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[extravagantrook]

(it's whispered in a tight, very nearly desperate tug over a cup of herbal tea once things have settled and tears have started to dry. her voice catches despite her best attempts to even it.) "i'm so sorry for the lies."

Whisper something in my muse's ear and see how they react! // Inbox Open!

Ah, they really don't like crying. It makes them stuff up terribly and their bad eye ache in a way that's hard to describe. Maybe, just maybe, there's still shards of magic or lyrium or even plain ol' artifact still lodged in the orb -- but they'll probably never know. Instead they hold the cup of warmth like it's a life rope and keep their eyes drooping. It's not a snub, well, not entirely. There's some anger there, but again, what good is the anger for them? They would have kept it a secret from her if Varric needed them to. "I know." They don't dare let go of the cup, so instead it's them shifting their weight to press against her side. The half arm might be a bit odd, but they're tired, and it's not the weirdest thing in the world. So they just rest close to her, comfort and forgiveness in quiet familiarity, as two people who were just people. Not idols.

[farspaceapple]

♡

●●●●● | ATTRACTION ●●●●● | AFFECTION ●●●●● | INTEREST ●●●●●● | LOYALTY ●●●●● | TRUST

LOW | ●●●●● | HIGH "As if this was a hard test." He jests, "Then again, I can always just tell you these things if you'd ask."

[sanhwaiting]

hey megan!! it's chey 🍉 I hope you still remember me heheh 😅 how are you doing, love? are you going to see ateez in sep? 💓💓

hi chey!! of course i remember youuu 🥹🥰 i really missed you so much my sgtiny friend <333 sorry for the late reply, i've actually been in jeju the last week and i'm on the plane home now hehe i've had a lovely time and i hope you've been well too ❤️❤️❤️ and yes i got cat 1 tickets for ateez!! i still can't believe it and i'm so exciteddd :D are you going as well?

[venusssssssssss]

legit so annoyed about the way the corporate media wants to paint those women waiting outside the court as crazy and as only being there because Luigi is hot. I looked up pictures of them outside the court and they all held signs and were there to send a message: "health over wealth", "denial of medical care = violence", "murder for profit = terrorism", "the United States healthcare stole my livelihood", "insurance lobbyists line politicians' pockets", "healthcare reform NOW". Yeah, they're there because he's hot for sure. Also, there were a lot of men as well but hey, that's not helping the narrative right?

[limelemonchi]

freak Pines

[problemnyatic]

when will we talk about the willful helplessness epidemic on here. So many people on this god forsaken website demand to have any and all things that exist outside their personal experiences directly, personally pre-chewed and spoonfed to them. And when you do, they'll then ask for you to swallow for them, too, because, you see, in THEIR experience..,

[pangur-and-grim]

I never know how to respond to these emails

[emjaydoubleyou]

this post is fearmongering. the results of this study are concerning and should definitely be a matter of public discussion, but this is certainly not the conclusion the researchers came to.

the point of the study was to assess the risks of exposure to toxic metals- something one of the co-authors notes are “ubiquitous” fwiw- via menstrual products. Their research confirmed that these metals are indeed present in tampons, but no further conclusions are drawn. it is possible the metal entered into the cotton from the soil, which is a well-known phenomenon; cotton is so good at lifting heavy metals that it has actually been suggested as a part of the solution for revitalizing polluted ground.

the authors conclude with an acknowledgement that the study should be repeated- their sample size was 60 tampons- and a suggestion that further testing ought to be done to indicate whether or not these metals can even leech out of the tampon in the first place, let alone whether or not such leeching could occur at levels deleterious to human health.

there is, in fact, a body of research- too small, for sure, but much larger than this single study- indicating that long-term proper tampon use has no observable negative impact on health. i am grateful and thrilled that more research is being done and i hope that this study is the first of many on this line of questioning, but i am really frustrated at this post and the response it got.

obviously, if this study alters your approach to menstrual health, more power to you. consumers should be informed-risk-takers, and menstrual health is double-obviously a very personal choice. but it definitely wasn't the researchers concluding that you ought to “avoid using tampons at all cost," only this tumblr user did. the lead author of the paper, in fact, specifically says that she hopes people do NOT panic about the results.

(the notes of the post were disappointing. people affirming that they knew they were right to be suspicious of tampons all along, or even recommending alternatives that actually have very little to no research regarding the safety of long-term use, etc. it’s a different conversation, but categorical distrust of tampons is old-school misogyny. you certainly shouldn't wear them if you don’t want to, but there is nothing inherently scary or wrong about them, and people who prefer them are not being reckless or crass.)

((if you're really worried about exposure to heavy metals, you may want to turn a critical eye to fast fashion, as an aside))

[cyberpunkboytoy]

So there's the idea of "kitchen table poly," AKA "everyone in the polycule needs to be able to sit at a kitchen table together and get along like friends."

One of my roommates just came up with a counter idea, which is "poker table poly." Everyone in the polycule must be enemies. No one is allowed to get too chummy or they're kicked out. They all also likely owe eachother money.

[extravagantrook]

ky i swear

[farspaceapple]

"Roses are read. Violets are blue. You're a big dummy. No hiding the truth."

Nice poem, annnd how long did it take you to come up with that, Pipsqueak?

[sanhwaiting]

MEGAN BELOVED!!!! congrats on finishing another term! 😍☺️ I hope you're getting some well deserved rest time 💓

thank you chey!!! 🥰🥰🥰 i'm so happy hehe right now i'm trying to recreate my big pink hwa gifs from the real mv!! nothing makes me happier than being creative with the things i love :D and i hope you're having a good week tooo

[rubyfunkey]

Gay /pos /hj

which part is the half-joke the gay part or the pos part. my friend hannah wants to know

[envelopandkissme]

this fucks

[butchbait4butch]

hey transfems, i don't know which of you need to hear this but it's okay to never use your penis during sex if you don't want to. it's okay to tell your partner not to touch it, to ignore it even, and hold them to respecting that boundary, no matter how many times you've had sex with them, or even if you've had sex with them with your penis involved.

you're not weird or broken for having needs or having boundaries, and you deserve lovers who respect those needs and boundaries. as someone who knows first hand, it's not worth it not to speak up.

this is a post for bottoms, switches, and tops. for subs or dom/mes. for anyone who feels like their no will go unheard or that the only reason people are sexually interested in you are those who want a woman with a dick. i promise you there are people who are out there who will listen, who will get you, and who will treat you how you deserve.

in fact? that's the absolute base line that anyone deserves during sex, and you deserve that and so much more.