#And to stop being so intolerant
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My grandmother has an air fryer a Roku a smart TV a Fire Stick & 2 Stanleys and Im just like... Hello ?
#Also bizarre: she keeps saying that red states are backwards and they need to learn to live and let live#And to stop being so intolerant#And generally implying progressive ideology and how you must change with the times and keep up#But she also keeps misgenderimg and deadnaming me. Unsure how to proceed
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Sometimes I try to write down thoughts about this campaign but I admittedly have not been paying enough attention to feel confident in my character analysis so I write an incoherent text post and then delete it because I don't know if I'm actually making the correct judgments.
#cr spoilers#in the tags#so i'm going to rant in here instead if you keep reading past this you can't get mad at me#anyway i want to talk about ashton#and how they would have been absolutely intolerable in c1 or c2#where every character was invested in saving the world#for one reason or another#and c3 is just like#orym is the only one talking sense and everyone else is just like 'well maybe?'#but matt also said something about being ready for exandria to shift drastically based on their chocie#and if matt weren't ready for exandria to change ashton would be harder to watch than they are now#idk taliesin does quite often play around with hypocrisy with his characters so i'm not really surprised#by ashton claiming to stand up for the little person and then going and being willing to blow up their entire world#like they're not actually thinking about the 'little person'#they're thinking about themselves and that's really it#but yeah i do keep waiting for someone to say something that gives ashton that realization#that they can't use their trauma as an excuse to blow up everyone else's lives#idk i'm running out of steam#it's interesting to watch taliesin play around with this#but i've got to say that if they don't make a fucking choice about what they're actually going to do#idk i'm just ready for them ALL to stop waffling#okay now i'm done#i still have a lot of thoughts but i'd have to rewatch the whole campaign to feel confident in my talking points#and that's not going to happen lol
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the thing that gets me abt religious ppl is they'll demand u respect their religion & that religion hating your existence but they won't respect ur right to be like yea my belief says god isn't real so thats a dumb reason for hating other people or ye ok then ur god is homophobic thats kinda shitty they go APESHIT like. it goes both ways? like they can say i hate gay ppl bc of my religion but when a gay person says well i dont respect that religion bc it doesnt respect me its ww3. I'm not walking on eggshells for people who are too quick to condemn me to hell
#likeeee. ppl have been homophobic to me bc 'their religion condemns it' but i cant be like ok well then fuck ur religion?#but they can say okay fuck you and be hateful and intolerant like that?#why do i tolerate u if u wont tolerate me? im just#like to me as an atheist/agnostic im like. hearing that something i dont even think is real is why u hate me as a person is so insane#like 'its unnatural and wrong bc my religion says so' like ok. why does that have to affect me as someone who doesnt follow said religion#jusr wish more religious ppl were as understanding and non judgemental as they claim they are??#like ur gna say that shit to me? u think god likes that ur speaking for him rn? u rly see urself on the same level as god?#u think YOU can judge others? embarrassing#*smacks own ass* this baby can fit so much religious trauma#i love religion sm for some ppl but then other aspects of it im like why cant yall just modify this as society progresses#them books old as hell them writers didn't even know electricity but ur talking their word abt an entire group of ppl being wrong & evil?#i like when religious ppl apply the teachings to modern society & take into account how shit has changed#when ppl take the good parts of religion and focus on them and bring that religious warmth w them where they go is so nice#(my friends<333)#like they live by them teachings and are good ppl but dc abt divorce or abortion or gays bc society has changed & ppl ultimately deserve#control of their own bodies and shouldnt have to be trapped in bad partnerships#& girls who love other women and dont agree w the typical 'woman serve men' that a lot of religious old folk got goin on#if u can modify some stuff in the religious books whats stopping u extending that grace to literal people just being who they are
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There's a HIGHLY concerning amount of videos by people who have detransitioned, and are speaking against gender-affirming care being, in their words, too accessible. They are frustrated about how nobody stopped them and that everyone was way too supportive and unquestioning, and they have caused 'irreversible damage' to themselves (oh yes, they love that Abigail Shrier book).
They often have this tone about how being trans was just a stupid, cringe phase in their lives. They frame it like they were misguided, too influenced by gender positivity, even though from how they were speaking about it, clearly that gender transition was what they needed at that time, and it made them happy, and it's ok if their identity shifted to something else now.
It's mind-boggling how a person that embraced being trans, even for a brief period of their life, can suddenly go and create so much damage to other trans people. Even if they tried and figured out this is not the right thing for them, there are so many people out there who need to try that path too. Bigots are using these detransitioners as a prime example of why gender-affirming care should be strictly gatekept.
And re: regret and so-called irreversible damage. I am saddened that these people's gender exploration ended in them adopting a close-minded, cis-centric worldview. Because even if their body did undergo changes, one should know that a woman with a deep voice and facial hair is still a woman. And a man with breasts is still a man.
#my gender identity has been changing recently (transmasc->nonbinary feminine leaning) and im trying to find more people who talk about it#but all im seeing is this gatekeepy toxic bullshit!#stop being ashamed of trying different genders!#everyone should be allowed to explore!#this logic is so flawed to me#its like saying dairy should be banned because you drank milk once and found out youre lactose intolerant
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i know my body is doing its best but christ alive.
#keeping it fun and funky fresh#personal#i need a chronic illness tag#i've been doing frankly a lot better in the past week+ bc we got an upstairs window ac#and we've been keeping the house air conditioned bc even tho it gets cool overnight it is incredibly humid all the time (70-90%)#and the ac units take the humidity out from indoors as well as keeping things a consistent cool temp for me#but today i painted so i aired out the house all day. and. it was a mistake.#i feel fucking miserable. i could not get comfortable At All All Day.#also like. i haven't talked about this but i've gained quite a bit of weight in the last 2 years & especially the last 6 months#(being completely sedentary d/t chronic fatigue will do that to ya)#and so a lot of my clothes fit weird and feel bad and i haven't replaced them yet bc i still don't rly know how to shop#for clothing for trans women. especially bc a lot of those clothes are thrift store finds that Happen(ed) to feel good on me#and today i happened to be wearing underwear that i didn't realize were among the no-longer-comfy and the waistband would not stop rolling#and then it'd get pinched between my stomach & my lower abdomen and chafe horribly especially w/ how sweaty & sticky i was#it was just awful. it was just awful. i finally turned the ac back on even tho it's only 70° outside#bc i couldn't stand being in the (currently) 80% humidity anymore#and grayson helped me take a sponge bath after i broke down crying#and now i feel a little better but i'm just. tired. i'm tired & all of this is getting worse & my doctor doesn't seem to give a shit#heat intolerance
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my need to always be wearing an overshirt (hawaiian or flannel) vs the fact that i am super prone to heat exhaustion.....fight!
#upset gremlin noises#this is such a non issue like just don't wear the overshirt!!!#but then my brain feels bad when i'm just in a t shirt and nothing over it#this is like such a stupid thing to be upset about but i'm like I WANNA WEAR MY HAWAIIAN PRINT SHIRTS IN THE SUMMER#EVEN THOUGH EVERY TIME I GO OUTSIDE IN ONE I GET NAUSEOUS AND GET A HEADACHE AND FEEL SUPER UNWELL#i don't like wearing just a hawaiian print shirt either there's like a sensory thing that bothers me#and like i am not exaggerating the heat exhaustion thing#i was in the car today for 20 minutes going from home to the rec centre#and our air conditioning isn't working very well#and i was like noticeably unwell like the lady who runs the program saw me and i came into the rec centre#and she was like are u ok u look unwell is it cause of the heat?#and i was like yeah probably i'm not like sick or anything i just feel awful from being in the car#my meds give me bad heat intolerance#and she told me to be like careful while at the gym and if i get too warm or feeling worse to just straight up stop exercising#and go sit in the lobby where it's air conditioned#so like not wearing an overshirt is like basically a matter of health and safety#but it feels Bad to not wear one :~(
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I gotta be real with you the way people on this webbed site talk about food allergies makes it very clear that you don't have food allergies and you don't know anyone who does
#Genuinely saw someone claiming that restaurant food was safer for people with allergies than frozen food#Girl what#The sheer number of times I've gotten sick from an allergen being in my restaurant food even after I was very clear about my allergies and#Was told that there wasn't anything in the dish I was allergic to#Dairy was a huge issue - it happened all the time! “oh it's not dairy it's just butter” “oh it's milk not dairy milk”#Okay switched to milk and milk products - “no butter isn't milk” gdi#I basically stopped eating at restaurants because of how often it happened#And I was lucky because my allergies weren't anaphylactic#Something where you can see and confirm the ingredients will always be safer for people with allergies than something where you can't#Even now I got lucky I grew out of my allergies but I'm still lactose intolerant#And being able to check ingredients is still very important for me so I don't get sick#Also I love you alternative milks I love you sooooo much
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“how many coffees am I allowed to have in one day” and other questions from the second-to-last day of the half term
#the biggest issue is that I am COLD#and I don’t even need the caffeine it’s just like. my comfort warm drink#‘you could have tea’ I Should Not have chai#bc I have not magically stopped being lactose intolerant#and idk I got some herbal teas I’m just not feeling it#I just like the taste of coffee more ok#anyway I had two coffees before break today bc we were in a cold assembly venue so I Needed It#but now it’s break and I’m like ‘more coffee????’#I also finished marking one set of papers so I feel like I deserve a reward!*#(it was the smallest bit of marking of the like nine sets I have to do but STILL it’s a win#I shall continue my trend of complaining about marking worry not)#text post#my post
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i hope this isnt Creepy and youre not obligated to respond to this at all but youre absolutely not forcing your stories on anyone! at all. all of your works in this series are genuinely worth rereading over and over and i would honestly be so ecstatic to see them on my feed again. i only hope more people can discover your writing through your own self reblogs because of how well you depict and give life to sylus, as well as the reader and its? absolutely unfathomable to me. your influence is so significant to where ive (blissfully) deemed Everything you write canon in my head, and applied your depth to my own depiction of sylus. ....on a very unrelated note im autistic and having the reader be SO similar to me is actually??? shocking??? (terrifying. in a very endearing way which adds onto the many reasons why i love and hold your series to my heart.) and i can only hope you have less doubts about your works in the future because i can confidently reassure you that it will always be a delight to read them, again and again.
So first this is not creepy at all, thank you so much for responding to my tags in the previous anon ask with the reassurance in this message. it's incredible to hear that you not only appreciate how i'm trying to portray sylus, but also feel yourself represented by this mc. i love this mc so much, and it is so therapeutic and fun to write for them, so i'm really happy that other people like you can find that comfort and joy in reading what i'm posting. thank you so much, and i hope i can continue sharing things that make you want to read them again and again.
#sara answers#seriously thank you#my mind is still blown#by this and other feedback i've received#one of the things i'm trying to do with being active on tumblr is force myself to share my stuff and my thoughts despite the anxiety#because i've basically been a silent lurker on here for like 8 years now since i stopped making content for dragon age#just reblogging stuff and maybe rambling in the tags#so it's just nice to be able to remind myself that my content and view on things aren't intolerable to people because of feedback like this#thank you again <3
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#holy fuck. knock on wood. fingers crossed. press my thumbs. i think the pain is cycling down#like probably its this bad bc my body is weak from fighting an allergic reaction and i think lam1ctal can cause some menstral issues#but like holy fuck. i cannot go thru that again. just hours of being nauseous and crumpled in pain#i was very very very seriously considering going to the hospital. but like ive ridden in an ambulance before and i dont wanna spend like#1000 dollars to go like 10min down the road. bullshit. god i hope its stopping#it was just like so much pain i didnt kno what to do. absolutely intolerable. ugh.#please dont let this happen tomorrow 🙏 please please please. i have to teach#and ny roommate is staying here the next 2 nights after not seeing her for like months#y now? 😭 im gonna have to b like hi *visibly disheveled* if i talk i might puke. bye.#i wish i could just sleep thru this. ibuprofen is not helping 😭#im just worried if i went to the hospital theyd make me wait for hours in the waiting room. shaking with pain. and then id b fine by the#time they got to me. like yea srry i was jusy being a lil bitch abt a normal bodily process lol. god. ppl with high levels of chronic pain#how tf do u do it? i dont think im strong enough. but i guess u probably get used to it. god that sucks so bad#ugh. i wish my mom was here. i want her to just pet my hair until i feel better 😭 but nooo shes going off to have fun in canada#so she's gonna b even farther from me than normal 😭#unrelated
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damn your art's fucking uglyyyyy
omg you guys look!!! first hate comment of 2024!!! should I print it out and frame it do you think?
#the second I post blonde nico di angelo too#surely thats not related#(pjo fans maybe yall should cool it and stop being so intolerant <3 this isn't the hp fandom now is it?)#whatsitzface hall of fame
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Fellow people with food restrictions: am I the only one who periodically despairs for the inability to eat out and have food that's actually good? I just get so frustrating and yearning sometimes. I have cried over this more than once and I feel vaguely ridiculous about it because everyone else seems to just accept their restrictions and move on with their lives. But it really fucking hurts some days. I just feel so left out of normal human experiences. Does anyone else feel like this?
#food tw#food allergies#dietary restrictions#gluten intolerance#i just want american restaurant food and i can't have it unless i drive an hour to the only gluten free restaurant for hundreds of miles#i'm usually so normal about this but sometimes i just wanna grieve all the things i can never experience again. or ever.#it's so much worse since i stopped being able to eat dairy too#gluten free is one thing#multiple food restrictions is so much harder. my options have gone from slim to almost nothing
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trying to find hearty, high protein, low added sugar breakfast options (store bought or recipes) when you can't eat eggs, bananas, almonds, avocado, or any kind of artificial sweeteners is so hard I hate it
#love having weird internal only food allergies/intolerances#also i hate cooking fpr many reasons#i miss bananas and eggs so much#only stopped being able to eat them like 5 years ago
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#I hate to say I have trauma from having a dog stolen from my own home#because like… it doesn’t exactly effect my day to day life more severely than being unable to think about anything else than#if the dogs are safe in the yard if they’re out while I’m not physically watching them. which. I can’t do every minute they’re outside.#because they go out a lot#so there is a lot of anxiety and dread and fear around it but it’s not uncontrollable or intolerable#but it’s there and it permeates everything I do with my dogs#I was protective of Luna and constantly worried about losing her and then I DID so now I’m doubling down#and really it’s not like I’m definitely 100% going to prevent anything bad from happening by all the worrying and strategizing#but I can’t stop#I don’t want pity or anything I’m just trying to lay out some thoughts
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honestly when i started using a different email provider for my main email gmail quickly got so annoying.. its so messy and theres fucking ads on my email inbox? like. no youre not allowed to put fucking ads in between my emails thats fucking insane. how did i allow that to be a thing for years.
#97#when you make the moves to avoid ads as much as possible being exposed to a fraction of what you used to is intolerable#i hear about the insanity of youtube ads now and i think like. if youtube managed to prevent all ad blockers like they wanna#i definitely would stop using youtube? im not sure what id watch but ik i could not put up w that#anyway i still check my other gmail addresses bc i use them for annoying sites#like if i HAVE to put in my email somewhere to look at something.. or for shopping sites thatre gonna send me ads no matter what#i just use other emails so that my main one remains focused on shit i actually wanna read
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I should make Others, but now you're all on a date with a the boi-- If you see this, you're on a date with him, sorry I don't make the rules <3
(Before anyone gets concerned, I am 10000% joking, Unless You're Into That, in which case be my guest-- Take the him on a date--)
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#not important#chaotic picrew#organishin#desert doktorspiele#i should be posting some of my actual art sometime#but rn the only thing i'd want to post i Cannot#so hopefully i make something to show off in the future <3#i feel like im using the <3 a lot recently but listen--#i'm feeling good so don't stop me now--#picking a food for the boi to have wound up actually being impossible#because i have a very uncanon headcanon that#Dottore has a severe texture intolerance when it comes to eating#so he can only really consume liquids and smooth semi-solids#so my brain was like 'cute food?? incorrect'#v sad i will have to remedy this with any other characters i post--
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