#( abuse tw )

[jeannefostergoriot]

Never worry about not being in a relationship. If they’re worth it, they won’t hurt you.

I don’t know how many boys follow me, but I gotta bet there’s some. I just wanna tell y’all to be careful.

Abusive girls exist and what they’re doing is seen as like “badass tough don’t take no shit” but your girl should not hit you. Ever.

She should not demand for you to hand over your phone to look through.

She should not yell at you and humiliate you either alone or in front of people.

She shouldn’t make you distance yourself from your friends or family.

She shouldn’t scratch you or twist your arms.

She should not call you names.

She shouldn’t tell you ‘she’ll kill herself if you break up’

These are just a few examples of abuse and it’s just seen as okay when girls do it and god knows I’ve fallen victim to it a few times, but you shouldn’t have to.

Never worry about not being in a relationship. If they’re worth it, they won’t hurt you.

No one has the right to hurt you.

[mysharona1987]

[absolutelybatty]

My timeline for Postal if the Dudes are alters as opposed to physically different bodies.

My apologies if any of this is unrealistic for D.i.D. I did some reading online for it, but I'm not a psychologist.

[cringefaecompilation]

anyways i want orym to save liliana when they get down there not just because i want them to be friends for my own amusement but because of what happened with bor'dor. orym was so overcome with grief and anger that he stood by and let bor'dor horribly die and then told him he deserved it for being on the bad guy's side.

so how amazing would it be if orym puts all that aside and saves her from being killed and heals her because it doesn't matter what side she's on, nobody deserves to be rent asunder and unmade, least of all just for believing and then getting horribly betrayed

[sounknownvoid]

💯 💯 this! .... the only time I've seen a half-decent take or even understanding on dean's perpetuating of the domestic-abuse cycle ....

John, dean and sam are ALL traumatised and survivors - the difference is that dean n sam were subjected to it from childhood and dean perpetuates it as he has no coping skills but also low-functioning emotional intelligence - has enough to get by but not really to understand/grasp it all n work out a healthy solution .... & feels helpless to stop himself from perpetuating it too (s9:- "I sure am tired of doing the wrong thing") - he's classic representative of "hurt people,hurt people" trope

Sam suffers at the hands of both/all coz he's not cut from the same cloth to fit in with the performative hypermasculinity of their culture (&us-american masculinity especially) - but is ultimately the representative of someone who actively attempts to break the cycle - & after many,many,many failures, manages to at least not make the exact same mistakes- different ones perhaps but at least not the same....

So many people will be outright antagonistic to any acknowledgment of Dean's abusive tendencies and insist you "just enjoy the show" as if abuse is something tangential that people project onto the characters and not intrinsically linked with Supernatural's themes. Imagine if anytime you tried to discuss John's abuse of Sam and Dean, people said that it was unnecessary hair splitting. This isn't about cancelling Dean, or woobifying Sam or Jack. It's just a part of the show we are watching.

[teaboot]

When I was a kid, I regularly lost reading privileges for "having an attitude" and "acting out".

It wasn't as simple as being told not to read during other activities- one of the first times it happened, I remember being six years old, watching my stepfather pull fistfuls of books off my bookshelf and throw them to the floor in a heaping mess while I cried and asked him to stop.

It was weird. Every other adult I knew described me as exceptionally well-behaved, but at home, it was the opposite, and it was blamed on "learning bad habits from that shit you're reading".

Because I couldn't read at home, I spent all my free time at school in the library, reading with my friends.

When I grew up and moved away, I realized that my family life was toxic and abusive, and the "attitudes" I was being punished for were standing up for myself, standing up for my younger siblings, and resisting actual, real-life psychological abuse. Because I'd learned from what I'd read that my family wasn't normal, not like my parents said it was, and in my stories, the heroes were the people who spoke out when it was hard to.

It is insane to me that there are students right now who can't access books. It is insane that books are being outlawed. It is perverse that we are stealing away an entire generation's ability to contextualize their lives, to learn about the world around them, to develop critical thinking skills and express themselves and feel connected to the world or escape from it, whatever and whenever and however they need.

That is not how you raise a compassionate, thoughtful, powerful society.

That's how you process cattle.

It's fucking disgusting.

[howlsnteeth]

24/05/2020

[schizodelicsyscourse]

Ur funny

I'd like to see someone try me lol

Let's see, list of all the things I definitely didn't deal with

-got kicked out by my dad for being trans on my 18th birthday

-sat out in the cold every single fucking night

-nearly got raped by a methhead who trapped me under his tarp while he was smoking

-got manipulated into being the perfect boytoy for some drunk asshole

-my girlfriend tortured and nearly killed because someone thought she stole a watch

-watched the world end and everyone I love die during an intense psychotic episode

-watched my cats get abused by drunk asshole, including being kicked into a tree, the cat now has seizures regularly and I have no way to find out if they will kill him

-watching my girlfriend get jumped by someone I thought was my friend

-watching people I cared about relapse on meth over and over

-watching people die on fentanyl on a nearly daily basis

-lost almost everyone when I left my drunk abuser because he only let me socialize through him

-used as a glorified security camera and forced to stay isolated in the woods for weeks at a time, depending on my abuser to bring me back food, hoping he didn't get distracted by the liquor cabinet (spoiler: he usually did)

-controlled by using drugs to shut me up any time I expressed anger or discomfort with what was going on

-risking jail time every time I needed food, or warm clothes, or a sleeping bag

-sleeping outside when its so cold all your muscles tighten up and shake and hurt so bad it takes half a bottle to get you to sleep

-gang shit I can't even begin to explain

-the homeless shelter stealing all my shit and lying to me about giving it back

-got through all this and am fucking winning cuz I have a hot girlfriend, money in my pocket, and a housing voucher in 2 days

Idc whether you think I experience plurality or not, it's an endo-made term anyway, no one in real life cares.

You're just a chronically online middle schooler with nothing better to do with his time and its fun to mess with you a little bit, but at the end of the day, nothing you say matters. My girlfriend (who has DID by the way) still thinks its hot that I have other people in my head, her father figure who also experiences schizogenic plurality (though he doesn't use those words) still lets me hang around his apartment all day and will always roll me a joint while discuss our multiplicity, my sibling is still best fucking friends with my sysmate, and I'm still openly schizo and plural in real life.

hi. endo sys with diagnosed psychosis. my therapist is actively encouraging me to regain my system after I suppressed it. he believes it is a beneficial symptom and supports me in being MORE plural. yeah my plurality is caused by psychosis and it has still been deemed healthy by a medical professional. why are you ableist against psychotics? you think we can't know our own brains?

So basically, ur therapist supports ur delusions, that's all it is LMAO like I said, therapists can't beka delusions, he knows that soon enough you'll grow out of it

[auschizm]

Far too much talk about how "dangerous" psychotic/schizophrenic people are. Far too little talk about how easy it can be for an abuser to take advantage of a person who is already labeled as "crazy". We're usually among the victims - not the perpetrators.

[uncanny-tranny]

Honestly, there is a certain type of fetishizing of violence that occurs when you are the victim of abuse - wherein people talk directly to you about how much they fantasize about your abuser/s dying and being killed - "all abusers must be killed!" they say.

As a victim of prolonged abuse, I never felt cared for when people indulged that information to me. It often feels like my abuse is being exploited for others to enact their own violent fantasies and secret desires - my abuse means nothing to them in the same way that I didn't matter to my abusers. It's not support - it's just another cycle of violence.

I'm begging people to care more about victims and survivors than they do about retribution of abusers. Nowhere along the way should your focus on the abuser outweigh the people affected by their abuse. If you truly want to support abuse victims and survivors, start with us

[genderkoolaid]

it really is crazy how women abusing men is still regularly (if "jokingly") viewed as a positive thing. like literally today i was talking to someone about having watched both misery & sunset boulevard in a film class & both of those being about men being abused by women & the person's response was smth like. haha yeah that's so empowering. like obviously these are fictional characters but y'all realize that treating individual human men like poppets to punish Mankind for it's Sins is fucked up and evil yeah. also this directly translates into how trans men are treated as free punching bags for people to take out their anger at more powerful cis men. idk call me crazy but i feel like if you can't hear about men being abused by women without making a "joke" about it maybe you just have a deep problem you need to work on

[snow-lavender]

my mind keeps circling back to "my silence was his peace" because that only proves truer by the hour. i am overflowing with respect for shubble; the amount of bravery and vulnerability it must take to put yourself in a position to be a catalyst like that is staggering. wishing her nothing but peace and happiness from here on out.

[cherryflavoredbutch]

instagram post: *video of a woman gently encouraging a hesitant child to go down a slide*

the first comment: this woman is violently pressuring her child to do something that they are clearly terrified to do, children should NEVER have to do anything they don't want to do, this kid is being abused and will grow up to hate their mother i hope someone calls cps on her

the second comment: kids are so thin skinned these days if it were my kid i would push it down the slide and laugh at it if it cried. this is the only way we will win the culture war

the third comment: she should have used a condom. this would make a great condom ad. no one cares that someone came in you. kids are not human. i hate kids so much.

the fourth comment: DM ME """HELP""" 🤝💪😤 I AM PAYING OFF DEBT OF FIRST 5 🎉 TO DM 💯💯💵💵 DON'T MISS THIS OPPORTUNITY 😍

[cringefaecompilation]

liliana gave him everything. she trusted him with everything. she did everything he asked. she gave up her future to give her daughter one. she believed him when he said that he was good and that the gods would only hurt her and that leaving him would be a huge mistake

and then he killed her

[cuntylouis]

So? Who broke the ice? What were the first words of the ancient vampire to the future love of his life?

for @cypresssunns

[lucabyte]

sometimes everything just sucks real real real bad