#< solely bc im aroace

[vee-lociraptor]

being aro and having platonic crushes is so embarrassing like. yeah i wanna be your stupid friend or whatever. kicks a rock like an idiot.

[xxe123spiderfreakxx]

here u go :) if u date one of my buddies u better be ready to accept ur not the only one who gets physical intimacy from them <3

[glubandeepspace]

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[huntressofartemis001]

im starting to watch hazbin hotel solely bc of the red aroace guy btw

[posi-pan]

my identity is hated by so many bc of aphobia, queerphobia transphobia, homophobia etc.

(in case youre curious i identify as a pan lesbian oriented aroace semi binary tran woman/transfemme/nothing or if im feeling nasty/vibes right heartless soulless sexless asexi faerie (and many other reclaimed slurs) +my username suffices.)

anyways aside from that im not sure if youve explicitly said yes or no to this but do you think "pannie" is a slur? (its fine if you dont have an exact answer im just curious.)

hi again! so when it comes to pannie being a slur or not, i don't really have an opinion on it tbh. and i'm cool with however others want to categorize it in good faith. i will say though that i find it utterly ridiculous that some people (*cough* panphobes *cough*) get mad or mocking when people do call it a slur. like, if people use a word as a slur, use it in place of a neutral word solely to express hatred/contempt/ill will/violence/etc. about a group of marginalized people, it's probably gonna get called a slur, ya know? so i get why people call it a slur and i get why non-panphobes might not think of it with the severity that tends to come to mind with the word slur, i just don't have a personal stance on it one way or the other.

[daily-ink-mk]

"hey where you goin, guy?"

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[rainbow-universe]

This is random but do you have any favorite aro characters in media? Or characters who give you aro vibes?

No pressure!!

Ack! Oooooh good question!

Ok so idk many canon aro characters (which is sad there needs to be more and i am finding more but alas we have not met yet) but i do know some!! as for headcanoning, honestly i need to headcanon more characters as aro lol. disclaimer,, i went around looking at other peoples headcanons and agreed with them and now i share them with you :)) but also like for these characters i just have vibes and no explanation, solely going off what headcanons i saw that made me go “oooh yes” with no solid reasoning

CANON

BOOKS/COMICS/ETC

Jughead Jones from the Archie Comics: an iconic aroace

Yelena Belova from the Marvel Comics: is canonically aroace afaik so go her, she’s fantastic

Georgia Warr from Loveless (Alice Oseman): is aroace!! 😭😭 her story devastated me in its relatability but it’s fantastic and i love her

Gwen from An Accident of Stars (Foz Meadows): an alloaro in a polyamorous relationship and has a kid. It’s canonically mentioned offhandedly but it’s NOT Her Entire Personality™️ !! Plus she’s a kickass character (And the whole book is filled with polyamory!!) i love Gwen, she’s a really cool character

HEADCANONS

BOOKS/COMICS/ETC

Garfield: i saw it. i liked it. fuck yah

Edmund Pevensie from the Chronicles of Narnia: yes. why not. yes. i saw the headcanon and just,, agreed with i.

Saiki K: haven’t watched the anime or read the manga but it’s on my list and therefore so is he. why not

Elatsoe from Elatsoe (Darcie Little Badger): canonically ace, not stated that she’s aro BUT THERE WAS A MOMENT WHEN A FRIEND OF HERS WAS LIKE “you can bring a friend or a zucchini” or something AND I SQUEED BC QPR’S FOR THE WIN !! that little mention made me really happy. anyways yah she could totally be arospec

Bruce Wayne from Batman Comics/DC: i mean,,, the fact that im pretty sure he’d never give up being Batman for anyone, like sure he’ll have relationships and w/e but like,, idk it makes sense to me

Damian Wayne from Batman Comics/DC: yes. aro or arospec Damian just makes sense for some reason. i would also go as far as saying arospec Jason Todd as well ….

Bakugou Katsuki from My Hero Academia: aspec Bakugou just,, i love aspec Bakugou. it just makes sense to me. and i love it.

Todoroki Shouto from My Hero Academia: yes. he just has them aro/arospec vibes tbh

MOVIES/SHOWS/TV/ETC

Natasha Romanoff from the MCU: ive heard this before and i agree w aro or arospec Natasha. just yes.

Bruce Banner from the MCU: yes. not to mention the Hulk is green 👀 we love aro colours (and his purple shirts?? aroACE vibes !! 👀)

Loki from the MCU: absolutely. have y’all seen the amount of green he wears? and just his vibes. yes.

Tony Stark from the MCU: ya know now that im thinking about it, he’s got aro vibes.

The Doctor from Doctor Who: yes. never watched Doctor Who but i did read that one tumblr post about aro characters being passionate about their interests and i loved the headcanons from it so The Doctor makes the list

Enjorlas from Les Misérables: from that same post so yes

Newt Geiszler from Pacific Rim: again the same post, and yes i see it (kaiju!!)

Sherlock Holmes: as much as i love Johlock as a ship, aro or arospec Sherlock just Makes Sense™️ (and can still work with Johnlock heh)

Elsa from Frozen: aroace or wlw (or both 👀)

Merida from Brave: yes. totally aro. i love her.

Milo Thatch from Atlantis: The Lost Empire: from that one post lol. (and like,,, yes. yes.)

Maleficent from Sleeping Beauty: aroace icon. (we love villainous aroace’s lol /just as genuine as sarcastic) all that green and purple?? yessssssssss

Hiro Hamada from Big Hero 6: (i need to rewatch this movie lol) i saw headcanons for it and immediately agreed. i love aroace Hiro. it makes sense to me

Castiel and Dean Winchester from Supernatural: ya know, arospec Cas and arospec Dean just seem to make sense to me. idk why couldn’t tell ya but it does

Luke Skywalker & Rey from Star Wars: they just have aro vibes. even if Rey’s in a polycule w Finn and Poe, she’s still aro or arospec imo

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That one tumblr post in question:

[hematomes]

if your still doing character asks: diluc and kaeya

diluc!!!

Sexuality Headcanon: aroace pan

Gender Headcanon: ftm ftm ftm ftm

A ship I have with said character: not rly attached to any tbh

A BROTP I have with said character: zhongli, solely bc the brewer event almost offered us the weirdest, tamest interaction ever. they drink tea together idc

A NOTP I have with said character: jeanluc... yikes. mostly bc i don't see any chemistry personally. like.. at all

A random headcanon: he has a small peacock feather tattooed on his wrist

General Opinion over said character: i love him so much and i wish he wasn't this emotionally constipated but it's also parts of his charm so it's okay. im also fixating on the cn interpretation of kaeya & diluc's relationship bc i like studying translations and this case is one of the most interesting in genshin specifically bc it varies wildly from one version to another and it's been translated from cn to jp before even reaching eng, and then most of the other languages use the eng translation as a base so it's BOUND to be lost in translation. but it just ends up sparking sterile debates and shit

kaeyaaaa

Sexuality Headcanon: bi icon ngh

Gender Headcanon: also ftm >:)

A ship I have with said character: kaecrose kaecrose kaecrose kaecrose <333 also kaebecrose bc they all have two hands. AND rosakae. bi icons

A BROTP I have with said character: rosaria as well WOOO. also childe

A NOTP I have with said character: kaebedo on their own like the ship isn't bad but the shippers have effectively ruined it for me

A random headcanon: he has a phoenix feather tattooed on his wrist :]

General Opinion over said character: i love him and desire him both carnally and emotionally. he is criminally underrated as anything other than a sweet piece of tatas and that makes me sad bc ok he has amazing tits but he has more to offer ok. no ass, tho. also same thing that i mentioned w diluc, it's a pity bc we could explore their relationship but alas

[atvbs]

YOU LIKE KAMIKUZU?! IM OBSESSED WITH THAT, HOW FAR ARE YOU INTO IT (niyodo and asahi are aroace solidarity i think. besties)

i just started it last night and finished ep 2 but i LOVE it so far FjwkjFHISJDJS

i solely watched it bc imai moment :^) its so silly

and youre SO right theyre such aroace besties… i love the main three so badly

[404s-archive]

Same thing happened to me op. I also got (c)SA'd in my first ever relationship (Im aroace too and if I'm not misremembering my ex gf was polyam as well). And for a long time I put the blame solely on me bc I thought I cheated, when in reality I got taken advantage of (I was 14-15 when it happened and the other person was in his/her mid 20s so... kinda not the same situation but I know it sucks no matter the age) point is, don't take all the blame on yourself pal, it's a messy situation and, in your case, you're all young prone to make mistakes so it's not like any of you are pure evil irredeemable villains.

I never really reached out to my ex because she has anxiety and i didn't want to distress her (and we've both moved on by now), so I guess what I'm trying to say with this is that if you're both ok you can still communicate, not neccesarily with the intention to go back together but at the very least get closure, and if you feel safe to do so, get therapy, or at the very least check on your mental health too.

AITA for "unknowingly" cheating on my girlfriend?

🤍🍇 so i recognize post

preface: yes i am, theres no excuse, i just want to hear more ppl's thought because different ppl in my life have very different opinions on this??? even though i think cheating is cut and dry?

earlier this year, i (20nb, tho i was 19 at the time) was in a purely monogamous relationship with my ex (19f). there were ups and downs, i had some issues that i really shouldve talked to her about, but overall it was the best experience. id never dated anybody before. she's the only person who ive ever loved in that way. i think shes the best person, funny, smart. i was really lucky to have her.

i have another friend, who i'll call H (21f), who has been my friend for years. we're really close, and we've shared a lot with each other. i also love her deeply, though in a different, entirely platonic way. she has told me that she loves me, and has loved me in romantic ways, even though i've never reciprocated (im fine with that, everyone in my main friend group is a little bit polyamorous).

there were two main incidents that happened between me and H. the first, i didnt really understand what was going on or that it was entirely wrong. we were cuddling, which i do with all of my friends, and she started getting really into it and getting on top of me. she asked if she could kiss me (on the lips) and i said no, partly because, well, i had a monogamous partner, and partly because i hate kissing on the lips. i probably shouldve entirely cut it off at that moment. my only excuse (which is pretty flimsy) is that, im kinda aroace so physical affection and the difference between platonic and romantic have always left me a little confused. i kinda thought this was normal, especially because H is polyamorous and in several relationships that heavily blur the lines between platonic and romantic.

then, about two weeks after that, H and i hung out again, but this time we were smoking marijuana. weed makes me highly suggestible and also incapable of remembering anything past about five seconds. not that im blaming the drugs, just describing the situation. basically, H and i were cuddling again when she decided to move on top of me and got flirty, with a lot of touching sensitive places for the purpose of getting a reaction (all above the belt). i went along with this because i respect H, ive known her for a long time, and i didnt want to say no to her. again, not an excuse, because she didnt force me to do it.

in the moment, i didnt think this was cheating. we werent doing anything explicitly sexual, we weren't making out, but we were definitely frisky and i know H was horny at the time. a couple hours later, when i sobered up, i suddenly realized what we had done and asked H if i had just cheated on my girlfriend. she also seemed to realize what had just happened and we agreed that i had cheated, that it was entirely wrong, and we should never do it again.

i decided to tell my ex about this immediately, because i thought she should know. i asked if she was in a position to hear bad news, and when she was, i was completely honest. she obviously didnt take it well, mentioning how she felt like she could never trust me again despite being the person she trusted most in the world. she loved me but this was unacceptable and a huge violation. i agreed, and after a bit of thinking, i told her that i thought we should break up. i had terrible guilt about what i'd done and assumed that we'd never recover, and it didnt seem like she could pull the plug, so i did.

she proceeded to get even more mad at me because of this, which in hindsight is completely understandable. from her perspective, i had just dropped two emotional bombs on her, and maybe i was implying that i liked H more than her. i wasnt, and i dont, but i know why it came across that way.

my other friends agreed with me that i shouldve broken up with her after that. in hindsight, i dont know if it was the right choice. i miss her dearly and wish i had worked more on the relationship.

we've since talked about it. i told her that i still loved her (bc i do, very deeply, and i dont know if i'll ever get over her) but said that i dont expect anything, dont expect a relationship, etc. she was okay with this because, in her words, she trusts me to not make it a big deal or awkward. we hang out frequently now, we watch anime together, and we get along well as friends. i feel so lucky that she is willing to spend time with me, that she still enjoys my company even a little bit.

the confusing part is that i told my dad about this and he basically said, "you were 19yo in a long distance, online-only relationship. this was inevitable and you shouldnt feel too bad about it. it was wrong but not the worst thing ever." i dont really agree with that, because it was a pretty serious relationship despite being online. we even met up at a convention and spent several nights together in a hotel. it was the happiest weekend of my life. i thought i could marry her maybe someday. and i dont think being 19yo justifies it. 13yo maybe, but i was old enough to know right from wrong, even if my knowledge about romantic and sexual relationships was underdeveloped.

basically, im looking for nuanced opinions. i fully expect the results to be YTA. im hoping ppl can give me any sort of insight in the comments.

PS: H is partially to blame bc she knew i was in a monogamous relationship but please dont hate on her too much in the comments, we've had a lot of talks about this and what happened drastically changed the way the both of us see relationships and each other. basically, she learned her lesson and she was never trying to be a bitch or a homewrecker. i know her well enough to know shes a good person at heart. she's also not on tumblr to see any of your comments. direct all of you criticism towards me, please.

What are these acronyms?

[breakfastteatime]

bnhhnf not a hc but im just dumping it here bc i feel you'd have a good take on this i can't properly contextualise into words (but don't feel forced to reply im just rambling here)

but i REALLY hope merrical doesn't become a thing in survivor not because i personally dont like the ship/have contradicting hcs but because i feel like it'd take so much away from what the original game was about? itd change the entire tone away from the series and really make it stand out negatively.. like fo handled its character relationships REALLY well especially familial, and even though it is a star wars game with action and laser swords i feel like they really hammered in that the message of the game was about these individuals from various different backgrounds who have all had something horrible happen to them or been through a bad experience coming together to heal. to me, the game is about healing from your trauma and i loved that there was nothing romantic about it like i see so many media on that topic do (eg having chr1 be magically okay and happy bc chr2 kiss them etc) and i feel putting in romance after would just cheapen it???? jfo was REALLY good at balancing the different scenes, and they all blended into eachother in a way that made sense.. assuming survivor will be similar to fo, i cant imagine how they would fit a romance arc into it that isnt just a singular kiss and holding hands in cutscenes, aka never touched upon. also, theyd need to do like... entirely new coding and text dialogues for the optional conversations

i also really hope it doesn't happen because it would follow the ever tiring trope of "a guy and a girl of similar age now exist in the same space, obviously there's some tension😏 because guys and girls can't JUST be friends😏😏" and as someone on the aroace spectrum it's so UGH to me because for starters it's so??? corny?? its the most boring way to start a romance ..

anyway BSHDJFJS i am so sorry for the rant i just am a lil salty about the entire concept... might just be me but i love medias with no romance at all that solely focuses on found family and i want jfo + js to continue that🤷‍♂️

Yeah, as an asexual person, one of the things I always liked about the Jedi Order is how they are (in the films at least, EXCEPT YOU ANAKIN AND LOOK HOW THAT TURNED OUT) portrayed as not having romantic attachments which is why I loved it, even as a child. I felt like finally I had some good representation... It's why I only really accept the first 6 films and JFO as canon (lol sorry to all animation / sequel fans. I CAN PICK AND CHOOSE WHAT I LIKE!!!!!) (okay fine, I don't mind parts of The Mandalorian either...) I would *love* it if they keep Cal and Merrin as just friends with more of a sibling vibe, but *if* they don't, well, that's what headcanons are for. However, that said, given how well-written the first game is, I have hope that it would be handled gracefully.

It would be so nice to have another story without romance of any kind!! Breakfast Tea Inc is ALL FOUND FAMILY, ALL THE TIME.

[aroaceconfessions]

My friends got mad at me over this so now I need to know if I’m the only one who feels this way. I always like animal/monster designs better than human characters solely bc all human character designs feel kind of the same (all of them are clearly just typically attractive people for the most part) while monsters and animals are given cool, unique, and memorable designs. Like why would I remember Dark Haired Guy #507 when there’s a super cool monster I’ve never seen before?

My friends got mad bc they thought I was saying I thought their OCs were ugly when this came up. But like I don’t think human characters are ugly, just that all of them are something I’ve seen before while other creatures are given all sorts of unique designs since they’re not intended to be attractive. Bc im aroace and there’s no attraction there’s just no huge appeal in ‘attractive’ character designs so they feel overdone.

[gompereatsall]

Also if you wanna, juza hyodo and yuki rurikawa for the ask game too!!

(i'll be real, it's been a while since I've consumed canon a3 content, so,,, some stuff might be inaccurate my bad)

it's the guy i share a bday with, juza!!

favorite thing about them: his whole deal about being self conscious about who you are?? like. like his whole portrait episode. my god. that alone made him one of my favorite characters. his character growth about being more confident not only on stage but in other stuff like life?? im in love

least favorite thing about them: I? I literally can't think of anything?? i guess just how much sugar he eats, i mean yeah it's hilarious but also guy please. please no (i mean this light heatedly dw)

favorite line: I'll be honest, I'll be skipping these ones because I cannot remember any quotes for the life of my lmao (I JUST SAW YOUR POST IT'S "Uh... what sounds so bears make again? Beeeaaar!")

brOTP: muku and kumon,,,,, I love when the family hangs out, those three are my faves <33 ALSO O High Boys are so good,, those three make the PERFECT asobi asobase au ever

OTP: juza x banri 100%, the rivals to friends to lovers,,, so good,,,

nOTP: other than the obvious kumon and muku, no one in particular? also no weird age stuff, like anyone in high school when he's in college

random headcanon: has acne bc of all the sugar he eats. also he has lots of energy bc of the sugar he eats. he has to bounce his legs or tap his fingers or SOMETHING, he also just lays awake at night because he can't resist eating something sweet before going to bed...

unpopular opinion: fandom makes him a big himbo and, in juban fics, only cares about banri and i?? I don't like that?? please expand on his family and his whole self esteem issues. I want fics about his self esteem issues please

song i associate with them: UHH AGAIN I DON'T HAVE A LOT OF SONGS... I'm also so bad at assigning songs to characters that aren't my OCs... ig Sweet Magic by Junky PURELY for all the sweets and desserts and not the actual meaning lmao. Also maybe Ado's Gira Gira?? About his scary demeanor and all. (Also just figured out that the songs don't have to fit them, just remind me of them. These two may not fit but I always think of Juza when I listen to them.) Also Akatsuki Arrival!! Makes me think of Juza and Banri everytime :)

favorite picture of them: This card is the good shit. I have no idea why, I just like his outfit lmaoo

YUKI TIME

favorite thing about them: he's so sassy, and i LOVE his quips

least favorite thing about them: uhhh idk, let people in more?? talk out your problems man idk

favorite line: skip, sorry

brOTP: UGH friendship with muku, first of all. I love those two so much <33 also I love his friendship with Azami and then bonding over their dislike of Sakyo working with like fashion and make up (idk, i've always related those two things closely together). Obviously he's very close to the summer troupe, but i love him hanging out with misumi, kazunari, and kumon just to be their sole braincell

OTP: actually no one?? because i headcanon him as aroace, I don't ship him with anyone. Platonically however, him and muku are very cute <33

nOTP: nothing really, just no weird age stuff (so no one from the winter troupe, and no one in college)

random headcanon: his arm has small, tiny injuries from missing the pincushion, and the pins just stabbing his arm. This only happens when he's REALLY focused and is 'in the zone,' so he doesn't really feel it when it happens.

unpopular opinion: idk, i can't really think of anything? yeah he enjoys wearing skirts and dresses, but only because women's clothing are more fashionable and prettier than men's clothing. He also really enjoys wearing guy stuff if it's really cool or fashionable. he also doesn't really like wearing make up; doesn't like the feeling of it on his face

song i associate with them: Jitterbug I feel fits Yuki really well! Surii's Telecaster B-Boy also fits i think!

favorite picture of them: UGH THIS CARD OF HIM HAS ALWAYS BEEN ONE OF MY FAVORITES, I JUST LOVE HIS CLOTHES i am,,, very weak for traditional clothing,,,

[chiluc]

if no one else sent u diluc for the character ask game yet then.. Him... but if they have u could also do childe bc i am genuinely curious abt that one ngl

THANK YOU FOR THE ASK BLOOK ILY <3

since i havent done either of them i will do both :) bc these silly little anime men live in my head rent free!

first impression - PLEASE THIS IS SO FUNNY. I DESPISED DILUC WHEN HE FIRST APPEARED I SAW HIM AND THOUGHT HE WAS A CISHET </3 can you believe. he was my first 5* character that i pulled and i was SO upset bc out of all the characters i couldve gotten it HAD to be the one and only character that i hated.

from the moment i saw childe i just knew he was an unhinged bitch boy <3 and i loved that for him <3 not much has changed (ngl i am a HUGE sucker for that archetype <3 character who puts on a nice and friendly facade but actually kills people for fun my beloved 🥰)

impression now - diluc my beloved 🥰❤️💕 would literally die for him and i actually cried when i pulled him on my alt account he means so much to me. baby you 🥰 literally my sole source of serotonin thank you diluc mwah mwah

childe is still an unhinged bitch boy what can i say <3 i hate him 🥰

sort of unrelated but childe and diluc have switched places in my team as main dps and sub dps bc diluc sets everything on fire and ends up with like 25% of his hp left when im done killing things so 😔✌️

favorite moment - literally every moment 🥰 love you so muchh diluc 🥰 okay okay slight spoilers for diluc story quest but when he is sassy toward huffman 🥰 so true king please speak more 🥰

spoilers for the main story quest but i LOVE when childe finally drops his facade and becomes uninhibitedly chaotic and then IMMEDIATELY after losing the fight with the traveler hes just like haha my bad bestie! no hard feelings <3 and then unleashes the fucking god of the ocean and peaces out <3 king behavior!

idea for a story - oh do not get me started. i literally have lost track of how many aus i have for Them it's actually so bad. i think my favorite au is where childe betrays the fatui and takes the gnoses for himself and becomes the archon of all the elements :) and diluc serves as his diplomat bc i said so 💅 they get married and have a huge fancy wedding and diluc becomes the pyro archon and yes i am mentally ill <3 do not talk to me about this or else i will never shut up this is a promise

unpopular opinion - i do not like zhongli/tartaglia as a ship. idk it's like the power imbalance i think but something about it rubs me the wrong way. also i cannot see zhongli as anything but an aroace grandpa i am sorry but chili shippers are incorrect (/j)! like i do not care if you ship them but it is not for me! i stay as far away from the genshin fandom as possible while still running a genshin blog so idek what other opinions are unpopular but yeah. thats the big one

favorite relationship - hopefully you all already know this but chiluc (childe/diluc) lives in my mind remt free and in fact i am the one paying rent bc they force me to draw them every fucking day of my life and they are canonically married i do not make the rules they told me this themselves. they are in love.

besides the obvious answer though i also am OBSESSED with xiao/diluc as friends and childe/kaeya as fwbs do not ask how any of this came to be because i do not know! my brain is eroded <3

favorite headcanon - diluc is autistic and childe is adhd this is true and correct and i will die on this hill. another headcanon i have based on dilucs specialty dish (pile em up) is that diluc holds the record for pile em up and to this day has not been defeated <3

a headcanon i have for childe is that hes really good at styling long hair because he takes care of his younger siblings a lot and yes this is for the purposes of furthering the chiluc agenda but it just makes cents luv!!! 💅

ask game here!

[aspecpplarebeautiful]

@ aroace person w a pan friend: i echo u should just flat out ask! it makes everything a lot simpler and quicker!

however it could just be them being affectionate! it sounds like im similiar to ur friens in the way im rather affectionate to all my friends w compliments/love bc its a part of my love language and how i show i love them! although i say love, i think love isnt solely romantic so this includes my platonic love :> !

ofc i dont know ur friend or how theyre usually like but there is a possibility thats just how they show their appreciation to u :0

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im aroace and while i kinda gave up already on explaining my parents what it means and just leaving it as 'i dont wanna have a boyfriend and get married' i want to know what are their thoughts on lgtba+ people bc i dont really know what they think of it and i have a lot of lgtba+ friends and i dont want to have to hide this fact but im scared of how my parents could react? sorry for the messy ask im just really conflicted about this

It’s alright! I’m sorry you’re in such a tough spot. Thanks for coming to us!

Before coming out, I would try to sound out your parents’ opinion of the LGBT+ community. Maybe mention that you watched a TV show with an LGBT+ character. For example, “You know the show Shadowhunters? I watched it recently. Did you know it has gay characters?” I know that that doesn’t really apply to aro/ace people, but it might be a way to see their opinion on the matter, based on their reaction. 

It sounds like maybe you kind of already told your parents that you’re aroace, but you would rather come out all the way. 

These are links to all kinds of coming out resources, dedicated solely to or including a lot of information about asexuality and/or aromanticism. (X X X)

And here are some general coming out resource masterposts! (X X)

There are also videos on Youtube explaining asexuality and aromanticism, so you could check those out too! (If you are able to) I’m not going to link to those because choosing which video to use, if you use one at all, is a decision that depends on what you’re family is like, and how you want it to be explained.

I hope I was able to help! If you would like to practice coming out, by sending us what you’re planning to say or do, I would be happy to help you out! You can message me at @madeline-who-1122 or send another ask to the blog.

The best of luck to you!

-Madeline