#Astrological insights

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How to lose weight according to astrology?

Losing weight by aligning your diet and exercise routines with the characteristics and needs of your natal rising (ASC) sign then Sun sign too (please consult your dietician before pursuing any of these diets and exercises- be safe!)

Aries

Opt for high-protein diets with lean meats and plenty of vegetables.

Engage in intense, high-energy workouts like running, boxing, or competitive sports.

Taurus

Focus on a balanced diet with whole foods, and avoid overeating.

Enjoy steady, endurance-based activities like hiking, cycling, or yoga.

Gemini

Include a variety of foods to keep meals interesting and avoid boredom eating.

Choose dynamic and engaging activities like dance classes, team sports, or high-intensity interval training (HIIT).

Cancer

Eat home-cooked meals with comfort foods in healthy versions, and avoid emotional eating.

Try water-based activities like swimming, or gentle exercises like Pilates, or one of those hydro-spinning classes.

Leo

Eat a well-rounded diet with plenty of fruits and vegetables, and avoid overindulgence.

Enjoy activities that allow you to shine, such as group fitness classes, dancing, or competitive sports.

Virgo

Follow a clean, organic diet with whole foods and avoid processed foods.

Stick to structured and systematic workouts like Pilates, yoga, or strength training.

Libra

Maintain a balanced diet with variety, and avoid overindulgence in sweets.

Choose enjoyable and aesthetically pleasing activities like dancing, yoga, or partner workouts.

Scorpio

Opt for a high-protein diet with healthy fats and avoid overeating.

Engage in intense, transformative workouts like martial arts, CrossFit, or powerlifting.

Sagittarius

Include exotic and varied foods, and avoid overeating during social gatherings.

Enjoy outdoor activities and sports like hiking, rock climbing, or adventure sports.

Capricorn

Follow a disciplined, structured diet plan with whole foods and avoid comfort eating.

Engage in traditional and disciplined activities like weight training, running, or structured fitness programs.

Aquarius

Try unique and innovative diets, and avoid falling into monotonous eating habits.

Enjoy unconventional and varied workouts like group fitness classes, dance, or unique sports.

Pisces

Focus on a diet rich in lean proteins, vegetables, and whole grains, and avoid emotional eating.

Engage in soothing and creative activities like swimming, yoga, or dance.

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Unlocking the Mysteries of Mrigashira Nakshatra: Symbolism, Traits, and Impact on Destiny #BlogchatterA2Z

Unlocking the Mysteries of Mrigashira Nakshatra: Symbolism, Traits, and Impact on Destiny #BlogchatterA2Z #MrigashiraNakshatra #VedicAstrology #CelestialExploration #AstrologicalInsights #SpiritualJourney #HinduMythology #CosmicHarmony #SelfDiscovery

Exploring the Depths of Mrigashira Nakshatra: Symbolism, Characteristics, and Influence In the vast tapestry of Vedic astrology, each Nakshatra holds profound significance, offering unique insights into one’s personality, destiny, and life path. Among these celestial markers, Mrigashira Nakshatra stands as a beacon of exploration, embodying a rich tapestry of symbolism, characteristics, and…

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Mercury Retrograde in Sagittarius 2024: Contemplating Truths & Beliefs

From November 25 to December 15, 2024, Mercury embarks on its infamous retrograde journey in the expansive, truth-seeking sign of Sagittarius. Known for its influence on communication, technology, and travel, Mercury retrogrades are notorious for causing disruptions and delays. During this particular cycle occurring in Sagittarius, Mercury calls us to reflect deeply on themes related to our…

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When investing money, the timing is just as important as the investment itself. On the special occasion of Dhanteras, the best time to make investments is during the “Shubh Muhurat,” which is a special time when the positions of the planets are favourable for financial success and always bring good luck.

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Sagittarius Full Moon Soiree: Dream Big and Release Bigger – Your Ultimate Energy Guide for May 23, 2024

Flower [Full Moon in Sagittarius] Energy Update: May 23, 2024 at 13:52 As the celestial wheel turns, we greet the Full Moon in the fiery and expansive sign of Sagittarius. This phase, known for revealing hidden truths and expanding our emotional landscapes, invites us to aim for our highest ideals. With the Moon in this mutable fire sign, we’re encouraged to dream big and let go of outdated…

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Astrological Insights On Settle In Abroad

Imagine the attraction of living abroad, immersing yourself in a new culture, and Beginning on a journey of self-discovery. As we venture into the possibilities of settle in abroad, astrology emerges as a guiding light, offering insights and revelations that can shape our decisions and experiences. In this blog, we search into the astrological dimensions of relocating abroad, exploring how the cosmic dance of planets can influence our path to foreign settlement.

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Smells I associate with each sign

Aries - Smoke

Taurus - Cupcakes

Gemini - Air freshener in a Office Lobby

Cancer - The scent of delicious cooking wafting through the home from the kitchen

Leo - Vanilla

Virgo - Laundry detergent

Libra - Cherries

Scorpio - Dark chocolate

Sagittarius - the smell of an imminent rainstorm in the air

Capricorn - Cinnamon and leather

Aquarius - musk

Pisces - sea breeze

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Mercury Retrograde: Unveiling the Mysteries of Cosmic Chaos

Shaina Tranquilino

September 6, 2023

When it comes to astrology, few events stir as much anticipation and trepidation as Mercury retrograde. This celestial phenomenon has gained a reputation for causing communication mishaps, technological glitches, and general chaos in our lives. But what exactly is mercury retrograde, and why does it hold such intrigue? In this blog post, we delve into the mysteries surrounding this cosmic event to provide you with a deeper understanding.

Understanding Mercury Retrograde

Mercury retrograde refers to a three-week period when the planet Mercury appears to move backward in its orbit from our perspective on Earth. Although this appearance is an optical illusion caused by the varying speeds at which planets revolve around the Sun, its impact on our lives cannot be underestimated.

Communication Challenges

One of the most notable effects of Mercury retrograde lies in its influence over communication. During this time, misunderstandings, miscommunications, and delays seem to become more prevalent. Emails can get lost in cyberspace, messages may be misconstrued, and important conversations might turn awry. It is crucial during these periods to exercise patience and clarity while communicating with others.

Technological Turmoil

In addition to affecting interpersonal communication, Mercury retrograde also seems to have a knack for disrupting technology. Be prepared for your phone freezing unexpectedly or experiencing inexplicable malfunctions with your computer. While frustrating at times, taking precautions such as backing up files and updating software prior to a retrograde phase can mitigate potential issues.

Traveling Troubles

Many individuals attribute their travel woes – missed flights, lost luggage, or unexpected detours – to Mercury's apparent backward motion during retrograde periods. While there isn't scientific evidence supporting these claims, acknowledging that challenges may arise during travel plans can help us remain adaptable and less stressed if unforeseen circumstances occur.

Introspection & Reflection

While mercury retrograde has a reputation for causing chaos, it also offers an opportunity for introspection and reflection. This period encourages us to slow down, review our past actions, and reassess our plans and goals. It is a time for self-reflection, allowing us to identify areas in our lives that require attention or adjustments.

Navigating Mercury Retrograde

Rather than becoming overwhelmed by the potential pitfalls associated with mercury retrograde, we can adopt strategies to navigate this phase more smoothly:

1. Practice Mindfulness: By being conscious of our thoughts and actions during this time, we can minimize impulsive decisions or hasty responses.

2. Double-Check Details: To avoid misunderstandings or mishaps, double-check important documents, emails, and texts before sending them out.

3. Embrace Flexibility: As challenges arise unexpectedly, remember to remain adaptable and open-minded. Sometimes the universe has different plans for us.

4. Self-Care Routine: Utilize this period as an opportunity for self-care – engage in activities such as meditation, journaling, or spending quality time with loved ones.

Mercury retrograde may have its share of challenges and cosmic mysteries, but it doesn't necessarily need to be feared. Understanding its effects on communication, technology, and travel empowers us to prepare ourselves mentally and emotionally during these periods. By embracing adaptability and taking advantage of the reflective opportunities offered by mercury retrograde, we can transform what could be perceived as chaos into personal growth and development.

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moon signs observations

aries moon : the most impulsive and impatient aries placement there is. they usually are very open when it comes to their emotions, even the destructive ones. they aren’t afraid of confronting people, even if they are somehow less powerful than the person they are facing. the child of the zodiac has strong feelings that are hard to contain, but as they grow they learn to tame them and communicate them in a non-violent way. they are ambitious and self-starting. the blessing that comes with aries moon is that its natives aren’t really afraid of failure. hell, they don’t even consider it. whenever the feeling of desire for a goal or a person arises, they quickly go after it. it’s only after having tried that they wonder whether the experience was worth it or not. 

taurus moon : taurus moon is all about being present with one's emotions. it’s hard to get them to change their mind about something or to get them out of a rut, because they want their feelings to be processed organically. they know that the easiest way to do that is to just take their time. they don't like being rushed through anything. to other people, it might look like stubbornness, but it’s just a need that taurus moons have. since the moon is exalted in taurus, it's paramount for them to savor experiences, even negative ones. it just feels natural to be able to feel both the good and the bad. the downside to this moon is that it can make you addicted to pleasure, which makes sense since it is venus-ruled. these moons usually have at least one attachment to something that isn’t necessarily healthy. they know what gives them pleasure, and they intend to delight in it. 

gemini moon : these moons are moody. you never know what you’re gonna get with them. they are either going to be extremely talkative, nonchalant and funny or they might decide that it’s their serious, deep and probing side that they want to show this time. they love meeting people and getting to know them, but at some point they might be feeling insecure and decide to be silent instead. gemini is mutable, and the moon is all about how you deal with emotions. when the moon is in gemini, the way you feel and the way you react is constantly changing. you might expect them to always be detached because of their airy quality but that is far from the truth. mercury rules gemini, which is about the way one communicates. it’s hard for these natives to hide how they are feeling because their words — or the absence of them — always gives them away. the other noticeable thing about this moon is its indecisiveness. it’s even worse than libra. with their big imagination, gemini moons see all the possibilities that come with their choices, which makes it difficult for them to make one and to stick to it. their stance changes according to the way they are feeling at any given moment.

cancer moon : cancer moons are the most protective with their emotions. they don’t talk about their feelings as openly as other placements. they might be open about their experiences but it’s only through analysis that you understand how they are actually feeling. with the moon being at home in cancer, these natives are a lot more sensitive than other placements. when I think about this placement, I cannot help but notice how avoidant it is. these moons are simply too scared of facing their feelings because of fear of drowning themselves & others in them. cancer, who is represented by the crab — an animal that crawls into its shell when threatened — knows how vulnerable it is and simply refuses to let people know about it. maybe cancer moons' sensitiveness wasn’t welcomed or encouraged in the past and they now feel like they have to put on a happy front all the time, but what is certain is that they are not unfeeling.

leo moon : leo moons have no boundaries when it comes to expressing their thoughts or emotions. sometimes, they will tell their whole life story to people they barely know just because they feel like it. they cannot hide the things that make them who they are because they place a lot of pride in them. it’s logical these moons are always shedding a light on their inner world since it's ruled by the sun. the downside that comes with this configuration is that they sometimes pretend to be more confident and capable than they actually are. they refuse to accept that they have flaws and that there things about them that need to be improved. these moons become boastful and arrogant when they feel threatened. they can of course become as great as they pretend to be, but only once they have accepted that they aren’t perfect and that there is room for refinement.

virgo moon : virgo moons always end up placing other people’s needs above their own. it’s very hard for them to say no to people even when they have a lot on their plate. being of service gives them a sense of satisfaction, but also leads them to forget about their own needs and responsibilities. although they want to have time or energy to take care about themselves, they hate feeling unhelpful. these moons have to learn about balance, otherwise they're always going to feel unsatisfied. virgo moons cannot help but see the negative in any person or situation. instead of appreciating them as they are, they think about how they can be perfected. they end up losing that precious thing because they weren’t able to see how beautiful it was. when that happens, it’s usually too late for them to get it back. they then blame and criticize themselves for taking it for granted, and the cycle goes on. 

libra moon : these moons were brought up to always consider how their actions affect other people. maybe their assertiveness and independence were dismissed and they were encouraged to comply to others’ desires instead of their own. in any case, they try hard to please other people and make them feel at ease. it’s really important for these moons to have people they can give their love to. they usually come from families where affection was freely given and ressources equally shared. they are die-hard romantics. they are often involved in unsatisfying relationships as they are scared of being on their own. being alone and not having romantic feelings for someone makes them feel lonely and insecure. libra is all about balance; this moons need to have another person it feels it can relate to.

scorpio moon : scorpio moons love hard. so much so that they are blind to the pain that they are enduring at the hands of others. what’s often said about them is that they are unforgiving, which is true to a certain extent. but it actually takes them a long time before realizing that they are getting poor treatment from someone and finally deciding to call it quits. once they do though, they leave that person behind as if they had never existed. more than most people, scorpio moons are aware of the darkness that exists in all of us, as they have been exposed to it from a young age. their often traumatic childhoods have made them more empathetic and understanding. but these very qualities often lead them to endure even more trauma. what these moons need to realize is that it’s not their job to change or save other people, they have to do the work themselves. they have to realize that they don’t have to stick around to see if a toxic person is gonna get better, because they might not. they should withdraw when encountering these kinds of individuals if they don’t want to lose themselves again in the process of loving them . 

sagittarius moon : for sagittarius moon, home is where the heart is. these people are always on the move. they don’t remain in the same place, relationship or job for long. when they feel like there is nothing more to learn from it, they leave. what’s most important for these moons is to grow. staying in the same position and not being stimulated makes them feel stagnant and restricted. but going after new experiences all the time can also lead them to feel unstable. since it’s hard for them to commit they might not have a lot of people around them that they feel they can rely on. but even if there aren’t many people close to them, they can always make it in life; they are usually skilled in many things that can bring them success. 

capricorn moon : it’s hard getting to know these moons. they don’t just let anyone into their hearts. they usually had to grow up early and take on many responsibilities. maybe they were the eldest and had to take care of their siblings or their caregivers were just very demanding and harsh with them. in any case, their seriousness and drive to accomplish usually follow them into adulthood. they put a lot of pressure onto themselves to become successful. since the moon is in detriment in capricorn, it’s harder for them to feel open, vulnerable or at peace. they usually distract themselves from these unproductive emotions by staying busy and working. the good thing about this placement is that they are very determined and focused which grant them the ability to become masters at any skill. 

aquarius moon : these moons are profoundly curious. they like getting to know people and forming deep relationships with them. as the sign of fellowship, they have an important need to connect with other people. for them, friends are like family. what's often said about them is that they are detached and don’t seem to feel anything. to me, it just seems that they react rationally to most situations and need time to process what it means to them emotionally. like gemini moons, they have the ability to talk about their feelings without getting overwhelmed by them. it is true that they can be avoidant when it comes to romantic attachment though. whenever someone suitable approaches them, these moons reject them because that person doesn't quite fit their ideals. but these ideals often are just an excuse to prevent them from actually being vulnerable and giving someone else the power to hurt them. 

pisces moon : like scorpio moons, pisces moons are compassionate to a fault. they are sensitive and love being able to lend a listening ear to those who need it. but what often happens is that people grow dependent on their selfless energy. and since these moons have a hard time establishing boundaries, they give more and more of their themselves until they are exhausted emotionally. they then disappear for long periods of time in order to recharge. it’s hard for these natives to realize that they are being taken advantage of which pushes them to stay in unhealthy dynamics for longer than they’re supposed to. at some point these just decide to leave these relationships without expressing their frustration because they don't like confrontation. people with this placement can be also self-destructive. their emotions are so powerful that they try to escape them in any way that they can: through substances, sex, or television. these watery moons need a creative outlet to express what they are feeling inside unless they wanna get lost in their addictions. 

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The “I work hard, enjoy some of it, but others enjoy the most” placement

Jupiter-Saturn aspects in natal chart means you are the one who is creating generational wealth in your family, but not necessarily the one who will enjoy the most of it. Depending on the type of aspect it can either be something you are totally okay with (conjunction + trine/sextile) or have difficulties with accepting/managing (square and opposition).

Mayer Rothschild with Jupiter-Saturn in Leo is a good and big example of it. He had to work his ass off to leverage his whole family, enjoyed some of his wealth, but mostly created an empire for the next generations to enjoy the most. To the point where the public and the entire family are fully aware of who originated it.

Also good to mention that the following artists have this conjunction and are known for being the ones to have elevated their entire bloodline: Beyonce, Britney, and Christina.

This aspect was referred as a “karmic wealth” placement by a Jyotish astrologer (Luna Giselle) which is a very accurate way of summarizing it.

In Vedic, it is called a Mahayoga. It describes how these natives have done a lot of positive deeds in their past lives, and in this lifetime, they get to receive the positive effects of those actions, even though there might be some delays, they will enjoy all the good influences from it regardless.

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✨💑 Navigating the Dance of 7th House Synastry: Planets, Nodes, and Ascendant 💑✨

Sun in the 7th House:

🌟 Illuminating partnership, bringing warmth and vitality to shared connections.

Moon in the 7th House:

🌙 Emotionally attuned to each other, fostering a deep sense of togetherness.

Mercury in the 7th House:

🗣️ Communication takes center stage, creating a harmonious exchange of ideas.

Venus in the 7th House:

💖 Experience love's beauty, find mutual admiration in shared values.

Mars in the 7th House:

⚡ Dynamic energy in partnerships, navigate assertiveness and collaboration.

Jupiter in the 7th House:

🌠 Expand together, seeking growth and abundance in shared experiences.

Saturn in the 7th House:

🪐 Building a solid foundation, commitment through challenges for lasting bonds.

Uranus in the 7th House:

⚡ Unpredictable dynamics, electrifying connection with potential surprises.

Neptune in the 7th House:

🌊 Dreamy romanticism, navigate illusions for a deep soul connection.

Pluto in the 7th House:

🔥 Transformative partnerships, facing intense changes for evolution.

North Node in the 7th House:

🌟 Soul growth through relationships, a karmic journey toward partnership.

South Node in the 7th House:

🌀 Release past patterns, embrace growth and independence in connections.

Ascendant in the 7th House:

🌅 Your outer self merges with partnership dynamics, shaping the relationship's essence.

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Why I've learned to take Goldilocks' approach to interpreting planet & house placements in astrology

Disclaimer: There will be some theory here, some anecdotes, and more than my fair share of yapping, but all I care about is that this makes a positive impact for even one person. Then I'll be glad I didn't leave it in the drafts. :) Also, it's almost 3 AM as I write this, so do with that information what you will LOL.

People tend to over-complicate or oversimplify the planets and houses in astrology. As someone who likes to produce and consume information at the same temperature Goldilocks likes her porridge, I've decided to abandon more pressing matters (my assignment due tomorrow and the 14 asks in my inbox) and talk instead about what approach to astrology I consider to be "just right."

One key thing to remember is that the majority of your natal chart is not actually about you. I know the lions, crabs, water bearers and maidens especially all squirmed a bit, but hear me out. The 1st house and the luminaries (Sun and Moon) are completely about you. YOUR ideals, inner self, core desires, and emotional needs. The way YOU present yourself to the world. These make up your character - the skin you're in, your core personality traits, and your favorite self-imposed customizations. The remaining inner planets (Mercury, Venus, and Mars) and angular houses (4th, 7th, and 10th) still pertain to you, of course, but if you think about it, they extend much further outside of yourself and into various aspects of life and society.

Mercury describes how you think, but also how you communicate those thoughts with others and what kinds of conversations or intellectual environments you thrive in.

Venus shows how you define and express love (or what expressions of love you're drawn to), but also tells you about the kinds of connections you may attract or want to attract (platonic, romantic, etc).

Mars describes how you express emotions like anger and excitement, but also how you move towards (or away from) different people, places and things in life.

The 4th house describes your approach and views on what home and family should look like.

The 7th house reveals what you desire in a spouse, a soulmate or a trusted business partner.

The 10th house describes your attitude towards career and how you "show up" in work environments.

Yes, these are all technically "you," but anything outside of your sun, moon and ascendant placements are less concerned with analyzing and describing you, the lone individual and more concerned with describing the personas you assume to navigate everything else in life. There is a reason why there is one house of "self" and 11 houses meant to guide you through the bigger world outside of you.

I believe fewer people would fly into a panic over things in their natal and synastry charts if they understood that many aspects won't affect them as strongly as they think, especially between outer planets or at weak orbs.

You know, out of curiosity, I looked up the charts of my childhood friends recently. First, the ones born the same year or so as me. Then I broadened my observations outward up to 10 years (I have had a few friends within that many years older or younger than me). If you love astrology as much as I do and haven't tried this yourself yet, you'd be fascinated by how similar charts can be between people all born within certain time periods. With my friend groups, most charts were nearly identical-looking from Uranus to Pluto. The closer in age, the more there were charts that looked nearly the same from as far up as Saturn or Jupiter right on down. Nearly all my age-mates have Uranus and Neptune in Capricorn, Pluto in Scorpio, Saturn in Pisces or Aquarius and Lilith in Taurus or Aries. Half my friend group has Venus in Libra or Scorpio and the other half in Aries or Gemini. I was even surprised by how many of my same-age friends have Lilith in Taurus and Juno in Scorpio like I do. Whenever we all let go of our masks and speak freely and openly, it's quite humbling and also soothing to realize that many of our experiences and struggles really aren't all that unique after all. Perhaps this isn't such good news to an Enneagram 4 (:D) but, generally I think we all do crave that feeling that we're not the only ones going through something.

I share this to illustrate one simple point: the chances are high that the placements/aspects associate with your outer planets will not have the strongest DIRECT impact on you individually. You and others in your peer group are likely in the same big boat or a bunch of matching lifeboats paddling away from the same generational shipwrecks. A similar thing can be said about the succedent (2nd, 5th, 8th, 11th) and cadent houses (3rd, 6th, 9th, 12th). They have more to do with everyTHING and everyONE else in your life and how you relate/react/respond to it all. This is why I'm so against the way many astrology explanations and observations are written. I'm not talking about posts meant to be more entertaining or personal than educational. I'm talking about the posts where you can tell the OP meant for them to be taken 100% seriously, but do little more than spook or scare those who know less than they do.

Last year I met a coworker who asked me to read a synastry chart for her. She wanted a 2nd opinion besides her own, as she had some 12th house synastry with the person and had been in emotional limbo for days because of it. I told her that the direction of the connection was up to her and the person - the charts only show the possibilities - what the beautiful, the good, the bad, and the ugly could look like within that aspect. What did she do? She went to see him, yelled at him for things he hadn't even done yet that she "knew" he was "going to do" because his moon was in her 12th and then blocked him. Came to work as sour as a lime yet excitedly telling me that she had set boundaries with him. Had to bite my tongue; I wanted to say the only thing she set up was an obstacle.

It is so easy to become obsessed with searching for highly specific answers or predictions for day to day life in astrology and that's just not what its for. At least, not in my opinion.

No one is immune to this either.

Let me tell you about the last major time I fell into this trap. This was around 2020. At that time, I noticed 2nd house synastry with my then-partner and immediately sabotage the entire connection. How? Oh, well, because my overstimulated and uninformed pea brain would assume all sorts of things, such as, "Oh they're just with me to eventually try to move in and then get lazy and expect me to pay for everything and drain all my resources." Do these things happen? Of course. Does it make any sense to assume this WILL be the case the moment anyone has their inner planets in my 2nd house? Nope. But I didn't know better and was "too busy" to do my research, so what did I do? Assumed the worst. All the while not really seeing what was going on in front of me. Stumbling over the evidence to pursue a theory instead. And I ended up hurting someone I truly cared about.

Had I slowed down and taken a balanced approach, I would have noticed that while this person had Mercury, Venus and Jupiter in my 2nd house, he also had Mars trine (0°) and Saturn conjunct (4°) my Moon, which to put it simply, would have led me to the bigger, more accurate picture.

So, yes, I had a boyfriend who admired my talents, felt attracted to my generosity and "expensive" looking style (even though I exclusively bargain shop).

Yes, he was very much drawn to the fact that I have an eye for opportunity and manage to be in the right place at the right time to take advantage of them.

However, I failed to notice the part where his Virgo Mars was in harmony with my Capricorn moon. He knew without needing to ask that I really didn't want to be running around handling things all the time the way I've had to for nearly all my adult life. He knew I wanted to feel secure with someone and taken care of at least part of the time, for once. I was too busy panicking over apparent "bad" synastry to notice any of that early on. I didn't notice either that, as the Saturn person, he felt a heavy sense of responsibility for me that cancelled out any reverse gold digging tendencies.

He rarely wanted anything from me and had a hard time accepting gifts or help, yet he offered me both all the time. I didn't always know exactly what things he was stressed about because he spoke another language with his family, friends and business partners, and he usually didn't want to unload it on me, though I told him he could always vent if he needed to and I'd be there to listen. Which I was. But my mistake was getting carried away in misinterpretations and misuse of our astrology information, assuming things like "oh he's saying all this but it's probably future faking," "'he's rarely, if ever affectionate, like on our first dates, I guess it's just a matter of time before probation is over and the money requests are gonna start coming in while he chases someone else" and so on.

Was my ex future-faking? Maybe. Maybe not. I'll never know because I fully assumed that he was. That showed in my behavior which eventually started to reflect in his behavior too, when he got tired of feeling like I would never believe anything he promised to me and that nothing he did would be enough to make me fully trust him. That would break anybody, honestly.

Was he really waiting around to get comfortable and start relying on me for money? Maybe. Maybe not. But he never did. Any money he borrowed, he returned without me having to ask. If I came over, he'd hand me his card for anything I wanted to order. If I used my own card instead, he was actually offended. In fact, he hated when we'd go out and I'd look for the cheapest of everything. The least expensive dish. The dress on sale. If he insisted on paying, I'd try to cover the tip or pay for something else later to keep it even.

But why? Why do that? Oh, well, I had seen that his Saturn was in my 8th house - the house of shared resources - and my overthinking hyper-vigilant ass decided that I needed to "prove" that I wasn't a liability or something. Never mind that the Saturn-Moon conjunction was RIGHT THERE to tell me to relax and not assume the worst outcome for the 8H synastry ...no, no, I just flew right off the deep end and assumed that if I didn't assert (micro) dominance in some way, he'd spoil me long enough for me to get used to it, then start controlling me financially and so on.

Years later, I wonder often if things would have turned out better if I had just calmed the fuck down. If I had let things play out naturally, keeping in mind what COULD happen without acting as if it was BOUND to happen. You know what the worst part about that is? I don't think most of us realize how powerful self-fulfilling prophecies really are sometimes. The negative (and positive) interpretations you can take away from planet and house interpretations are simply possibilities; potential outcomes that will only go that way if fed and watered. I won't step too far into territory I haven't mastered, but I'd like to think it's safe to say the same goes for tarot readings as well.

To sum up this mammoth post

I believe astrology is meant to be only a guide; a helpful resource as you go through the stages of life. It should be your training wheels, not the whole bike. Your driving instructor, not your daily chauffeur. The salt that brings out the flavor in a dish-not the whole dish itself. I think if more of us understood this, there wouldn't be so much fearmongering and generalizations about which aspects and houses are the "villain" in the astrology community.

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FREE CAREER INSIGHTS- VEDIC CHART READING

On the note of 600+ followers and 100 posts in this blog, I have decided to give out free career insights based on your vedic birth chart. ☺💫

Available slots: 10-12

(I'm not taking more than this for the time being as I'm usually slower and also have other commitments that give me time constraints. If this first one turns out to be helpful to ppl, I may consider reopening the same again 💕)

RULES:

1. Must be following this blog

2. Like & Reblog this post

Feedbacks and constructive criticisms are appreciated! 🌸

STEPS:

1. DM me to ask for availability of slots.💚💚

2. If available, send me your vedic birth chart (Sidereal, whole sign) in South Indian chart format, along with the Planet Nakshatra details table. My preferred websites or apps would be Cosmic insights and Prokerala but you can send your chart from any accurate website you follow.💙💙

3. Be respectful, patient and understanding. I take my time to answer.💜💜

These will be just insights based on what I get in the moment while seeing your chart. Take it lightly. Anyways thank you all for your support! ❤❤

With Love-Yashi 💝

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[spiritualseer]

Your Natal Chart and what Side-hustles could be successful for you

If you are deciding what side-hustle can prove successful to you, looking at your natal chart is sure to povide some insights. Keeping in mind your personal capabilities and preference, see the placement of your Sun, Moon, Mars, Venus, and MC (Midhaven) to see which might suit you better.

Aries

Dropshipping, Online Coaching or Personal Training.

Taurus

E-commerce (Handmade Goods or Art), Stock Photography.

Gemini

Blogging, YouTube Channel, Social Media Management.

Cancer

Virtual Assistant, Online Counseling, Cooking/Baking Tutorials (this can also be done if you are a taurus, have taurus placements)

Leo

Influencer, Podcasting, Online Workshops or Classes

Virgo

Freelance Writing or Editing, Proofreading, Online Tutoring

Libra

Social Media Consulting, Graphic Design, Event Planning (Virtual)

Scorpio

Online Trading (Stocks, Cryptocurrencies), Research Services, Investigative Writing.

Sagittarius

Travel Blogging, Online Courses (Philosophy, Languages), Virtual Tour Guide.

Capricorn

Freelance Consulting, Online Business Coaching, Financial Planning Services.

Aquarius

App Development, Crowdfunding Campaigns, Online Activism or Advocacy.

Pisces

Art or Music Lessons, Creative Writing, Spiritual Coaching.

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