#Being emotionally honest!
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i think its so funny when people take the way donnie acts at face value even though its a horrible lie because he's a horrible liar, while understanding leo is bullshitting very well despite him actually being GOOD at bullshitting. many such cases
#personal#rottmnt#although tbf its probably because with leo its unpacked more thoroughly in the movie#donnie is not a morally ambiguous emotionally unavailable bad boy. he is very sensitive actually#he's a little crybaby /aff#and like this isnt hidden. he isnt SECRETLY sensitive or secretly caring its very out in the open actually#he's not hiding it well AT ALL AND THEY ALL KNOW IT LMAOOOOOOOO#i think donnie's perception of himself is somewhat earnest and somewhat. not? he DEFINITELY thinks he's more evil than he actually is#BGHFHDHGJFHG#i think what causes him to lash out and struggle to communicate is his inability to articulate his feelings#they are just too big for him. like its the exact opposite of robotic#he cant force himself to give a fuck but when he DOES its too much#so he yells and lashes out or he shuts down completely#honestly i think the perception of him being too sensitive being a problem makes way more sense than the perception of him being 'robotic'#when it comes to struggles in how his family sees him at least#even in little ways you can see him take it pretty personally when he's insulted#he struggles to blow things off#and i think it would also explain his tendency to like. visibly calm himself down when he gets upset? its a thing he does a lot in the show#he desperately wants to destroy that perception of him because he's trying so hard to close himself off#he doesn't want to be the sensitive one that cant take anything. it especially works in line with his shell#it was a big inspiration for canary continuity tbh. donnie should struggle with being the sensitive one in fic more#mikey is more empathetic and he's more emotional but donnie's quicker to feel offended or take things personally#BACKED UP HEAVILY BY CANON#that 'you can be honest with me! no hard feelings' - 'he's lyinggggggg'#like he's not upset with them babying him as much as he is with them genuinely finding it frustrating that he can fall behind like that#and just cannot take shit like that. so he tries to pull back and not seem as affected as he is#theyre a very cuddly family but mind you they can be actually mean to each other like that!!
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donna’s inherent honesty vs dick’s tendency to be manipulative.. speak to me
#dick grayson#donna troy#wonder twins#his manipulativeness being the thing about dick that most bothers donna#vs donna’s willingness to be honest about uncomfortable things being one of the things dick most admires about her..#!!!!!#like donna is just very emotionally honest in a way most heroes aren’t.#if she’s having a bad time and someone asks hey what’s wrong what’s going on. she will answer and be honest!! instead of giving#some bullshit ‘im fine :D’ response#meanwhile dick…… Does Not Do That#except with donna! one of the few people he trusts enough to feel comfortable confiding in!#they’re so!!
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Chibi commissions open!! by yours for a noble goal (doubt) | all details here / carrd 😌, if interested feel free to send me a message !
#;ooc#ooc#ok to reblog#THIS ONE'S THE REAL DEAL-#MORE COMPACT THAN EVER-#drastic measures had to be taken- (i need him emotionally and spiritually and in game first of all)#TO BE HONEST!! i was going to do them the same but r.ichard skin pushed me to S T O P procrastinating + the painful ordeal of perfectionism#i have clients all over the world and have worked with deluxe brands and and an#I'd prefer being contacted through here bc i always get lost with all the accounts and mails 😳
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Djuncan where Duncan is so down bad for months before they actually get together like i think Duncan should have a crush thats so horrendous it pisses him off
Answers DJ's call with a "Hey!" thats a bit too genuinely upbeat and hangs up immediately
#hes just holding his phone staring at the wall so upset about it#btw for the several months where duncan is obviously crushing hard dj is swinging hard between completely missing the romantic implications#and just being glad duncan is being emotionally honest with him#and assuming any romantic intention he does see is himself projecting it#dj friendzones himself as duncan is actively trying to ask him out#idk i like it when theyre stupid#i am talking into the void#total drama#duncan total drama#djuncan#dj total drama#total drama duncan#total drama dj
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I've always felt that it'd be Killua who initiates the first hug we see between him and Gon
#i have my reasons for this#i feel like i'm in the minority though... i know gon is honest and much more emotionally expressive#but he's not actually more tactile than killua#i... i actually do think that it's killua who initiates much of the contact between them (fistbumps and poking and hand on shoulder)#if i'm not mistaken anyways#and he's very tactile with alluka and nanika (carrying + hugs + handholding)#granted that's his sister(s) but still. killua is far from touch averse - his getting embarrassed is a cute trait to be sure#but i do think he'll get a bit better at accepting that kind of thing once he's had some time with alluka and nanika#a lot of that does come after all from his feelings of unworthiness - and now that his sisters need open affection after so long being alon#he's going to have to gain at least some comfort with giving and receiving love#gon and mito go for hugs either at the same time or mito initiates. gon hugs leorio in the scene right after he's revived#but idk idk i just feel like he won't be the first to initiate a hug with killua especially since i suspect he still feels quite guilty#i think it would show growth on both their parts. not to mention it'd be very sweet to have gon a bit blindsided + happily surprised#as he's the one typically honest and forthright with appreciation and compliments while killua is. not. lmao#i think he should receive a nice hug from his best friend. and then i think they would both know it's gonna be ok. :')#storyrambles#hunter x hunter#hxh#killua zoldyck#gon freecss#this is so sappy. what's wrong with me. this is what they do to me.#random thoughts
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Infection au!!! But with my ponysona!!! Hims name is catacomb coronation :3 he would NOT survive the infection bro does not know how to quarantine 👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻 anyway idk how to use tumblr I’ve posted art like one time please tell me im smart and kind and cool
#ponysona#my little pony#infection au#horror#cw: gore#tw blood#idk how to tag things im hiding in here now#do you guys think I’m cool be honest do u think Im doing a good job#this flopped on insta and tiktok and I’ll never emotionally recover#mlp infection au#digital art#my little pony fanart#is this like a meta take on fluttershy being a tree
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so. my therapist is trying to get me to fight loneliness and hang out with people even if it scares me to death to take the first step and ask people to hang out and risk getting rejected. help. today he told me what if you asked one of your internet friends who lives close enough to meet during your time off for christmas.......... it's like he wants me to jump into a frozen lake and swim in it
#jk he's trying to help me bc i do really crave connections and friendship and all that irl#and he's being gentle....... but 😭 i'm scared.#“if someone says no to you it doesn't say anything about you” rationally that makes sense! emotionally tho?#if i asked someone to hang out and they said no i would literally hate myself so much and never ask anyone else ever again#and it would kill me for the entirety of my holidays and beyond#which doesn't sound fun!!#be honest quanto sono un caso perso da uno a cento
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Law would love "House" and Sanji would love "The Bear" yes, but have you considered both of them watching Love Island together
#because i think they'd enjoy talking shit about people together#love island parties and it's sanji law nami and usopp judging people#i just think sanji would be into reality shows like REALLY emotionally invested#and nami would wonder how much they get paid for this shit and if she could make zoro go with her and cause drama#law would say he hates it but then he stays to watch the whole thing#law: how can you watch this garbage / sanji: you're watching it too / law: bc my annoying roommate is doing it and he won't let me read#law a minute later: she's such a fucking liar what the hell is wrong with her can't she see he's being HONEST OH MY GOD-#sanji: garbage you say / law: shut the fuck up#lawsan roommates au when#'and they were roommates!' and they share netflix account#one piece#trafalgar law#black leg sanji#lawsan
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1/2) Yata was offended by Fushimi, very much so, and refused to go and make peace. He no longer cooks for Fushimi (although usually no conflicts turn him away from this), does not kiss, does not have sex with or talk to him, and resolves everyday issues with the help of notes. Usually, Yata quickly lets go of negativity in life, but not this time, now he buries himself in negativity at every opportunity. No one in Homra can encourage him to make peace, not even Anna.
Fushimi finally used the virgin joke one time too many D: Imagine that the two of them have been together for a while but maybe for once Yata’s starting to be the one who feels insecure, like say they’ve been talking about buying a place and Fushimi mentions he’ll pay all the rent because Yata is still living off part time jobs. On top of this Yata’s been thinking about proposing but he’s getting down on himself because he couldn’t afford a ring, like here it’s been a couple years and he’s still just a part timer, not getting anywhere with his skateboarding and sometimes he thinks Fushimi might resent that Yata’s still like stuck being useless when Fushimi has a steady well-paying job and all that. In this case the ‘virgin’ thing is really the last straw, the two of them are having sex and Fushimi keeps teasing Yata the whole time because Yata’s extra clumsy today. Afterward they’re cuddling and Fushimi makes another ‘I’m amazed you lasted so long, virgin,’ comment and Yata just blows up, snapping that if he’s such a ‘virgin’ Fushimi is welcome to find a better partner.
He storms out and ends up just standing by the door outside the apartment, running a hand through his hair and frustrated. Yata knows he shouldn’t have blown up like that but he’s also just so tired, like sometimes he wonders if Fushimi even likes him and apparently even after two years he’s not good enough in bed either. Yata can’t help but hold onto this resentment too, like he’s tired also of always being the one who apologizes every time. He’s so angry that he ends up leaving the next morning without making Fushimi breakfast or packing him lunch, imagine Fushimi just standing there in the apartment at a loss because usually Yata always makes his food. He grudgingly makes himself something unhealthy and grumbles that Yata will get over it, it’s fine.
Except it isn’t, because after this Yata basically ignores him entirely. Yata makes meals only for himself, leaves post-it notes to resolve any issues like who needs to wash the dishes, utterly ignores any attempt Fushimi makes to initiate intimacy. Fushimi is so at a loss he even begrudgingly asks Kusanagi for help, but Yata isn’t interested in taking advice from him either. Even Anna can’t move his heart, though I imagine that she wouldn’t try to make him apologize or let go of his anger if he doesn’t want to, even without her powers I imagine Anna is very sensitive to the feelings of others. Rather she just tells Yata not to let resentment ruin him, if he wants to make a decision then he should do it, but don’t hold onto a darkness so long that it poisons you. Yata takes that in and decides he needs to at least do something, even if that something isn’t necessarily forgiving.
In the end I imagine it is sort of an apology that works, but in this case it has to be a proper sincere one. I imagine Fushimi’s just been quietly flailing because he doesn’t know how to fix this, he even bought a vase of flowers and Yata just ignored it. So it’s time for him to offer Yata the most frightening thing: emotional intimacy. Imagine Yata shows up at the apartment and maybe he’s finally decided, he needs to just leave rather than stewing in his anger. Fushimi is waiting for him and when Yata curtly says he’s going Fushimi suddenly moves, so fast that Fushimi himself didn’t even realize it, as he grabs Yata’s arm and says ‘don’t.’ Yata sighs, running a hand through his hair as he’s about to push Fushimi’s hand away and then he realizes that there’s something wet falling on his wrist. He looks up in surprise and Fushimi is actually crying, wiping at his eyes irritably but clearly very much Having Emotions.
That’s actually the one thing that could melt Yata’s heart and his expression softens as he’s like hey it’s all right, realizing suddenly that he’s never actually seen Fushimi cry before and that’s kinda scary to him. Fushimi starts to push him away but then stops, clinging to Yata a little more as he sincerely apologizes and wants to know what he can do to make Yata happy, because he doesn’t even know how to make himself happy and clearly this is something he’s done, to make things break without even trying, and he has no idea how he’s supposed to fix this either. Yata feels this sudden rush of emotion as he realizes just how much Fushimi does in fact love him and he decides okay, maybe Anna was right and he needs to let his resentment go so that he can find an understanding with Fushimi. They end up sitting together and properly talking, Yata admitting his insecurities and Fushimi for once owning up to all the things he’s done to hurt Yata without realizing, and in the end they’re like both hugging and crying together.
#sarumi#Talking K#the only thing that can cure Yata's resentment#Fushimi being emotionally honest#imagine Yata going from angry to freaking out when he realizes Fushimi is crying#he's never seen that before and he's worried
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Some Perfumare art featuring @pdrrook 's characters Jewel, Alan, Flavio, and Nino based on It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia meme.
Jewel: How do three grow ass adults not know how to have an honest conversation with their significant other?
Alan, Flavio, and Nino: They're- The economy is in shambles.
The Perfumare sequel LIs may be professional adults with training and education considering they're respective professions. But Jewel is clearly the smartest LI in both games since she's the only one who understands how to have honest communication with her significant other.
#perfumare vn#pfm#jewel#Alan#Flavio#nino#memes redraw#Jewel is clearly the smartest person here#look Alan may have a law degree#and Flavio and Nino have experience and training with SPD#but all three of them are still dumbasses when it comes to being emotionally honest
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liv suga's Bad Situationship has been in my head all day.... do u perhaps have any thoughts to spare...? 🎤
i promise when i have 2 functional braincells to rub together i'll elaborate
#liv got mail#suga is just so.... Boy to me#Boy of all time#outgoing and funny and charming and lots of friends and very socially adept#having a friend like suga is a DREAM. dating a suga is....... emotionally exhausting#you have to compete for his attention and affection and his TIME#and college is a constant balancing act as it is!! school. part time jobs. parties. tutorials and labs. friends. studying. fucking#and if i'm being honest i think that suga tries really hard to make everyone happy and do it all#but it's just NOT possible to be everything to everyone all the time and he learns this the hard way#and therefore that would be the Situationship from Hell#because sugawara is a loverboy at heart but i think he struggles to put it into practice in college
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hate to do this to u but chilchuk gives me jordan vibes
hater on the outside, lover on the inside
#dare i say#marcille is emma#the touden siblings are luke and sam#im SORRY#i told u#im sdklfjaskl#tbh i kinda could see marie as namari or izutsumi orfjdskalfjdsakl#marie is hard to categorize for me#i love her sm#she is unline anyone else#jordan li#marie moreau#emma meyers#consider#marie is senshi#I KNOW senshi is more muted emotionally than she is often#but voice of reason? check#honest to a fault? check#generous? check#djfkal#ok so the touden siblings#part of me wants sam to be falin#because i ship farcille so fucking hard its unreal#and in a good world sam and emma are good together#imo#but! sam is the goofy one and luke is the one who dies in ep 1 so#dungeon meshi#delicious in dungeon#dunmeshi#dfskal i could see cate being kabru
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hood is the ceo of “other people have it worse” /HJ
#meanwhile void is the ceo of ‘other people don’t exist’#it’s not the hood blog ikik#but who could he be thinking about??? oooOOOOoooOoo /silly#fnf psychic#fnf hood#fnf void#purple guys dlc#fic snippet#two plus one#<- name subject to change#i think these two imagine psychic’s relationship with his master to be worse than it really is#in that they think dearest is emotionally distant and doesn’t acknowledge the way psi has completely given himself to him#hood is probably more forgiving and open to believing psychic when he says it’s much better than that#void is not. lmao#bc then he has to acknowledge that psychic has someone more important to him. someone void resents; on top of already being tossed to the-#side for someone automatically inferior by vice of not being void#void doesn't genuinely care for psychic's well being he just wants the attention and to be able to hold that over dearest#i think he would really enjoy getting to replace dd solely for the novelty. bc void and psi could never have what psi has w dd#hood doesn't know the dearests well if at all so he basically has to trust whatever psychic says. and i don't think hood would#take psychic for someone who sugarcoats things#there's a difference between acting strong and acting like the situation is better than it actually is#psychic heavily engages in the first behavior but never the second. he is extremely brutally honest (except w select people i.e. girlfriend#and hood realizes that. so i don't think he would have any reason to disbelieve psychic if psychic explained that he has a really good#relationship with his master. that being said psychic has not explained that to hood in depth lmao#he doesn't want to admit the way he sees his master. and talking about their relationship could be a slippery slope#for the most part he is very good at not talking about himself. so hood still doesn't understand him that well. but he's perceptive.#especially next to void. hood sees the way psychic picks his master over them and i think he recognizes a little bit of himself in that#because of his relationship with zeta. he doesn't see the full picture but he has a better idea of what psychic wants than void does.#so yeah. really all they can do is genuinely talk to psychic together. but together they never will.
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thinkin abt how this bunny mf has no clue what spanish is so leo would definitely have to explain what terms like ‘mi amor’ mean after he had already used them and my god they would be such dorks abt it
#rottmnt#samurai rabbit: the usagi chronicles#leosagi#srtuc#cuz casual affection ? leo can do. easy#but being emotionally honest and open ? sorry kid ur gonna have to learn if u wanna get bitches
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🫵PHOTON TRIVIA
o7 YOU GOT IT BOSS!!
as much as i love making robots who Think Like Robots there's none of that here! photon is the ghost of someone real shoved into a metal body and just as unpredictable and irrational as any meat brain is. too obviously mechanical to be a person, too painfully human [mobian. whatever] to be a robot. [and don't you worry, i've definitely thought about how this in-between existence would collide with other robots in the series. give me a minute to stop crying every time i think about mecha sonic mkii and then i'm sending his ass to scrapnik island]
he derisively calls sonic 'meat sonic'. at first it was in response to being called 'metal sonic,' but now that he has his own name it's just this bizarre orphaned punchline kept alive by some mix of complacency and spite. for what it's worth meat sonic thinks it's funny as fuck that photon calls him that
photon can't cry, at least not at first. just doesn't have the physical functionality built into him. he tells himself that it's no loss, he/sonic hated crying anyway, but it's definitely not good for him that such a deeply psychologically necessary function is gone!
of course my autistic ass has thought about the jules and photon dynamic. it's weird, and awkward, and steeped in a thousand layers of feelings that neither of them know how to articulate, but i reckon they do like each other and they are good for each other. jury's still out on whether they can claim to be family, but it's hard not to at least be SOMETHING with the probable only other person on the entire planet who understands at least a little bit of what you're going through, y'know
out of all the things he can't do anymore, photon REALLY misses eating. leftovers from his organic-by-design brain keep telling him that it's been way too long since he ate and he'd feel better if he slammed back a chili dog. he can usually laugh off being asked a fundamentally robot-proof question like when he last slept or if he needs a shower and genuinely not be hurt [much] by it, but he gets real quiet if someone accidentally asks him if he wants anything to eat
because he struggles to conceptualise his body as His Body, he's really bad at treating the possibility of hurting himself with the appropriate gravity. as a result, he's prone to letting himself get injured if it means he gets more done in a fight, or ignoring minor damage until it compounds enough that he's falling apart, or pushing himself until his systems short out. thanks to this reckless approach to personal safety, he's been fully ship of theseus'd at least once since his original neo metal sonic body, which i'm sure is great for that aforementioned difficulty connecting himself with the body he's in
most of photon's interaction with sonic canon post-heroes is vague and messy and not something i've come up with an answer i like to, but i'm pretty confident in how he fits into the idw chunk of the timeline! he never 'officially' joins the restoration, and he's still just as prone to fucking off halfway across the planet as meat sonic, but he starts to be a pretty common sight around their hq. fighting eggman isn't really fun for photon anymore the way it is for sonic, having your entire identity irreversibly ripped away from you by someone makes any future victory against them feel hollow, but he's still got that burning drive to help others - the restoration gives him ways to fight indirectly enough that he can actually feel good about it again. he's one of the few who can meaningfully defend the metal virus survivors, and you BET he's so pissed at sonic for letting it happen he can hardly think straight. lanolin and tangle probably try to get him in the neo diamond cutters, but i don't think he'd take them up on the offer, given that he doesn't respond well to being told what to do. like i mentioned, i want to send his ass to scrapnik island and see how he plays off of another robot sonic turned terrifyingly real and separate person. then of course there's the dynamic between him and belle, which honestly could be a whole post by itself. after a couple years with only a tiny handful of non-grief-inducing friends and some unsustainably destructive coping mechanisms to his name, the point that idw picks up from is where photon finally goes from just enduring the horrors to genuinely feeling happier again :]
#THANK YOU FOR ASKING RAAGHGHGHGHGGGGH <3 <3#if nobody got me i know random friends sincerely engaging with my creative efforts got me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#ending on the nice part about the friends he makes and the new purpose he finds because that's kind of the point i'm making with photon#that yeah the horrors can feel insurmountable and might always be a part of you but things can still be okay anyway#what's that jacob geller quote about darkness and angst not being a story by itself. because that's what i'm trying to manifest#ask to tag#mostly in regards to the point about him being concerningly indifferent to injury/emotionally detached from his body#because to be clear i'm not throwing that in as Le Funny Character Quirk i'm specifically implying depersonalisation due to identity trauma#kartsstuffig#long post#photon posting#did i give him a tag already i forgot oh well he has one now <3#super secret bonus photon trivia. as much as i hate to admit it. he is unfortunately inspired quite a bit by hal homestuck.#because yeah 'the ghost of a real person's brain forced into an unbearably mechanical existence' is a concept that has never left me#unfortunately homestuck fucking blows and hal just kinda falls out of the narrative. but what if that specific idea was in a good story#frankly embarrassing how much of my creative process is 'what if <thing from homestuck> didn't fucking suck' to be honest
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#i told my friend i would go to a con with her in december and paid for my portion already but i kept getting super depressed thinking about#going to the con#and i mainly said yes because she has bad social anxiety and i wanted to support her#but i went to a con with one of my other friends a while ago and i am totally out of it#mentally and emotionally when it comes to anything fandom related. exept anime con but that's because i like seeing ppls costumes.#it's like i am a ghost of myself.#also i have expenses that keep piling up and i was like 'even if i don't get the whole refund i would rather have the money than go#on a trip just to be miserable'#so i kept putting it off but then i was like 'well i need to tell her at least a month before or else that is going to be really bad'#so i told her last night that things came up and i couldn't go (things is work/needing to save my money). like i know i already paid for it#but my partner is having a hard time making rent and i am having a hard time keeping a job so...#and i haven't told her any of this i just said 'things came up'#so she was naturally quite upset with me and said she “didn't give a shit if [i] lose money” but would pay me back for the con tickets#and the flight#like... she has always been brutally honest and (maybe?) autistic-coded so i tried not to let it get to me. i totally get being upset#and i am somewhat bothered with myself that i even said yes in the first place & then went back on it/waited so long to decide#but also i didn't expect to be paying my partner's half of the rent for a few months sooo.....#yeah#at least i will get half back and then i don't have to worry about asking for time off if i get a secondary job soon which i definitely nee#vent#delete later#tw financial issues
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