#Dua for a Good Spouse

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Top 5 Dua for Finding a Good Spouse: How to Attract the Right Partner in Islam 

Finding the right spouse is a significant aspect of a fulfilling life. For many Muslims, turning to dua for a good spouse is a way to seek divine assistance in finding a loving and compatible partner.  In Islam, a good spouse is considered a blessing, and supplications are believed to help in attracting a partner who aligns with one’s values and spiritual goals. This blog explores the top 5 dua…

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Top 5 Dua for Finding a Good Spouse: How to Attract the Right Partner in Islam 

Finding the right spouse is a significant aspect of a fulfilling life. For many Muslims, turning to dua for a good spouse is a way to seek divine assistance in finding a loving and compatible partner. 

In Islam, a good spouse is considered a blessing, and supplications are believed to help in attracting a partner who aligns with one's values and spiritual goals. This blog explores the top 5 dua for finding a good spouse and offering spiritual guidance for a good marriage.

1. Dua for a Good Spouse

The Dua for a Good Spouse is a powerful supplication that asks Allah for a spouse who will bring happiness, support, and strength into one's life. This dua is often recited by individuals seeking a life partner who aligns with their values and Islamic teachings. One of the most recommended duas for this purpose is:

"Allahumma inni as'aluka min khayri ma sa'alaka abduka wa rasuluka, wa a'udhu bika min sharri ma'adhuka minhu abduka wa rasuluka."

This translates to: “O Allah, I ask You for the good of what Your servant and Prophet asked You for, and I seek refuge in You from the evil of what Your servant and Prophet sought refuge from.”

Reciting this dua regularly with sincerity can help attract a spouse who is not only good in character but also supportive and loving.

2. Islamic Prayer for a Good Partner

An Islamic Prayer for a Good Partner involves supplicating Allah for a spouse who will contribute positively to one’s life and faith. A widely recommended prayer for this purpose is:

"Rabbi la tatharni fardan wa anta khayru al-waritheen."

Translation: “My Lord, do not leave me alone (without a helper) while You are the best of inheritors.”

This prayer emphasizes trust in Allah’s ability to provide and highlights the belief that Allah’s plan is always for the best. This dua can be recited daily, especially during moments of reflection and devotion.

3. Dua for Finding a Loving Spouse

The Dua for Finding a Loving Spouse focuses on seeking Allah’s help in finding a partner who will offer love, compassion, and understanding. One effective dua is:

"Allahumma a'ini 'ala khairin qad yusafiq, wa ad'u ilayka bi-hubbih."

Translation: “O Allah, help me to find the best (spouse) who will be kind to me, and guide me to love him/her.”

This supplication helps in finding someone who will not only be a loving partner but also someone who aligns with your spiritual and personal values.

4. Effective Dua for a Good Husband/Wife

An Effective Dua for a Good Husband/Wife can help in finding a spouse who will be a true partner in both worldly and spiritual matters. One such dua is:

"Allahumma inni as'aluka ridhaaka wal-jannah, wa a'udhu bika min sakhatika wa al-nar."

Translation: “O Allah, I ask You for Your pleasure and paradise, and I seek refuge in You from Your anger and the Fire.”

This dua reflects a desire for a spouse who is not only good in character but also someone who helps you achieve spiritual goals. It signifies a commitment to seeking a partner who will support you in both this life and the hereafter.

5. Spiritual Guidance for a Good Marriage

Lastly, Spiritual Guidance for a Good Marriage encompasses more than just specific duas. It involves seeking overall guidance from Allah and engaging in actions that align with Islamic teachings. An excellent practice is to make istikhara, which is the prayer for seeking Allah’s guidance in making decisions, including choosing a spouse.

The istikhara dua is:

"Allahumma inni ista'khiruka bi'ilmika, wa astaqdiruka biqudratika, wa as'aluka min fadlikal-azim."

Translation: “O Allah, I seek guidance from Your knowledge, and I seek strength from Your power, and I ask You for Your immense favor.”

This dua can be recited when you are contemplating marriage, helping you make decisions that align with what is best for your life.

Process for Performing the Dua for a Good Spouse

Prepare Yourself Spiritually: Begin by purifying your heart and intentions. Perform wudu (ablution) and ensure that you are in a clean and quiet place where you can focus on your prayer.

Make the Dua: Recite the dua with sincerity and conviction. For example, you can use:

"Allahumma inni as'aluka min khayri ma sa'alaka abduka wa rasuluka, wa a'udhu bika min sharri ma'adhuka minhu abduka wa rasuluka."

Translation: “O Allah, I ask You for the good of what Your servant and Prophet asked You for, and I seek refuge in You from the evil of what Your servant and Prophet sought refuge from.”

Be Specific: As you recite the dua, be specific about your needs and desires in a spouse. You may add personal requests or attributes you are seeking in a partner.

Pray Regularly: Make this dua a regular part of your prayers. The more consistent you are, the more it reflects your sincere desire and faith in Allah’s help.

Trust in Allah: After making the dua, place your trust in Allah’s wisdom and timing. Have faith that Allah will provide the best outcome for you, even if it might not be immediately apparent.

Take Action: While making the dua is crucial, also engage in practical steps towards finding a spouse, such as networking, seeking advice, or considering matrimonial options, while keeping your intentions clear and sincere.

Seek Guidance: Complement your dua with istikhara prayer if you are contemplating a specific match. This will help you seek Allah’s guidance in making the best decision.

By following these steps, you align your prayers with proactive efforts, creating a balanced approach to finding a good spouse.

Conclusion

Finding a good spouse is a journey that involves both seeking divine assistance and taking practical steps. The above duas provide spiritual support in this quest, offering guidance and help in finding a loving and compatible partner. By incorporating these prayers into your daily routine and trusting in Allah’s plan, you can attract a spouse who will bring joy and fulfillment to your life.

For more detailed guidance on duas for finding a good spouse, visit Powerful Dua for a Good Spouse.

Remember, while duas are a vital part of seeking a good spouse, they should be complemented with personal effort and patience in the journey towards a happy and harmonious marriage.

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things you can mention in your laylatul qadr dua:

jannah

protection from jahannam

freedom for those who are oppressed

provision for those who are poor

mental clarity and peace

academic success

good health

righteous companions

righteous spouse

Halal rizq and wealth

O Allah, You are Forgiving and love forgiveness, so forgive me

[sabrgirl]

ramadan series: dua ideas to make during laylatul qadr ♡

for forgiveness

for forgiveness for your parents

for a lofty station in jannah

for a righteous spouse

for your marriage to be a blessing rather than a trial

for righteous children

for school/exams

for work

to not die until Allah سُبْحَٰنَهُۥ وَتَعَٰلَىٰ is happy with you

for strength through hardship and trials

for strength to continue doing good deeds after ramadan ends

for strength in continuing to stop bad habits after ramadan ends

to not be led astray

for sabr

for tawakkul

to succeed in this life and the next

for guidance on the right path

to bring you closer to Him

to be free from anxiety/depression

to be reunited with your family in jannah

to not expose your sins on the day of judgement

for forgiveness over sins you don't remember/have forgotten

for increase in knowledge

for an increase in imaan

to accept your prayers

[hamdosana]

#DUA List for the First 10 Days of Dhul-Hijjah

a) Dua for the best of both worlds

Rabbana atinafee addunya hasanatan wafee al-akhiratihasanatan waqina AAathaba annar.

Our Lord, give us in this world [that which is] good and in the Hereafter [that which is] good and protect us from the punishment of the Fire.

{Surat Al Baqarah 2 : Ayaah 201}

b) Dua during Distress (Keeping in mind as humans we are never “totally” free from distress,thus making this dua constantly is very beneficial.)

La ilaha il-lallah Al-`Alimul-Halim. La-ilaha illallah Rabul- Arsh-al-Azim, La ilaha-il-lallah Rabus-Samawati Rab-ul-Ard; wa Rab-ul-Arsh Al- Karim.

None has the right to be worshipped but Allah the incomparably great, the compassionate. None has the right to be worshipped but Allah the rub of the mighty throne. None has the right to be worshipped but Allah the rub of the heavens, the rub of the earth, and the rubb of the honorable throne.{Sahih Al Bukhari}

c) Dua for Spouse and Children

Rabbanahab lana min azwajina wathurriyyatinaqurrata aAAyunin wajAAalna lilmuttaqeena imama

Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.

{Surat Al Furqan 25: Ayaah 74}

d) Dua for Forgiveness and a Beautiful End

Rabbana faghfirlana thunoobana wakaffir AAannasayyi-atina watawaffana maAAa al-abrar

Our Lord! Forgive us our sins and remit from us our evil deeds, and make us die in the state of righteousness along with Al-Abrar (those who are obedient to Allah and follow strictly His Orders).

{Surat Ali Imran 3: Ayaah 193}

e) Dua for Protection against Debt, Oppression, Sadness.

Allahumma Inni A’udhu Bika Minal-Hammi Wal-Hazani Wal-Ajzi Wal-Kasali Wal-Bukhli Wa Dala’id=Dain Wa Qahrir-Rijal

O Allah, I seek refuge in You from sadness, grief, helplessness, laziness, being stingy, overwhelming debt, and the overpowering of men. {Tirmidhi}

f) Dua for Guidance & Protection against harm

Allahumm-aghfir li, warhamni, wa-hdini, wa ‘afini, warzuqni

O Allah! Forgive me, have mercy on me, guide me, guard me against harm and provide me with sustenance and salvation

{Sahih Muslim}

g) Dua for Guidance towards the best of Manners

Inna salati wa nusuki wa mahyaya wa mamati lillahi rabbil-alamin, la sharika lahu, wa bidhalika umirtu wa ana min al-muslimin. Allahummahdini liahsanil-amali wa ahsanil-akhlaqi la yahdi li ahsaniha illa anta wa qini sayy’al-a’mali wa sayy’al-ahaqi la yaqi sayy’aha illa ant.

Indeed my salah (prayer), my sacrifice, my living, and my dying are for Allah, the Lord of all that exists. He has no partner. And of this I have been commanded, and I am one of the Muslims. O Allah, guide me to the best of deeds and the best of manners, for none can guide to the best of them but You. And protect me from bad deeds and bad manners, for none can protect against them but You.

{Sunan An Nasai}

h) Dua for Safety and Wellbeing

Allahumma inni as’alukal-huda wat- tuqa wal-’afafa wal-ghina

O Allah! I ask you for your guidance, piety, safety and wellbeing and contentment and sufficieny.

{Sahih Muslim}

i) Dua for Protection Against Hellfiire

Rabbanaisrif AAanna AAathaba jahannama inna AAathabahakana gharama Innaha saat mustaqarran wamuqama

Our Lord! Avert from us the torment of Hell. Verily! Its torment is ever an inseparable, permanent punishment. Evil indeed it (Hell) is as an abode and as a place to dwell.

{Surat Al Furqan 25: Ayaat 65-66}

j) Dua for confessing your Sins – Dua of Yunus aleyhi salaam.

If you know what verse follows this verse you will never stop making this dua! SubhanAllah. May Allah answer our prayers as He responded to the call of our beloved Prophet Yunus aleyhi salaam.

La ilaha illa anta subhanaka inneekuntu mina aththalimeen

[none has the right to be worshipped but You (O Allah)], Glorified (and Exalted) are You [above all that (evil) they associate with You]. Truly, I have been of the wrong-doers.

{Surat Al Anbya 21: Ayaah 87}

FOLLOWING VERSE -

Fastajabna lahu wanajjaynahumina alghammi wakathalika nunjee almu/mineen

So We responded to him and saved him from the distress. And thus do We save the believers.

{Surat Al Anbya 21: Ayaah 88}

May Allah make us from the believers whom He saves!! Ameen

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Shall I not tell you of something that, if any worldly calamity or disaster befalls any man among you and he says these words, he will be relieved of it. (It is) the du’aa’ of Dhu’l-Noon: “Laa ilaaha illa anta subhaanaka inni kuntu min al-zaalimeen (none has the right to be worshipped but You (O Allaah), Glorified (and Exalted) be You [above all that (evil) they associate with You]! Truly, I have been of the wrongdoers).” According to another report: “No Muslim man says this du’aa’ concerning anything but Allaah will answer his prayer.”

{Saheeh al-Jaami’ al-Sagheer wa Ziyaadatuhu, 2065}

k) Dua for protection against an oppressor or when you are feeling totally helpless – Dua of Nuh aleyhi salaam

Rabbahu annee maghloobun fantasir

Indeed, I am overpowered, so help(me).

{Surat Al Qamar 54: Ayaah 10}

l) Dua for the best disposal of your Affairs – Dua of Ibrahim aleyhi salaam

HasbunaAllahu waniAAma alwakeel

Sufficient for us is Allah , and [He is] the best Disposer of affairs.

{Surat Ali Imran 3: Ayaah 173}

m) Dua for Job Security + Marriage – Musa aleyhi salaam.

One of my favourite Duaas. This dua ensured Musa aleyhi salaam got a job security for 8-10 years and got him married.

Rabbiinnee lima anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer

My Lord, indeed I am, for whatever good You would send down to me, in need.

{Surah Al Qasas 28: Ayaah 24}

n) Dua for seeking Allah’s Mercy

Ya Hayyu Ya Qayyum! Bi rahmatika astagheeth!

O Living, O Self-Sustaining Sustainer! In Your Mercy do I seek relief

{Tirmidhi}

o) Dua for entrusting your affairs with Allah – Dua of Yaqoob aleyhi salaam

Innama ashkoo baththee wahuzneeila Allahi

I only complain of my suffering and my grief to Allah

{Surah Yusuf 12: Ayaah 86}

Waofawwidu amree ila Allahi inna Allahabaseerun bilAAibad

And I entrust my affair to Allah . Indeed, Allah is Seeing of [His] servants. {Surah Ghafir 40:Ayaah 44}

p) Dua for Protection Against Hellfire, Grave & Dajjal

Allahumma inni a’udhu bika min ‘adhabi jahannam, wa min ‘adhabil-qabr, wa min fitnatil-mahya wal-mamat, wa min sharri fitnatil-masihid-dajjal.

“O Allah! I seek refuge in You from the torment of Hell, from the torment of the grave, from the trials of life and death, and from the mischief of Al-Masih Ad-Dajjal (Antichrist).”

{Sahih Muslim}

q) Dua for acceptance of dua!

Rabbana wtaqabbal duAAa

Our Lord, and accept my supplication.

{Surat Ibrahim 14: Ayaah 40}

[badrrr]

Be women of the akhira. Do things with the intention of it benefiting you in the next life. Sacrifice for the Ummah. My beautiful sister, we don’t live in the golden ages so we shouldn’t live a life as if we do. Life isn’t just about girl parties, shopping and cute dates with spouse.

My precious sister in Islam, your role is big and your responsibilities are many. There are a plethora of captives and a shortage of those willing to free them. Raise up young men and women of Tawheed. Usool ath- Thalatha has dwindled from us and the youth. Memorize it and teach it the young to live upon it. Our elders, May Allah grant them a long life full of good deeds, are unaware of the plight of the Muslims. Where is your beautiful handwriting in making leaflets to spread awareness? The deviants and slanderers have increased and are poisoning the masses. Learn the deen and educate the new generation of muslimaat. Sell your jewelry for ransom. Spend from your money in charity. Give up some sleep for tahajjud.

My beloved sister, your husband is not just for you. As much as you adore him, he is for the Ummah and should be encouraged to get dirty in the path of Allah. Don’t stop him or discourage him. Make dua for him, motivate him, prepare him accordingly. If you hold him back from his duties, then you have deprived the captives of their freedom and Islam of spreading far and wide. If you love him for the sake of Allah, stand with him in the path of Allah ﷻ. Encourage even the men in your family to get dusty for the sake of Allah.

My sister, keep company with the sisters on the same path. You will only flock regularly with those who are the same as you. You will become like those who you are around mostly. Righteous, pious akhawaat should be your company. Gatherings of knowledge and the remembrance of Allah should be your dates with them. If they advise you, keep them close. If you sin and they encourage you, they don’t truly love you. If they only care about the glitter and glamor of this dunya, it’ll only pull you towards that and away from the ultimate goal.

Focus and stay on track. Learn skills to benefit the Ummah. Have very high aspirations because it only befits the people of the best nations. Make continuous istighfaar and rush to the good deeds. Be mindful of Allah in private so it translate to that in public. Ask Allah for a soft heart that weeps at disobedience and sinning. Build up a heart that is so attached to Allah it weeps for missing acts of sunnah. Think about the captives and the oppressed muslimeen. When is the last time you shed tears because of them ? May those tears be a witness for you on the day of judgement.

The path isn’t aesthetic nor is it easy. It is not smooth and it never ends until the Angel of death takes our soul. Any khayr you put forth is not because of your actions or your intellect. Rather it is from the mercy Allah has bestowed upon you . Ask Allah for steadfastness. Constantly clean off you slate with istighfaar and keep the mindest that your life is for the sake of Allah and you must live accordingly.

You are the backbone of the Ummah Ukhti. You are a precious jewel and you have an honorable status. Be a women like how the sahabiyat were. Be a woman who corrects what others have corrupted.

May Allah aid you and honor you. May Allah increase us all in thabat and make us from the forerunners of the deen.

[flowersofjannah]

‏اَلسَلامُ عَلَيْكُم وَرَحْمَةُ اَللهِ وَبَرَكاتُهُ

My dear brothers and sisters. Alhumdulilah I got married 5 days ago 🥰

I would get some anons and off anon messages of duas for me and many times to have a good spouse, so thank you, jazakallahu khayran to everyone who ever made dua for me ❤️ your dua for a good spouse came true. Alhumdulilah beyond hopes Allah has given me.

I pray all of you who are married have an increase of love, compassion, understanding, and mercy in your marriage and those who are looking, I pray you find a righteous spouse who will take take care of you in all the ways you need and want them to. May Allah increase us all in guidance and grant us forgiveness, ameen.

You all have no idea how hard it was for me to not post about the process of the talking stage to engagement to marriage on here lol. I wanted to announce here once official. But in sha Allah I’ll make some posts in the future of my experiences ☺️❤️

[soul-of-sereniity]

Final few days left of Ramadan, I thought I provide some tips when making Du'a. I watched a lecture by Mufti Menk & he stated, when making a dua be precise as u can & ask , knowing he will give. He used the example of asking for a spouse and he said, you ask Allah swt..to get married to someone and he grants u that dua but then u are married u realise it wasn't right decision, u can't then ask Allah ( swt ) why he did that to you. Becoz u asked and he answered.

He said Allah can give uh what u want but if u aren't precise in your dua's, u could be the asking for the wrong thing. So he advised, when making Du'a, ask Allah to give u, what he thinks good for you and if something isn't, but you still want it.. ask him to make good for you.

When making Du'a think about it every detail. if you're asking spouse describe to Allah what it is u want, how u want them as a parent, the type of marriage u want ect. This method applied any kind of dua you make. Allah is all knowing, he know what your heart want before u ask. For it so take your time with your dua's.

I can honestly say, since focusing on my dua's, not only helped me grow closer to Allah swt , but it also allow me to understand my answered and understand Du'as 💗🌸

[islamicjankariblog]

what is the wazifa for getting pregnant

1. _Ayatul Kursi_: Recite Ayatul Kursi (Quran 2:255) 41 times after each prayer.

2. _Surah Al-Mu'minoon_: Recite Surah Al-Mu'minoon (Quran 23) daily, especially verses 12-14.

3. _Surah Al-Furqan_: Recite Surah Al-Furqan (Quran 25) daily, especially verse 2.

4. _Dua for Conception_: Recite this dua: "Rabbi hab lii min ladunka dhurriyyatan taiyibatan innaka samee'ud du'a" (My Lord, grant me from Yourself a good offspring. Indeed, You are the All-Hearer of supplication).

5. _Dua for Fertility_: Recite this dua: "Allahumma laa taj'alni aakhirad du'a min rahmatika wa laa akhirad du'a min barakatika" (O Allah, do not make me the last of those who receive Your mercy and blessings).

6. _Tawbah and Istighfar_: Regularly seek forgiveness and repent for your sins.

7. _Sadaqah_: Give charity regularly, even if it's a small amount.

8. _Dua after Salah_: Recite this dua after each prayer: "Rabbi ij'alni wa zawjati wa waladi wa ahli wa aqrabai wa jamii' ummatika muslimeena" (My Lord, make me, my spouse, my children, my family, and all Muslims among Your righteous servants).

Remember, wazifas are most effective when combined with a strong faith, patience, and medical consultation if needed.

[rueyam]

Salam girls<3

Yes, I have definitely learned from this, and as rueyam said, I am also closer to myself, alhamdulillah.

Bless him though, he tried very hard. He is a good guy, and I hope he finds someone who can give him what he is looking for. I appreciated what he has done, and I told him that. Not gonna lie, from the outside, we looked good together lol. Like a random uncle who would send his blessing when we were walking, and another uncle from the last meeting gave us free drinks and blessed us. I could feel the people around us.

Anyways, unfortunately, I just couldn't vibe with him. I never felt a true attraction towards him. Thinking about our future as a married couple was hard for me to imagine: like living in the same house, our conversations still lacking a vibe, things feeling very formal, and even simple intimate gestures like a hug would put me off. I know myself, I can be talkative and laugh easily if I feel like I'm on the same wavelength as another guy, and everything comes naturally. I'm not saying a guy needs to be perfect, I'm definitely not perfect either and have my own personal problems. Everything happens for a reason. Alhamdulillah.

No, thank you both<3<3 Thank you for giving me this space to write with you here and for encouraging and supporting me. It makes me so happy. May Allah bless you both. BarakAllahu feek for both of yours beautiful duas, and a BIG ameen to them. May Allah ease all your hardships and make your affairs clear for you. May He grant both of you happiness and success in this world and the hereafter, with your loved ones. Ameen.

If we still use Tumblr in the future and I get married, inshaAllah I will let you know haha and maybe reveal myself too lol. But for now, I'm gonna focus on myself and pray, pray, and pray and let's see what Allah has planned for me. Khair inshaAllah.

Salam <3

aw inshAllah that’s really cute of you haha, khayr!! @sseol the way she started to mention us both 🥹💗

imagine marrying someone you don’t vibe with, who will you laugh with till your stomach hurts? who will understand you in all ways? who will look at you and know how to act right? who will know your love language? ofc nobody is perfect, we all have our flaws but we have to find someone to complement these flaws with. everything happens for a reason and behind every obstacle there lies a deep wisdom we will find out later, if Allah wills!

i would love to hear from you and find out who is hidden behind the wonderfully worded texts, but only if you want to. big big ameen to your duas and thank you my dear! i also pray for the kind-hearted man you talked about, i hope he will find a spouse who brings him happiness. take care 💕

[quranicwazifa]

How to Pray for a Good Husband

In Islam, marriage is a sacred bond that brings two individuals together in love, companionship, and mutual respect. It is not just a physical or emotional connection but a spiritual and moral commitment that is deeply rooted in faith.  For many, finding a good husband—a partner who is righteous, kind, and God-fearing—is a significant aspect of their prayers. If you’re seeking divine guidance…

[recitedua]

Powerful Dua for a Good Spouse

Finding a good spouse is a significant concern for many. This page offers specific duas for seeking a good spouse, guiding individuals to pray with sincerity and faith in Allah. By following these duas, you can attract a spouse who will bring happiness and support into your life. These duas for finding a good spouse and a good life partner are designed to fulfill your heartfelt desires for a blessed union. Read more at: https://recitedua.com/dua-for-good-spouse/

[julaibib]

Asalam Alaikum WaRahmatullahi WaBarakatuh

I am a woman in my early twenties and I wish to get married within a couple of years in shaa Allah.

How do I go about this brother? What duas should I be making? What should I focus on and work on before marriage, regarding religion and self development. How do I meet potential spouses?

I live in a very isolated society, people don’t meet each other very often, so I find it hard to meet people. I don’t want to do it in a haram way either, and many men here are only interested in haram relationships…

Please everyone make dua for me, that I will get a spouse rich in imaan and good character who fears Allah swt.

وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته

Make Dua like “Our Lord, grant us from among our wives/ husband and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.”

And every Dua asks for a good husband

You have to know what marriage requires, the importance of establishing a home, the importance of the family, how to be a good wife, and know the conditions of a good wife and the husband’s rights that you will be asked about on Yawm Alqiama.

In front of how do you know him according to your own circumstances, Like, do you in the vicinity of your family, relatives and friends, do you go to a mosque or an Islamic center where you have friends who might have a good man

If things are very difficult around you, you may think that you will turn to sites if everything is done in a halal way

May Allah grant you a pious husband soon

[sister-fathima]

The story of Ayyub (A.S) is usually told from the perspective of patience, but in fact, it is also about the devoted love between him and his wife. 

For 50 years he lived a life of comfort and luxury, raising 7 sons and 7  daughters. h=H eenjoyed many forms of wealth such as real estate, livestock, gold and jewelery. Everyone in his community acknowledged him as their prophet; they had accepted the message because they associated his wealth, status, children, succes, health and good looks with the truth- until Allah decided to test him and his people. 

Allah sent the first test in the foorm of an earthquake.His house collapsed instantly killing all his children. But Ayyub (A.S) was patient. Then theives entered his ranch and his home, stealing his livestock, torching his orchards and murdering his servants. In just one night, Ayyub (A.S) went from rich to bankrupt. Subsequently, his health began to deteriorate that he couldnt even stand. He could only pray lying down. His wife had to bath him, feed him and comb his hair for him.

In those times, everyone he knew departed except his wife - she alone remained. All of a sudden, everyone who believed in him started to disbelieve that he was a prophet of Allah. If this is happening to a prophet of Allah,that must mean he is cursed, they declared. He must have committed a sin we are not aware of that has caused Allah to inflict him with this. Leave him and do not belive anything from him. They associated a life of luxury with the completion of faith.

His wife was the only one who remained with him through wealth and poverty, sickness and health, happiness and sorrow. She now had to work as a servant to help her husband. She asked Ayyub (A.S) once to ask Allah to help him but he told her that he couldnt do so because he was so shy before Allah, that Allah gave them 50 years of luxury and he couldnt bear a few years of distress. She went quiet, suffering in silence with him. At the moment, Ayyub (A.S) had not thought about her conditon. Eventually, the situation became worse.Nobody would hire his wife. they would say, “We do not want you to come, you mmight carry the curse into our house.” 

Even though she told that she did not even have food, people would just shut her out. For days they did not have anything to eat. Even in this situation Ayyub (A.S) refused to ask Allah’s mercy and remained patient. 

The next day she went out again to find someone who would give them something to eat. She came to a house a woman opened the door. Upon hearing her appeal, she was told that she had to shave her beautiful hair if she wanted food. She wanted to make a wig out of that beautiful hair.Because of her love for her husband, she shaved all of her hair and carried the food back home. When she reached home, she refused to answer Ayyub (A.S)’s questions reagrding the food.When he got angry, she simply pulled her veil down to show him. Ayyub (A.S) was moved by what he saw. He pitied her. He could not bear her suffering despite his. At that moment, Ayyub (A.S) made a dua which Allah has recorded for us in the Quran, “And (mention), Ayyub when he called to his lord, “Indeed adversity has touched me and you are the most merciful of the merciful.”” Surah Al Anbiya

Allah responded immediately, and commanded him to touch the ground with his foot. He was told by Allah that the water which emerged was cleansing water; so to drink and wash with it. When his wife returned back, she could not even recognize her husband who was no more a sickly man. 

Thereafter Allah returned to Ayyub (A.S) everything in double. 14 children became 28 children. Estates as well as people who believed his message increased. 

The Lessons:

1. It is important for a husband and wife to connect and bear burdens as a team. Sometimes, we may think that out spouse is not doing enough, but it is easy to forget what they are actually doing for the family. 

2. Perhaps by seeing us loving our spouses immensely and caring for each other, we might set an example to our children on how marital relations work. 

3. There is always going to be difficulties. If two people go into marriage thinking that married life is an endless honeymoon, the moment they hit a bump in life, they will give up on each other. Do not forget about perseverance and patience.

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The muwahideen are finding marriage difficult, among a lot of things. And I want to say, the path of the Ghuraba isn’t paved with roses. Being from the Ghuraba isn’t an aesthetic. It’s is a path that Allah blessed us to be upon. So remember it , when things became difficult. When marriage isn’t easy, remember this. Make dua and tie your camel.

And when you make dua, consistently do it. Day in and day out. Tahajjud shouldn’t be a once every 2 week thing. Make it part of your routine. Raise your hands to the heavens and beg Allah. Show humility to and tell Allah honestly. If you want companionship, tell Allah that. If you fear falling into zina, be honest about it with Allah. When it rains, make dua. Between the adhan and iqaamah, make dua. In Sujood, make dua. The last hour of Friday, make dua. The dua made at tahajjud is an arrow that never misses its target. So where are you, o you who has a need that needs fulfilling ? Where are your who wishes to have that which they desire? If you are sleeping at that time, do you really want it? You truly don’t want it if you know you have a Lord that descends and seeks to fulfill the need of His slaves.

Ask family, friends and people at the masjid. Do something new and look outside of your town, city or even country. There has been plenty of brothers and sisters on the manhaj who have traveled elsewhere for a spouse or maintain a long distance relationship as a temporary before they are united . If you have a preference, look outside of that and expand your options. Ask those online and if the online route is taken, do your due diligence. It shouldn’t be the first choice but after asking Allah, go for it (for sisters, please always seek permission from a wali and have him every step of the way, online and in real life). Even if the your surroundings are mainly liberals and madkhalis for example, don’t ever underestimate Allah. Allah can send somebody to you when you least expect it in a way that you could never imagine. So have good thoughts of Allah. He is how we think of Him. Do you think He will never give you a spouse? Believe your Lord will answer you and that you will be pleased.

Don’t forget to look into your self. How is your heart with Allah? How much are your sins? Are they greater than your good deeds ? How many sins are you willingly indulging in that you can easily cut off? You want a righteous spouse but are you striving to be from the righteous ? You ask Allah for a spouse and you feel as if your dua isn’t being answered , but what is the amount of sins?

Are you fulfilling your obligations? Are you praying on time , giving zakat, forbidding the evil and enjoining the good , maintaining ties with kith and kin, staying away from the haram? Brothers, are you defending the Ummah and securing the release of the captives? Look into yourself. There could be things that are delaying the response to your dua. Also, think of how you’re close to Allah right now on your state. You’re begging Allah consistently in Tahajjud, your mouth is constantly moving with dua, you’re in a state of hope and wanting a need fulfilled. Yes it’s not easy being patient upon something you’ve been wanting for a long time, but take advantage of how close you are to Allah now. Maybe Allah wants to keep you near Him. Maybe He wants to hear your voice just a little more.

Purify your intentions. The spouse you desire isn’t just for yourself. Have the intention when you get married it is to aid the deen of Allah. It is to bring victory back in the earth and to raise children who will uphold the banner of Tawheed high in the lands. A righteous spouse is part of your enjoyment but remember the bigger picture.

As a last note, work to keep your heart attached to Jannah. We may not get everything we want here but what is with Allah is much better and greater. Dunya isn’t final. It’s just a bridge. Keep your eyes in the prize and your heart connected to heavenly matters. Ask Allah to grant you contentment with your Qadr and to make it easy for you to be grateful in all situations. والله اعلم

May Allah grant all the muwahideen righteous spouses sooner rather than later. May Allah grant us patience and protect us from falling into fitnah. May Allah answer your Adiyah in beautiful ways. آمين

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Dua And Wazifa For Love Marriage

Love is a universal force that knows no boundaries, transcending cultural, religious, and societal norms. For Muslims in love, the desire to marry their chosen partner while seeking Allah's blessings is a cherished aspiration. In this blog, we delve into the significance of Dua for love marriage within the framework of Islam.

We'll explore the power of Dua for love marriage and offer guidance on how to perform it effectively, emphasizing the importance of seeking Allah's guidance in forging a love-filled, blessed union.

The Duas for Love Marriage

Several powerful Duas are recommended for love marriage, drawn from the Quran and the Hadith. These include Surah Al-Ikhlas, Surah Al-Furqan, and Surah Al-Qasas, among others.

These verses can be recited with unwavering sincerity, beseeching Allah to bless your love marriage with His grace and guidance.

Embarking on Marriage with Your Beloved

Marriage is a wonderful and crucial journey that opens a new chapter in your life with the one you love the most. It's an adventure full of promise and hope for a future together. Here are some vital things to keep in mind and love as you take this next step together

Love and Compatibility: Your journey into marriage begins with a strong foundation of love and compatibility. You've chosen each other as life partners because of the deep connection you share. Nurture and cherish this love as it will be the guiding force throughout your marriage.

Open and Honest Communication: Effective communication is the cornerstone of a successful marriage. It's crucial to express your thoughts, feelings, and expectations openly with your beloved. Honest conversations can help you understand each other better and resolve conflicts.

 Mutual Respect: Respect for each other's opinions, beliefs, and boundaries is essential. Recognize that you are two individuals with your own unique qualities and perspectives. Embrace these differences and treat each other with kindness and consideration.

Building Trust: Trust is earned over time. Be trustworthy and reliable in your actions and words. Trust forms the bedrock of a strong and lasting marriage.

Family Support: In many cultures, family plays a significant role in the journey to marriage. Seek the blessings and support of your families, and involve them in your wedding celebrations. A harmonious family dynamic can contribute to a smoother transition into married life.

Faith and Values: If faith is an important aspect of your life, discuss your religious beliefs and values with your beloved. Understand how these beliefs will play a role in your marriage and how you can support each other in your spiritual journeys.Top of Form

Dua for a Smooth Journey to Marriage

A smooth journey to marriage is a heartfelt desire for many individuals. Whether you are preparing for an arranged marriage or a love marriage, making Dua (supplication) for a harmonious and successful journey can bring peace and blessings to this significant life event. Here's a Dua you can recite for a smooth journey to marriage:

Rabbi hab li mina assaliheen (My Lord, grant me from Yourself a good offspring). (Quran, Surah Al-Saffat, 37:100)

A smooth journey may have its share of challenges and delays. Trust in Allah's timing and exercise patience throughout the process. Whether you are in an arranged marriage or a love marriage, open and honest communication with your potential spouse is key to a successful journey.

Wazifa for Love Marriage

Perform your regular Salah (prayers) with sincerity and devotion.

Recite Durood Shareef (Salawat): Begin by reciting Durood Shareef 11 times.

Recite Ayat-ul-Kursi: After Durood Shareef, recite Ayat-ul-Kursi (Surah Al-Baqarah, 2:255) 21 times.

Make Your Request: After reciting Ayat-ul-Kursi, make your specific request to Allah for a love marriage. Pour your heart out in sincere supplication, expressing your desires, intentions, and asking for His guidance and blessings.

Recite Durood Shareef Again: Conclude by reciting Durood Shareef 11 times once more.

Pray to Allah: After completing the recitations, offer a heartfelt prayer to Allah, asking for His assistance, guidance, and blessings in your love marriage.

Repeat Daily: It is recommended to repeat this wazifa daily with unwavering faith, patience, and sincerity.

Conclusion

Dua for love marriage is a spiritual practice that enables Muslim couples to seek Allah's guidance and blessings as they embark on a path of love and unity within the framework of Islam. By approaching this process with faith, sincerity, and patience, you can trust in Allah's wisdom and timing, paving the way for a love-filled, blessed marriage. Feel free to check out our website if you're interested in learning more about the duas and prayers that can be offered for love marriages.