#Help hlep

[lifenconcepts]

RJDHXJXBXBXHXX BBXHXJK Y YYEAHAH I can barely breathe because I MUST WRRRRRRITE and llldkdoxikke insmmdmccannttt expalincalin why I can’t but. BUT I MIST - MUST .. MUST WRITE! I MUST MUST MUST! This is a need that goes beyond that, a craving, a withdrawal, a desperate begging to express the desire that the universe supplied me with. I feel like god but because I’m not writing it feels wasted. Everything that isn’t writing is wrong. Not neccesarily but I just need to write. I need to write. I’ve wrote a lot about how much I need to write but it’s not enough. I hope this is enough. Yeah haha no it’s not though. Because I need to write. I must write. I am trying to write. This isn’t working this isn’t- I MUST WRITE! How much do I have to repeat this?? I must.. I simply must- I- I must!! I must I must I must I NEED TO I NEEED TO NEEEEEREEEDDDDDD TOOOO WRRIIIYTE I i I- I NEED TO WRITE I NEED TO I JUST MUST I JUST CANT GO ABOUT IT ANY ITHER WAY AND-

AND MAY YOU IMMORTALISE THIS WITH SHAME BUT KNOW THAT I HAVE SUCH A BURNING DESPERSTION FOR THIS THAT IM WILLING TO ERASE PROGRSS IVE DONE FOR BETTERING MYSELF SIMPLY TO FULFIL A CRAVING THAT I SEEM TO UNDERSTAND ON THE SURFACE LEVEL BUT NOWHERE NEAR ENOUGH TO SOLVE IT- AAGGHDJXKKXKXHJ WHY IS THIS NOT CONSIDERED WRITING???!!? OH GOD MY ENTIRE BRAIN JUST IS HELLBENT ON WRITING I CANT ACTUALLY EVEN——-£.£,&’nnsnsnznzjvzkzb…?!:/!:!!/!/!!:&&?&&?&?££&&;£;3&&28&:!!2!2!/!!/?/??;!/!:!!;!!;!;!!!?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?2?-??-?!!??? AnanbbbbbbbbbbKvzjvjsvkxbkxbkxbkzbkbxkbxbdkvsjsjsvsgwghwhwhsjhhzgzgfcxxxafafcacvznznznnnnxnxnbxxhdjskoeowllekd oh fujckckkkkkklkkkkkjdhhsjx

[mimikyuno]

NIIGO WL CHRONICLES

last 10hours of mizuki’s chapter!!! im locked in!!

im sick and yesterday i barely played and decided to just stick to t2000 for mizuki but this morning when i woke up i regretted my decision so much… i was ranked 1790 smth (or even 1800…) and i grinded for 7 hours straight to get back in t1000 lmao i did it tho!! currently on my 8th hour fighting tooth and nail to stay t1000

i’ll have to catch a couple of hours of sleep eventually so i just pray i’ll stay in t1k 😭🙏🏻

im starting to get dizzy tbh, and it’s only almost 9pm lol i’ll have to get up again at 4am for the last 2 hours of grind for mizuki and then immediately start grinding for ena….. aughhhh send help

[giantkillerjack]

Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".

[plain-text version of this post can be found under the cut]

Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"

And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".

Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.

At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.

So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!

Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!

Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!

Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.

Plain-text version:

Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".

Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"

And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".

Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.

At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.

So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!

P.S. Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!

Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!

Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.

[ali-abo-jubara]

Urgent help: Social assistance to survive and start a new lif

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[1hellofacookie]

listen,

listen,

I watched Barbie, and

I'm so fucking gay

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[septic-salad]

CODCW/EDDSWORLD REAL???!?!?

YAYAYAYAY FINALLY FINISHED THE COLLAB WITH @ryemackerel OUU THIS WAS SO FUN TO DO ESPECIALLY THE BRAIN ROT AGGIE CANVASES OH MY ZLORP toe mungus breathes ᵒˣʸᵍᵉⁿ 👅

(I ALREADY POSTED THIS ONCE BUT IT DISSAPPEARED??? I WEEP)

Original idea doodle and Tumblr exclusive aggie canvas below the cut 👅

Tumblr exclusive cuz I love you guys (shhh don't tell the Instagram enjoyers but you guys are my favorite)

Ryan's stuff is in red and yellow like pee and blood and I drew in green like poop when you've eaten something weird ☺️

[marshberri]

love wins

[cherryformula]

i meant to make a glisten part for this but i forgot. shitty rodger doodle go

[burstinn]

I can't take it somebody please help me find this fuck ass fic pls I accidentally left and I can't find it anymoee

Like it's like a yandere priest and he's like fucking reader as a way to cleanse sin

And it was a series on wattpad and j left the wattpad link on accident and I can't find it SOMBEODY HELP

I was actually interested in the story I can't I CAN'T

[eggyolkguzzler-archive]

My dog recently got

*snip snip*

So uhh…i guess he really took No Nut November to the extreme

[ Alex is trying really hard not to laugh. He is trembling. ]

Y-... Yeah, buddy?

[unofficial-trader-joes]

sorry

i got a bit too silly

[zhenniaoo]

SO THAT ONE OUTFIT THAT WAS REVEALED,, HUH,,,,,

[abdallah2005jm]

Hello dear friends! ❤🤍🖤💚

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Our lives are harsh because we lack all the basic necessities of life. Everything has become scarce and unattainable. There is no food, no water, no medicine.

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[ploopyoopy]

“…what” IM SHAKING.

[cadybear420]

Hi,

I hope you're doing well. ❤️

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