#...so... what benefit do I get from a diagnosis other than an existential one of getting to know?
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#that by the way is why I'll never bother looking into if I'm autistic or have ADHD#there's... there's sure a lot of stuff there that sounds familiar#but like... what would I get with a diagnosis?#medical bias and potential discrimination from various groups and entities; same as everyone gets out of it (which is fucking bullshit)#what do I gain?#well... I'm not willing to take the deal with the devil of disability cause I've got a house and I'd like to be allowed to make money#what they'd offer me would help but not enough to compensate what I'd lose#and I have no intention of taking ADHD medication cause... I'm so fucking close to making stuff work#rather work on figuring out how to accommodate myself rather than deal with the hassle of medication#like my insomnia makes it so even antibiotics are a pain to deal with for a week#I don't want to deal with taking a med; especially when then I have side effects to deal with; not when I've almost got things worked out#this isn't anti medication; I'm all for people taking what helps them; I just don't think it would help me#as in; even if I have ADHD and these meds fit my biology perfectly I don't think they'd help more than the downsides they'd bring#(like having to pay for them and get ahold of them when I'm 50 miles from a pharmacy)#so no disability and no meds cause I turn both of those things down#...so... what benefit do I get from a diagnosis other than an existential one of getting to know?#far as I see it's nothing; and like... gotta accommodate myself either way; I can forgo closure in return for no dealing with bullshit#it's wrong that those diagnoses bring bullshit down on people; it's sick frankly#but it's also a fact and I don't need to deal with it#it won't get me any damn help; so I'm better off just continuing to slowly try and sort shit out myself
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The Death of a Timeline
I think there is a point in each personās life where all the challenges, insecurities, and denial, coalesces and rises to the surface in the form of a soul-stopping crisis. For some people, this may only happen once, but most of us will experience it multiple times and under varying conditions. Whether we are thrown into uncertainty by the death of a loved one, the loss of a job, or āhitting rock-bottomā in our addiction, we all reach a point where the current conditions of our lives become so unbearable that immediate action is required. Whether that action comes in choosing whether to go to rehab for our gambling habit, to go to counseling for our family dysfunction, or to flee an abusive relationship, we know that it all amounts to the same dilemma; change or stay the same.
I used to think that the primary changes I needed to make in my life were external. I looked forward to milestones such as obtaining a decent job, finishing community college, and moving into my own apartment. I would feel happyāmaybe even proud of myselfāfor a little while, but then I would shift the goal posts. Suddenly, it became essential to get a better job, to make more money, to obtain an even higher level of education. These things were supposed to bring me economic and emotional security, and at one point I would āarrive.ā I would have everything I needed and finally be able to sit back and say, āHey look, Ma, I made it.ā
There was one problem. I knew, cognitively, that there was no such thing as āmaking it.ā Maslowās hierarchy of needs posits that once our ābasic needsā are satisfied, we can move towards āself-actualizationā. My boyfriend thinks that that is all bullshit, and I finally agree. What even is āself-actualization?ā Is that a term that has a concrete definition? Is it the same for everyone?
I always knew that Linkin Park was right when they said, āthe journeyās more important than the end or the startā and that Mark Manson was right when he emphasized relationships over academic and career advancement. At the end of a personās life, they never say, āI wish I had worked more. I wish I had made more money.ā Instead, they almost always talk about family relationships and friendships, and regret not spending more time with loved ones or not making amends to people they hurt. They regret not taking more risks and spending more time enjoying life.
Itās easy to think of an āexistential crisisā as a first world problem. Beyond basic survival, we all want purpose and meaning. In my case, I realized that my values were jacked up. I already knew that, but I needed to be faced with a crisis to compel me to do something serious about it. The more I was achieving academically and workwise the less satisfied and the more stressed I was beginning to feel. The constant strain of trying to be perfect, to āmake things perfectā and to atone for the āsinā of spending 5 years of my life enmeshed in my mental illness, was overwhelming. My mind knew that I was reaching the breaking point, and it sent out a warning bell so loud that it shook me to my core. My anxiety became all-encompassing. It was saying, āYou canāt ignore me now. Youāre headed for danger. Abort the mission.ā
So, I withdrew from summer classes. I started going to a Bipolar Support Group. I got my psychiatrist to change my medication. In other words, I adjusted some things, and I took a step back. I evaluated my situation again, and I decided to drop out of the university as well.
Dropping out was one of the most difficult decisions I ever had to make, but also one of the best. I had had what I thought was a fail-proof plan for completing my credits and securing the transfer. My financial aid, grants, and scholarships were in place. I had gone to orientation and spoken to my advisor and other staff at length to make sure I would be able to attend in the fall. I had gone on a tour of the facilities. I knew where I would be taking classes. I even got my advisor to sign a waiver so that I could attend a specific class. Everything was ready. All I had to do was attend.
It hasnāt been easy trying to embrace that decision without still going, āwell, what now?ā I already have a tentative plan to finish my COREs (the ones I did not finish over the summer) in the Spring 2020 semester. I have thought about āside hustlesā to make a little extra money. I have thought about switching majors and instead just studying medical coding and billing or some other āhot fieldā so that I can get a better job with less time spent studying.
I have been trying to hurriedly move on, without mourning the loss of what could have been. I am forcing myself to acknowledge that this was āthe death of a timelineā (for all you sci-fi nerds out there). I will never get to see what might have happened if I had persisted in school, despite freshly coming off a relapse. I might have succeeded. I might have failed. The important thing is not to get caught up in what might have been, but to mourn the loss and accept it. Accept the death of āwhat mightāve been.ā
Acceptance is something that I have appreciated theoretically but have never practiced in my own life. I am prone to either wallow in past regret or agonize over future decisions. I cannot sit with myself and be at peace. I have known this about myself for a long time, have chided myself for my catastrophizing, black-and-white-thinking, and hesitancy to be open and authentic, but I have also embraced maladaptive coping strategies because they were what I had been using since childhood. My perfectionism is just a mask I use to hide how lonely, hurt, and vulnerable I regularly feel.
As I said before, if the āfive factor model of personalityā is at all accurate, then our personality traits are rather fixed. I will never be an optimist. However, I can change my behavior and how I respond to certain events and triggers. My partner is an extravert and I am an introvert. While I may find it difficult to join him at certain events, I can utilize coping skills so that I have a more positive experience. I may have a tendency to think the worst of a situation. If trying to think of the situation as positive is too difficult, I can at least reframe to say, āwell, everything could end up going just fine.ā Allowing myself to see another option can keep me from becoming myopic in my outlook.
Reframing is also great for someone who may be in a job or life situation that they dislike. It can be difficult to find meaning in boring or frustrating circumstances, but if we simply try to find something about our situation that could benefit other people who are important to us, or we allow ourselves to begin to see the situation as temporary rather than something we simply āmustā endure indefinitely, we are able to gain a better perspective.
I have a new priority, now. I have people who love me so much and are negatively affected by the harsh way that I treat myself. My partner has been especially affected by my habits. I keep projecting my insecurities on to him, thinking that he sees me as how I see myself: annoying, overly talkative, needy, neurotic, etc. He has expressed the opposite, but the real problem comes in when he must repeatedly reassure me of his feelings for me. Then, at least part of my fearāthat Iām needyāhas just been fulfilled. Suddenly he is performing more emotional labor that he really should be, and I am in the meanwhile feeling less and less reassured. So, what do I do? I shrink. I hold things back. I retype texts. Never in any of this do I feel like I am less loved, but I am slowly forming a wedge that doesnāt belong thereāall because Iām afraid he thinks ill of me and wants to leave. He doesnāt, but I am subconsciously attempting to drive him away.
This is a digression, but I have always felt that there was āsomethingā that was keeping me from being secure in the relationship. I searched online, I read about aromanticism, I asked people I knew about what made their relationships work. I asked, āhow do you know if your partner is the right person?ā So many people said, āYou just know.ā That was too vague and inconsistent for me. My mom told me, āLet God choose for youā, which is quite impractical because Iām an atheist.
In my searching, I discovered that there is no āright personā, there is no such thing as āthe Oneā unless you are talking about Neo from the Matrix, and there is no āperfect relationship.ā That should have been enough, but it wasnāt. I am ashamed to say that I scrutinized my partner, I scrutinized myself. I obsessed.
When I was researching āpure Oā OCD, I came across a little excerpt on a type of OCD I had never heard of: Relationship Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (ROCD) and it fit me perfectly. I havenāt brought this up with my partner because it is a little fresh, butā¦yeah. It described everything I have been feeling for years. The āobsessionā comes in the form of constantly evaluating your partner, including small flaws, and obsessively seeking out relationship advice (thinks of all the relationship and advice podcasts I listen to) and yet never quite feeling reassured. You have a pervasive sense that you are with the āwrongā partner, no matter who you are with.
I think, along with the mixed mania/anxiety relapse, this revelation confirmed for me that I have a lot more work to do internally than I do on the outside. It is true that my only current clinical diagnosis is schizoaffective bipolar type. It is possible that I do not meet the full criteria for the other diagnoses I identify with, such as Generalized Anxiety Disorder and ROCD. Also, though, my psychiatrists at my low wage clinic have not been listening to me about my diagnosis in the slightest. Any time I bring up different diagnoses I am fully ignored. I understand that they do not have the same resources as a clinic for ārichā clients, but the experience is still extremely frustrating. The only thing I can do at this point is bring up these issues in therapy, and then request that my psychiatrist(s) look over my therapistās notes so that they can come to an informed conclusion.
I am going to need to āgo deeperā in therapy. I have had my therapist for over 2 years, and I still have not told her I am bisexual. We really have not discussed sex-related things at all, and the prude in me would like to largely keep it that way. However, my reasons were wrong. I had both convinced myself that my bisexual identity was not an important part of my therapy, and I had convinced myself that my therapistāwho is African and Christianāwould respond negatively to my revelation. The truth is, though, I do not know how she will react, and either way, she has a responsibility to be professional. Also, do I really believe she has no LGBTQ+ clients, when queer people are overrepresented in populations receiving mental health care?
It was so different with my first therapist. I started crying in the first session, I told her I was bi within a few more, and when I graduated the treatment, I felt great for a long time. My current therapist is excellent, but for some reason I feel like progress has been very slow. I think this is because I doubled down on my old maladaptive coping strategies the more pressure I felt from work and school. I probably backslid a bit, because instead of being open, or being able to cry and just feel my real feelings, I stuffed them down as deeply as I could. Also, being in therapy once a week was more ideal, because my mood varies greatly over the course of 2-3 weeks. There were so many times when Iād be in therapy and I was like, āYeah, this terrible mental or physical health crisis happened, but Iām happy again!ā but there was so much we werenāt processing through.
I might need to find a therapist who I can meet with more consistently, but I have become rejected by so many because of my schizoaffecive bipolar type diagnosis. So many will have ābipolar I / bipolar IIā listed in what they treat, some even have schizophrenia but they shy way from my disorder. What is so frustrating, is that I think bipolar I with psychotic features (my previous diagnosis) described me perfectly fine, but this one doctor at one of the hospitals I was at changed it. I believe he is wrong, but I cannot get it changed back.
Anyway, that is not important. The important thing is, I really have some work to do on myself. Diagnosis or not, I clearly fit the criteria for some of those issues, and I can still work with my current therapist to deal with them. Sure, there are simple things we do, like challenging negative thoughts, reframing situations, finding evidence to refute false beliefs, etc. However, I want to go for the Big Problems, like how do you dismantle a perfectionistic schema? If some of my problematic personality traits really are fixed, then how do I learn to be graceful to myself and live my best life despite having them? How can I push my fears aside and just fully embrace and be committed to my partner? Will it always feel like a struggle to love and accept myself?
At first, I could just put off progress. Now, it really is a matter of life and death. For the first time, I am not wanting to give up on life entirely when plans fall apart. I am taking a step back, because I know that progress is not always linear. We arenāt always on the up and up. What goes up, must come down. There is no eternal crescendo. You need to breathe. Inhale. Exhale. Live.
There is hope for us all.
#schizoaffective disorder bipolar type#navigating diagnoses#misdiagnosed?#feeling sick#bisexual#feeling tired#living with mental illness#mental health#mental health recovery#therapy#coming out to your therapist#slow progress#slow and steady#relapse#changing directions
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The Ethics of Keeping Alfie Alive
By SAURABH JHA
Of my time arguing with doctors, 30 % is spent convincing British doctors that their American counterparts arenāt idiots, 30 % convincing American doctors that British doctors arenāt idiots, and 40 % convincing both that Iām not an idiot.
A British doctor once earnestly asked whether American physicians carry credit card reading machines inside their white coats. Myths about the NHS can be equally comical. British doctors donāt prostate every morning in deference to the NHS, like the citizens of Oceania sang to Big Brother in Orwellās dystopia. Nor, in their daily rounds, do they calculate opportunity costs for keeping patients alive on ventilators.
Conversations such as this are vanishingly rare.
Administrator: āItās costing an arm and leg keeping this sick baby alive ā to balance the annual budget we need to stop dialyzing a granny.ā
ICU doctor: āWeāll have to send poor Ethel to her grave. Thatās a shame. She was beginning to grow on me.ā
Health Ethicist: āWait, let me check with National Institute of Clinical Excellence, the rationing experts, who should be relieved of intensive care first. Perhaps it should be Winston, not Ethel ā because Winston is an alcoholic. We need to make rationing scientific and fair.ā
For the most parts, doctors in both systems do their best for their patients ā the constraints of biology play a greater role in influencing physician decisions than the economics of fee-for-service or capitation. This doesnāt mean the system is unimportant ā the system sets the stage which shapes decisions systematically ā and differences between systems are most evident in gray zones. For instance, British doctors donāt relish missing STEMI anymore than American physicians ā but their propensity to get a triple rule out study for vague chest pain may be lower.
To wit, if American doctors do more and British doctors do less, itās because they believe, respectively, that more and less are in their patientās best interests. Part of the challenge analyzing physicians, ever since the Dartmouth studies on variation in physician practice, is reconciling in opposite medical decisions similar intentions.
And some differences between the two systems can be stark, and not just in how we spell (o)esophagus. The starkest differences are in the nature and intensity of care, specifically when and who decides medical intervention should be withdrawn, in end-of-life (EOL). The recent case of baby Alfie Evans illustrates these transatlantic differences.
Ventilated without hope
Known to have marked developmental delay, Alfie presented to Alder Hey Hospital, Liverpool, at seven-month age with febrile seizures and pneumonia. Alfie had severe difficulty in breathing and was intubated and transferred to pediatric intensive care unit (PICU). It turned out that fever was not causing seizures ā nor were they primary seizures, i.e. seizures for no good reason. His seizures were secondary to severe encephalopathy ā severe brain dysfunction.
How severe was Alfieās encephalopathy? MRI showed substantial areas of reduced diffusion in his brain. The existential struggle of neurons is in throwing sodium out and bringing potassium into the cells by the sodium-potassium pump against their gradients, i.e. against their will ā politics at a cellular level is all fascism. When the neuron gives up, meaning the pump fails, sodium builds up in the cells. Then water rushes in, but as the cell swells with water, the diffusion of water slows. Restricted diffusion meant that vast territories of Alfieās neurons had surrendered.
Failed neurons still express themselves electrically. Afieās EEG showed purposeless electrical activity, essentially seizures. Though the analogy is not exact, Alfieās neuronal activity was like ventricular fibrillation ā the electrical activity existed for its own sake; it was extreme anarchy without a purpose.
Alfie had infantile spasms. First described by English surgeon, James West, infantile spasms are pernicious not just because they often imply an incurable encephalopathy, but because of their nature. West described these attacks as āā¦. a complete heaving of the head forward towards his knees, and then immediately relaxing into the upright position, something similar to the attacks of emprosthotonos.ā Seen also in tetanus infection and strychnine poisoning, in emprosthotonos the head and feet come together with the back fully arched. Itās not a pretty sight. Infantile spasms are difficult to treat.
Alfieās repeat MRIs showed that the encephalopathy had progressed. The thalamus, the headquarters of sensation, was barely extant. Not only had the cerebellum, the fine tuner of movements, been replaced by water but so had the basal ganglia, through which commands for gross movement travel. Itās not the volume of neurons per se which is important, but what the neurons are doing. Ā Alfie had too few neurons doing too little.
As radiologists recognize, diagnostic tests donāt stand on their own ā clinical correlation is advised. Alfieās clinical situation portended an even graver prognosis than his MRI suggested. He was in coma and depended on mechanical ventilation. Alfieās muscle tone was too weak to even form contractures. Deep pressure above the eye ā a richly innervated area ā elicited no response. There was no response to loud noise. And, most portentous, his pupillary reflex was abnormal.
When light is shone in the eyes the pupils constrict. The optic nerve, via the command center in the mid brain, tells the oculomotor nerve ā a doer, not thinker, nerve ā to close the blinds. The absence of normal pupillary reflex, taken in context of Alfieās MRI findings, confirmed that his midbrain was gutted.
Because of Alfieās semi-vegetative state his physicians believed that palliation, not ventilation, was in his best interests. Alfieās parents, devout Catholics, disagreed and sought the counsel of the Pope. Alfie was granted Italian citizenship. A military helicopter was ready to transfer Alfie to a hospital in Rome, but Alder Hey Hospital stopped the transfer. Finally, the courts were involved. The High Court sided with the hospital. The Court of Appeal sided with the High Court. After an aggressive legal battle, and after a year of being dependent on ventilation, Alfieās ventilator was stopped. Five days later Alfie died.
Alfieās case elicited strong responses from pro-lifers, libertarians and American conservatives, ranging from parody to disgust. Joe Walsh, with his tongue somewhere near his cheek, used Alfieās example to underscore the importance of the Second Amendment ā though how AR-15s titrate the dose of inotropes in the ICU was not explained by Walsh. Some likened stopping ventilation in Alfie to murder. Even more thoughtful observers were disturbed and saw over reach of medical paternalism, a triumph of the state over the individual, and a moral failing of the NHS.
The crux of the dispute is who has the last say in a childās treatment decisions ā parents or physicians. Many believe that in EOL the right exclusively belongs to parents, which Alder Hey violated by stopping Alfieās transfer to Italy. However, the matter is not as ethically clear cut as it first appears.
Doctors versus Parents
Parentās right to ignore physicianās management of their child is not absolute. For example, parents canāt stop antibiotics for acute bacterial meningitis just because they have an objection to antibiotics. But they can object to their child being immunized ā even though immunization benefits their child. Medical paternalism isnāt absolute but there are zones in which it becomes absolute and zones in which it is ineffective.
Why can doctors treat a child against parentās wishes for meningitis but not vaccinate a child against parentās wishes? Intuitively we see the difference ā meningitis has a high mortality untreated. Though, with labored reasoning, we can also create an indistinction. An unvaccinated child is also at risk of death from the infection the vaccine seeks to prevent ā though the mortality risk is nowhere near that from untreated meningitis, it is not zero.
Thus risk, in and of itself, cannot be what permits medical paternalism in one but not the other. One may reason that itās not risk per se but the degree of risk which distinguishes the two. This is an argument of degree. The trouble with arguments of degree, as scientific and logical as they sound, is that they inevitably lead to the question: where do we draw the line? By line I mean a threshold of risk ā a numerical or even a descriptive threshold of mortality above which medical paternalism is permitted and below which it is not.
No such line in the sand exists though it need not exist for us to see that the risk of imminent death from meningitis vastly exceeds risk of death from an infection one doesnāt have but might have. And here is the important point: one need not have defined a precise threshold of risk over which doctors prevail over parents should a conflict arise, in order that medical paternalism prevails in the treatment of bacterial meningitis. The child is in danger ā arguing where imaginary lines are drawn would be silly. Nor do we need to define ādanger.ā Some things are self-evident ā obvious without explicit definitions.
There are situations where the diagnosis is less clear cut than acute bacterial meningitis, where doctors still prevail over parents when it comes to a childās well-being. Take a child with fever, rigors, cough and weight loss with nodules on the chest radiograph, and the doctors make a presumptive diagnosis of military tuberculosis and ask that the child be admitted in hospital for treatment. The parents cannot transfer the child to Spain for a second opinion if that transfer interferes with the treatment and may harm the child. However, if a child has headaches and the physician decides against an MRI, believing that the headaches are tension headaches, the parents have every right to get the child checked by any physician anywhere in the world.
Letās return to the case of parents objecting to their child being vaccinated. An unvaccinated child places other children at risk by potentially disrupting herd immunity. Vaccination is for both individual and greater good. Yet NHS doctors, doctors in socialized medicine, a system ā let us remind ourselves ā in which society pays for the individual, canāt vaccinate children against parentās wishes even though vaccination increases net societal welfare by building herd immunity. Put it this way ā medical paternalism canāt prevail over parentsā wishes to help other children. Doctors only prevail if a particular childās welfare is in jeopardy. Far from being in service of utilitarianism, of greatest good for the greatest number, doctors in the NHS triumph over parents only when a specific child is in danger.
Medical Paternalism in End-of-Life
To recap, there are three points. First, neither parental wishes nor medical paternalism is absolute. Second, when doctors and parents have opposing views on medical management of a minor there is no explicit line in the sand which separates situations where doctors prevail from situations where parents prevail. Third, increasing net social welfare is not a reason for doctors to prevail over parents.
The question is should parents have the last say in end-of-life decisions about their child. Specifically, when parents wish to prolong the life of a terminally ill child with profound neurological compromise at all costs ā by costs I donāt mean financial costs but medical intervention ā but doctors believe palliation, not prolongation of life, is in the best interests of the child, who should prevail?
Palliative care is clearly different from the antibiotics-meningitis example in which the doctors prevail because antibiotics save the childās life. At first it may seem odd, not just to a restless logician, that medical paternalism prevails over parental wishes both to extend a childās longevity and not to try to extend it. Surely, thereās a distinction between starting treatment and stopping treatment.
The distinction between palliative care and antibiotics for meningitis is not a distinction of degree but a categorical distinction. Palliation seeks not so much to curtail life but to relieve it from suffering. If the appropriateness, or lack thereof, of medical paternalism in EOL decisions is to be explored, we must explore the role of doctors in palliative care.
The goal of medical care isnāt always to prolong life by any means necessary, is often just symptom relief, and sometimes to keep the terminally ill comfortable, to ensure that theyāre treated with dignity. These goals arenāt always congruent, and sometimes oppositional.
There are fates worse than death. Keeping the cardiorespiratory system intact by aggressive modern medical techniques in persistent vegetative state may seem humane to some but does seem inhumane to many. End-of-life is at best an ethical gray zone ā by that I mean you can understand both the stance of the family and the point of view of the doctors. As the patient, the rightful decision maker, by the very nature of their terminal and profound neurological compromise is unable to articulate their preferences, someone must make a decision.
The role of medicine in palliative care is not absolute ā there is much to palliation which is metaphysical. But doctors do have an important role in determining prognosis, in ascertaining that prognosis is indeed hopeless, and establishing that palliation, whatever may comprise it, is appropriate.
The conclusion that Alfieās neurological deficit was substantial, progressive and incurable was fundamentally a medical analysis, which Alfieās physicians, world experts in pediatric neurology, made by their in-depth understanding of biology and careful assessment of Alfie. It would be humane including Alfieās parents in the decision making, encouraging and indulging all the questions they have. It would be naive concluding they knew more about Alfieās prognosis than his physicians.
Alfieās father believed that Alfie was summoning him for help. He thought he saw Alfie yawn. It is humane respecting his beliefs. It is unwise abandoning medical judgment. When experts studied videos of Alfieās movements they concluded that they were nothing more than seizures. Alfieās father, a non-physician, a grieving father in understandable denial, could not possibly be expected to make the same analysis.
Some have asked how letting Alfie die can be in his best interests. The argument advanced is that stopping ventilation couldnāt possibly be in Alfieās best interest because it hastened his death. Others have gone a step further and compared stopping ventilation in Alfie to euthanasia, or even murder.
Iām tempted to ignore the charge that stopping Alfieās assisted ventilation is murder ā but itās worth thinking it through just to show how unfettered logic becomes fanatical. The rationale is that itās murder stopping Alfieās ventilation against his parentās wishes but not murder if the parents consent to withdrawal of ventilatory support. Imagine if I said ā itās murder if you shoot a child but not murder if the parents ask you to shoot their child. You would think that I have lost the plot.
Was taking Alfie off the ventilator state-sponsored euthanasia, as former leader of UKIP, Nigel Farage, insinuated? Was this the same as a neurologically intact eighty-year-old man with untreatable pain from metastatic prostate cancer flying to Switzerland to receive a lethal dose of morphine? In our conflationary zeal we see similarities when we wish to ā but the two situations are different. In the latter, a person capable of making their own decision enters a mutual agreement with a physician to end life. Are we unable to distinguish between stopping intensive care to reduce suffering in the terminally ill from administering a drug with the express purpose of ending life? Is intention irrelevant?
I can put it no better than the Catholic church which distinguishes between withdrawal of ventilatory support and euthanasia, and says eloquently in their catechisms, (2278): āhere one wills not to cause death. Oneās inability to impede death is merely accepted.ā
Was Alfie Suffering?
How could it possibly be in Alfieās best interest to die? This question is usually accompanied by another: who are doctors to decide that Alfie needed palliation?
The first question is a partial strawman. His doctorsā intention with palliative care wasnāt to end Alfieās life but to give him dignity in the attenuated life he had left. This is not a distinction without a difference but a nuanced distinction which hinges on intent. Physicians must be judged, or at least judge each other, by intent, not just outcome. If a physician gives thrombolysis to a patient with acute stroke and the patient gets a brain hemorrhage and dies, the intention of the physician was to open the artery and restore function, not cause hemorrhage and end life. To ask how substituting life prolonging mechanisms with palliative care could possibly be in Alfieās interest is to question the very essence of palliative care.
Letās reframe the first question. In a person in a vegetative state is there something inherently inhumane about constantly changing artificial feeding and respiratory access, manipulating support lines, fighting infection, getting numerous x-rays and CT scans, and breaking ribs in attempts at cardiopulmonary resuscitation? Ā The question isnāt whose call it is to switch the ventilator off ā thatās an important question, too ā the question is whether there is indignity in prolonging life of someone in a vegetative state. Science canāt help you here ā itās your moral intuitions you have to call upon.
It is the patient, not the doctor, who determines their quality of life. However, if the patient can neither feel, that is they lack consciousness, nor articulate that they can feel or not ā we do not know whether they prefer palliation over prolongation of life. The second question is a paradox. However, when we do not know we must assume ā there is no getting away from assuming ā but no normative ethics says that we must assume that a patient in a vegetative state would wish for life to be prolonged, rather than assume that they desire palliation, instead.
The retort is that if a person in a mall has a cardiac arrest would you not assume the person wishes to live and administer CPR? The nuance is in appreciating that we do not know the neurological prognosis in a person unknown to us, which is a different kettle of fish from Alfieās situation ā where the dismal neurological prognosis was without reasonable clinical doubt.
Putting aside pain and suffering, which have some objectivity to them, letās consider indignity. Alfie could neither feel nor express whether he was experiencing indignity which is, admittedly, a more nebulous concept, but not that nebulous. For example, it is disrespectful being casual about the body of the deceased and there is dignity in giving the deceased a decent burial. Even Osama bin Ladenās body was treated with respect. We treat the body of the deceased with respect not because of the feelings of the deceased, who canāt feel, but for ourselves. It is we, not the deceased, who decide that there is indignity in treating their body with disrespect.
Similarly, the indignity, or lack thereof, in prolonging life in a patient in a vegetative state cannot be decided by the person in a vegetative state ā this ought to be so obvious that you should berate me for saying it. Though it is still disputable who has the final say when ventilator should be switched off, doctor or the family, there should be little dispute that it can be the person in the vegetative state, unless that person has an advanced directive specifying their preferences ex ante.
Stopping the Airlift to Italy
After Alfieās father, Thomas Evans, posted about Alfieās condition on Facebook, Christine Broesamle, a pro-life activist in Italy got in touch with him. Broesamle moved to Liverpool and began counseling the Evans ā who accepted her help in sheer desperation. Also helping the Evans was a law student from Christian Legal Center, Pavel Stroilov.
Broesamle had substantial influence. She had at her beck and call a network of non-NHS doctors who she called upon to assess Alfie. The doctors, pretending to be family friends of the Evans, assessed Alfie behind the back of Alder Hey physicians. Professional courtesy was thrown to the wind. Though it is unclear whether it was because of Broesamleās influence, the Pope met Evans. The Pope is a busy chap and canāt possibly meet every parent in the world with a dying child ā there are millions dying in Africa, hundreds from snake bite, thousands from treatable malaria. But somehow the Pope found the time to meet Thomas Evans.
Thus, the Evans were surrounded by enthusiastic pro-life Christians. Thereās, of course, nothing wrong with that ā faith has a role in easing the pain of EOL. However, the new friends of the Evans had their own axes to grind. They were interested in Alfie not because he had a treatable condition, but precisely because his condition was untreatable ā i.e. he was at the end-of-life.
Neither Broesamle nor Stroilov had kind words to say about Alder Hey Hospital. Broesamle accused Alder Hey physicians of being determined to kill him. Stroilov was described by Justice Hayden, the judge who presided over the legal dispute, as a āfanatical and deluded young manā ā particularly harsh words from a usually temperate British judge. After Alfie died, Stroilov egged Thomas Evans to sue Alfieās physicians for conspiracy to murder in private courts. Thomas Evans, wiser than his advisors, decided against it.
As the media sensationalism began, the rift between the Evans and Alder Hey physicians widened. Alfie was to be air rescued to Bambino Gesu Hospital (BGH). The Alder Hey physicians stopped the transfer. There was uproar. Mobs gathered outside the hospital.
Even thoughtful observers canāt understand why Alfieās transfer to Italy was stopped. The dispute isnāt that Alder Hey violated the parentās right to a second opinion. BGH were not offering a second opinion ā and Iām assuming that the Pope wasnāt going to re-attempt the Raising of Lazarus miracle on Alfie. BGH was offering long term ventilation and feeding by means of a tracheostomy and gastrostomy, respectively.
The dispute is this. When the Alder Hey physicians knew that Alfieās condition was hopeless, what was the harm in allowing Alfie to be airlifted to Italy? They were not using the public purse ā the transfer and care were to funded by private money. There seems at once little moral, ethical, medical or financial reason to stop the transfer. Was this an ego battle between Alder Hey Hospital and pro-lifers?
Things spiraled very quickly out of control. Ā The Italian government ā who, once they granted Alfie Italian citizenship, threatened to hold the British government responsible for the homicide of an Italian citizen.
Were I Alfieās neurologist Iād have allowed the transfer. I might have written a book, āAlfie and Me,ā taken a selfie with Alfie and the helicopter and posted it on Twitter. Iād have invited the Pope to bless Alder Hey Hospital ā and seen what would happen to the all-cause mortality. If a poor infantās predicament was going to be made into an international circus show, Iād have milked it. But Alder Hey physicians arenāt as ostentatious as I am. And before we accuse them of being agents of the state, a particularly dishonest accusation coming from physicians, who rely heavily on the state for protectionism, itās worth exploring their reasoning.
Their rationale cannot be strewn to one dimension. Alfieās case was complex, and the sum of the parts shouldnāt be disrupted by attacking the individual parts. Alfie was in coma with no prospect of any motor or sensory function, with no capacity to express himself, whose only neuronal activity was seizures, which were resistant to treatment. Alfieās neurological condition was not static, like cerebral palsy, but progressive. Though Alfie had too little thalamus to feel pain, they could not rule out that he was feeling pain ā thereās a raging debate, not just of the philosophical nature, whether the brain is even necessary for consciousness.
They speculated, based on their strong clinical judgment, that there was a risk that the helicopter ride would have increased the frequency of Alfieās intractable seizures. Indeed, the physicians in Italy made this assessment, too. This doesnāt mean that infants with epilepsy shouldnāt be air lifted. But Alfieās situation was different, and any logic which counters the rationale of Alder Hey physicians must acknowledge Alfieās unique case. Itās one thing flying an infant with status epilepticus when the purpose of transfer is treatment of the epilepsy, or another life-threatening condition. Itās another thing worsening the frequency of intractable seizures when the purpose of transfer isnāt cure but continuation of care. In the latter situation, it is imposing suffering ā i.e. suffering from seizures ā for no gain.
Alder Hey physicians were challenged āwhatās the evidence the helicopter ride would have worsened Alfieās seizures? āShow me the dataā is a common refrain as it adds a patina of science but asking for data is ignoring the uniqueness of Alfieās condition, ignoring the value of clinical judgment, of expertise in unique situations.
The irony is cute when the same physicians who laud physician expertise over journalists and economists, challenge the medical judgment of Alder Hey physicians. Why do they not extend the same professional courtesy they seek for themselves to Alfieās physicians, who are experts in their own realm? I suspect itās because of a lingering mistrust of NHS doctors. British doctors are believed to act for the state, society or greater good, rather than the patient. Mistrust of physicians is a transatlantic phenomenon. American physicians are thought to act for their financial interest rather than patientās welfare. Mistrust of physicians is difficult to palliate because, as Othello discovered, once you start off with suspicion, it is difficult to be convinced otherwise.
Though it is hard seeing how Alfieās physicians were wrong in believing that palliation, not prolongation of life, was in his best interest, the question remains: when family disagrees with doctors in EOL who should prevail? In the US, the family seems to prevail. I need not labor about the brutality of EOL in the US ā and American physicians have spoken more lyrically on this topic than I ever could. Suffice to say that no normative ethics supports that the parents have the veto when the ventilator should be switched off in cases such as Alfieās.
The Court
Britain is different but not that different. Even in Britain, doctors do not have a veto over parents in EOL decisions. Given the impasse between Alder Hey and Alfieās parents the case went to the high court. The case was meticulously analyzed by Justice Hayden. He requested a broad range of medical opinion ā from Great Ormond Street Hospital, from Rome, from Germany. The consensus supported the prognostic assessment of Alder Hey physicians.
Hayden praised Alfieās father for his probing questions about the prognosis of Alfie but noted that he was understandably in denial about Alfieās prognosis. Hayden was careful in not letting any histrionics enter his decision. For instance, he chided German physician, Dr. Haas, who in making the case that Alfieās ventilator should not be switched off, alluded to his countryās legacy in treating disabled people. Hayden considered such allusions tendentious and inflammatory.
Through meticulous reasoning Hayden concluded that stopping ventilation was in Alfieās best interest because his neurological impairment was advanced, progressive, incurable and, and this is the important addition, that there remained a possibility that Alfie was suffering.
Some see in his decision an over reach of the state. It is tempting invoking the state ā but who is this nefarious entity we call the āstateā? Elected members of parliament in Westminster, most of whom know little about terminal illness? Bureaucrats? Judges? The secret police? MI5? What did this nebulous, nefarious, entity gain from switching off Alfieās ventilator?
A common sentiment is that the courts decided that Alfieās life wasnāt worth living. In any contentious issue itās a useful exercise re-framing the issue and seeing if you arrive at an alternative conclusion. That the courts were involved showed the limitations of medical paternalism. That Hayden solicited the opinion of pediatric neurologists showed the importance of medical expertise. That the experts agreed on Alfieās prognosis wasnāt a medical conspiracy, but a moment of medical clarity. That Thomas Evans represented his case, and cross examined the experts, showed that extreme humanity is still possible in extreme circumstances. That Justice Hayden agreed with Alder Hey hospital showed that the hospital got it right.
Thus, far from the courts determining that Alfieās life wasnāt worth living ā by endorsing palliative care, they gave Alfie dignity, they gave his life its due worth by giving the possibility of his suffering considerable importance.
Was Alfieās ventilator switched off because the NHS rations care?
One argument advanced was that if the issue was constrained resources, it was perfectly fine to switch Alfieās ventilator off, so long as we all agree that it was about money. The argument, far from being exculpatory, makes the hospital seem reptilian, performing cost-benefit analyses on dying kids. Though resources are always constrained, even in the US, Alfieās care was not subjected to the usual economic constraints in the NHS ā he was in PICU for over a year. Not a dime was charged to his parents. Just imagine the medical bill if he was treated in the US.
The rationale of rationing is withholding expensive treatment which has small benefits because the benefits arenāt worth the costs ā note, for rationing to even occur the intervention must have some, i.e. non-zero, benefit. By its very definition, you canāt ration an intervention which has zero benefit and may, in fact, have some harm.
Alder Hey physicians werenāt concerned about the costs of keeping Alfie alive. And costs were irrelevant precisely because Alfieās condition was incurable. You can only do a cost-effectiveness analysis if there is effectiveness.
The slippery slope argument
A common argument made not just by pro-lifers but Burkean conservatives is the slippery slope argument, which goes like this. Once you decide that Alfieās life is not worth living who is next? The kid with cerebral palsy? Trisomy 21? Autistic kid? Was Stephen Hawkingās life not worth it, either?
The slippery slope argument dominates public discourse these days. Many believe that Donald Trumpās election is a short step to National Socialism. And itās not just Trump. When Obama was president, even thoughtful conservatives felt the outgrowth of government was a short step to fascism. In the slippery slope argument everyone templates their political prejudices to an imagined dystopia. Itās Orwellās Room 101 ā where you face your biggest fears.
The slippery slope rationale is first order thinking at its most primal. It is a type of Malthusian error ā Malthus believed that the world would be so over populated that weād be eating each otherās livers. His rationale assumed a linear progression of events, a sort of linear regression where everything else was held constant. It was a mark of a furtive, unchecked, imagination ā aka, paranoia. Dystopians make great fiction. They are less useful as public policy.
Letās examine the rationale because itās worth introspecting. When history is assessed, it is assessed backwards ā we see in Nazism and fascism culmination of several events which started off somewhat innocuously. This is historiography ā where we see that short step which led to an evil regime. The error lies not in historiography, which is an analysis in hindsight, but in reverse historiography ā which is a forward analysis ā where we see in an event a short step to an evil. The trouble with reverse historiography is that many disparate events can potentially be a short step to whatever your most feared political regime happens to be.
Thus, in Alfieās case we see a short step to the NHS deciding that kids with cerebral palsy will be deemed by the courts as ānot worth living.ā This is generalization writ large, a Kantian universalism, which is as disingenuous as it is wrong. It is ironic that the same people who laud individualism are so keen to generalize Alfie.
End-of-life is fertile grounds for slippery slope arguments, in part because itās so difficult getting a grip on nuance. But EOL isnāt a spectrum; it comprises categories and each individual is their own category. You canāt compare Alfieās predicament ā a ventilator-dependent infant with progressive encephalopathy in coma, facing intractable seizures ā with a conscious child with cerebral palsy. To conflate is to abandon judgment. For all the rugged individualism, nothing delivers individual nuance in medicine more than clinical acumen.
Physicians in End-of-Life
So long as life is prolonged by modern medical techniques, doctors will be involved in EOL decisions. End-of-life is an emotive area and clashes between family and physicians happen frequently. Spare a thought, though, for Alfieās physicians who remain anonymous, who faced a mob outside the hospital, faced death threats, faced accusations of murder, faced vituperative attacks on social media. They are humans, too. Caught between doing the best for Alfie and relinquishing to populism they chose the former. You may disagree with their choice. But thereās little doubt that they were courageous physicians who stuck to their convictions. I, for one, give them a standing ovation.
Ā About the author:
Saurabh Jha is a contributing editor to THCB and can be reached @RogueRad
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