#Embracing Uncertainty

[wisterianwoman]

I Refuse to Live in Fear: Choosing Courage and Compassion in a Divided World

I know so many people are feeling afraid right now, but I refuse. We can choose to approach our fears, each other, our issues, and our differences with courage and compassion.

In a world filled with fear and division, I refuse to live in fear. This article explores how we can rise above fear, embrace critical thinking, and engage with others respectfully, fostering empathy and understanding in a polarized society. When I started Wisterian Woman, I swore I wouldn’t get political. I still won’t, at least not in the way we typically think of politics. But one thing…

[awomanfirstpoems]

Singing - and a new morning has broken!

Singing – and a new morning has broken! Embracing uncertainty in the singing world! *********** Embracing the uncertainties of singing in the singing world The very best part of uncertainty is that I discover a possibility that I can do it! ********** It took me at least 50 recordings before I could record my favorite song, Menaruhan Harapan! ******* Today, it took me about three…

[josephkravis]

No Matter How We Envision the Future, It Won’t Match Our Expectations

No matter how we envision the future, it won’t match our expectations. It's the unforeseen events that reshape our journey and lead to personal growth.

In life, we try to map out everything: our goals, our next steps, even the next year or two. Yet, despite the best-laid plans, what happens is rarely what we envisioned. Why? Because of the exceptions. The unexpected shifts, the moments of serendipity, the obstacles, and the detours that carve out paths we couldn’t have dreamed of. These exceptions, though, are what fuel growth. They reveal the…

[lifeinspiration4all]

Faith: The Invisible Bridge to the Unseen Future

When life clouds your vision and the future seems distant, there’s a quiet force that pulls you forward, even when you can’t see the road ahead. It’s the inner certainty that, no matter how uncertain the path, something greater awaits. Faith isn’t loud or demanding—it’s the gentle assurance that your steps, though hesitant, are leading you exactly where you need to go. Faith is that invisible…

[kotav]

DO YOU PREFER TAKING RISKS OR HAVING A SAFETY NET?

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I preferred having a safety net for a really long time. I think in a lot of cases, you should always have a safety net. But sometimes you can't always have a safety net.

For example, since moving out on my own, I’ve been taking the risk of getting over my anxiety and fear of driving. The more I practice driving, the less nervous and scared I am after each lesson. I feel excited getting behind the wheel now and going faster (still going the legal limit) than what I’ve done before. I still can’t believe I went faster than 50mph. I can’t believe I even touched 60!! (edit: 09/17/2024, I drove on the freeway for the first time!!)

A year ago, I wouldn’t even have dreamed of going any faster than 20mph. Learning how to drive has taught me that I am in control of myself and my situation. I have overcome the biggest obstacle of my life and as I continue to practice driving, I feel like I could do anything! I hope in 2 months, I will be so comfortable driving that I can, not only finally take my driver's test, but also go out on my own without fear, without worrying if I have enough money for rides for the week or even waiting on someone to bring me to places! (ex., ubers/lyfts and friends/family helping me run errands)

I hesitated taking the initiative to practice driving for so long for many reasons that slowly snowballed into avoiding it completely up until this point. One of the main reasons was my fear of getting into a car crash. I believe it rooted from my childhood and teenage years from hearing my immediate and extended family getting into accidents (either it be their fault or the other driver involved). It's also expensive for the permit test(s), driving lessons, getting to and from the driving lessons and/or DMV, taking the driver's test(s) and the potential expenses of having and maintaining a car.

Don't get me wrong, I'm still worried but it's more of a financial worry now. I feel way more confident driving compared to 6 months ago and I believe I will get better as I continue to practice driving but I have to learn to accept the fact that I will owe and possibly be in debt to something or someone to have and maintain certain things in life such as a car and/or being a homeowner. I've always been afraid to be in debt and owe money. I have a "if I can't buy it in full, I can't have it" mindset. I grew up poor.

Driving doesn't really have a safety net option because although I would like to avoid getting into an accident, coming across car problems and owing a large amount of money, it's bound to happen whether I like it or not. I must decide if I want to swim or drown because either way it'll be hard but in the long run of having the ability to drive, it'll help make things easier for myself rather than not having my license at all.

Some times you have to jump the gun and go for it. You never know what it'll bring you and I hope having the ability to drive will bring me lots of opportunities in life that I would never have dreamed of a year ago! (ex., new career opportunities, independence, freedom and new life experiences)

(edit: 09/17/2024, I came across this Instagram reel and thought it was relevant)

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[cyber-soul-smartz]

Navigating the Wilderness of Faith: Mistrust, Uncertainty and Polarized Behaviors

Life's wilderness of faith can be daunting and lonely, filled with doubt and uncertainty. Yet, it's in these moments we find our true strength and connection to a higher power. Embrace the journey; it's where growth happens. #faithjourney #spiritualgrowth

[graymand]

The Journey of Self-Exploration: Embracing Lostness and Redefining Success

For almost a year now, I’ve felt a bit lost. I used to be the person with a clear vision of where I was headed. But right now, I’m not so sure about my path anymore. There are nights when I wish for a shooting star that could make all my wishes come true at once. But then, I ask myself, “What are my wishes, really?” It’s exhausting. There was a time when everything seemed so certain, and I knew…

[compassionmattersmost]

Book Review: "The Wisdom of No Escape" by Pema Chödrön

Discover Your Inner Chill I’ve read and reread “The Wisdom of No Escape” by Pema Chödrön, and I’d like to recommend it because it’s a total game-changer. Pema Chödrön, this Buddhist teacher, really knows her stuff when it comes to finding peace and freedom inside yourself. The book is super easy to get into, with short chapters that pack a punch. Whether you’re just starting out with…

[wisterianwoman]

I Refuse to Live in Fear: Choosing Courage and Compassion in a Divided World

I know so many people are feeling afraid right now, but I refuse. We can choose to approach our fears, each other, our issues, and our differences with courage and compassion.

In a world filled with fear and division, I refuse to live in fear. This article explores how we can rise above fear, embrace critical thinking, and engage with others respectfully, fostering empathy and understanding in a polarized society. When I started Wisterian Woman, I swore I wouldn’t get political. I still won’t, at least not in the way we typically think of politics. But one thing…

[changingpathsresources]

Movies and TV

Changing Paths challenge day 27: movies and TV. Movies and TV that changed my mind / blew my mind. Continue reading Movies and TV

[mydayswithtarotbystella]

Handling Risk in Vlogging: Navigating Transparency in a Vulnerable World

Here goes latest news out about what I think about vlogging! Check out my Youtube: @StellaGrude and see my newest VoiceMails to Nina :)

Hey everyone, Lately, I’ve found myself in a rather precarious situation, one that has forced me to confront the concept of risk head-on. As many of you know, I’ve been creating vlog videos and sharing intimate details about my life, including the challenges and obstacles I’m currently facing. It’s been a cathartic journey, allowing me to express myself freely and connect with all of you on a…

[delicatelysublimeforester]

Taking the Leap: Embrace the Unpredictable on Take a Wild Guess Day

In case you haven’t guessed, we extoll the amazing possiblities of the exciting Take a Wild Guess Day! This April 15 special day is all about trusting your gut and your instinct. Does the thought of taking a wild guess without any information to back you up take you way, way out of your comfort zone? “iNaturalist Etiquette: A Guide to Engaging with Nature and Community” Did you know that it is…

[kotav]

Embracing Change even if I don’t like it

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[charmillington]

Embracing Spontaneity: The Liberating Joy of Unscripted Travel

Have you ever felt the exhilaration of booking a trip purely guided by the factors of cost, bucket list dreams, and availability, rather than adhering to heavily scripted agendas and itineraries? There’s a unique sense of freedom that comes with embracing spontaneity in travel, and it’s a feeling that can elevate your entire adventure. As someone who just booked a two-day trip to Casablanca, I’m…

[thecoachingdirectory]

Embracing Change and Uncertainty: Personal Transformation

Want to know how to unlock your inner potential and live a life of endless possibilities? As we navigate through the different stages of life, we often find ourselves at a crossroads, yearning for something more meaningful. This is especially true for individuals in middle age who have achieved significant milestones in their professional lives but still feel a sense of emptiness. Here are some tips to help you unlock your inner potential in middle age. Check this out!