#Embracing Uncertainty

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DO YOU PREFER TAKING RISKS OR HAVING A SAFETY NET?

♡k 09/14/2024-09/17/2024

I preferred having a safety net for a really long time. I think in a lot of cases, you should always have a safety net especially as someone who grew up poor. But sometimes you can't always have a safety net.

For example, since moving out on my own, I’ve been taking the risk of getting over my anxiety and fear of driving. The more I practice driving, the less nervous and scared I am after each lesson. I feel excited getting behind the wheel now and going faster (the legal limit) than what I’ve done before each lesson. I still can’t believe I went faster than 50mph. I can’t believe I even touched 60!! (edit: 09/17/2024, I drove on the freeway for the first time)

A year ago, I wouldn’t even have dreamed of going any faster than 20mph. Learning how to drive has taught me that I am in control of myself and my situation. I have overcome the biggest obstacle of my life and as I continue to practice driving, I feel like I could do anything! I hope in 2 months, I will be so comfortable driving that I can, not only finally take my driver's test, but also go out on my own without fear, worry having to save for rides for the week or even waiting on someone to bring me to places! (ex., ubers/lyfts and friends/family helping me run errands)

I hesitated taking the initiative to practice driving for so long for many reasons that slowly snowballed into avoiding it completely up until this point. One of the main reasons was my fear of getting into a car crash. I believe it rooted from my childhood and teenage years from hearing my immediate and extended family getting into accidents (either it be their fault or the other driver involved). It's also expensive for the permit test(s), driving lessons, getting to and from the driving lessons and/or DMV, taking the driver's test(s) and the potential expenses of having and maintaining a car.

Don't get me wrong, I'm still worried but it's more of a financial worry now. I feel way more confident driving compared to 6 months ago and I believe I will get better as I continue to practice driving but I have to learn to accept the fact that I will owe and possibly be in debt to something or someone to have and maintain certain things in life such as a car and/or being a homeowner. I've always been afraid to be in debt and owe money. I have a "if I can't buy it in full, I can't have it" mindset. I grew up poor.

Driving doesn't really have a safety net option because although I would like to avoid getting into an accident, coming across car problems and owing a large amount of money, it's bound to happen whether I like it or not. I must decide if I want to swim or drown because either way it'll be hard but in the long run of having the ability to drive, it'll help make things easier for myself rather than not having my license at all.

Some times you have to jump the gun and go for it. You never know what it'll bring you and I hope having the ability to drive will bring me lots of opportunities in life that I would never have dreamed of a year ago (ex., new career opportunities, independence, freedom and new life experiences.)!

(edit: 09/17/2024, I came across this Instagram reel and thought it was relevant)

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Movies and TV

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Embracing Change and Uncertainty: Personal Transformation

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In the tumultuous symphony of life, I find myself at the crossroads of 28, grappling with the weight of an existential journey that seems both labyrinthine and elusive. It's a peculiar place, teetering between the expectations set by society's ticking clock and the daunting quest for a personal sense of purpose.

These are the moments where the deafening silence of uncertainty echoes louder than any well-intentioned advice. It's an age where milestones dictated by others are meant to define one's path, yet here I stand, amidst the chaos of emotions, unable to decipher the roadmap to my own fulfillment.

There's an unspoken heaviness that comes with this phase, a constant companion named 'doubt' whispering relentless questions about my worth and direction. The weight of unmet expectations, the unfulfilled dreams, and the lingering sense of inadequacy form a storm that clouds the mind.

But within this tempest, there's a flicker of hope—an ember that refuses to be extinguished. It's the realization that perhaps the true purpose isn't a grand destination but the journey itself. Maybe, just maybe, the essence of life lies not in having all the answers but in exploring the questions, in embracing the uncertainty, and in dancing amidst the chaos.

So here I am, acknowledging the turbulent seas of an existential crisis, yet determined to sail through. I'm learning to be kind to myself in this quest for meaning, knowing that in this world's perceived cruelty lies the opportunity to forge my own path, to redefine success, and to create my unique narrative.

To anyone else navigating these uncharted waters, remember, it's okay not to have it all figured out at 28 or any age. Sometimes, the most profound discoveries arise from the darkest moments, and the search for purpose is a marathon, not a sprint. Let's embrace the uncertainty, for within it lies the canvas upon which we paint our own versions of fulfillment.

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Navigating Life's Uncertainties: Living with Undiagnosed Illness

Shaina Tranquilino

December 18, 2023

Life often throws us curveballs, and one of the most challenging ones is when we experience chronic illness without a clear diagnosis. It can be incredibly frustrating to endure symptoms, seek medical advice, but find no answers. Yet, despite this uncertainty, it is crucial to remember that life goes on and that there are ways to continue living meaningfully while managing undiagnosed illnesses. Let's explore some strategies for navigating this perplexing journey.

1. Educate Yourself: While doctors may not have all the answers yet, taking charge of your health by gathering information about your symptoms can be empowering. Research various conditions aligned with your symptoms and discuss them with medical professionals during appointments. Stay informed about potential treatment options or lifestyle changes that could alleviate your discomfort.

2. Seek Support: Living with an undiagnosed illness can feel isolating, but you are not alone in this struggle. Reach out to support groups or online communities where individuals facing similar challenges share their experiences and coping mechanisms. Not only will you gain valuable insights and emotional support, but you may also discover previously unexplored avenues for diagnosis or symptom management.

3. Practice Self-Care: Caring for yourself physically and emotionally becomes even more critical when dealing with an unknown condition. Prioritize self-care activities such as regular exercise (within your capabilities), maintaining a balanced diet, getting enough restful sleep, and finding relaxation techniques that work for you—whether it's meditation, deep breathing exercises, or engaging in hobbies that bring joy.

4. Focus on What You Can Control: Though the lack of a concrete diagnosis might make you feel helpless at times, it is important to focus on what you can control in your daily life. Concentrate on managing symptoms through healthy lifestyle choices like reducing stress levels, avoiding triggers, pacing activities based on energy levels, and practicing mindfulness. By taking charge of what you can control, you can regain a sense of agency over your own well-being.

5. Seek Alternative Approaches: When conventional medicine struggles to provide answers, exploring alternative therapies or complementary medicine might be worth considering. Acupuncture, herbal remedies, chiropractic care, or naturopathic treatments are just a few examples of potential avenues to explore. However, it is crucial to consult with medical professionals before embarking on any new treatment path.

6. Maintain a Positive Mindset: Living with an undiagnosed illness can be mentally draining, but maintaining a positive mindset can make all the difference. Surround yourself with supportive friends and family who understand your situation and encourage your efforts to find solutions. Engage in activities that bring you joy and focus on gratitude for the things that do go well in your life. Remember that there is always hope for finding answers and improving your quality of life.

Living with an undiagnosed illness presents its unique set of challenges, but it doesn't have to define who you are or what you're capable of achieving. While waiting for answers from medical professionals, empower yourself by seeking knowledge, support, and alternative approaches to managing symptoms effectively. Most importantly, maintain a positive mindset as you navigate this uncertain journey—one day at a time—with the hope that clarity will eventually come your way.

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