#Autistic selfship

[yoomtahsgf]

!!!please no pr0/c0mship interaction, thank you!!!

SELFSHIPPERS WHO HAVE MEMORY ISSUES!!! selfshippers who forget what theyre doing in the middle of doing it, who forget things they were just told or even told multiple times before, who forget things they were supposed to do and end up getting done late or never getting done, who forget the same things multiple times, who forget things even about those they love most- ok you get what im saying!!! but consider!!!

~ your f/o(s) will reassure you that poor memory is NOTHING to feel guilty about!!!

~ if you need they'll remind you about special days like anniversaries, birthdays, etc. instead of expecting you to remember automatically and getting mad if you dont!!!

~ if you have plans together they'll remind you ON THAT DAY of what time and what you're doing if you need it!!!

~ if you have other specific things that you'd like them to remind you about, even daily, they'll be happy to oblige!!!

~ they'll absolutely defend you from people who say things like you dont remember because you dont care, or who think you're just lazy, or any other hurtful things about your memory!!!

~ when you're having a moment like you know you forgot something but just don't know what, they'll help you figure out if you did and what it is!!!

~ they'll tell you the same thing no matter how many times it takes you to remember it without getting mad, even if you never remember it on your own they'll remind you whenever you need!!!

~ if there are things you DON'T need reminders for and/or can remember on your own, they'll trust in your word instead of assuming you can't ever think for yourself!!!

YOU ARE WORTH YOUR F/O(S)' PATIENCE!!! YOU ARE WORTH THEIR UNDERSTANDING!!! YOU ARE WORTH THEIR LOVE!!! no matter how bad your memory can get, even not remembering people you know or places you've been or things you like or whatever, even if it's more severe than anything i can think of!!! you are so much more than poor memory and your memory issues have nothing to do with how much you care about things, and your f/o(s) absolutely understand that!!! you are more than worth it to them and they'll always be happy to reassure you of such!!! thank you for coming to my tedtalk!!!

!!!please no pr0/c0mship interaction, thank you!!!

[orchidshroomgardenselfships]

For my selfshippers who happy stim: Fun fact, your f/o LOVES seeing it! Knowing you’re happy makes their heart soar, and seeing you happy stim, whether you’re excited, or happy, makes them so happy too!! They love you so dearly and wouldn’t trade you for anything.

*Proship DNI*

[staticshipstation]

Hey fellow fidgety self shippers (and I mean like fidgety as in squirmy neurodivergent brains)

Your f/o loves how squirmy you are. They don’t think it’s annoying, INFACT they think it’s cute! They think how you kick your legs is adorable! The way you tap your hands, they’re absolutely ENTRANCED by it. Don’t even get me started on your other stims.

If it’s done for any nervous/anxious reason Id imagine they pick up on it quickly. They speak to you with a softness and patience in their voice. Maybe they try to give you as much space as possible.

Your F/O thinks your fidgets are valid!

[theheroand]

"There. Now we both have crowns."

It's my birthday!!!! Happy birthday to me :) I wanted to draw something soft + sweet with the princess to celebrate <333

[stanfordpinesenbyhusband]

Fun fact: your f/os favorite sound is you rambling about your special interests/hyperfixations hell your f/os favorite thing in whole world is you! :D

Pro.ship/com.ship DNI

[lottaham]

“Didn’t you make this joke when you posted Brie’s reference?” SHUT UP AND ENJOY THE PS2 BUTCH4BUTCH LESBIANS

[S/I (mouse) uses he/she, F/O (raccoon) uses he/any]

[theslowpath]

you dont have to make facial expressions around your f/o if you dont want to. they understand that you dont express emotion that way and when you arent smiling it doesnt hurt their feelings. they dont think youre apathetic if you dont look sad or angry when something bad happens. if you tell your f/o that you feel a certain way, they dont try to "read" you or get "the truth" out of you. they believe you.

[avas-wonderland]

More Moving Castle AU stuff

(Reblogs are encouraged, pr0ship/c0mshippers DNI)

TagList: @candyheartedchy @disneymarina @zombyne @plummers @cherry-bomb-ships @olliesart @strawbeaniie @lop-bunny-ships

[scaredstupid]

bro you are so annoying....keep this up and ill have to kiss you on the mouth

[muppetyluv]

Day 8: Swim | Terror | Infection

wtf?? gay little zombears...

[intothebagelverse]

being a selfshipper with autism is so fun. we BOTH have autism now ❤️

john who wears a compression top under his shirts for sensory reasons

john who appreciates his s/o pointing out when he’s doing his hair pulling stim (he’s pulled entire clumps out during especially busy work days)

john who’s constantly moving his legs and kicks his feet when he’s happy

john whose house is stocked with safe foods for both him and his s/o

john who finds a way to include you in his routine and melts when he finds out he’s part of yours

[yoomtahsgf]

hiiiii promo ur fav insane yandere landmine lesbian bc im suffering<3opening comms also so i can afford my halloween costume yayyyyyyy

carrd

[orchidshroomgardenselfships]

Hey. Listen. Hey. Selfshippers who stim. Your f/o is never, and i mean *never* going to be embarrassed by your happy stimming, okay? Listen to me. Your F/o's heart fills with so much joy when they see you happy. They will literally never be embarrassed, and if they also stim, chances are that!!! Seeing you happy stim has made them happy stim!!!

*Proship dni*

[connieslovers]

Autistic self shippers and Shifters | imagine your f/o

imagine your f/o talking to you about your special interests.

imagine your f/o talking to you about your special interests. you talk and rant to them about your special interest.

they sit and listen while you rant excitedly while stimming.

you start making vocal noises as well as jumping and flapping your hands or *insert favorite stim here*.

they watch you with absolute adoration in their eyes. they love you so much.

they may have no idea what you’re talking about but they’re so happy to see you like this.

they even will do research on your special interests so they can talk about it with you.

they love when you rant your special interests. they love listening to you and seeing your joy

[theheroand]

I've loved you three summers now, honey, but I want 'em all...

Happy 3 year anniversary to my wife, the stars in my sky, my darling Ganyu. These three trips around this sun with you have been wonderful, my love, and I can't wait to spend all of the rest of them with you. I love you, now and forever <3

Reblogs appreciated! S/I (left) uses they/it! Ganyu (right) uses she/her!

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@cafecouple @frozenhi-chews @scaredstupid @astral-express-family @singsofsilver

@kittyspot @starboy-ships @hippie-self-shippie @muppetyluv @mashyaoi

@yoomtahsgf @freyneuvis @cherry-bomb-ships @unconsious-requiem @charkittykelly

@bananalovin @goober-bug-ships @kiawren @seahydra @sound-traveller

@sunflawyer @chilapis

[stanfordpinesenbyhusband]

I would fully let my f/o lay on top of me just basically use them as a weighted blanket

Pro.ship/com.ship DNI