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queseresere · 10 months ago

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Some total solar eclipse photos shot on an iPhone 14 pro by yours truly :D

#solar eclipse #photography #gosh the photo looks so grainy #my phone really wasn’t cut out for this lol #i tried tho!#seré does the thing

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isjasz · 3 months ago

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[mob killing noises] BAM!!!!1111!!

#goodtimeswithscar #jimmy solidarity #solidaritygaming #ldshadowlady #wild life smp #wild life spoilers #life series spoilers #traffic smp #trafficblr #my art #HI THIS TOOK TOO LONG KJASDKLAJWKJAWEAWHAH #i tried to go for this very specific pop graphic style and disintegrated in the process #also the composition took three tries #very logicial thing to do 2 days before a midterm ik #HSJKDAEPFELELP HOPE U GUYS LIKE IT :D #i love the bamboys winners pov. bamboys i believe you in you together you are stronger <- incredibly delusional #listen it would be *REALLY* FUNNY #such a great team tho fr WOOOOOOO

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transthatfag · 5 months ago

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destiel forehead healing kiss. what more could u want.

#art #digital art #my art 🦷#digital painting #supernatural #destiel #castiel #dean winchester #spn fanart #spn #destiel fanart #i am. so tired.#i tried my hardest to not half ass this and give up #i sorta accomplished that but not really #ill have some grace for myself tho cause i really struggled to make art this month :/#spn fanart is so theraputic tho #i missed making my visions for this show #it also just felt like the most low stakes thing to make #this looks way better *not* on mobile.. too lazy to edit this shit now

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wolfienation · 3 months ago

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absolutely hilarious to me that agatha calls rio a bad boy when in reality rio is actually the rule following jock with infinite patience and care who brings you flowers on a first date.

agatha on the other hand is the snarky girl who gets into arguements with her teacher about the smallest details in the lecture and is constantly getting detention for cursing someone out. she's top of all her classes tho.

#she's the bad influence #rio is literally just along for the ride #this came to me because i was thinking about how rio follows the laws of the universe #and how agatha tries to defy them at every fucking term #like no agatha babe rio isnt the bad boy she's the golden boy you take home to your parents and your mom starts planning your wedding #there is fic potential in here but im not a writer so if anyone else wants to take a shot go ahead #agatha harkness #rio vidal #agatha x rio #agathario #agatha all along #kathryn hahn #aubrey plaza #rio definitely has a jealousy streak tho and she will get violent if threatened

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lotus-pear · 5 months ago

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looking cool joker !!

#damn i can't believe mr akiren persona 5 has one of my favorite designs in the whole game #akira drop the mascara brand it's not fair to gatekeep those lashes #hes possibly one of my favorite protagonists ever i love his swagless cringefail personality even tho he tries to be a suave debonair mf #persona 5 #persona 5 royal #ren amamiya #akira kurusu #p5 #p5r #lotus draws #if anyone calls him dazai in the replies i'm hunting you down it's bungover for you

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angsty-art-ist · 2 years ago

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my magnum opus actually

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arcanegifs · 2 months ago

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ARCANE LEAGUE OF LEGENDS: 2x06 - “The Message Hidden Within the Pattern” ↳ "Hope I was worth your time."

#DID SHE HAVE TO GRAB CAITS GUN SO SEXILY THO.......... HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEE #also i struggled coloring this scene lmao i tried #ok gif spam for the day is done im gonna go get some rest #arcane #arcaneedit #vi #vi arcane #arcane vi #arcane season 2 #arcane s2 #arcane league of legends #league of legends arcane #league of legends #type: gif #media: arcane #s2 ep6

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starrysharks · 1 year ago

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friendship is magic

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themetalhiro · 6 days ago

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Surely there was another way to go about this

#i tried my best making a cutsie axehound print ok #theyre absolutely dreadful to look at tho #elhokar kholin #shallan davar #adolin kholin #kaladin #kaladin stormblessed #stormlight archive #stormlight #oathbringer #oathbringer spoilers #cosmere

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giantkillerjack · 2 years ago

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Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".

[plain-text version of this post can be found under the cut]

Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"

And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".

Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.

At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.

So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!

Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!

Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!

Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.

Plain-text version:

Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".

Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"

And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".

Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.

At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.

So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!

P.S. Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!

Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!

Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.

#hlep #original #mental health #my sympathies and empathies to anyone who has to rely on this kind of hlep to get what they need.#the people in my life who most need to see this post are my family but even if they did I sincerely doubt they would internalize it #i've tried to break thru to them so many times it makes my head hurt. so i am focusing on boundaries and on finding other forms of support #and this thing i learned today helps me validate those boundaries. the example with the milk was from my therapist.#the example with the towing company was a real thing that happened with my parents a few months ago while I was age 28. 28!#a full adult age! it is so infantilizing as a disabled adult to seek assistance and support from ableist parents.#they were real mad i was mad tho. and the spoons i spent trying to explain it were only the latest in a long line of #huge family-related spoon expenditures. distance and the ability to enforce boundaries helps. haven't talked to sisters for literally the #longest period of my whole life. people really believe that if they love you and try to help you they can do no wrong.#and those people are NOT great allies to the chronically sick folks in their lives.#you can adore someone and still fuck up and hurt them so bad. will your pride refuse to accept what you've done and lash out instead?#or will you have courage and be kind? will you learn and grow? all of us have prejudices and practices we are not yet aware of.#no one is pure. but will you be kind? will you be a good friend? will you grow? i hope i grow. i hope i always make the choice to grow.#i hope with every year i age i get better and better at making people feel the opposite of how my family's ableism has made me feel #i will see them seen and hear them heard and smile at their smiles. make them feel smart and held and strong.#just like i do now but even better! i am always learning better ways to be kind so i don't see why i would stop

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mistgardens · 2 months ago

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So uhh

Og:

#arcane spoilers #arcane #arcane season 2 #viktor arcane #jayce arcane #jayce talis #viktor league of legends #jayce league of legends #jayvik #digital art #paint tool sai #fanart #mist gardens tag #mist gardens trash #this viktor design has everything I like to draw. Jayce is the opposite #i tried my best tho

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timethehobo · 2 months ago

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Emmy being self-conscious of his age, and maybe even about how he looks. 🥺 Rook loves him anyway.

#dragon age #dragon age the veilguard #DAtV #Emmrich volkarin #my art #yes I had the thought after I saw folks changing how he looked via mods #Emmy is already self conscious of his age #I can imagine at his lowest points he just wonders if he even looks good enough #he tries to dress well and is very particular about shaving and grooming himself #even tho he came from poor circumstances and doesn’t seem to care for nobles #he still tries to come across fancy and upper class #being sensitive that its education that makes a man #he’s a sensitive soul inside and he’s always trying to please the people around him #I can imagine how badly he might take comments about his looks #anyway I’m rambling but I want to make yall sad too #ahahah #oh Emmy we love you

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choccy-milky · 2 months ago

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@foundthatoldzeppelinshirt what did u do to me...what in the wattpad is this... i only planned to do a few doodles but then i kept getting more brainrotted and things got out of hand LMAOO (and ofc i HAD to draw hockey player seb at SOME POINT bc its my duty as a canadian citizen🫡🍁🍁 O CANADA!!!)