#Age gap relationships

[northopalshore]

Hi!

Since you did older spouse indicators, can you make a post about younger spouse indicators please? ♡

I knew this one was coming, so I came prepared! From 1-3 years younger to Milf manor & Leonardo DiCaprio standards (slightly illegal) lol. Older spouse indicators post.

Younger spouse Indicators

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In the Natal chart

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❀*̥˚ Cancer in the 7th house

❀*̥˚ Moon in the 7th house

❀*̥˚ Mercury in the 7th house

❀*̥˚ Briede in Cancer

❀*̥˚ Pisces 7th house

❀*̥˚ 7th house ruler conjunct moon

❀*̥˚ 7th house ruler conjunct mercury

❀*̥˚ 7th house ruler conjunct venus/uranus

❀*̥˚ Groom in cancer/virgo

❀*̥˚ Briede in cancer/virgo

❀*̥˚ Briede/ Groom in 3rd/4th house

❀*̥˚ 7th house ruler in 3rd/4th house

❀*̥˚ Venus in Libra & Mars in Scorpio combo

❀*̥˚ Venus in cancer or virgo

❀*̥˚ Mars in cancer or virgo

❀*̥˚Venus in leo, mars in aquarius (usually in a woman's chart) it's a milf placement lmaoo

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In the Juno, Groom & Briede Persona chart

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❀*̥˚ Briede/Groom in cancer

❀*̥˚ Briede/Groom in 4th house or 3rd house

❀*̥˚ Briede in Virgo(6°,18°)/Cancer (4°, 16°, 28°)or in those degrees

❀*̥˚ Venus in leo or leo degrees (5°,17°,29°)

❀*̥˚ 7th house ruler in Cancer/Pisces/Virgo including degrees

❀*̥˚7th house ruler in cancer degree

❀*̥˚7th house ruler in libra & in a cancer degree (age gap)

❀*̥˚ Venus in leo & mars in Capricorn combo (including degrees)

Aside from Cancer & Virgo being an obvious sign of a younger spouse, I found that both Leo & Libra also play a part quite often. Aries shows up a couple of times, just not as often as the other placements.

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Vedic chart

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❀*̥˚ Moon Darakaraka (dk)

❀*̥˚ Mercury Darakaraka (dk)

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Thank you for reading!

@northopalshore

@northopalshore 2024 younger spouse indicators.

[dearlyunknown]

i like older men but the idea of having a power imbalance is so unappealing, i don't understand finding that hot at all. i just like men older than me, it doesn't have to be weird or abusive or anything. i know there is potential for abuse of power dynamic in age gap relationships but there doesn't have to be. i don't want that. when i read posts by other people who want older men it's always like "ohh i want to be his little boy and have him do all the adult chores for me and take care of me 24/7 and be possessive and responsible for me 🥺🥺🥺" but that just turns me off so much. i'm an adult. i want it to be equal. i want to have responsibilities and do things too. especially because i'm disabled, i don't want to have to be looked after all the time. i think my mother worries i'll end up getting hurt bc of my interest in older men. but i know it doesn't have to be like that. she is supportive of my interest in 🚞, while warning me about the potential dangers of age gap relationships. i read a lovely article about queer age gap relationships with like 10+/20+/30+ year age gaps and it made me happy that it's possible and that people do have happy relationships despite their differences in age and despite the fact they're at different points in their life. and like any other relationship it requires work and understanding and communication and space etc. idk where i'm going with this.

[onceuponaweirdo]

i'm gonna rant to y'all for some bit, bare with me.

something that pisses me off in age gap fiction is the "you're still young" speech. Like i get it, there is an indecisiveness that comes associated with being 20 something young and having your whole adulthood waiting for you to be lived, but what really nics at me is the "you might want something else in the future" as if they can't know what they want now. My dearest, we all might want something else in the future and that is perfectly fine, "oh but what would be of the relationship then?" first of all, there's two of you and that's more than enough to hold a serious and adult conversation about the future and prospectives and what both expect to achieve from it. Why do we gotta put this "you're still young" as the breaking point? (I say that fully aware that I have done it as well in my writings)

but why can't it ever be "You like dolls and I find them creepy" like find some other silly reason, other than "you're adulting".

[r0semultiverse]

💜 Love being intimate with someone a few years older & a few years younger than me. So many cultural exchanges like music or what was popular in school, it’s all rather fascinating. Add on to the fascinations when one of them is from another country & culture. 🖤 Queer t4t age gap relationships are very pleasant! 💖

[agegapandtckindoflove]

I drunk texted J tonight because my mom and I got tipsy off red wine on a Monday night and I overthought the conversation I had on the phone with him earlier and I need validation that I didn’t interrupt his time with his family.

I’m so beyond sad that I have feelings for him because I can never act, and hope I never act, on them because I know his dad had an affair and it crushed him while he was in college.

I am so torn with wanting to confess everything and run away but also with keeping it secret and hidden and always living never knowing what he would say.

Also nightmares are scary and I hate them.

[the-henry-cavillian]

Unveiling The Ladies: A Look At Henry Cavill's Dating Life In Hollywood

Henry Cavill is a British actor who has captured the hearts of many with his good looks, charming personality, and exceptional acting skills. He has had a successful career in the film industry, starring in movies such as "Man of Steel," "Mission: Impossible - Fallout," and "The Witcher." However, aside from his successful career, he has also been in the spotlight for his dating life. In this article, we will take a closer look at the girls that Henry Cavill has dated.

Ellen Whitaker

Henry Cavill's first public relationship was with British equestrian Ellen Whitaker. The two started dating in 2009 and were engaged in May 2011. However, the engagement was called off in August 2012. According to reports, the couple split due to their busy schedules and long-distance relationship.

Gina Carano

After his split with Whitaker, Cavill was linked to American actress and martial artist, Gina Carano. The two started dating in 2012, and their relationship lasted for around a year before they called it quits in 2014. According to reports, their busy schedules and distance were the main reasons for their breakup.

Kaley Cuoco

In July 2013, Cavill was linked to American actress Kaley Cuoco, famously known for her role in the popular sitcom "The Big Bang Theory." The two were spotted on a few dates, and their relationship was confirmed by various media outlets. However, their relationship was short-lived and only lasted for a few weeks.

Marisa Gonzalo

Henry Cavill's next rumored relationship was with Marisa Gonzalo, a stuntwoman from Spain. The two were first spotted together in 2014, and rumors of their relationship surfaced soon after. However, the relationship was short-lived, and the couple called it quits after a few months.

Tara King

In 2015, Cavill started dating Tara King, a British college student who was 13 years younger than him. The couple met at a London nightclub and hit it off instantly. Their relationship was not without controversy, as many criticized the age gap between them. However, the couple remained together for around a year before calling it quits in 2016.

Lucy Cork

After his split with King, Cavill was linked to Lucy Cork, a British stuntwoman whom he met on the set of "Mission: Impossible - Fallout." The couple made their relationship public in 2017 and were often spotted together at various events. However, their relationship was short-lived and ended in 2018.

Rebecca Ferguson

In 2018, Cavill was linked to Swedish actress Rebecca Ferguson, his co-star in "Mission: Impossible - Fallout." The two were rumored to be dating, and they were often seen together at various events. However, neither of them confirmed their relationship, and the rumors eventually died down.

Natalie Viscuso

Henry Cavill's current girlfriend is Natalie Viscuso, an American executive who is the Vice President of Television and Digital Studios at Legendary Entertainment. The couple made their relationship public on Instagram in April 2021, and they have been together ever since. They often share pictures of each other on social media and seem to be going strong.

In conclusion, Henry Cavill has had a fair share of relationships throughout his career. While some of his relationships were short-lived, others lasted for a longer period. Despite the ups and downs of his dating life, Cavill has always remained professional and focused on his career. With his talent and good looks, he is undoubtedly one of the most eligible bachelors in Hollywood. We wish him all the best in his future endeavors, both in his personal life and his career.

[360iris]

I have a few thoughts about the jesse rutherford/billie dating thing but the most prominent point has to do with the recent interview she did

where she was like “he’s a hot mfer and not only does he know I exist- I managed to bag him, can I get a round of applause for that?” and then the crew ACTUALLY CLAPS

And this statement finally lets us in on her current mentality, and it confirms a lot of what people have been worried about.

Yes, we don’t know these people, but it is not as though she’s the first, or last, freshly 20 year old girl to get involved with a 31 year old man and made to feel lucky and significantly more worthy because he’s given her his seal of approval.

Not only is this mindset of being “lucky enough to picked” extremely demeaning to these girls in the long run, it also proves that there is a significant power imbalance present in the relationship.

Personally, I feel as though all women should have a certain amount of fck you energy towards men, no matter how kind, well mannered and interesting they are-

But I say that ONLY BECAUSE— when you start putting folks on exceptionally high pedestals and thinking they’re the next best thing since sliced bread, it is only a matter of time before you stop seeing them as they are: which are HUMAN BEINGS.

If you are not able to hold people accountable for their choices and actions, you will be opening yourself up to manipulation games- especially when it’s someone with 10 years of life experience and maturity under their belt.

Anyway, at the end of the day, it’s very rare for people to learn from the mistakes or failings of others without having it happen to them. So she most definitely won’t be the last woman/girl to do this. I just wish they wouldn’t act like everyone else doesn’t have a clue what the fuck we’re preaching and trying to warn them about.

[mckitterick]

Writers: don't do this

don't respond to reviews that aren't meant for you, and really don't start fights with readers

in fact don't read reviews unless you're in a really good place. those are just to help potential readers decide if they want to read your work

reading a romance novel where the protagonist feels the need to stop and inform that audience that it's okay for her, a 27 year old, to hook up with a 31 year old because despite the age difference both of their brains are fully developed. the Discourse really has done incalculable damage.

[dearlyunknown]

he liked my new facebook icon so clearly he wants me so bad right?????

[blackgirlslivingwell]

Should Young Black Women Date Older Men? Is It A Scam?

[transfigurationofelle]

Dating Diaries #2 ~ keeping my roster active

As much as I like Z, a girl's gotta keep her roster active! But quite frankly, I'm just having fun with it. I sort of have a love for meeting new people and having different experiences, it's interesting.

So I went on a date yesterday with a new guy, P, and he was straight to the point. I loved it. His sense of clarity and forwardness is really attractive. He's not in my social circle but I've bumped into him a couple of times at events and the attraction between us kept getting more and more intense each time. But attraction is just attraction without action and exploration, so I didn't really bother to think much of our interactions. He somehow found me on instagram on Monday and Dmed me. He greeted and got straight to the point that he'd love to take me out for dinner and I gladly agreed. He took me to a Japanese fine dining place and I had so much sushi loool. If a woman eating a lot is turnoff to him, I am so sorry 😂 (not). It was nice actually getting to know him in a quiet environment since we are always seeing each other in noisy places and having brief conversations. He totally gets my humor which is a major green flag. I found myself opening up wayyy too much which is something I don't usually do. I don't know why it was happening. But looking back, there was just a specific kind of comfort I've never felt before. I love it when I experience new, exciting and intense feelings on a first date. Makes it so much fun, even though I like to take things sloooooow.

After dinner he got straight to the point that he was instantly intrigued by me but had to slowly build up the courage to ask me out – then he saw me on insta and decided that was his shot. That annoyed me a bit but whatever. He says he hasn't been in a relationship in a long time but at this point he's just ready to settle down, so if things develop between us that will be his approach. I'm rather neutral about it. I'm open but that's to whoever makes a notable impact in my life.

And omg! of course he's super successful! I just love who I keep on attracting. He's a business guy but what caught my interest is that he's actually doing something on the creative side, it's refreshing.

In regards to my roster, there are two others that I haven't mentioned yet but that's because there isn't anything that exciting to say about them. There's short T and tall T. I'm not feeling it at all with tall T, we haven't spoken for a few days but when he does message I'll just let him know. Short T on the other hand is super fun but that's all I'm getting. I enjoy my time with him but idk if it will lead to anywhere. I'll probably give it another two dates and if nothing comes out of it I'd love to remain friends. I need some guy friends who are only friends lol.

[morganbritton132]

Want to make a minor adjustment to my Steve With Much Older Siblings post from yesterday. I think it’d be a much more interesting dynamic if he’s actually their half sibling from an affair.

Their father had an affair with his secretary and then married her when she got pregnant. It broke up their family and they blamed Steve for it for years.

When they stayed over for their weekend with Dad, they were either outright cruel to him or pretended he didn’t exist. When they were old enough to stop coming over, they did. It’s only after growing up and maturing that (most of) his siblings were able to acknowledge that Steve was never at fault for their family breaking up.

They tried to mend their relationship with him, especially after realizing how absent his parents are, but by then Steve was old enough to build up his own resentment. It’s an uphill battle.

It’s a lot of actually coming around for holidays and a lot of teasing when they do. It’s actually picking the phone when the hospital calls, something that’s happening with increasing frequency.

Steve has never asked any of them for anything until one day, he shows up on Richie’s front porch smelling like death and gasoline. He’s got blood drying all over him and is visibly shaking, and Richie thinks that he’s been hurt in the earthquake but Steve barely acknowledges the concern, “I need you to represent my friend.”

“What?”

“You’re the only lawyer I know, and -“ Steve takes a big shuttering breath. “They’ll kill him, Rich. He never hurt anybody but no one will listen. They’ll lock him up and it won’t be fair, and Dustin can’t… I never ask you for anything but. But I need…”

“Eddie Munson?” He asks incredulous. “You’re friends with Eddie Munson?”

[gaynoreevans]

TOYBOY DATING - ASK GAYNOR - EVERYONE'S AGONY AUNT

[joelmillermylove]

Flowers for my girl 💐 (Blurb)

Warning: Just a bunch of fluff! 🥰

Pairing: Olderbf!Joel miller x f!reader

A/N: oh how I wish a man like Joel milller would bring me flowers just because he was thinking about me 😩

The door opens quietly, and Joel steps inside, eyes softening the moment they land on you. He’s had a long day at work and all we wanted was to see your face. In his hand, he’s holding a small bouquet of wildflowers, a handful of bright colors cradled in his rough, work-worn fingers. There’s a gentleness in his gaze as he walks over, his expression somewhere between tender and a little bit shy.

“Flowers for my girl,” he says, voice thick with warmth. “Couldn’t stop thinkin’ about you all day” Thought you might like somethin’ pretty.”

You take the flowers from him, feeling your heart swell at the unexpected gift. The blooms are a simple mix of wild colors, but somehow they feel more beautiful than anything you could imagine. He wanted to make you smile, just because he could.

Looking up at him, you can see the quiet love in his eyes, the way he’s watching you like he’s been craving you all day. He reaches up, his hand gently cupping your face, his thumb brushing over your cheek in a soft, steady touch. The world feels quieter, softer, as you lean into his warmth.

“Thank you baby” you whisper, voice full of emotion. You press the flowers close, breathing in their fresh scent as you let his love settle over you, warm and steady, like his love for you.

He pulls you into his arms, holding you close, you smell his Cologne, citrus and pine and the smell always made you feel safe. “I love you sweetgirl” his voice barely above a whisper.

You look up at Joel into his big brown eyes and smile “I love you, joel Miller”.

[dearlyunknown]

🚞 is wonderful, i really don't think i've ever met anyone who's so "my type" before. i wish i knew how to flirt. i also hope he doesn't know i like him because i'm worried the 28 year age gap would make him awkward. it's not the biggest age gap i've ever heard of. in an article i read about queer age gap relationships, there was one couple who had a 34 year age gap and were happily married. it was a very sweet article but i can't go back and read it because it makes me yearn lmao 😔 it gives me some sort of false hope that 🚞 might like me back. when in reality i think an age gap that big would make most people uncomfortable.

[jesuistrestriste]

cw (18+): sub!art, afab + femme!character, age gap, crying/dacryphilia, art being a sad and lonely hot guy in his forties, tashi and art never really got together, creampie

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dilf!art getting with a pretty young thing from down the block. . .

he always admired her effortless confidence and the way her body moved when she walked down the street to the corner store every weekend.

always watched her return from his brownstone apartment window; a pack of cinnamon gum and a case of peach seltzer in her hands.

she’s beautiful and bouncy and everything he didn’t get to have in his youth when he was too sucked into tennis to let himself live a little. he lost tashi to patrick. that was that. and he never tried dating again until about ten or so years ago.

they were all flings that crashed and burned their way through his thirties. meaningless moments where all he was left with was a wet dick and a heaviness in his chest. he hated it. he was done with it.

until her.

she was different.

she sparked a conversation with him one day when they ran into each other outside his doorstep. she was cracking jokes that only made her seem more intriguing because art didn’t understand the social context behind them— he was no longer hip and cool, he’d accepted it. but that, combined with the pop of her hip she did when she was making him laugh (not to mention the way she smacked her gum + batted her lashes when she smiled; all pearly whites) made him feel like even more of a creep.

but now she’s bouncing on his cock and gazing down at him while he gasps and squirms like a livewire underneath her.

they’ve only really known each other for a week and a half.

“say thank you, Artie,” she purrs, her hand tracing the spattered flush on his chest, “say it.”

he bucks his hips up as much as he can to meet her movements, and bites his lip hard enough to taste metal when his tip bumps her cervix.

“thank you, oh my god, thank you— thank you, thank you—! ha-aah-!”

he babbles; a broken record of whines and shaky moans. his throat hurts from all of the sounds being pulled from him when the most he’s talked all month has come from just a couple of boring, remote interviews about his athletic career.

and her, of course.

god, it’s all her..

he swallows and keens, and then his eyes are watering.

and then he’s sobbing. he’s choking on his tears and yet he’s still feeling the tight coil of warmth tense further and further and further-

“don’t cry,” she whispers, leaning down to kiss the wetness from his cheeks, her hips swiveling to ride him harder just as the first slimy blurt of his orgasm spills inside, “you’re a good boy, okay? you’re perfect… a total catch…”

she smells like candy. she’s wiping his tears now.

“oh fuck, thank you-uu—hnghh!”

art lifts his hips, his face crumpling with pleasure and sadness, before he yelps and his climax wipes him out. his whole body trembles as he feels his cock pulse and coat her pussy with gooey clots of his spend. he’s practically wheezing.

he grips onto her hips fiercely; like if he doesn’t squeeze hard enough she’ll just go *poof*, and then he’ll be alone again.

“.. ungh, ‘m sorry, im cumming inside you, im cumming, im so sorry,” he whimpers, the aftershocks leaving him feeling bare and weak. stripped of all of his armor. if he even had any left to begin with.

she kisses his shoulder gently, and then she’s dipping her glossy lips down to whisper right next to his ear. her dainty necklace chills his skin when it dangles from her body and meets his collarbone. she’s so close to him.

“don’t worry, Mr. Donaldson…

you’ll be a great daddy.”