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here's what i've learned from fakeclaimers on what makes someone a faker in DID:

having a name that's too "out there"

not being cis gender

being lgbt in general

your alters have different names

you have more than 20 alters

being american

being white

having non-human alters

having introjects (especially of popular media)

being alternative

knowing youre a system

knowing even one fact about one of the alters

being a minor

posting videos/content about DID

liking anything mainstream

having alters with different interests and distinct differences

having little alters or alters of different ages

alters with pronouns (specifically neopronouns, or ones different from the bodies birth gender)

putting pins on your backpack (this is referencing a very specific post)

having a single ounce of fun

if you're any one of these then you're apparently faking and/or deserving of ridicule!!!

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ironically, a tumblr webcomic.

(bendy and boris: the quest for the ink machine)

I’m trans and stole my name from a streamer. Not even his biggest fan or anything I just heard the name Tanner and liked it, so now I’m curious where everyone else got their names from.

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me when the disorder starts disordering

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being blurry doesn't always mean you're a new alter

it's a normal experience for those with DID/OSDD

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hey guys can we please stop demonizing/censoring fusion and dormancy. it's literally a common experience with DID and is bound to happen, and i feel like censoring it is just gonna make people more scared about it. we've had a LOT of dormancy and a few fusions between alters, and guess what, we're fine. our system is basically the same still. yes, we don't have a few headmates anymore, but they're still technically with us?? not to mention that if dormancy is caused because the alter isn't necessarily needed, but can't fuse, is that not a good thing...? that an alter isn't needed anymore..? idfk maybe i got it fucked up but that's what i've grown to learn

istg some people treat it like they're dead or dying

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my DID experiences (that aren't TMI) are

waking up in an outfit totally different from your preferred style

thinking it's wednesday one day of the week when you're actually 3 days off, not sure if you were gone for three days or more without checking the numbered calendar

people you've never spoken to or even know their name waving to you in hallways

people claiming you go by names you've never gone by a day in your life

forgetting key details about loved ones (favorite shows, their birthdays, eye color)

notes you don't remember making and finding out it's something another part wrote

a part getting into arguments online and leaving you to deal with it not knowing anything about the topic

random flashbacks of my childhood that last for a few minutes, then suddenly go away

parts hiding objects or misplacing them (like the poster we got from a concert that one time...)

finding recordings of yourself that you have no memory of

as you can see, a lot of fucking amnesia

parts voices randomly commenting on things and ruining your concentration

not being able to pick an outfit since different parts in co-front want to wear different things

not being able to remember quarantine due to being stuck at home

most of these happened before we even knew of our system, and we just thought it was normal because it's what we've always known lol

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sometimes i just... forget we have amnesia. like i'm trying to remember something another part was told the other night, but it's just a total blank. i know what they were doing, vaguely, but i deadass cannot remember anything beyond that.

if i cant remember then it probably isn't important, but still. i just be forgetting sometimes

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reminder that victims of emotional neglect can tend to lash out or display negative emotions when comforted since they aren't used to it and don't know how to respond to genuine comfort since they're so used to being let down with empty promises of love and support.

this doesn't mean they're a bad person or don't want the love, it just means they haven't healed from their neglect and need time.

ofc not everyone who's gone through emotional neglect in childhood will react like this, but it's pretty common (from sm1 who's gone through that and reacts that same way), and should honestly be more talked abt and accepted.

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every now and again, i think of this post from r/systemcringe (that has since been taken down)

post below the cut

it's so funny to me cuz i have professionally diagnosed friends that have alters/parts called by different names and pronouns, ig their psychologist was wrong! /sarc

also the title of the post is so...?? "alters are inherently cringe" bruv🥀💔

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reminder to newly formed alters and people with DID/OSDD in general:

it's okay to not know who's fronting or who you are. you don't always have to know, and being blurry is an extremely common experience. it's literally called "dissociative identity disorder", and it's bound to happen. there's no pressure to immediately know who you are, and if you don't know, find out later. just get whatever you need to have done, done.

i see so many newly formed alters stress about whether or not they're an introject or brain made, and if they're an introject, "whats my source?". hey, you can figure that out all later. not to mention it doesn't necessarily matter if an alter is an introject or not, it's simply another alter here to help cope.

TLDR; you don't have to always know who's fronting, there should be no pressure to. do what's most important and figure it out later

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hey guys, just because someone else is traumatized does not make them a safe person!!!😀

someone can be traumatized and have two paths, get better and try to work from it, or pass down the trauma. believe it or not, there's people who go down the path of the latter.

traumatized ≠ safe person

please be more careful of who you trust online and don't think everyone is automatically a safe person because of a single factor!!! be wary!!

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HEAVY REBLOG. i never understood why they used those big ass emoji letters instead of just the keyboard, it's the same thing. also the emojis aren't even properly spaced and i cant even tell when a new word starts with those, and i'm not even visually impaired.

not to mention that these are made for "non-verbal" alters, except, THATS NOT WHAT NON VERBAL EVEN MEANS??? Non-verbal means you can't speak verbally, aka with your vocal cords, non-scribble means you can't write. PLEASE UNDERSTAND THE DIFFERENCE DEAR GOD. using emojis because youre "non-verbal" isn't even the right terminology.

I'm gunna say it. "AAC" discord emojis are more inaccessible than accessible AND they're stupid. If you add them to your discord server for "non verbal" people to use, you are making things actively more difficult for blind/visually impaired people. Have you ever had a screen reader try to read that shit? It's a pain in the ass I'll tell you that.

If you can type using letter or word emojis, you can type using letters or words. Your refusal to do so makes things so much harder for blind people and shows just how little you actually care about "accessibility".

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"you have DID? how many alters do you have?"

Why. Why do you need to know. What are you planning.

because no matter how you respond to the question, you'll get "that's too little, you're faking" , "that's too many, you're faking"

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i remember in 2020 or smth a lot of people were calling themselves polyfragmented systems, and then explaining that it was when you have 100+ alters

i was one of the people that were brainwashed into that belief (as well as many others but i'm better now), and finding out that that's actual at NOT what polyfragmented means is crazy to me

being polyfragmented means your system is primarily made up of fragmented alters, aka not fully formed AND high amnesia barriers. i know we only have a few fragments in our system, they don't even have names nor proper pronouns. only one of them actually has a "name" but someone just gave it that name to dehumanize it—

looking back on all of those videos of people saying they're polyfragmented while having seemingly well identified alters/fragments makes me realize just how many people back then were misled😭😭

ik it's a stupid revaluation like "no shit ozzy a lot of people in 2020 were misled" but i mean as in im STILL discovering things we were lied to about

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Post: “Ableism… is bad.”

Tags: “actually guys I’m ableist”

Pick a lane man

did an endo write this💀

y'all get to comfortable with anonymity

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I js wanna let you know how many of us laughed when we saw "Endogenic systems (Or just anyone who isn't a traumagenic system.. it's the only real origin...)" next to "Fakeclaimers (duh)" In your DNI

Do you not see the irony?????/gen

dawg you cant have DID if it doesn't come from trauma, r u stupid. it's such a critical part of the diagnostic criteria💀

DID stems from trauma!!!

anonymous asks are officially being removed, stop being a pussy and just use ur actual blog