#A Duke For All Seasons

[jolieeason]

March 2023 TBR

February has flown by for me (I don’t know about you guys). Indie Authors/Publishers From Author From Author From Author A Paroxysm of Fear by Chad Miller From Author NetGalley From Random House Publishing Group – Ballantine, Ballantine Books From St. Martin’s Press, St. Martin’s Griffin From St. Martin’s Press, Wednesday Books From St. Martin’s Press, Minotaur Books From St. Martin’s…

[birdsbats-madness]

these guys are too cute (read: some of my favourite panels)

[duketibbitswaifu]

🎀 Art made by SPRWIFE 🎀

🌸 Dukey and me and love to watch TV together~11!!!!! 🥰 He likes to watch shows like ✨ Pawn Stars and game shows, 💕 but I love to get him to movies with me!!! 🌸

🌺 I always cry at the endings <333 🍰 He calls me stupid for it, 🍓 but I know he feels the same way~1!!!11! 🌺

[youdontneedhenry]

One positive about shipping Scarnash is that I can continue watching the show exactly as I did in season 1-4: ignoring the inspector character 😌. If we had hope for Scarnash in the face of Duke confessing his love, we can definitely hope for Scarnash in light of this new random guy 😌 we are not in the endgame yet.

[wildflowercryptid]

doodles of cliff at 29 years old, thriving while living in mineral town & making new friends during his delivery trips to forgotten valley!

[poppytuft]

the bear s3 spoilers

below the cut! thinking about claire and stuff we saw this season re: carmy/syd/the restaurant/donna, just finished the season so itll be a mess and also im comin in way too hot on this so my bad

sometimes...... sometimes i believe you guys are all watching different tv. im not sure how this season didnt feel like a direct through line from s2?? and im not sure WHY everyone is SO MAD about claire LITERALLY "haunting" this season. girl. come on. we need to have a sit down talk about how the berzatto generational trauma is the real meat of this show (this will make sense, just trust me). thats the MAIN EMOTIONAL POINT. syd's relationship with her dad, marcus and his mom, richie and evie, even tina and louie are all examples of parental relationships that are tender, sweet, supportive, etc. these are INTENTIONAL!! by creating these relationships we see PLAINLY how fucked donna is and how much she fucked up all of these kids. thats why "ice chips" was such a FANTASTIC episode. there was SO MUCH unpacked, so much revealed, so much worked through with sugar and her but at the end of the day she's still learning how to unlearn all of this horrific narcissistic bullshit. SHES STILL UNLEARNING THOUGH. thats where fucking DONNA of all people sits right now——somehow, she's learning how to heal. EVERYONE IS LEARNING. that's also what is so important about that episode.

now lets look at carmy. in "ice chips" we are LITERALLY told about how each berzatto is born: mikey fighting against the idea of being alive at all, nat into a quiet, soothing room, and CARMY is fucking born into EVERYONE SCREAMING and ARGUING and FIGHTING. we are BLATANTLY told that all carmy has ever known is HELL and all he's ever known how to communicate is through exploding. this is so violently against what we also know about his personality from childhood in "fishes" (anxious growing up, arts-oriented, had a hard time making friends). now, he works a violently stressful job, processing the trauma from both his mother (and chef fields [joel mchale], realistically) through the high-stress environment.

NOW. ENTER CLAIRE.

HOW is she not fascinating to you all. we don't see her whole story (because the bear, duh) but we are given just enough pieces here to put together that her story runs parallel to carmy's. how are you not getting this. walk with me.

claire. glasses, nerdy, quiet, sweet, girl next door. family friend! cute, but considered mid for a long time by everyone at school, but suddenly the berzatto men all badger carm, "oh she got a glow up, oh shes looking for you, she wants to see you," etc etc etc. what happened in between?

she finds herself. she finds the stressful thing she LOVES, which is the hospital. her job is objectively more stressful than carmy's (illustrated by that scene earlier in the season but i forgot the episode, where claire talks about the girl who got her shit wrecked by the glass table), and while we don't have an exact understanding of what her home life was like, we understand that her and carmy both have a level of internal anxiety that thrives on the stress of their careers. HOWEVER, claire does it because she loves it. carmy just doesn't know how to stop.

this is what makes claire feel like "peace" to carmy——because her high-stress job is a choice, an active choice she is making because it fulfills her. it's not to prove her dead brother wrong, or to honor his own legacy, or to prove that dickbag boss wrong, or to leave a mark on the world, or to make her own life worthwhile, or to prove that she doesn't need anyone else. she genuinely enjoys helping people even when the days are stressful, or scary. he's obsessed with this. he wants to know how she does this. every day she leaves that stress at home——and he wants to learn how to do that too.

claire is VITAL to this season and to understanding carmy's stress——and how far back he is in his healing process. it should only become more and more apparent, as we see characters like tina (the beef/the bear became vital to her success/development as a chef AND person, both for the people AND her love of food), marcus (not hiding his grief, but using it to help rationalize how much his mother loved him and wanted to be surrounded by people that love him), and richie (finding a purpose through service/expo and understanding he can start over again) push through their own traumas and struggles to become better people. if donna can be not only present at sugar's bedside during labor, but WELCOMED at this point in the show, it makes carmy's inability to heal all the more present. claire is an important part of this puzzle: she helps us see a window into a world where carmy is balanced emotionally, but unbalanced professionally, because he has no idea how to make the two coexist.

however, the idea that he can be balanced emotionally at all is so fucking enticing——with the help of someone who experiences stress in the same way as him (and who is familiar with his familial trauma), he has the opportunity to grow up and move on from his family trauma and wounds perpetuated by the industry he works in.

on the flip side of this....... his inability to process any of this is starting to impact syd. and frankly, that's some bullshit. his lack of communication, inability to community build/trust ANYONE, and his violent stubbornness is pushing her into the same space that he was in under chef fields, in a much slower, more subtle manner, and for slightly different reasons. her panic attack at the end of the season could read in two directions to me: her stress over the responsibility of changing so many people's lives has boiled over once she remembered that the beef once was truly great (hey five star review on the fridge!), OR, she realizes how much she isn't in it for the food. fuck a Michelin star: she wants to cook with her family. chef terry says at the end of "forever", in the garage with carmy, that she's so grateful she got to do whatever she wanted, whenever she wanted, where she wanted, with the people she wanted to do it with. sydney is so close to having those things at the bear——but carmy's dysfunction is keeping it just out of arms reach. the two of them are now on opposite sides of the approach from last season: syd dying for a star, and carmy dying to cook for the woman he loved. now, carmy is hungy for recognition again, desperate to prove something, and sydney is remembering (thanks to the conversation with other chefs during the ever funeral service) why she loved cooking in the first place. so this leaves us to wonder: should she stick it out? for the people? or make something of herself? is she carmy, or is she terry? i guess we will just have to see.

all this to say: every character is connected. the bear is a show about family, found and blood, and the choices we make for, with, and because of the people we love, for better or for worse. food is only the center of it, because it's the center of all of our lives. you can't hate claire without understanding where she sits in the web of the berzatto family. and really, you can't hate her if you understand what her presence means for carmy, for syd, and the restaurant as a whole.

[kanerallels]

Don't you just love it when you've briefly stepped away from an obsession but then you get new content to do with it and it results in you going Absolutely Insane about it again?

[coconut530]

BITTERSWEET REUNIONS

[laughableillusions]

Does anyone else see it

[mntdewgreen]

never been more excited for a show IM GONNA THROW UP EVERYWHERE MY HEART FOR THESE CRUSTY AILENSSSSSSSSS

[jolieeason]

Bookish Travels---February 2023 Desinations

I saw this meme on It’s All About Books and thought, I like this!! So, I decided to do it once a month also. Many thanks to Yvonne for initially posting this!! This post is what it says: Places I travel to in books each month. Books are lovely and take you to places you would never get to. That includes places of fantasy too!! Bon Voyage!! Please let me know if you have read these books or…

[navree]

i can think of a hundred million bazillion better ways to end a joker-centric arc than a fucking batman/catwoman teamup

[dukeofthomas]

Something I really especially love about btas is that every character is just… a human. Batman doesn't just show up and incapacitate 30 people no issue, he has to fight and brawl with just 1 or 2 henchmen. He can be taken out by hits and poisons and such. The rogues have to surrender when the cops get guns to their faces, and can be overpowered even by normal people. Joker isn't some pure evil incarnation of the Devil or whatever, he's just… a really bad man. Same for every other villain and character. And Bruce actually gets to show personality and emotion beyond Brooking and Grunting. He makes jokes and laughs and gets sad.

I'm really getting to understand why people call this the best Batman adaptation.

[therogerclarkfanclub]

This is the latest update to my header image 😊, at least until Damn Handy and Fruili come out.

If you happen to be wondering which are the characters he's playing, I got you covered fam 😉

Duke Theseus - A Midsummer Night's Dream

Bradley - Buried Child

Lord Henry - The Picture of Dorian Gray

Kevin - Comp

Chuck Brewer - Perfect Disaster

Brian McNeely - A Death to Die For

"Guard 1" - Rawmouth

Captain Wier - The Wild West (Episode: Custer's Last Stand)

(As himself) - Hazardous

Randolph Blythe - A Writer's Retreat

The Boss - Happy Birthday To Me

Jack Leary - Fort Solis

"Patron" - Zero Hour

Chris - In Your Image

Arthur Morgan - Red Dead Redemption 2

Michael Starkwedder - The Unexpected Guest

Matt Burke - Anna Christie

King Henry VIII - A Man For All Seasons

[fauvester]

bridgerton s2 was SUCH a clayhoun slay. thots in tags

[cementcornfield]

ok last link for the day (i'm just full of info i wanna share tonight apparently lmao) but this is a GREAT video explaining the bengals cap space, cash, and the ways they can realistically sign tee, trey, and ja'marr long term this offseason. AND still have plenty left over to spend in free agency.

(ignore the incredibly cheesy obnoxious intro. there are many things i like about this guy but also many things i hate lmao.)