#I don't know how else to put it

[autistickaitovocaloid]

Thinking about gender stuff and to be honest I think my ideal presentation is somewhere on a scale with a guy in crocs, cargo shorts, and some god awful graphic t shirt on one end, and on the other end is Calne Ca.

[a9saga]

The other night I had a dream where two of my supervisors from my previous theme park job saw my ass

[imagineagreatadventure]

i didn't love the ted lasso finale but i also didn't hate it which puts it about ten leagues above most series finales I've had to experience "live"

[galoogamelady]

Hello, I have a question that has been bothering me for a long time. How old is Buttons?

Depends on the context I draw him in. Usually he's drawn in his 20s or 30s. He's not quite as young as your usual Vault Dweller.

GTA Online Buttons is in his mid-20s. He started working for the Weezbugs in his early 20s.

[izzymalec]

pushing daisies season 1 episode 1 – pie-lette

i guess dying is as good as any excuse to start living

[aishabellasbigblogofeverything]

I love it when women hate men. I love it when women are allowed to vent to each other about how horrible and creepy men are. I love it when women form friendships with and prioritize each other over relationships with men(whether they're attracted to them or not). I love it when women put men dni in their bios and on their nude photos and on posts on their blogs. I love it when women refuse to mollycoddle and accommodate entitled male feelings with "but this doesn't mean I hate all men, I know a few men who are great, I love my father/sons/brothers/uncles/male cousins/guy friends" I love it when women complain about men WITHOUT "not all men" being a disclaimer. I love it when women avoid socializing with/refuse to be around/befriend/get close to men because they know men can't be trusted. I love it when women make "kill all men" jokes. I love it when women offer absolutely no concern or care for men's feelings and if their misandry offends men whatsoever because why should we, men are the oppressor class who have raped and killed and abused us and kept us as subjugated as second-class citizens for millennia, they regularly mistreat us and the women in their own marginalized communities still every single day and make this world so much harder and more awful for us to be in, and if we choose to hate them and not spare them any sympathy then so be it, and I don't just mean "men as a class" either, you can be a woman who doesn't want to have anything to do with any man on an individual basis and completely cuts off men from her personal life too and ykw I will love and fucking support you in that because men deserve absolutely NOTHING from us. If they're so tough and strong then they can handle it just like they can handle being lonely. If you are a woman who hates men, ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE A LESBIAN AND/OR A TRANS WOMAN, then just know that I love you. I love you, I support you, and you are safe here.

[uncanny-tranny]

"The only person who can save you is yourself, don't rely on anybody else!"

Actually, what has saved me is books and my favourite video game and my cats and my friends who I've shared late nights and too-early mornings with and the dew-covered grass I walked on on the way to a competition bus in ninth grade band and the sunburn that kept me out of school for days the month prior.

I understand the viewpoint of how you are ultimately the person who can save you, but don't discount that you aren't an island. You aren't meant to be your sole savior. Let others save you, too. You are worth the care and love the universe has for you.

[royalarchivist]

Slimecicle: I got- I put contacts in this morning, and I got them stuck in my eyes and I tried to take them out before stream and my eyes got all red and I decided I'd rather do it with- [sighs] without my glasses because otherwise I was gonna look fcking high as sht and all of the clips of me were gonna be me fcking high as sht, and I was gonna have fcking red eyes and I was gonna look like I got pepper-sprayed—

And also I got my ears pierced today! So that was- that's cool. But I can't- that's why I don't have headphones on, I can't put these on. It was terrifying, I almost fainted.

[Reading chat] "Who is this?" GUYS, STOP- STOP LEAVING CHAT, IT'S ME! GUYS, I SWEAR! I SWEAR- C'MON! Goo gooby, guys! Goo gooby! You all- you all know that, right?! [Sounding increasingly frantic] C'mon guys, you all know who that- you all know that! C'mon! C'mon guy- c'mon, c'mon guys, goo gooby! C'mon! You guys love me from, uh, co- [singing] "Come down today, and try some-" [wheezes] C'mon. You know that, you know tha- c'mon, you know that!

[s4ndg3m]

hear me out on scag x split guys. they both start with "s" it's practically canon.

[dollypopup]

one day fans will realize that treating real people like fictional characters and fictional characters like real people is, at the core of things, The Problem

[spindlewoed]

You have to understand. I don't "ship" Harry with the smoker on the balcony, I think whatever they have going on canonically is way funnier and touching than anything anyone could come up with.

There is so much within the dynamic itself. It’s a middle aged man and a younger man who are nothing alike and everything like each other. It’s the smoker being the person that kickstarts Harry’s sexuality journey anew, seeing Harry’s fascination with him and being amused by it because (aside from Harry being probably the first man in a while who’s managed to leave him dumbfounded in a positive way) the smoker *knows* what’s happening in Harry’s mind and as he puts it, it’s beautiful.

Don't get me wrong, the mutual attraction is there. The smoker flirts with Harry every other two lines (girl why the fuck are you flirting with a cop you're insane. I'm obsessed with you) yet makes fun of him in the same breath while Harry is absolutely clueless the whole time because he's too busy staring at his abs. Couldn't come up with anything funnier if I tried.

I love this high drama check, this is exaclty what it feels like to speak to clueless boomers who have no idea what they're talking about. Still, once Harry admits that he might be part of the "underground" as he puts it, the smoker is immediately excited and encourages him to think about it. It's very sweet.

(I know everyone has probably seen this dialogue 100 times by now but I love the phrasing here. literally twink_boutta_pounce.jpeg)

And as a side note I really like this emphaty check in response to Harry's little breakdown after the failed suggestion check the first time you meet him. The smoker like damn he just like me fr.

I don't think more smoker interactions were needed at all or that they would ever talk again post-game but it's interesting to think about what other converations they could have, even just so we could learn a bit more about him. They both have an interest in art. They're both stuck in a place they can't leave if they wanted to and yet find beauty in it, they both have regrets about past relationships. They both find talking with the other a charming experience in a way or another. If I want to be indulgent, they both could benefit from learning about what being gay means for a younger/older generation, especially since they both have such different life experiences with their identities.

It's all fanfic talk, and obviously no cops at pride and so on but their interactions did make me think about community and recognition through the other. A flirt for the sake of a flirt, a “maybe in another lifetime” but this lifetime is good too because they did meet and leave an impression on each other before parting ways. That's *beautiful* too.

[autistickaitovocaloid]

why's this nut weevil kind of look like kazuaki-kun

[apollo-zero-one]

I am allowed to climb the stairs on all fours, I repeat in my head, my fatigue is so bad my legs are giving out so even though my family is actively making fun of me for it, I am allowed to crawl rather than overexert myself and create unnecessary pain and exhaustion

I am allowed to sit on the floor of the shower, I remind myself through gritted teeth, even if my family would judge me for it, my fatigue is really bad today and I am allowed to sit on the floor of the shower

[maybeher0]

i communicate with tumblr exclusively in weird niche memes lately

[starry-bi-sky]

realizing i have. a lot of untapped trauma potential for clone^2 danny because i just Fully Processed Four Months Late the fact that his parents were capturing and torturing ghosts in the basement before he became Phantom. and the fact that he was on house rest for 2 weeks. during that time period. and he wasn't really leaving the house. he could hear their screaming through the floorboards

*points at clone danny* i can give you suuuuuuch a bad time babe ahaha. i've got two untouched years before you meet damian what fucks you up before then

[ghastlyaffairs]

for something as trivial and simple those feelings sure are hard to get rid of

also made a gif a version for fun + alt version with no tears under the cut

the gif is in very low resolution...this is a feature (i could make it bigger but that would require saving each frame individually and than glueing it all together. also i feel like low resolution suits it better. aesthetically and fits the mood)