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"Had she initiated a peck, he would have turned it into an intense lip lock" pairings in KDramas
Ku San Young(Kim Tae Ri) and Lee Hong Sae(Hong Kyung) in Revenant
Cha Se Eum(Kim Young Ae) and Yoo Jeong Jae(Lee Moon Sang) in Maestra: Strings of Truth
Lee Gang Hyeon( Park Ji Hyun) and Jin Yi Soo(Ahn Bo Hyun) in Flex x Cop
Lim Jukyung(Moon Gayoung) and Han Seojun(Hwang Inyeop) in True Beauty
Oh In Joo (Kim Go Eun) and Choi Do il(Wi Ha Joon) in Little Women(2022)
Kang Nam Soon (Lee Yoomi) and Ryu Shi Oh (Byun Woo Seok) in Strong Woman Kang Nam Soon
Kang Sol A(Ryu Hye Young) and Han Joon Hwi(Kim Bum) in Law School
Bonus: Japanese Drama Couple
Didn't get a better GIF for them
Kokuryu Kirika(Mio Imada) and Tennoji Haru (Meguro Ren) in Trillion Game
#kdramas#revenant#kim tae ri#hong kyung#maestra#park jihyun#ahn bo hyun#flex x cop#hwang inyeop#moon ga young#true beauty#kim go eun#wi ha joon#little women 2022#lee yoo mi#byun woo seok#kang nam soon#korean dramas#jdrama#meguro ren#mio imada#kim bum#law school
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fic ideas food for thought:
ryu si-oh setting a trap for gang namsoon, and being unable to hurt her when it comes down to it, because he realizes: he doesn't hate her for betraying him, he's in pain because she left
namsoon stopping ryu si-oh from going after hee-sik, and he must stop because it's her asking, but also realizing she loves someone else
lmao, but – him realizing namsoon's roomate IS in fact, a guy
namsoon attacking him just after he's pulled away from the mafia and decided to go into hiding, only to then lose her powers?
just 22k words of dialogue: namsoon & ryu si-o communicating
#after whatever episode 14 was#inspiration cause we're going to need fix-it fics after tomorrow#i WILL keep adding to this list#or i'll have to hibernate#strong girl nam soon#ryu si oh#gang namsoon#byeon woo seok#lee yoo mi#kdrama
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Często myślę o tym filmie
#pokazali nam go w gimnazjum i od tej pory widziałam jeszcze 2 razy#strasznie mi zapadł w pamięć#pierwszy raz dokument mnie tak wciągnął pewnie dlatego że oglądając czujesz się jakbyś nie oglądał dokumentu lecz#komentarz a także po prostu fabułę#bardzo fajny film polecam serdecznie#nie jest przyjemny do oglądania ale to wyj��tkowy dokument po prostu jest#wgl sie nie interesuje polskim kinem btw to jest wyjątkowo przypadkowo xd#highway.txt
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they took out my other daddy cop. rip you were hot while it lasted
#tv: vigilante#vigilante#vigilante kdrama#nam joo hyuk#yoo ji tae#kim so jin#lee joon hyuk#kdrama#local gay watches Vigilante.txt#local gay watches k-dramas.txt#God i f*cking love seeing Won Hyun Joon's face on my screen in any project he does but when he showed up as Nam Yeon Gil here#i made a little sound in the back of my throat. plus he knew daddy cop boyfriend he didn't deserve to die at the hands#of the establishment#on the flip side tho daddy cop boyfriend is up and kicking and ready to inflict vengeance after hearing his friend died#Ji Yong is freaking tf out since that was not how his plan was supposed to go#and Kang Ok and Mi Ryeo? bby they're just here for the ride they'll do whatever the f*ck their main boyfriend asks#on second thought make that just Kang Ok. Mi Ryeo's been kidnapped by the same guys who stabbed daddy cop broadcast#ain't happening tonight
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Trust fun kdramas these days to have a sexy hot villain toođź¤
You mean to say that man is evil. Okay I guess.
#strong girl nam soon#ong seung woo#he returns a hero but for what#I'm going to simp for the villain this time#it's the lead from 20th century girl#also lee yoo mi#she's such a cutie
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Little Women (Korean Drama)
If this story was inspired by Louisa May Alcott's novel titled Little Women, all I can say that this is a very dark story. The truth is that the only things these two stories have in common - apart from the title - are that:
The Oh sisters are poor.
There were four daughters but the third one passed away when she was little and before the youngest was born.
They have a reach great-aunt.
The eldest daughter resents their poverty and longs for pretty things and to be rich.
The second oldest has a close relationship tot he rich aunt (and they don't necessarily get along).
The youngest is bit selfish and artistic.
The second oldest has a best friend who is in love with her.
Here is where the similarities end, for these girls have very irresponsible parents. An alcoholic and gambler for a father and their mother is selfish and steals her daughters' money because she wants to go to the Philippines where her husband is at the moment. The series introduces the audience to the story in a moment when these three sisters are having a hard time:
Oh In Joo (the eldest) is plant sitting for her best friend who is traveling. She needs money desperately for her youngest sister.
Oh In Kyung is a new reporter who has a problem with alcohol. She is uncovering a story about suicide cases related to a bank's bankruptcy but no on is taking her seriously because of her alcoholism.
Oh In Hye is attending an expensive high school that specializes in the arts and she has been hired by her friend's parents so she can paint a portrayed that will be passed as her friend's own work.
These sisters might not realize it but what is happening in each their lives is connected and wrapping them up in a nightmare that explodes once In Joo's best friend Hwa Young dies. . .
This series will keep you in suspense from beginning to end. It has many plot twists that keep you second guessing your self. Each sister's personalities and desires affect how they react and make decisions as they face the different situations. There are trust issues here as well. Who can these girls trust?
This is a great suspense drama!
Poster from Wikipedia - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Little_Women_%282022_TV_series%29
#little women korean drama#suspense drama#kim go eun#nam ji hyun#park ji hoo#kim mi sook#uhm ki joon#uhm ji won#jeon chae eun#wi ha joon#kang hoon#choo ja hyun
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LADY VENGEANCE:
Released from prison
She hunts man who put her there
Can she find a life?
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#lady vengeance#random richards#poem#haiku#poetry#haiku poem#poets on tumblr#haiku poetry#haiku form#poetic#nam mi Kang#Jeong nam Choi#Hye sook go#Bok hwa baek#Kim byeong ok#Lee yeong ae#park chan wook#Chung seo kyung#Park myeong-chan#Cha soon bae#Youtube
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LOVE IN THE BIG CITY premieres OCTOBER 21 ON TVING!!! <x>
Starring : Nam Yoon Soo, Jin Ho Eun
Synopsis - An audacious tale of two roommates, one a gay man and another a straight woman. Through the eyes of Mi Ae begins Go Yeong’s clumsy love story. Stories of laughter, tears, and wounds between a mother in denial of her son's sexuality and his being unable to escape societal judgment. Go Yeong finally meets a pure love like no other, Gyu Ho, but has no choice but to let him go. With Gyu Ho gone, Go Yeong follows a stranger to Thailand and spends a late monsoon vacation. Reminiscing about the good old days that can never be retrieved, he achieves complete personal growth. Runtime - 8 episodes of 50 minutes each
The movie version, which focuses on the first chapter of the book starring Kim Go Eun and Noh Sang Hyun, is gonna premiere in TIFF and release in cinemas on October 2nd. (teaser)
#the main event is here y'all#love in the big city#love in the big city the series#nam yoon soo#jin ho eun
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Watched the first two episodes of Love In The Big City and I am full of feelings about queer loneliness and the different ways that that presents itself, and about how love changes us in big and small ways, and how people can carve themselves so deeply into us that being apart from them leaves us at a loss, and how it can be hard to see the ways that people love us until we step back.
And really just a lot about loneliness, and how it seems such an intrinsic part of the queer experience, and how it is reflected in Young and in Nam Gyu (and in Mi Ae).
They're not fully formed thoughts, yet. I'm going to let them marinate a little more, but I think aside from how beautiful and necessary and vital loving friends are, the biggest takeaway was really how loneliness is this giant spectre that haunts Young, and how incredibly, honestly queer that is.
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LITBC Ep 3-4: What Does Eating Pasta Have to Do With Your Tough Past?
One thing I really have to commend the book Love in the Big City for is how fucking effectively it utilizes information reveals to recontextualize entire sections of the book, entire understandings of Young’s character/psyche. So much of the time I spent reading LITBC was focused on getting to know Young as a character to learn about his life, his past, his present reality. So it is such a fascinating twist, and at least for me, a gift to enter this show with Young’s point of view in my head.
I’m really interested to see how people who have not read the book already engage with the show, engage with the character of Young, and engage with the reveals of some of the pieces of his past. Because for me going into it, experiencing Young’s life with the knowledge of Young’s history is such a different emotional experience than learning about Young for the first time.Â
I’m thinking about the rockfish and flounder scene here and the way that Young tries to flirt by saying he’s chewy and should be called rockfish. And the way that Hyung responds and says he should call Young “flounder” instead because he can “see right through him.” And it’s fucking bullshit, and we see how that unfolds especially throughout episode four. I think it is absolutely fascinating not having that internal monologue to guide viewers through the television version of Young. Because the way Nam Yoon Soo plays Young has this smiley, care-free, proud sort of quality to him that is in large part still an act but a much harder act to identify because we don’t have access to how or what he’s thinking.
And while you see the losses of Mi Ae, for example, I think only watching the show puts you in a position to much less deeply understand the level of pain that Young is constantly carrying with him. Which, to be clear, isn’t a bad thing per say, it’s just interesting because even as the novel did recontextualize some things, I had a much different impression of how Young might present himself. The reveals of things like Kylie, for example, in the book serve more to provide an explanation as to why Young thinks Like That, is as dissociative from his own emotional state as he is, etc. So it is interesting to see Young be more of a happy!sad as he is in the show (at least in my opinion).Â
I will be curious to see how people who haven’t read the book react/reacted to the reveal of Young’s institutionalization. It feels like a much smaller, less clear moment in the show than in the book, and there is definitely a complete lack of demonstration from the show that he wasn’t just hospitalized but that he was in conversion therapy. I don’t think that it is hard to make the leap, especially with Young’s mother’s religious zeal, but still they spend a lot less time on that piece of Young’s backstory in the show than they did in the novel.Â
But to know from the second the show started about Young’s past, resulted in a visceral rage that hit me straight in the chest when Hyung told Young “you don’t know anything” after Hyung’s run in with his activist seniors. And again after they have sex when Hyung says “someone like you can’t even imagine [the suffering I’ve been through]” As if Young has had this easy, picture perfect life, when I know, I KNOW that Young is taking care of a mother that once forced him into conversion therapy when she found out that he was gay.Â
Like, watching Young engage in queer culture as openly as he does, watching Young say that people don’t care, that Hyung’s seniors will still see him as their junior. To want to wear matching outfits, and go have romantic pasta dinners, and sit close to each other in public is so goddamn important because Young had a period in his life where other people were forcibly trying to make him believe, make him act otherwise.
And it is still so interesting because we don’t know that much about Hyung. We don’t know what Hyung has suffered outside of an alcoholic mother, we start to get a hint at it with the writing around Christianity and homosexuality that Young finds on his computer later, but for a man that said that he saw right through Young he has no fucking idea how much Young has actually overcome. Hyung is stuck in his own little rut, and Young is absolutely goddamn right to say “You call yourselves activists, yet why are you so ignorant? Fucking bastards. You only act progressive- ” it angers Hyung, but Young is fucking correct.Â
And I love the little moment that Young pauses in his tracks while Hyung storms off. The way that Young is in fact the person that saw right through Hyung in that moment while Hyung is clinging to this false belief that Young has never suffered for being queer. I love this very charged cut straight to the Bible and Young’s mother right after that. Because I know. Because Young knows. Because Hyung does not, has not, and will never know.Â
Hyung lives his life in hiding, wallowing in his own self loathing and internalized homophobia, so wrapped up in his own misery that he refuses to consider anyone else. He doesn’t tolerate anything that Young wants to do, he invents this completely loving, uncomplicated relationship between Young and his mother based on what he sees at a distance. Hyung has never looked at anything up close he refuses to, he exists in the universe, his scale is the universe, and his own suffering is as present and as powerful as that universe so there is no room for anyone else.Â
Sure it’s dazzling to hear “I like the universe that is you” I get why that shit woos Young, but at the end of the day what does that fucking mean? It means nothing to Hyung, who is embarrassed of Young, who hides his affection for Young until they are behind closed doors, who doesn’t ever want to step a toe out of line despite saying he’s an activist, despite saying he’s progressive. And it has me thinking more about his Tree of Life tattoo and its association with the Revelations passage that talks about the tree of life being a reward for those who overcome.Â
Hyung runs and hides from his desires, and he suffers for it. Young chases his desires despite what he has suffered. And in the end Hyung will continue to have a miserable life, and Young will live. As a lot of us know, there is more pain coming for Young, but there is so much beauty, learning, growth, and rain waiting for him too.
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Love in the Big City Part 1: It's Gay
We’ve finally made it to the Love in the Big City TV adaptation. Despite all the drama going on around this show’s release, we got the whole show at once. We won’t get canceled midway through. Though I hoped for a global weekly release schedule, I understand the decisions that led to dropping the whole thing at once. Thankfully, Nam Yoon Su is so charismatic as Go Yeong, and I have much to say about how this show doesn’t hate BL, has great regard for the humanity of its characters, and so far is one of the better adaptations I’ve experienced in my life.Â
Nam Yoon Su’s Go Yeong
I just want to state plainly that I love how queer Go Yeong feels in this show. I love his pissy little expressions. I love his frustration and anger at gross straight men. I love his gay little run. I love his dancing in the street to girl pop artists. I love him making out with men in public.Â
I loved opening with Yeong in the midst of a new fling and openly having lots of sex before the military boyfriend came back home. I loved Yeong ending things before later going to a club to seek new partners. We haven’t had that in so long, with Queer as Folk being the biggest cultural memory for many.Â
More than anything, I love how lonely he felt. Many others have noted it in the tag, and I think that’s the part that resonates when something feels queer for a lot of us. It was notable that they brought Yeong’s friends forward this time, which gives us insight into the shallow nature of most of his relationships. His connection to them is through the club, music, and boys. Go Yeong keeps everyone at a distance. It’s the hardest part about being queer sometimes. You try to connect with others, but something always seems to come up to prevent that closeness.Â
Kim Nam-Gyu
I think casting Kwon Hyuk as Kim Nam Gyu was such an excellent decision. He previously played my man Jong Chan in The New Employee, and it feels like a nod from this production that they are not opposed to BL. BL is a drama full of romance tropes and huge optimism about relationships, and they cast the actor who played my favorite version of the ideal man in a way that showed empathy for his lonely, quiet nature. Casting Kwon Hyuk feels like a tactful way for this show to say, “We’re not BL, and we respect the work others are doing.” The New Employee was directed by a Korean gay activist, and I love this show giving K-BL a polite nod.
Nam Gyu is a quiet gay. As one myself, I get a lot of what I saw in Nam Gyu. He takes pictures of hot models because it’s a socially acceptable way for him to be close to hot men. He leaps at the chance to be with Go Yeong, and speed runs the intimacy route. He missed that he was smothering Go Yeong, and I think it’s because it’s clear he lacks friends.
I feel so sad for Nam Gyu, because it’s clear he overinvested in his relationship with Go Yeong. He was so ready to give Go Yeong everything, but it was way too much for a club gay. Despite all the ways he rushed in (like a fool), he was otherwise so safe in his life. He stayed in the lines everywhere, and it’s so tragic that he died while speeding.Â
I thought a lot about the lack of Kylie in this section and the health scare, and it adds a layer to the situation with Nam Gyu as @twig-tea pointed out in one of our conversations that Go Yeong asked how he died because he might already know his status. Did Go Yeong wonder if he’d infected Nam Gyu? It also makes me wonder about the sex we didn’t see with Nam Gyu and IG guy.Â
Finally, the empty funeral hurts me to my core. This man was so decent, and no one was there to see him off. I am still thinking about how all of the breakups mirrored each other in this section.
Choi Mi Ae
I think @lurkingshan already covered Mi Ae in this adaptation very well. I’ve been thinking about her for a few days, and I’ve decided that I like that we get to see more of her outside of Yeong’s POV in the show. We can see how her circumstances rattled her, and how it was clear that she couldn’t make it on her own long term.Â
I get her taking the cushy job. I get her finding a nice enough guy who didn’t want kids. I get her choosing to protect herself when cornered. The most tragic thing about her outing of Yeong is that she told the truth and it only seemed to make things worse. Jonho could never understand the solace she and Go Yeong found in each other, and he was not ready to ever hear the truth of Mi Ae’s life.Â
I feel more sympathy for Mi Ae in this version because we can see that their relationship meant so much to her. Learning that he actually went on to become a writer touched her because it feels like he’ll immortalize a time in their lives that was mutually important to them. It also means that one of them may not have to settle for the choices available to them. The singing at the wedding hits so painfully here because it’s the last fun memory these two will ever have. Yeong goes back to the apartment Mi Ae left for him to eat the last of their blueberries, and that’s the last we’ll see of her.
Final Thoughts
I’m so relieved that we have book club discussion again. I’ll be reading and reblogging people’s posts, and I’m looking forward to the next part to see how Hyung fits into the show’s narrative. This adaptation has been so beautiful so far, and it’s been really great to see how the show has softened some of its edges by putting us in third person perspective. We are giving room to understand Mi Ae, Nam Gyu, and the T-aras by not seeing them exclusively through Yeong’s eyes.
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Love in the Big City TV Series Episodes 1 &2:Â The Loneliness of Conformity and Nonconformity
[Wondering what’s going on here? In Feb-Mar of this year a bunch of us agreed to read the Love in the Big City novel one part per week and write pieces in response to the novel and @bengiyo’s excellent discussion questions weekly, which was a fantastic experience. @lurkingshan did the driving and wrangling and organizing, and compiled all of the meta from that period here . Now we’re watching and responding the series on the same cadence, 1 part (2 episodes) per week, and Shan is once again wrangling us and Ben is again providing excellent discussion questions to help inspire responses. Like last time, rather than answer the discussion questions directly, I’ll let them inform the directions my thoughts take. Also re: romanization, I’m going to use Go Yeong for the TV adaptation and Young for the novel since they seem to have standardized his name to “Yeong” at least on Viki, and that provides some distinction which is convenient].Â
In my written response to part 1 of the novel I talked about how Young was an unreliable narrator, because he was so dissociated from his own emotions that he didn’t often notice when he was having them. The loss of the bulk of the first person narration is inevitable in an adaptation to a visual medium, but I think these episodes still captured Young’s general disconnect to his emotions especially in episode 1. There are moments where he smiles that felt almost jarring, like smiling is his default response even if it’s emotionally a mismatch. The change in perspective in the series also means we see beyond Young’s POV, so we get the Mi Ae outing scene (which as @lurkingshan laid out, lent Mi Ae more sympathy than Jaehee was represented with in the novel) which really underscored that in that moment, she chose her future husband and the person she was becoming over her best friend and the person she used to be. I liked how the series included the karaoke scene with the T-ara's shading Nam Gyu so that we had context for what Yeong expected when he went to dinner with Mi Ae and Jun Ho, and how different Mi Ae's behaviour was to his expectations (instead of his commentary about it that we got from his first person narration in the novel).
Like @starryalpacasstuff pointed out, I liked how the argument in the show between Yeong and Mi Ae after she outed him made it more obvious that part of the reason why Yeong was so upset was that he was already hurt by Mi Ae pulling away. @wen-kexing-apologist rightly pointed out that Mi Ae put herself in the position to have to out Yeong by lying to Jun Ho in the first place, and one of the things that both the novel and the series left me wondering was whether Jaehee/Mi Ae made that decision knowingly; did she choose to embrace amatonormativity and a heteronormative life trajectory because she wanted it, or did she feel like she had to? Either way, Yeong's pain of seeing someone who he otherwise had so much in common deviate towards the norm and leave him behind and further isolated is very familiar. I linked out to my alternative milestones to measure your life by in that original book club post and I’ll take the excuse to do it again; for those of us who find the standard hetero/amatonormative milestones alien/undesirable, it’s nice to think about other ways we can think about the progress in our lives.
Another change in the series that I appreciated was the addition of more of Yeong and Nam Gyu’s relationship. Ben talked about how much more realized a character Nam Gyu was to K3/Kia guy in his post. The building out of K3 with things like a hometown, cheesy song choices, (h/t @moutheyes) and heteronormative romantic idealism tied to traditions like Namsan Tower (h/t @lurkingshan) was all possible because of the time that a visual medium provides (like WKA said in their post linked above) and all made him feel much more like a real person that inspired sympathy than Young ever described him as in the novel (this is not a failing of the novel, but it gives them a different flavour that I am appreciating in both iterations).
And because he’s a more realized character, Nam Gu's death hit me harder watching the show. From reading the novel, I remember Young returning to K3’s final text messages regularly, and how his reaction sounded very dissociated, but the scene of the empty funeral mourning room in the series is one of those visuals that will stick with me. It's been a couple of days and my stomach hurts just thinking about it. He was trying so hard to live a "normal" life that he was in some fundamental ways barred from by society, and it left him so lonely.
By seeing more of Yeong’s life in the series adaptation, it made it more obvious to me how many ways Yeong is choosing to be alone, and how his relationship with Mi Ae was an exception to that rule until it wasn’t. I noticed that Yeong moving in with Mi Ae coincided with the T-aras leave for their mandatory military service, and his breakup with Nam Gyu was after their sendoff party. By having more of Yeong's relationships depicted in these episodes, his loneliness when Mi Ae was gone to employee training and after they stopped talking was louder than in the novel, because we as an audience were aware that there were people he was choosing not to call. And it's worth noting that it was only when he had cut ties with Mi Ae that he turned back to Nam Gyu, only to close off that thread permanently too. It was an interesting pattern to me, that In the series, Yeong ends things with Nam Gyu after he loses other people in his life.
As @shinjikar1 pointed out Yeong's parallel losses of Nam Gyu and Mi Ae are about the decision to conform or not conform (and @troubled-mind pointed out how perfectly the song parallel really underscores this comparison, and the visuals of the abandoned marlboros and the ring do the same (h/t @conscbgb). H/t @lurkingshan for saying in our chats that specifically, Yeong's relationships with Mi Ae and Nam Gyu represent conforming to or rejecting a set heteronormative standard. Mi Ae chooses to conform and marry Jun Ho, but Yeong chooses not to commit to Nam Gyu, and so he loses both Nam Gyu and Mi Ae as a result. Yeong laments his choice after Nam Gyu's death, but as @my-rose-tinted-glasses wrote, that read to me more as romanticizing a relationship only after it's done than any realistic assessment of their relationship potential. And the bittersweet representation of Mi Ae’s relationship with Jun Ho and how the only moment she really looks happy and herself at her wedding is the moment she runs over to sing with Yeong (and how we can see by his reaction that Jun Ho has never actually seen his wife be herself) tells me that maybe the decision to conform may not be any less lonely. That being said, as @impala124 called out, just because a relationship ends that does not negate its importance in our lives, and I love how that theme which was so strong in the novel shines through in the series adaptation.
As Ben mentioned in his post linked above, I chatted with him about how I was not just thinking about the additions but also pondering the scenes that were left out of this adaptation (e.g. the STI scare scene), and whether the moment at the funeral when Yeong asks how Nam Gyu died might function in a similar way for the TV adaptation that the STI scene functioned in the novel–something that when we reflect back on later, in the context of Kylie, will get additional weight and meaning. I wondered, too, about the club scene when Yeong kissed that random guy so hard the guy pushed him off and checked if his lip was bleeding, and how different that was to Young freaking out at the taste of blood after kissing too hard in the novel. Again, that scene made me wonder whether this was before Kylie or after, and if Yeong kissing people too hard will be a theme in the series. Similarly, we didn’t get the coverage of his time in the military in the first two episodes, but we instead got a mention of the T-aras leaving for their military service, which leaves Yeong’s military service as a loud absence, again seeding the presence of Kylie in a different way to how it was foreshadowed in the novel.
Lastly, this is tangential to everything, but I found myself thinking about how Korean audiences might react differently to the Itaewon scenes and how different they must be to how things are now, post-Itaewon crush incident and how the club culture has changed as a result of that event and COVID-19. The kids apparently just don’t go to the clubs like this anymore. In that sense, these episodes feel a little like nostalgia for a generation and not just for youth in general.
#love in the big city#litbc book club#typed so that i can stop thinking it#long post#i loved these episodes can you tell?
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I've been trying to think about what I want to say about these first two episodes of Love in the Big City. I'm watching it slowly, it's a show that makes me want to sit rather than rush ahead, and it also hits a little too close to home to enjoy freely (I've only watched the first two episodes so far and my knowledge of the rest of the story is fairly vague so bear with me).
Go Young experiences two major losses. The parallels between these losses, what could have been vs. what can never be again was what particularly stood out to me.
Mi Ae represents a beautiful time that is forever lost. After she gets married, there's no one he can be fully himself with. He simply doesn't have another relationship on that level, platonic or otherwise, and that's truly such an isolating experience. Who do you call when you're in trouble? Who do you complain to? Who will always be your first port of call?
Often, youthful friendships are particularly intense, you're at a point where the world feels so enormous but you don't quite know what to do with it, or yourself yet. Everything still feels new and exciting. You meet people who understand you in ways you've never been understood and can't imagine it won't last forever.
And then you experience that loss for the first time.
Kim Nam Gyu experiences it too. It's clear early in their relationship that Go Young is overwhelmed and uncomfortable with the intensity of Nam Gyu's feelings (his expressions during the padlock and ring scenes in particular). He feels suffocated and anxious, he's not ready for it. So, rather harshly (at least the first time) he ends things. I've been on both ends, which makes it a lot easier to empathize with both of them. While I feel for Nam Gyu incredibly (especially as I read him as very neurodivergent), that discomfort is not something easily resolved, and it's only made worse by his inability to move on. But how can he when he also has no one else?
In the end, Go Young mentions that he missed out on what could have been a long and lasting love with Nam Gyu but I wonder if that's true. Would he have eventually opened up and reciprocated that intensity? Or would he have continued to wallow in his discomfort and let that resentment pile up even further? It's hard to say, but based on the way he behaves, I think the latter. He just wasn't in a stage of life to accept it yet, without the experiences he has with Mi Ae, and without Nam Gyu's death, would he have made it to that point before it became too much? He says he didn't really believe love was possible for someone like him, it took him a lot to get to the point where he even starts to believe it; I find it hard to imagine that he could've gotten there purely through a relationship with Nam Gyu at that stage, as sad as that might be.
Mi Ae offers a bit of an interesting foil here. She chooses loss, but the loss of her authentic self. She chooses the safe option, a stable relationship and job, pleasing her parents, following societal expectations. Maybe the guy isn't quite right, but in the end what seems most important to her is that security, and she's willing to take a loss to get it. As others in the tags have pointed out, Go Young doesn't have that option. There is no option that will (mostly) guarantee him security and safety that would even be remotely tolerable and grant him any degree of happiness. Perhaps he could have chosen to lose parts of himself to be with Nam Gyu, but that wouldn't have provided him the type of security Mi Ae enjoys. If something went wrong and it didn't work out, he could stand to lose even more.
I think that's something that a lot of cishet people fail to understand, and part of what these episodes have done so well for me. Really underlining how the queer experience differs and how isolating it can be (which I think is reflected in Nam Gyu as well).
#litbc book club#love in the big city#also sidenote i really love the idea of a book club discussing each ep#its been so fun to read everyone's meta and it really made me think about a lot of different aspects of the show that i probably wouldn't#have considered as deeply#also its nice to use my brain for media analysis now that im done my thesis lol#anyways i cried like 3 times watching episode two if you couldn't tell#words
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on a semi-adjacent note tho everything really is about Heon isn't it
#tv: vigilante#vigilante#vigilante kdrama#nam joo hyuk#yoo ji tae#kim so jin#lee joon hyuk#kdrama#local gay watches Vigilante.txt#local gay watches k-dramas.txt#'prove to me your justice works and i'll follow you sunbaenim' 'Cho Heon will come bc Choi Mi Ryeo will be livestreaming'#alt title of this show: local bisexual makes heart eyes at the daddy cop who keeps beating his ass bc Reasons#hopeless child. i think he just likes pain tbh i think that turns him on#it's the way Heon actually sees the stream and sighs like 'i'm going to have to get his ass aren't i' before dressing up and heading out#to get his boyfriend's ass for me. incredible
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'Bluza' lyrics ❤️‍🩹
Translated by @moonlvster
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Bluza (SRP)
Stolicu primakni
Ruku mi dotakni
Noćas ti si moja muza
Ja u ritmu tvoga bluza ću da
Plešem bez prestanka
Soba nam je mala
Ja ko pijana budala
A ni čaše nisam popio
Ja mislim da sam se zaljubio u tebe
Baš ja, koji nisam verovao da za nekim biću lud
Za tebe, kao u pesmama i filmovima ljubavnim, sad iću svud
Samo se okreni
Baci pogled prema meni
Preći će tišina sama
Kilometre među nama
Dok jednom srce otkuca
Soba nam je mala
Ja ko pijana budala
A ni čaše nisam popio
Ja mislim da sam se zaljubio u tebe
Baš ja, koji nisam verovao da za nekim biću lud
Za tebe, kao u pesmama i filmovima ljubavnim, sad iću svud
Ne palite još svetla
Još samo jedan tren
Da se nagledam lepote te
Ne palite još svetla
Ne prizivajte dan
Spasite me, smislite neki plan
Ako svane sunce
Ostaću sam
Blouse (ENG)
Move your chair closer
Touch my hand
Tonight you're my muse
In the rhythm of your blues
I will dance non-stop
The room feels too small for us
I'm acting like a drunk idiot
But I haven't had a single glass
I think I've fallen in love with you
Yes, me, who didn't believe I could be crazy about someone
For you, like in love songs and movies, I would go anywhere now
Just turn around
Glance towards me
Silence alone will
Pass kilometers between us In a single heartbeat
The room feels too small for us
I'm acting like a drunk idiot
But I haven't had a single glass
I think I've fallen in love with you
Yes, me, who didn't believe I could be crazy about someone
For you, like in love songs and movies, I would go anywhere now
Don't turn the lights on yet
Just one more moment
So I can admire that beauty
Don't turn the lights on yet
Don't summon the day
Save me, think of some plan
If the sun rises
I'll be alone
#joker out#jokeroutsubs#bojan cvjetićanin#bojan cvjeticanin#jan peteh#nace jordan#kris guštin#kris gustin#jure macek#jure maček#year: 2024#type: lyrics#bluza#og language: serbian#jo: all members
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Love in the Big City Drama: Episodes 1-2 Book Club Discussion
I'm so happy to be back here with all you friends discussing this excellent show and the novel that inspired it. It has surpassed my wildest dreams in terms of both quality and authenticity to the tone and spirit of the novel, and I am so excited to talk about it!
As a reminder, these are the questions we originally discussed for Part 1 of the novel, and this is the meta round up, where you can see all the brilliant things you initially wrote about it. Here are your official discussion questions for episodes 1 and 2 of Love in the Big City, courtesy of @bengiyo:
With the move to the screen, more of Go Yeong's relationships are featured in Part 1. How does this change your impression of how Mi Ae fits into his life, compared to how you originally read his relationship with Jaehee?
What new insights did you gain from the adaptation's expansion of K3 (Kia) Guy from a few background lines into a fully realized character in Kim Nam Gyu?
In the novel, we see everything through Young's rather biting and cynical internal monologue, while in the drama we see other characters through a broader lens. With this different perspective, how does Mi Ae's outing of Go Yeong and the fallout change compared to the novel?
In order to make the show more cohesive and manage screen time, Sang Young Park has moved some elements of the story around, and in this first part he withheld the health scare for Go Yeong and also brought his friends, the T-aras, forward. How do these changes and the inclusion of the wider cast in Part 1 shift your perception of Go Yeong's college years?
As a reminder, you are welcome to use any or all of these as a jumping off point for your own posts, ignore them and post your own thing, or just participate by sharing and commenting on other people's posts. Please create new posts with the questions if you want to use them rather than adding on responses to this post--it will be easier to capture everyone's content if it's all in separate posts in the tag. I will be tracking everything posted in the [#litbc book club] tag and posting the weekly round up--look for that to go up next Monday ahead of the next set of discussion questions. Feel free to also directly tag me to make sure I don't miss your posts! I have tagged the regular book club participants below the cut, but anyone is welcome to join the discussion!
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@neuroticbookworm @poetry-protest-pornography @profiterole-reads @serfergs @starryalpacasstuff
@stuffnonsenseandotherthings @thewayofsubtext @troubled-mind @twig-tea @wen-kexing-apologist
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