaking of cows. ‘cow’ (in a c e r t a i n c h i n e s e d i a l e c t) was allegedly my brother’s first word as a kid #and yeah. it was directed at yours truly. (sadge) to think that my bro learned how to talk just to insult me..#brothers amirite? (truly sadge……..)#it is suiyoubi my dudes

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peanutbutter-doodles · 2 years ago

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Chapters: 1/1 Fandom: Ghost (Sweden Band) Rating: Mature Warnings: Graphic Depictions Of Violence, Major Character Death Relationships: Aether | Quintessence Ghoul/Dewdrop Ghoul | Fire Ghoul Characters: Dewdrop Ghoul | Fire Ghoul, Multi Ghoul | Swiss Army Ghoul, Aether | Quintessence Ghoul Additional Tags: Character Death, Death, Full on spreading pain, Blood, Killing, Angst, Horror, Daggers, References to Macbeth, Romeo and Juliet References, Sadness, Angels, no happy ending, breakdown - Freeform, Violence Series: Part 1 of Fics From My Tumblr Summary:

And Now It's....

7 Pm

Past 7 Actually Leaving The Fire Ghoul Very Frustrated and Upset That Aether Hasn’t Come Back Yet From This Morning, Haven’t Heard a Word Got Texted Back By the Amount of Messages He’s Been Sending Him. Not A word Filling Him Up With A Sense Of Agonizing Worry, Feeling That Something May Have Happen But Pushed That Quickly Down Not Wanting to Be Overdramatic Over Something That Should've Been Done, Soon, Even Hours Ago When the Sun Started To Set.....

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theultracharmingladynoire · 2 years ago

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Added a 'not ml' tag for posts about shows other than ml!

#Okay ramble in tags I need to get this off my chest #So uh. obviously due to the whole leaks and gloob situation of late #I haven't really been into ml as much as I was before (this would most likely change with episode 11 of course #Naturally I've been getting into a lot of other shows (knt horimiya yoi for example) and I think I am #Posting about them more frequently? For the past few weeks #But it's just that. Okay first of I've never been multifandom so this is so...new #It kind of makes me sad that I feel I am like. There is this change from my hyperfixations #Especially since ml was my first and biggest hyperfixation and the reason I made this blog and changed me SO much into who I am now #It feels kind of intimidating having to go through this change?#It also makes me so sad that I stopped giffing but I just. Can't bring myself to. Half of it is due to me trying to digital art and part of #It is just that every single time I try to gif in my phone it just crashes all the time and I just don't have the time for it...yet #So it just feels so strange and kind of uncomfortable even though I love all these other shows too (it actually would've been evident djsh)#But it also makes me feel confused because it just isn't the Same As Before #And I really miss the excitement season 4 gave me (and season 5 upto passion) and I just.#I really really miss ml this is such a confusing feeling and #It probably also has to do with the fact that most of these new hyprfixations are like. shows that are over ig? most of them have very #small Tumblr fandoms so they didn't really intimidate me #(sidenote but yoi is different because it is like. A huge popular show yet it was like 6 years ago with an active fanbase even now. And I t #Think the whole thing prompted these strange feelings to me was yoi because I love the show but it just feels kind of lonely without anyone #To ramble about the show too #Okay I will spill the truth this whole tag rambles is because I just feels weird rn and I am trying to make sense of it by typing it out #And I think the solution (for now) would be: please send asks about my other hyperfixations I want to talk about them more and I need to be #Enabled for that (sorry👍)#And multifandom people please tell me how you manage to do it. Was it the same when you turned multifandom too or is this a me thing😭#n rambles #Okay typing this out dis make me feel better oof #Edit: I have more to say apparently #I want to change my blog theme to something other than ml but I just. Can't bring myself to if that makes sense #I CAN make sideblogs actually but it just WON'T be the same

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that1randomnerd · 6 months ago

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Why can't people just let others live without trying to make them change their bodies?

Theres something really insidious about how gastric bypass advocates deny that essential organ mutilation is unhealthy.

"I've lost so much weight I'm so healthy" your stomach is mutilated.

"My doctor is praising my progress" your stomach is mutilated.

"I fit in so many more clothes now"

Because an essential, life sustaining organ in your body was cut up and your digestive system rerouted.

Health isn't the end all be all of value, humanity or importance but I feel like there is a huge lie here when this is "healthy" and it's just ignored.

Sorry to just bring this up out of no where but I was reminded of how little this is really talked about in bypass circles. Like, no matter what, you are now unhealthy. The spector of health continues. The Ouroboros is unbroken. Only this time it's doctor approved.

-mod squirrel

#stop pretending to #Understand what it's like #I know this is nowhere near the same but one time I said I wanted to start working out and asked my friends for workout tips and one said #“Bulk up like me. Gain a lot of weight and a lot of muscle underneath it.” And it made me uncomfortable and took me a few days to realize w #I've been close to underweight pretty much all my life due to a fast metabolism. I'm comfortable with my body the way it is and changing th #Not because I'd be fat but because my body would be different than what it's been my whole life #That was more or less the only time I've felt uncomfortable about something like that and it made me feel horrible #Like I said. It's nowhere near the same but I think of that any time I see people talking about fatphobia because I imagine how other peopl #Out there are feeling a lot more horrible than that one time and it's something that happens repeatedly and my heart goes out to everyone #Who's being treated badly for their weight and I hate people who force changes on others' bodies for their own prejudices and cruelty #Just let people live with their bodies the way they want #Also I shared the personal story because I feel weird saying something like ��I understand a fraction of what it's like emotionally” (and I #Mean a very small fraction) without clarifying that it made me feel absolutely horrible when someone told me to change my body once #And I can only imagine how much worse it would make someone feel when they're constantly being told way worse stuff than what that friend #Told me. I'm probably wording things very poorly and I'm sorry if sharing that story ends up offending anyone because because I don't under

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steviescrystals · 7 months ago

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my tags on the post i just reblogged got me thinking so here’s my current stream of consciousness

#i refer to ages 12-16 as my ‘church girl era’ bc that’s when i got really deep into christianity #like i went to church twice a week (regular sessions on sundays small groups on tuesdays) and to church events trips camps etc all the time #i even got baptized when i was 13 bc my siblings and i weren’t baptized as babies #like church was such a huge part of my life but i think it only became that bc of the specific church i went to #it was a nondenominational church and the environment was very chill for lack of a better word #and the social aspect of it was really what got me into the actual religion #i HATED going there when we first moved here bc i didn’t know anyone and i was so painfully shy #then in middle school i made a bunch of friends who went to the same church and suddenly it was so fun #that’s when i started going on tuesdays bc we would play games and have contests and stuff like that before the actual small groups #so it felt more like a club my friends and i were in than a church #but once i had those friends and i was comfortable being there i genuinely started to get more invested in christianity #bc i was actually paying attention to the sermons instead of just thinking about how anxious i was the whole time #so by the time i started high school i was very actively christian for the first time in my life #but somehow i drifted away from it just as easily as i fell into it #i started playing lacrosse when i was 15 and we had practice most weeknights so i couldn’t go to small groups anymore #and then our church merged with a bigger church in the area so we became a new branch of that church instead of a little community church #and the merger changed so much about the way the church operated that a ton of people just stopped going entirely including me #and it only took a few months for me to realize that i just didn’t really believe any of it or feel connected to it anymore #and idk even years later i still have love for a lot of those people and that part of my life #but it’s interesting how as soon as i lost that social community the church gave me i was completely disconnected from the religion itself #and at this point in my life i can’t see myself ever identifying as a christian again partly bc i just can’t get myself to believe in god #and partly bc of all the awful christians out there although i firmly believe there are still so many christians who are good people #for example my church was always accepting of the lgbtq+ community which obviously was and is super important to me #but yeah i just can’t see myself ever being religious again but at the same time i still find myself missing it sometimes even now #the community was clearly a huge part of it for me but it was also such a nice feeling to be so into the faith or wtv you want to call it #like i’ve always known my own values/morals ofc and i also love other forms of spirituality but actual religion is such a unique thing to me #like i don’t want to be christian again but i do miss the feeling of being christian/religious in general if that makes sense #and at least for me there really isn’t any substitute that can give me that same specific feeling which is honestly really sad to me #anyway. idk where i was going with this but if any former christians (or other ex religious people) want to weigh in i’d love your thoughts #lj.txt

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matrix-pawz · 7 months ago

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ISTG I wanna ramble on to somebody about ghost and pals but it'd all be gibberish :/

#...........................................................................................................................................#secret vent lol #idk why i get so mad at myself easily #like- id be patient and reassuring to other people #but to myself?#ha #my dad implemented all these expectations into my brain that i cant get over and beat myself up over #heres a list:#everything has to be perfect #i cant make any mistakes #if something bad happens its my own fault and i should fix it if not im a bad person #i should take care of others more than myself #if i dont make it i should just be better #if i cant find something quickly then im irresponsible #and if i cant live up to other peoples expectations then i should work herder #it never matters how hard i work #my arms could be falling off and he would just tell me “work harder”#and then a few things i got off him that he didnt like that contrasts with what i was taught #when arguing always be the loudest and biggest which isnt good because if i snap during a small argument it could get into a bigger fight #fucking violence do i even need to explain? he was violent so i became violent (sadly :c i dont wanna be like him)#inappropriate language he always cussed while yelling and i kinda adopted that #and manipulation i dont like doing it and sometimes i do it unwillingly and then i beat myself over it like;#“i should let them make their own decisions but i can't help it i probably shouldnt even be here in worse for them”#and then that leads to me cutting off contact with a bunch of people #i dont wanna be like my dad but i cant control it i really wanna be better ive been trying to get better #but i dont know how i can #this was how i was raised #i tried to change how i act to fit other people #ive made up a whole fake personality where i have a normal family and im always supportive and shit #that isnt me i wish it was but it isnt. im a terrible fucking person and i dont know why i even exist!!!

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