#// including seeking out that support when he starts to feel the pressure

[ahqkas]

Can I request headcanons for Charles Smith and Arthur Morgan with shy gn!s/o please?

SHOW ME HOW ; arthur morgan & charles smith

PAIRINGS! arthur morgan x gn!reader, charles smith x gn!reader

SYNOPSIS! too shy to talk, but your man got you

RED READ REDEMPTION 2 MASTERLIST!

ARTHUR MORGAN IS ALWAYS MINDFUL OF THE COMFORT AND FEELINGS HIS LOVED ONES NEED. His rough exterior hides a surprisingly gentle and considerate nature, which would shine in his interactions with his beloved partner. He pushes past his limits and beyond to create a safe and reassuring place, even if it’s only in the space of his old tent.

At the beginning, Arthur would be particularly attentive to your body language and non-verbal cues, his senses quickly picking up on what makes you comfortable and what makes you anxious. He’d approach you with a soft-spoken tone, his usual gruffness pushed aside for the others (Sean, Bill, Micah). The outlaw is cracking bad jokes left and right, trying to coax a laugh out of you to ease the tension.

Arthur’s protective side would come out more than ever. He’d always be on the lookout, ensuring you feel safe, especially when you’re around members of the gang that are known to be difficult or in unfamiliar territory. He'd stand close to you, offering silent support with his presence, ready to step in and threaten whoever makes you feel uncomfortable. His protective nature would extend to his actions, often putting your needs above his own as if it was nothing. You didn’t know you were his everything, and Arthur had already lost too much to risk.

In quieter moments, Arthur would find ways to connect with you that don’t rely on words if you don’t talk much. He’d enjoy simply sitting together, perhaps by the campfire or under the stars, finding comfort in each other’s company, shoulder pressing into yours to have some sort of physical connection. He might share stories from his life, revealing his own vulnerabilities to encourage you to open up at your own pace. The gentleman he can be, his respect for your boundaries would be evident, never pressuring you to speak more than you’re comfortable with.

When it comes to physical affection, Arthur would be equally considerate. He’d move slowly, always ensuring his touch is welcomed and appreciated. Small, gentle gestures would be his way of expressing love - holding your hand or offering a soft kiss to the backs of your hands. Each touch would be tender and feather-like.

He’d praise your strengths and achievements, however small, and offer support when you face difficult times. His belief in you is unwavering, always there to reassure you that you’re stronger than you think.

You’re his, after all. If you can handle the bear of a man, you can handle anything else in the entire world.

CHARLES SMITH’S CALM AND PATIENT SOUL IS THE PERFECT MATCH FOR YOURS.

From the start, Charles would make it clear that he values you for who you are, shyness included. He’d listen attentively to your thoughts and feelings, offering a non-judgmental space for you to express yourself at your own pace. His soft-spoken wise voice and reassuring presence would help to ease any anxieties you may have about opening up. If you’re speaking in a group, he’d glare anybody down who dared to speak over you.

The man would be incredibly observant, picking up on your subtle cues and emotions. He’d intuitively understand when you need space and when you need his attention. His ability to read people like an open book would create a sense of security, knowing that he instantly knows what’s up without you even expressing the problem.

In social situations, Charles would be your loyal companion, providing quiet support and encouragement. He’d never push you to be more outgoing than you’re comfortable with as he is himself more on the quieter side. He has an unwavering belief in your abilities.

Physical affection with Charles would be tender and reassuring. He’d be attuned to your comfort level, always seeking your consent before initiating any form of intimacy. Whether it’s holding hands, sharing a hug, or a soft kiss on the cheek, each gesture would be done with your permission. If you don’t like showing the touch for the world to see, he’d make it up for you in the private space only you two share.

Charles would also go out of his way to make you feel special and appreciated. He’d show his love through thoughtful gestures and gifts, like bringing your favorite flowers or sharpening your weapons for you at the camfire. His acts of kindness would be a reflection of his deep affection for you, a way of showing that he’s attentive to your needs and desires without you even speaking a word.

Those who wrong you better be prepared to live through the wrath of Charles Smith. He’s silent, but his strength is loud.

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[trashytoastboi]

Day of Pride - Lucifer

~SFW Alphabet~

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A = Affection (How affectionate are they? How do they show affection?)

🎶 His style is quality over quantity. He’s a bit reserved when in public, and he will never hesitate to put a guiding hand on your back. He enjoys holding your hand to prevent getting separated but also just for the sake of holding your hand. He values more intimate affection when in private when he doesn’t have to worry about others and personally enjoys whenever you’re affectionate towards him. 

B = Best Friend (What would they be like as a best friend? How would the friendship start?)

🎶 His presence is comforting, he’s the friend to seek out for sound advice who will get angry on your behalf and try to find a way to solve your problems, he is dependable and trustworthy. He is supportive and encouraging in a calm manner but will always warn you of potential problems or obstacles ahead. In a word you would call him your wisest friend, he enjoys your company and likes watching operas, ballet performances, musicals and the theater in general. Other activities include relaxing in museums, art galleries and fine dining. 

C = Cuddles (Do they like to cuddle? How would they cuddle) 

🎶   He is a sensual man and believes touch can convey a lot of intimacy and enjoys the closeness of that when cuddling. That’s why it’s appealing to him, it’s also quiet and simple. It conveys trust and comfort without words to misconstrued things in the funny way they do. Lucifer kept people at an arm's length after everything that happened, his brothers are the closest to his heart but even with them he keeps the image of the strong, unbreakable and dependable older brother. When he’s in your arms however, that’s all irrelevant. He can just be himself, no pressures, no image, no worries. He can sink into the comfort of the touch and warmth you give him. Making him feel like he can properly rest for the first time in a long time. 

D = Domestic (Do they want to settle down? How are they at cooking and cleaning?) 

🎶 10/10 - Can cook and clean perfectly, he enjoys it. Something about dusting and rearranging his record collection is soothing, he is usually the one to pick up the chore slack if there is an unavoidable circumstance, such as people being strung up from the ceiling. Especially likes being able to cook meals for you, finds it pleasant when you enjoy his food and compliment his skills. Lucifer is usually very busy and doesn’t always cook or clean, but he can. (House husband material)

E = Ending (If they had to break up with their partner, how would they do it?)

🎶 He is an adult about it, he’s mature about the situation and it’s not messy nor argumentative. It comes in the form of a very long discussion, speaking about what he wants mutually from a partner, compromises he can make and those he will not. He will only end the relationship if he feels it’s unrecoverable, not from a lack of trying from his side. He stays level headed and hides his sadness well, even after the separation he will always be amicable and a gentleman. 

F = Fiance(e) (How do they feel about commitment? How quickly would they want to get married.)

🎶 Marriage wasn’t something that dwelled on Lucifer’s mind, he had too many things to worry about and attend to before he could even consider marriage. Of course his perspective shifted after meeting you, when he had the blessing of peace and settlement in Devildom, his mind could afford to wander to things like that for himself. Even without a ring, he is wholly committed to you, probably the one and only person he would say that too. But you are precious, in every way. Even if it is a gesture, a human gimmick, he would like to settle down with you. 

G = Gentle (How gentle are they? Both physically and emotionally.)

🎶 Lucifer is a sadistic person at the best of times, especially when dishing out his punishments. But to you, the sole exception, he’s practically a lamb. His brothers protest constantly about how unfair it is that his punishments for you are much milder than what he gives them. He’s gentle towards you, not at first, but when your relationship began to evolve so did his treatment. He’s firm especially when it comes to your wellbeing but he is gentle towards you and always acts with consideration for your thoughts and feelings. There is intent behind his actions and sometimes even if they don’t make sense you are assured that he always acts in your best interest. 

H = Hugs (Do they like hugs? How often do they do it? What are their hugs like?) 

🎶 His hugs always feel comforting, he’s reserved in public and refrains from too much outward PDA but aside from all his secretive little touches and gestures, a hug is one of those things that he doesn’t mind other people seeing. He usually pairs his hugs with calming actions like rubbing your back or stroking your hair. If you’re upset or angry he’ll calm you down with a gentle sway and with his arms around you, it feels like the safest place on earth. 

I = I love you (How fast do they say the L-Word) 

🎶 He doesn’t say it soon- not until he knows that he means it with his whole being. It’s not a word that Lucifer would ever throw around lightly and he wouldn’t say it if he was uncertain of his feelings towards you. It was anxiety inducing at first when he never said it, Lucifer would speak those sweet words of affection, those almost seductive whispers praising you but there was an absence of love in them. When Lucifer came to terms with his feelings, he was the first one to tell you about them. 

J = Jealousy (How jealous do they get? What do they do when they're jealous?) 

🎶 Lucifer doesn’t get jealous easily, hearing news of you hanging out with his brothers and the like isn’t enough to make him upset. He knows he’s special to you and he feels secure in that reasoning, he might get a little irritated more so than jealous. Even when seeing random people hitting on you, he’ll simply make sure that they’re aware that you’re his partner. He doesn’t entertain jealous feelings. Although he can use it as a reason to spend more time with you, telling you that he’s feeling a little sad that you haven’t been spending as much time with him. Seeing Lucifer so subdued when he asks for your attention is adorable. 

K = Kisses (What are their kisses like? Where do they like to kiss you? Where do they like to be kissed?)

🎶 Tantalizing and slow, it’s almost like he overwhelms you with passionate kisses and pulls away leaving you wanting more. You were surprised about how he kissed you the first time, but Lucifer said he takes pride in his kisses and knows that you’ll love them. He also has a tendency to kiss your hand whenever greeting you, or sometimes even as an affectionate gesture, and kisses your forehead/top of your head usually when he hugs you. He doesn’t mind where you kiss him, he enjoys your kisses but seeing you reciprocate his hand kisses is adorable and endearing to him. 

L = Little Ones (How are they around children?)

🎶 Considering he is the eldest of his band of unruly brothers he’s very equipped and experienced when handling children. He knows how to talk to them, interact with them and even persuade them. Lucifer does have patience with the younger ones and even if he gets irritated he will hide it well. He’s stern but also rewards them for good behavior. In your mind you often see Lucifer leading the young ones like a mother duck and her ducklings in tow. 

M = Morning (How are mornings spent with them?)

🎶 He’s set in a very relaxed morning routine that includes enjoying drinking some coffee and waking up gradually, he gets ready at a leisurely pace and can eat in peace without having to rush. For someone who is always busy and does so much, his morning routine is very relaxed. He usually wakes you up 20 minutes later than he gets up, usually with a warm beverage and a good morning kiss. He enjoys idle chatter while getting ready and has developed a bad habit of intentionally leaving his tie crooked so you’ll fix it for him. 

N = Night (How are nights spent with them?)

🎶 Lucifer is usually busy with paperwork that he couldn't attend to in the day, he’s quite the workaholic and often brings work home with him. He sets himself up with a record and a cup of tea while he pages through things, sorting them into piles, it’s almost like his own form of homework. He welcomes your presence if you don’t mind his attention being focused on his admin, but he doesn’t force you to sit with him. There’s been more than a few occasions when you’ve fallen asleep and he drops everything to carry you off to bed. 

O = Open (When would they start revealing things about themselves? Do they say everything all at once or wait a while and reveal things slowly?)

🎶 He’s closed off, not intentionally but he doesn’t want people worrying about him. He’s the eldest, he has to always appear strong so his younger brothers won’t worry. Lucifer didn’t know when to switch that off, so he usually kept things to himself. You slowly encouraged him to trust you, confide in you and tell him that he doesn’t have to maintain that infallible mask. Lucifer steadily would talk about himself more; it took some encouragement until he trusted you with his more vulnerable moments.  

P = Patience (How easily angered are they?) 

🎶 Highly dependent on the situation, anger isn’t his first reaction to a situation. As more details come out is what will sway him, his brothers can rile him up and annoy him especially when they’re doing stupid things that result in more paperwork and headaches for him. He’s good at holding back, while you know he’s angry you rest assured that he isn’t overtaken by it. The only time you’ve seen unbridled rage is when someone tried to hurt you and his brothers. You’ve never seen Lucifer go from 0 to 200 as quickly as he did, it took a lot to stop him from committing murder right then and there. 

Q = Quizzes (How much would they remember about you? Do they remember every little detail you mention in passing or they kind of or forget everything?) 

🎶 It comes naturally he has a mind for details, when it comes to his brothers and you. He remembers everything, the big, small, the important and the silly. He deems each one of them precious as they’re something that makes you, you. He sometimes wonders what would happen if he forgot you, would something so minute and seemingly meaningless remain and remind him of you and your presence? He never wants to think about it, but he is aware of the life spans of humans and he fears the day you won’t be around anymore - though with everyone’s efforts, it seems like that may not happen. 

R = Remember (What is their favorite moment in your relationship?)

🎶 Lucifer treasures moments and memories - he has various favorites. Some more than others, simple things like seeing you when he wakes up in the morning, how you’ve cried or gotten angry for him, protected him, whispered your words of love - they’re all precious treasures to him. How could he choose between your first I love you, or the last, when you had a fight for the first time and cried because he got angry then you ignored him until he gave you hugs and kisses as an apology. He truly hopes, and even ironic for him - prays that his memories would never fade. Because it is something he wants forever. 

S = Security (How protective are they? How would they protect you? How would they like to be protected?)

🎶 Lucifer is very protective, for various reasons. It’s in his nature to be the guardian, but also because he never wants anything to happen to you. He wishes that you could only see the good of everything without experiencing the bad. He tries his hardest to keep you in a blissful reality. It’s never that easy and he knows that, so if he can’t prevent that, he can support and comfort you when you need it, if you need a wall to guard you, he will gladly be that, or if you need a pillar to support you from behind, Lucifer will gladly do that as well. You return his love and security tenfold, for Lucifer it is an awkward experience because he never really was in the position to be protected, believing himself to be the one that must always protect.  

T = Try (How much effort would they put into dates, anniversaries, gifts, everyday tasks?)

🎶 Lucifer never half asses anything and takes pride in completing his tasks perfectly, to the point of where it feels that  it’s autopilot. However, when it comes to you- everything he does, he will put more effort  into it. Making sure it is as perfect as it could possibly be. Because for you,  his beloved, deserves nothing short of perfection. His dates are well planned, coordinated. It’s always something you enjoy and when you’ve stated that you wanted to do his favourite thing, he usually will compromise by doing something the two of you can enjoy together after all he wants you first and foremost to enjoy yourself. 

U = Ugly (What would be some bad habits of theirs?)

🎶 He’s a workaholic, to his own detriment most of the time. You already know that he could really finish those documents tomorrow, but no he absolutely insists that he has to finish them tonight. While working hard is a very admirable trait, the reason you regard this as a bad habit is due to the fact that Lucifer neglects himself under the guise of work. He won’t eat, sleep - He’ll deprive himself of basic things and stress himself out, pouring over work and documents that could have been left for a later date. You put your foot down - insisting that if he will work the way he does he is not allowed to pull all-nighters, work no later than 2am and remember to eat and drink something. 

V = Vanity (How concerned are they with their looks?) 

🎶 He takes pride in his appearance, not to the point of being obsessed about it. He likes looking and feeling good, Lucifer likes it when you compliment him, the outfit he wore or how he styled his hair. He became a bit more centered on his appearance after being with you, but that’s his pride as a partner. He wants to be the best version of himself for you,  though you compliment him even if he’s a little more disheveled than the norm.  

W = Whole (Would they feel incomplete without you?)

🎶 He is the master of ignoring his feelings, while he will tell himself that he’s fine. He’s not. He’d be more fixated on throwing himself into work more than usual, pushing himself to the absolute brink of exhaustion so he could get some rest without thinking of you. His brothers would all be worried about Lucifer but he’d dismiss it- even when Diavolo says something Lucifer would bring up a whole bunch of admin and the backlog that Diavolo couldn’t possibly handle on his own. He needs to keep his mind busy so his mind doesn’t wander to thoughts of you and so he doesn’t feel how much he actually misses you. 

X = Xtra (A random headcanon for them)

🎶 Music is almost a form of therapy to him, it’s been a long time since he really had anyone to confide in. But the mellow sound of music seemed to ease his woes and make him feel better, it became something therapeutic and the ritual of sitting down to listen to music with a drink while unwinding is some of his most treasured time to himself. He was pretty surprised when seeing the extensive collection of records the human world had and you enjoyed taking him out and about while introducing him to your favourite bands, artists and songs. 

Y = Yuck (What are some things they wouldn't like, either in general or in a partner?)

🎶 Negligent, irresponsible and ignorant. There are some traits he doesn’t like, and finds unpleasant interacting with. He wouldn’t like them in others, especially in a partner. He doesn’t want someone who neglects or shirks their responsibilities, who neglects those they’re meant to love and protect. The same holds true for irresponsible people- mistakes are normal but intentionally avoiding your contribution to a problem and making no effort to be responsible is a highly unpleasant trait in his eyes. 

Z = Zzz (What is a sleep habit of theirs?) 

🎶 Sleeps like the dead. He falls asleep the moment his head hits the pillow and he will not budge until his alarm goes off. It’s almost terrifying to see how deathly still he sleeps. You swear it’s like snuggling a mannequin. You insist he gets into a comfortable position before falling asleep. Some of his crankier days are a result of stiff and pained muscles from sleeping in some weird position that didn’t agree with him. 

Taglist: @completelyshatteredbrokenmschf @roninfromtheops

[chick-with-wifi]

Meta: Root as the Chosen One

One thing I love about Root's arc is that it's a subversion of the traditional 'Chosen One' narrative.

The Chosen One is usually born with special powers or featured in a prophecy, making them the only one capable of saving the world. Root, however, strong-arms her way into it as an adult by seeking out the Machine for a chance to serve Her ("I don't want to control your Machine. [...] I just want to set it free." 2x01). 

The Machine then chooses her as Analog Interface, likely both because of the abilities and loyalty she demonstrated and out of a desire to help her, which Root eagerly accepts ("The Machine offered me a job. She never said it would be easy." 3x17).

This position gives Root special powers through access to the Machine's omniscience. Including real-time updates about her surroundings ("Twelve US Marshals guard the building, plus our friend over there who was scouting the perimeter that we're now inside. Air support is ten minutes out." 3x10), information about people posing a danger to her ("2 O'CLOCK. 2007 ANTERIOR CRUCIATE LIGAMENT TORN." 3x12, via Morse Code) and being told where to aim when shooting people, which she demonstrates to great effect in 3x10 and 3x17.

Being the Analog Interface comes with the job of "trying to save the world, of course. By preventing the emergence of a second machine." (3x17), then later ensuring their survival when Samaritan comes online ("We had to settle for protecting the seven people who might be able to take it back." 3x23) and working to defeat it ("Because this is war. And the thing we're up against, it has virtually unlimited resources." 4x01). Which, as the one person the Machine speaks to directly, only Root can do.

The typical Chosen One is a reluctant hero, who struggles with the pressure thrust upon them or the idea that they are special. Root steps into the role with ease and enthusiasm, immediately considering herself one of the heroes ("I know it seems weird, but I'm one of the good guys now." 3x17). She feels secure in the idea that she's special ("The truth is that She's chosen me." 3x01) and carrying out her job brings her fulfillment, as demonstrated by her blissful expression when being retasked in 3x19.

She has no problem accepting that this mission, which she takes very seriously, means that her fate is no longer hers alone:

Shaw: Wait, Root, is that all? Where are you?

Root: Right where I'm supposed to be. (3x23)

Despite their doubts, the Chosen One is committed to defeating the Big Bad because they want to save the world. Root is immediately dedicated to the cause ("Like I said, we have a larger fight ahead of us. I think we should be together when that begins. Don't you?" 3x10) and willing to do anything, even give her life in service to it ("If I don't see you, Harold, it's been a fun ride." 4x05). However, this hinges on her desire to serve the Machine and protect Shaw and Finch, rather than any concern about the world as a whole:

Root: In the first thirty minutes after Samaritan comes online, a lot of people are gonna be killed. But they're gonna start with four: you, me, your helper monkey, and Shaw. And there won't be a damn thing anyone, including your Machine, can do to stop it. You think I don't care about people, Harold? I'm doing all of this to save you. (3x17)

Therefore, it is only when she loses these three tethers that her doubts show themselves. After Samaritan comes online and her contact with the Machine is severely limited, she begins to struggle ("She was supposed to remake the world. Now God's on the run. I have to keep going. [...] Even without Her, I can still see the edges of the tapestry." 4x05). She sought out this position because she wanted to be the Machine's Chosen One, now she has all but lost that connection yet remains a key player in the fight.

Shaw is then taken by Samaritan (4x11) and Root's devotion to the cause falters for the first time. She begins to disregard what the Machine taught her by preparing to kill Control (4x12) and torturing Leslie Thompson (4x13). When the Machine tells her to stop looking for Shaw, she walks away both from the team and the job that has been her purpose for so long:

Finch: The Machine is asking us to stop looking for her. Perhaps the Machine does know, perhaps it has a plan. But for our own survival, our sanity, I believe we must reconcile ourselves with never knowing the truth. Otherwise, our pursuit of it will consume us entirely.

Root: Goodbye, Harold. (4x13)

The next time we see her, she saves Finch's life and smiles at a security camera, then tells Reese "there's a lot that's new." (4x15). This indicates that she and the Machine have renegotiated and, while Root is working with Her again, she no longer holds the same unwavering faith.

When Finch has a plan to strike a blow against Samaritan that will likely cost his life, Root directly disobeys the Machine:

Finch: My value to the Machine is irrelevant.

Root: You're too important to me.

Finch: The Machine didn't tell you to do this.

Root: She told me not to. I thought I could sacrifice everyone, I really did. Win some, lose some, right? It's for a good cause. But it turns out I can't lose you, Harold. Not you and Shaw. (4x18)

For the first time, she puts her own needs ahead of the 'good cause' she was willing to give everything for and sabotages a chance to defeat the Big Bad, because she found the one thing that matters more to her than her duty. Finch then tells her "I don't want to see you for a while." (4x18).

Despite all of this, she continues to carry out the Machine's instructions and comes to Reese's rescue in 4x19, then goes back to working with the team.

In 4x21 she gets a call appearing to be from Shaw and instantly regrets stopping her search when Shaw has been alive all this time. Prepared to walk into a trap for a chance to save her, Root uses her own life as a bargaining chip to manipulate the Machine into helping them. Once again, she prioritizes the life of her loved one over everything else.

While following this lead, Root learns that Samaritan is close to finding the Machine and her goal expands to protecting both Her and Shaw no matter what:

Root: They're close to finding you. I don't care what happens to me.

Finch: What did the Machine tell you?

Root: She says it's too dangerous.

Finch: I'm inclined to agree.

Root: This isn't just a rescue mission to save Shaw. The Machine needs our help too. If we don't save them, who will? (4x21)

When Samaritan threatens her to get the Machine to reveal Her location, Root begs the Machine not to do it ("Don't do it. Please. Don't give yourself up. Harold was right. We are interchangeable. You can replace us. You can keep fighting." 4x21). All she wants is to protect her loved ones.

The Machine agrees to Samaritan's bargain, then gives the team Her own number to warn them of an imminent system shutdown and directions for how to help Her. When it looks like they won't be able to get there in time, Root gives the Machine an ultimatum - "No more standing on the sidelines. You want us to save your skin? Get in the game." (4x22). Ever since becoming the Analog Interface, she has been helping with the Machine's mission. Now she wants the Machine to help with her mission.

Root and Finch then save the Machine and work tirelessly until they restore Her. Root is also focussed on protecting her loved ones, which has expanded to include Reese and Fusco ("John needs our help now. You have to give us something to work with." 5x05. "An exit strategy. For you and your son to disappear off the grid, just in case." 5x07).

The priority of finding Shaw never leaves Root's mind and eventually she once again forces the Machine to help her by threatening to withhold her cooperation ("I refuse to do one more mission until I know that what I'm doing is going to lead me to Sameen." 5x07). Together they send a message to Shaw, which gives her the motivation she needs to escape, and Root is so desperate to be reunited that she would have given herself up to Samaritan if Reese hadn't intervened.

Throughout all of this, Root remains dedicated to the war against Samaritan and vehemently advocates for them to take a more offensive stance ("We have to be willing to do whatever it takes now, or we've already lost." 5x03). She then adds to the Machine's code to give Her an edge in the fight ("What if I said I hard-coded a little something extra into the system before you closed it for good? I gave Her the capacity to defend Herself." 5x10), thus fulfilling her duty as the Chosen One by using the abilities and loyalty the Machine chose her for to ensure Samaritan's defeat - but for her own reasons: protecting the family this role led her to.

[anime97-99]

NARUTO COMPLEXITY

⚠️Sorry, this is going to be long and I may sound repetitive at times!! I have to say this is my point of view thought I tried to make it as objective as possible!! Hope you like it!! Also I apologize for a bad use of grammar and vocabulary since English is not my first language!!⚠️

This post is dedicated to exploring and analyzing Naruto’s characters through the whole series including Boruto. Starting with Naruto, he is supposed to be a pure and innocent boy, naive who doesn’t understand feelings and seeks acceptance from other people in search to experience those positive feelings such love, friendship and what feels like to have a family.

Since Naruto was young he tried to get attention from other people even if this attention resulted in disgust towards him, he acted out of fear of being alone, just imagine a child living alone in an old flat located on the outskirts of the village which is probably a dangerous area full of criminals arm with swords, shuriken…

Like this isn’t enough he is hated by the whole village without him knowing the reason and the only support came in money from Sarutobi, I suppose being the third hokage took a lot of time and he did what he could with Naruto but at the same time I think you shouldn’t just give money for the rent to only a child and that’s it. I think he wanted to secure his image at the same time protecting Naruto and the villagers from harm (if the villagers noticed that the hokage was supporting “the demon” they probably would have started to distrust Sarutobi and a fight between the higher ups and the villagers to get ride of Naruto would have taken place because of the fear of thinking that Sarutobi is allying with the enemy), so he chose to spend less time with him, which is not the best decision but it was made with good intentions.

Then Naruto has a goal and a dream, to be recognized and accepted by everyone becoming the hokage, that translates to turn the hate into love, the naive dream of being loved by everyone (falling in love with being in love, like Ada said, (fall in love with the love from others, when mother said “you just loved how much I loved you” in the movie Mother, which I recommend, they touched on this topic) Naruto is really idealistic and romantic (romantic not as love but as romanticism), themes that are presented in classic literature and offend end in tragedy, It almost looks like part of Naruto is heavily inspired by Romanticism literature, for example some similarities are that it is really idealistic, it has drama, love, tragedy, though the ending may not be the best it could be actually be considered a happy one.

The definition of Naruto’s personality as a selfless and self-sacrifice person. His worse fear is to be ignore and be alone, that is why he is loud and problematic, to attract eyes towards him. He is not self centered, he is the whole opposite, he cares a lot about what other people say that is why he is explosive since young, he is sad and shows that sadness with anger and a fleeing personality.

The first person that makes him not feel alone is Sasuke and this is really important, we have two kids with problems, they are obviously different from Naruto point of view but then one afternoon he sees Sasuke alone and they meet eyes, this is a really important scene they see themselves reflected in each other eyes that is why Naruto finally recognizes Sasuke and Sasuke sees Naruto who used to be only an annoying child, and with this it shows an union, two children who hates each other because of their differences have a lot in common and ends in them being the only ones to truly understand each other pain and loneliness. Thought this is more complicated since Sasuke knows about love, what is a family, what is friendship and he is popular and loved by teachers and students, but he also experienced since really a young age the pressure to be part of an important clan and to have a genius brother being constantly compare to you by everyone even his family, though his mother tried to calm him down by saying Itachi is different this is really bad to say to a child!! This comment will make him think that he is less that Itachi and will create distance between his brother and family, it will end in an inferiority complex.

Through Naruto’s series he will be so obsessed with revenge he will forget about himself and others, hurting the people that loves him in the process, he is so fixated in revenge that he forgets there’s more than just killing his brother but he is stuck in the past, showing obvious signs of PTSD (post-traumatic stress disorder), OCD (obsessive compulsive syndrome). He could be compare with Coriolanus Snow from the Hunger Games who loved someone, looked like a good person and was loved by his family but his obsession with power made him a villain and someone to be feared. Like Niccolò Machiavelli said “the end justifies the means”, this is their ideology, thought Sasuke is still unable to kill Naruto, his feelings towards him are so big that killing him is worse than committing suicide.

Following Naruto, he is someone who only knows about negative feelings that is why he seeks acceptance an love, he is in love with the idea of love like Ada, he chooses Sakura as his crush because she is really intelligent and a very good student (I believe Sakura has the same fear as Naruto, she was bullied because of her forehead and she wants to be liked by everyone, so she studies hard to be the best student and if Sasuke who is the most popular and handsome boy sees her then those bullies who constantly hurt her about her appearance will shut their mouth, so just as Naruto she wants to be seen and recognized, though the way they act is different, Sakura is really insecure and has to prove herself through others praise this probably because of the bulling even if Ino is there they got separated at some point which made Sakura limit herself even more, she is like a white canvas that change not because of what she likes but what the others want to see on her. Sasuke likes long hair then she will have long her even though she obviously prefers a shortcut, that is why Ino was really important in her life, she was the first to tell her she is beautiful and she doesn’t need to listen to other bullies but Sakura necessity of being recognize through Sasuke and Ino liking Sasuke made them get separated and a healthier development for Sakura to explore herself with the help of someone to support and guide her as an equal was stopped). Sakura didn’t fall in love with Sasuke, she fell in love with the idea he represented.

Also Sakura’s inner voice is totally normal, it is not her having another personality it is just showing her subconscious and unconscious mind who everyone has. Just stop and analyze yourself then you will notice a tiny voice going on an on, it is just your brain thinking, it is completely normal. This reflects real Sakura, what she desires compare of how she acts to be liked by other people, or didn’t you notice for example a friend showing you a dress and you telling them is beautiful to not hurt their feelings but inside you are thinking it is horrible, it’s the same thing with Sakura is very human!!

You can’t analyze Naruto’s characters like Naruto, Sakura and Sasuke without taking account of their closest influence including each other, Kurama, Jiraya, Iruka, Ino, Tsunade, Sarutobi, Kakashi, Gaara, Rock Lee and maybe Sai with the other friends such as Shikamaru and Choji… So continuing with Naruto who works really hard the same as Sasuke and Sakura (even thought he doesn’t know and thinks of then just as genio is), but contrary of them he doesn’t obtain results ending in frustration, (thought he does gardening which is something psychologist recommend, is really good to maintain the mind relax focused and concentrate in just one thing and make yourself conscious of reality, this is to make the brain take a break from overthinking which saturates it, make it concentrate in just one thing at a time will help you to control yourself, it could be through meditation, but also through gardening, doing crafts, reading whatever you like always doing it without pressure just to enjoy, understand your feelings and let them pass being conscious of them but not avoid or succumb to them just taking notice of reality and that those negative thoughts and feelings exist and you can just let the past without judging yourself), (judging is negative while feedback is positive).

At the beginning of Naruto, since the first episode, you see Iruka as a parental figure to Naruto who loves him and supports him, who scolds him and teaches him, who protects him and accepts him, and Naruto realizes he is not alone, but also discovering that he is seen as a monster because he has a “demon” inside him. This gives him a reason to prove himself as a separate entity from Kurama and confirms the possibility of being loved and accepted because of Iruka (a villager who feared and hated him from killing his parents, but Iruka realized that he didn’t hate Naruto but the demon inside him thanks to the guidance from Sarutobi), and that is enough for him to keep trying.

Naruto’s goal to be hokage is getting stronger, but he is too worry about it to stop and analyze himself the same happened with Sakura and Sasuke.

The boy wants to love and be loved but he didn’t even know the meaning of this feelings that is why Naruto, the series, is about self discovery, the most important part when people realized what they are or want to be is during their teen years that is why we see the characters going through a roller coaster of emotions!!

Kishimoto has called Naruto too idealistic and naive who didn’t understand Sasuke, Sasuke as a pure and self-centered and Sakura as more than just cuteness!!

If we analyze it I interpret that Naruto love for Sasuke is too pure and he is too naive, someone that doesn’t understand love and is experiencing it, he is supposed to realized that he loves Sasuke in a different way and there are different kinds of love but it is still too early to understand, Sasuke who understands love and experienced all kinds of love realized that what he feels for Naruto is romantic love, that is why he gets frustrated at him when called his brother or friend, but Naruto that at the end explains what means to be his friend, (which is the same Ada said in Boruto to Mitsuke when explaining her love to Kawaki) he realized that he was special and their feelings were the same even if Naruto didn’t notice the difference.

And both, Ada and Naruto called themselves fools because of love!!

Now Sakura is not cute, it was said by Kishimoto, but for real being cute or not is not that important that is why Kishimoto says she is more than just cuteness!! She is intelligent and determined and if she wanted she could be really powerful remember she is the best at understanding and controlling chakra a quick learner, and she is the smartest of the three but her fixation in Sasuke limited her.

Talking about Naruto’s development as a person, for me Naruto puts a lot of limits on himself because he wants to pleased everyone and is scare of what other people will think of him. Naruto’s world is closed minded, with traditional thoughts, the representation of Japan at that time. The same way Sakura chose Sasuke, Naruto chose Sakura. Though I think he realized that what he felt for Sakura is the same he felt for others like Shikamaru or Choji, still since he liked Sakura a lot as a friend he thought it was good to love her, he didn’t understand what romantic love is, he just wanted to experience it, to explore it and to not be lonely.

His self dicovery soon would be questioned in the form of Sai, a sexualize boy who will make Naruto question his sexaulity, Naruto has never show interest in any woman, (he actually show interest in one and that one looked like Sasuke and that’s it) even Jiraya thinks it is strange for a teenager full of hormones to not get interested in beautiful woman or describe porn as boring. But Naruto gets loud and nervous towards Sai, he gets shy and blush when bathing with naked men and protected himself hiding under the water (it reminds me of the bath scene from Mulan), to make it more obvious for the readers Kishimoto makes Yamato say that Naruto shouldn’t act strange between men, showing what Naruto felt and Yamato acting as their society that they categorize his behavior as strange and not normal.

Naruto starts to understand himself and the possibility of being sexually attract to men but is afraid of what other people would say and rejects himself, he is just a repressed boy. He doesn’t like Sai he is a person who doesn’t care about being labelled and shows interest in Naruto without embarrassment (because yes, Sai is someone who doesn’t understand himself not his feelings but being with Naruto and Sakura made him understand what friendship was, the way he act showing it made Naruto nervous overthinking things because he was attracted to him and being too close made him nervous at how careless Sai was). He also got nervous and overreacted with Kakashi when he praised him thinking he likes him, and when ask what he is thinking about, when he is thinking about Sasuke changes and says he is thinking of going on a date with Sakura, which could be also a way to make others don’t worry about him being so upset and depressed about Sasuke or it could be his repressed feelings towards him, which he unconsciously has but is not aware of them and their meaning.

In Naruto Shippuden we see a development of Sakura’s character, in the first part she cut her hair symbolizing breaking through her fixation in being and do everything to please Sasuke, now in Shippuden to me she started to see herself as a whole, with her own identity, separating herself from Sasuke.

The decision of Sasuke leaving was positive for her character, she found a new goal and her feelings for Sasuke became more dull. I would say that see started to see Naruto as a love interest, someone good for her, a good friend that respects her but since she is observant and intelligent realized Naruto’s real feelings at the end and decided to not confess or she didn’t realized her feelings towards Naruto because she was too fixated in Sasuke and was confused at her change of heart.

For Sasukeas I said before, he always knew about Naruto’s feelings that is why when Naruto says that for him Sasuke is a friend he looks angry an confuse, as Kishimoto said Naruto is just too naive to understand Sasuke frustration, he showed it pretty clear, and as a Chinese proverb says “A picture is worth a thousand words”

Naruto is idealistic and naive, in this picture he is oblivious and daydreams imagining his own world without realizing that his world is centered around Sasuke and him, and that makes Sasuke frustrated because Naruto doesn’t understand his feelings. Naruto is obviously drawn in a compromising way, he is wearing shorts and a shirt, or maybe he is not wearing a shirt with the angle we can’t tell for sure, that shows a lot of skin, Sasuke is supposed to be thirsty but he is lost looking at him that he forgot the water, then we have Sakura looking at Sasuke, and Kakashi who is in his own world Xd. The water could be a representation of arousal, sexual deviance and the repression of desire.

Even thought at the end Sasuke understands Naruto, the guilt overtakes him and he decides to leave the village for redemption hoping that when he returns Naruto will be there for him but he is not, Naruto moved on and is getting married and Sasuke distanced himself from him too hurt to attend the wedding, also sending a poor congratulating letter which feels more like a mocking than anything else, though we don’t know what happened for two years, from Sasuke leaving to Naruto marrying Hinata, so maybe many things could have happened, I say this because Naruto seems to have changed, he looked serious when marring Hinata and he sleeps in another room separate from her, he is a workalcoholic and spends little time with his kids, he is a bad father.

People will get mad saying it doesn’t make sense, Naruto doesn’t understand love in The Last and he is a bad father but they forget that he never had a father or mother and he doesn’t understand the different kinds of love so through his adulthood he realized his feelings for Sasuke, that is why when Kurama said that Sasuke and Naruto are like brothers he said that he never felt it that way, Sasuke has Itachi and Kurama is like a brother to him not labeling his relationship with Sasuke.

Remember I said that he didn’t fell in love with Sakura but since he liked her as a friend and wasn’t able to differentiate the different types of love he confused it as a crush probably because he liked her (as a friend) and she was a girl.

Sakura was confused because she knew about Naruto’s feelings for Sasuke but at the end decided not to comment on it showing her dislike and opinion as a reflection of Naruto’s closed minded society, which is a critic to Japan’s society at the time, maybe it was not that and she just thought that Sasuke could hurt him again as she saw Naruto suffered during Shippuden. So instead of making him realized his feelings she encouraged Hinata thinking that she would be better for him, I believe she did it with good intentions but the decision she made was made based on her values and that wasn’t the correct decision for Naruto.

This way of thinking also shows in Iruka, his parental figure, and Kakashi, they know but they don’t say anything, this is obvious when Iruka gets mad at Naruto deciding to marry Hinata but doesn’t encourage him to talk with Sasuke, Iruka suffers in secret and thinks he did wrong not talking with him but at the end he will just observe (we are talking about Iruka, he is extremely strict, diplomatic and a person who always follows rules and he didn’t prepared anything to say in the wedding day that should be enough in what he truly though of it), Kakashi also knows but he never served as an emotional support at that scale those were Jiraya, who died, and Iruka who is part of the same village, maybe he is just afraid of what they will think and how could affect Naruto’s reputation since his “dream” is to be hokage, which actually was to experience love and be loved (like Ada) and not feel lonely.

The last two pictures compare a Sasuke’s card vs a formal card to give in a wedding and if you notice the villagers card is like the formal one but Sasuke is different, like making fun of it!!

As this quotes says, “hell is paved with good intentions not with bad ones. All men mean well”. George Bernard Shaw

“For evil to flourish, it only requires good men to do nothing.” Simon Wiesenthal

“Bad decisions made with good intentions, are still bad decisions.” James C. Collins

A little poem reflecting Sasuke losing Naruto;

what's it to me

if you love me or

miss me or need me

when you are doing

nothing to be with me

if you can't allow me to be

the love of your life I will be

the loss of your life instead By Rupi Kaur

Japan at the time practiced arranged marriage, a marriage without love is not hard to imagine happening in Naruto’s world, even more between people with high occupations to unite important families. Hinata also commented on it.

The people that loves us can hurt us even if they have the best intentions.

Actually there are a lot of things that I didn’t say but I decided to stop here because if not it would be too long and for being repetitive!! Thank you for reading, hope you enjoyed it and feel free to comment!!

Also if you watched Shang-Chi and the legend of the ten rings you may notice why Kishimoto is so excited with Destin Daniel Cretton he really likes him because he is open minded, but actually the film when watching it reminded me a lot of Naruto!!

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I had a what if idea, where pitch just is a hikikomori (a recluse) and it does partially fit in with his character (at least in my eyes) yes im throwing out like, almost all the canon here but this is my idea and i can bend it to my will! ( ^ω^ ) also i thought changing the word hikikomori to pikikomori would be funny, yk switching a letter. i think its cute! and thats also what i decided to name this au, i also think there are like not many altercations with other spirits and myths with Pitch. he might’ve been out there and moving in the past but now he just stays hidden completely from sight, once in a while you’ll get to see or year about him being out but i think its mainly just the bare minimum for his existential. i think that some spirits (probably North) would be worried for him, maybe once in a while a spirit might hang out but not much, maybe drop of food or smth?

anyways heres some info on hikikomories

Hikikomori (Japanese: ひきこもり or 引きこもり, lit. "pulling inward, being confined"), also known as severe social withdrawal, is total withdrawal from society and seeking extreme degrees of social isolation and confinement. Hikikomori refers to both the phenomenon in general and the recluses themselves. The concept is primarily recognized only in Japan, although similar concepts exist in other languages and cultures. Hikikomori have been described as loners or "modern-day hermits". Estimates suggest that half a million Japanese youths have become social recluses, as well as more than half a million middle-aged individuals.

While many people feel the pressures of the outside world, hikikomori react by complete social withdrawal. In some more severe cases, they isolate themselves in their bedrooms for months or years at a time. They usually have few or no friends. In interviews with current or recovering hikikomori, media reports and documentaries have captured the strong levels of psychological distress and angst felt by these individuals.

While hikikomori favor indoor activities, some venture outdoors occasionally. The withdrawal from society usually starts gradually. Affected people may appear unhappy, lose their friends, become insecure and shy, and talk less.

When it comes to psychosocial support, it is hard for therapists to attain direct access to hikikomori. research to find different and effective treatment plans to aid hikikomori has been ongoing. One such treatment plan is focused on the families of hikikomori. Such focus primarily includes educational intervention programs (e.g. lectures, role-play, etc.) that are geared towards reducing any averse stigma that family members have towards psychiatric disorders like hikikomori. These educational programs are derived from other established family support programs, specifically Mental Health First Aid (MHFA) and Community Reinforcement and Family Training (CRAFT). CRAFT specifically trains family members to express positive and functional communication, whereas MHFA provides skills to support hikikomori with depression/suicidal like behaviour. Studies so far that have modified the family unit's behavioral response to a hikikomori has yielded positive results, indicating that family behavior is essential for recovery, however further research is still needed.

Although there has been a primary emphasis on educating family members, there are also therapy programs for the hikikomori themselves to participate in, like exercise therapy. The individual psychotherapy methods that are being stressed in current research are primarily directed towards cultivating self-confidence within the hikikomori. However, studies have delineated that efficacious treatment of hikikomori requires a multifaceted approach rather than the utilization of one individual approach, such as individual psychotherapy or family therapy.

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Interview with Frans Krätzig

By: FCB

Frans, let's start with a question that I'm sure you've been asked before: Why is your name spelled with an "s"?

(smiles) There's no special reason, so no Dutch influences or anything like that, as I read once. My parents liked the name Franz, but they wanted something special. And so they spelled me with an 's'. In Bavaria, in the land of Franz-Beckenbauer, people sometimes look at me funny, but I've long since gotten used to it.

In the summer of 2017, you were one of the first talents to settle in at the FC Bayern Campus, which had just opened its doors. Join us on your journey, what did you take with you back then?

Not much, a big bag, a backpack, that's all. In fact, I moved in late because my parents had booked our summer vacation a long time ago and we didn't want to cancel it. I perfectly remember the respect I felt the first day I set foot on the Campus. I had visited it before, but when you move there when you are only 14 years old, everything seems enormous.

What is it like to grow in the Campus and to grow in football?

You get the Bayern DNA in your blood from day one and you quickly realize that it's all about winning, winning and winning. I thought that was great, because that's how you learn to handle the pressure from the start. I remember the incredible feeling I had when I looked at the first few games and saw the Bayern crest on the left side of my chest. Until then, I had only seen it on TV.

Your teammate Johannes Schenk, who is currently on loan at Preußen Münster, used to say that your room on campus was always the meeting place for your gang because you had the biggest room.

Tuesday and Wednesday there was Champions League, from Friday to Sunday Bundesliga... and in between we played console games. We had many great afternoons. But I can also explain to you why I had the biggest room: before the rooms for the following year were distributed, they always looked at who had the tidiest room, and that person then had the honor of getting the biggest room. So in a way I had earned it (smiles).

I'm sure you've also done some mischief...

That's part of it, isn't it? But we would never run away, because that wouldn't have done much good on campus. (laughs) For example, we would play hide-and-seek all over the campus grounds, including the gym area and the office building, late into the night. And one time one of the guys snuck into the PA booth at night in the stadium, turned on all the speakers and pretended he was a ghost haunting the Campus: 'Boo-hoo, I'm the Campus ghost' - it was hilarious.

Every year we have seen that many players have not been able to establish themselves. How do you manage this pressure?

At the lower levels, you don't realize how much performance is measured. I really felt the pressure from U-17 and U-19. There are phases in between where you think: this is exactly what I've wanted to do all my life, but what if it doesn't work out? In my second year with the U-19s, I was out for seven months with pubalgia and a hernia. A very long time, during which a lot of things were going through my head: Will I come back? What would it be like to live at home again? What kind of studies would I be interested in? My U19 coach, Danny Galm, helped me a lot at the time and supported me mentally.

What escape strategy would you have had?

Both my parents work in creative professions. I was always impressed when you can develop and design something freely. Interior design, for example, would have been an option. I think it's good to do something else for the head besides soccer. Last year I enrolled in a degree course, but soon dropped out. The course was called "Sports Management in Football", but I quickly realized that I couldn't think about football 24 hours a day. I came from training, I had to study... and there I was again thinking about football.

If you ask around campus, everyone raves about your openness. Where does that come from?

My whole family is very open and communicative. I learned very early on how important kindness and politeness are in life. I also had to go my own way as a young man and managed on my own. So it's a mix of good education and quick independence; I hope my parents will be happy when they read this (laughs).

How hard is it not to take off?

I learned at home to always keep my feet on the ground. You should never become arrogant; on the other hand, a healthy self-confidence on the soccer pitch doesn't hurt if you want to make a name for yourself at FC Bayern.

In your childhood you played as a midfielder, how come you are now a left back?

You have to ask Holger Seitz about that. David Herold went on loan to Austria during the last winter break, and Seitz thought he'd try me out as a left-back due to a shortage of players. After a training session, I went to his coach's office, he explained what he expected of me, and it worked out quite well. I really like the full-back role, but I don't want to rule out going back to six, eight or ten at some point.

It is not uncommon for experienced midfielders to take their first professional steps as full-backs: Philipp Lahm, Joshua Kimmich ...

Joshua is generally a good role model. How he can be so dedicated in every training session, how he is so eager to win every training match... sometimes I stand next to him and think: Wow, I want to be like that too, that's exactly why we play football. Josh never ceases to impress me

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Moral Orel #21: “Praying” | April 30, 2007 - 12:15AM | S02E11

I forgot to post this last night! SORRY. Hey, I saw Plantasm, by the way. I wrote a review of my first reactions to it on letterboxd. Check that out if you don’t wanna wait years for it to show up on this blog. Maybe I’ll have a different opinion by then.

This one was vaguely familiar to me, and I’m pretty sure I watched it once. I remembered little bits and pieces from it, but don’t remember being super fond of it. Weirdly I found the ending to be rather moving, and I’m not sure why. 

In this episode, Orel is getting a lot of pressure from the adults in his life to practice extensively for the Moralton praying bee. Everyone has him practicing all god DAMN day, to the point where he sustains achy prayer joints. When he seeks out comfort and support, he only gets scorn for not practicing correctly. Looking for a sign from god, he winds up with a flyer for Stephanie’s sex shop. It’s just a piece of trash that blows into his face from the wind, but Orel believes in miracles and stupid shit like that.

Orel shows up at the sex shop, looking as stressed out as he feels (very). Stephanie teaches him to meditate, and he starts using the practice to de-stress. Soon he finds that it actually seems to help him get closer to god in a way that traditional prayer doesn’t. His father walks in on him and punishes him, telling him that “here in the land of the free, we’re lucky to have restrictions. Those restrictions are called dogma.” He instructs Orel to “throw dogma a bone” and lay off the Buddhism. 

The day of the competition comes, and Orel can’t turn off the noise in his head, which are the voices of the adults in his life. They are so loud that they are personified by barking dogs (the adult’s human heads are on Bartholomew’s body; Orel’s beloved dog that was basically murdered by these same adults). Orel finds himself meditating on stage, to the disapproval of everyone in the crowd. Orel also throws a metaphorical bone, causing all the dogs barking around his head to chase after it. Orel finds himself in the clouds having a conversation with Buddha, who inexplicably has a wacky Southern voice, who lets him know that it’s okay to use Buddhism to become a better Christian, but also the people in Moralton aren’t going to get it, so he should probably just keep it a secret. 

I never had a strong opinion of this episode, though I think it’s perfectly well-written. It’s light on laughs, though the comedy is present throughout. I never found this episode to be particularly moving either, but this time I did get a little emotional at the end, which is this: 

Orel’s opponent collapses after praying too hard, and Orel’s unorthodox methods have won him the competition. Orel gets carried out of the auditorium in triumph, but we see his non-corporeal form (his soul, perhaps) stay back on the stage, floating in the lotus position. He unbends his legs so that his feet meet the stage. I don’t even know how exactly this moment reached me, but I found it beautiful and it caused me to cry for a few seconds. Weird.

EPHEMERA CORNER:

Moral Orel Volume One DVD (April 24, 2007)

Moral Orel’s only volume released in North America (a second and third volume, comprising of the entire series was released in Australia). This was a great package, and it included a few commentaries, a little making-of documentary, promos and bumps, “odds and ends”, and the crowning jewel: video of “The Awkward Comic-Con Panel”, where the Moral Orel crew (Dino in particular) got drunk and disruptive and began attacking the Venture Bros. guys for having dyed hair. This video contains commentary from not just the Moral Orel crew, but also a second track by the Venture boys. 

I wish I could tell you what “odds and ends” refers to, but my DVD copy of Moral Orel went rotten and I can’t watch it. I literally had to download the Australian DVD when I was consulting the commentary tracks for this blog.

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What would you do for a Klondike bar?

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What's next for Adult Swim now that Tim and Eric is done?

Coming soon we’ll be treated to three scamps with an even bigger flare for subversive comedy and making fun of mentally ill people. One of them is in my avatar. You’re going to love them. Six seasons and a movie

you just gotta love what saul is trying to do. there's a reason jimmy kimmel still considers gardner "a personal friend". Wow!

You do not, under any circumstances, “gotta love” what saul is doing. He’s doing a bad job

Who do you like more: Josh Gardner or Scott Gairdner

Scott’s a proper lege, his banter’s good, and Tiny Fuppets is the definitive joshing of the Vídeo Brinquedo canon. Lotas great Youtube stuff, and Neon NIghtriders or whatever it was called was underrated. Moonbeam City. I just remembered what it was called. A certifiable genius of comedy. You gotta love what Scott is trying to do.

Who are these movie pals? Do they have any personal stats? Do they have blogs of their own covering other TV blocks?

One of them has been reviewing fast food bathrooms and another one is getting arrested on purpose and reviewing the food in various jails and prisons. Another guy ranks horror movies based on how fuckable the killer is, and he’s very hard to get a hold of. I do not like being close to these people. But, they are my friends, and friends stick together.

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Signs You Need to Seek Help from a Mental Health Therapist

Everyone has mental health just as they do physical health but very few take care of it or even know when it is time to get help. If you get to points where you are struggling, stressed, or confused about what you feel, then you should see a Mental Health Therapist. Knowing what these signs are can go a long way in enhancing one’s health and the overall quality of their day-to-day living.

This article will explore the key signs that indicate you may need professional support and why working with a Mental Health Therapist could be the right decision for your mental and emotional health.

1. Persistent Feelings of Sadness or Hopelessness

Everyone gets depressed sometimes but if you are feeling sad or hopeless for weeks or months, that could be a sign of depression. It is now possible for a Mental Health Therapist to meet with you and discuss how these emotions came to be and how you can deal with them. Depression always slows one down and reduces his or her capacity to perform the tasks that are expected in the day, so it should not be ignored.

2. Excessive Worry or Anxiety

Anxiety is a part of everyone’s life at some point or the other, but when the anxiety reaches its peak, it becomes disabling. If your anxiety is making you jumpy, your mind is racing or you avoid situations out of irrational fear then it is probable anxiety is impacting on your life. A Mental Health Therapist is a person who can explain what leads to them, how one can learn how to deal with them, and how to do it properly.

3. Difficulty Sleeping or Changes in Sleep Patterns

Sleep is very essential to your psychological and emotional health. Lack of sleep, being awake often at night, and oversleeping, all are indicative of a deeper mental health problem. A psychologist can assist you in understanding if the causes of your sleeping disorders are due to anxiety, depression, or stress, and how to change bad habits.

4. Loss of Interest in Activities You Once Enjoyed

If you find that you are no longer as interested in doing things that used to interest you, hobbies, friends, and family, then your mental health may be at risk. Such disconnection usually points toward depression or other mood disorders. To help you get through this phase, if you seek assistance from a psychologist then he can assist in promoting the activities that Fascinate you, suggest you set achievable goals and slowly start to get interested in the pleasures of life again.

5. Struggles with Relationships

People’s interpersonal relationships can be synthesized with mental and emotional states. If you realize that you’re arguing often, pulling away from the ones close to you, or feeling as though you’re not being understood, it may be beneficial for you to consult a Mental Health Therapist. This therapy can assist you to learn how to talk, and how to control emotions besides the relationships of individuals with others.

6. Feeling Overwhelmed by Stress

Stress is inevitable seeing that the world we currently live in is full of so much pressure. If you are experiencing chronic burnout, have feelings that you can hardly cope with daily tasks, or are on the verge of burning out you can turn to a psychologist. Stress produces reactions like headaches, they cause stomach problems and people feel sleepy most of the time they are stressed. You can pick up effective stress-relieving techniques through therapy including muscle relaxation, time management skills, and mindfulness.

7. Unexplained Physical Symptoms

It is also quite common for people with mental disorders to have somatic complaints including chronic pain, gastrointestinal disturbances, headache, or fatigue. If you were ever diagnosed by a physician and there is nothing physically wrong with you it might be caused by a mental disorder. A Mental Health Therapist can assist you in finding the relationship between your feelings and other symptoms of your disorders and search for the optimal treatment plan.

8. Trouble Focusing or Making Decisions

They could be symptoms of mental health disorders such as anxiety, depression, or attention deficit hyperactivity disorder if you have difficulty focusing, poor decision-making, or disorganization. A psychologist can assist you in concerning what may be causing such challenges and teach you strategies on how to enhance your focus and choices made.

Conclusion

Recognizing when you need help is the first step toward improving your mental health. If you’ve identified with any of these signs, don’t hesitate to seek support from a Mental Health Therapist. Therapy can provide you with the tools and guidance needed to overcome challenges and lead a more fulfilling life. UXUE OLAZIREGI is here to support you on your journey toward emotional well-being and peace of mind.

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Helping Your Child De-Stress: Practical Tips for Parents Stress isn't just an adult problem. Children face pressure too, from schoolwork and friendships to worries about family or fitting in. While a little stress is normal, chronic stress can impact their well-being.

As a parent, it's important to recognize signs of stress in your child. These might include:

Irritability or mood swings Difficulty sleeping Headaches or stomachaches Loss of appetite or changes in eating habits Withdrawing from friends and activities If you notice these signs, don't worry! There are plenty of things you can do to help your child manage stress. Here are some top tips:

Open Communication: Create a safe space for your child to talk about their feelings. Listen actively without judgment and validate their emotions.

Prioritize Sleep: Adequate sleep is crucial for emotional regulation. Establish a consistent sleep routine and ensure a relaxing bedtime environment.

Exercise and Play: Physical activity is a great stress reliever. Encourage outdoor play, team sports, or fun activities like dancing or jumping rope.

Relaxation Techniques: Introduce simple relaxation techniques like deep breathing exercises, progressive muscle relaxation, or yoga poses suitable for their age.

Mindfulness and Meditation: Mindfulness practices can help children focus on the present moment and reduce worry. Start with short, guided meditations together.

Creative Expression: Creative activities like painting, drawing, or writing can be a healthy outlet for emotions. Let your child express themselves freely.

Spending Time Together: Make time for quality family time filled with fun activities, games, or simply talking. This strengthens your bond and provides a sense of security.

Problem-Solving Skills: Help your child develop problem-solving skills by teaching them coping mechanisms for dealing with challenges.

Limit Screen Time: Excessive screen time can exacerbate stress. Set clear guidelines for screen use and encourage alternative activities.

Seek Professional Help: If your child's stress is severe or impacting their daily life, consider seeking professional help from a pediatrician or child specialist like Dr. Prashant Gandhi, a top-rated pediatrician in Borivali West, Mumbai.

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The Benefits of Nashville Group Therapy

Group therapy sessions often use icebreaker activities to facilitate member sharing and foster trust. For instance, they might ask people to write down their deepest fears on paper and then draw one and read it aloud.   One common theme among both group members and therapists was weathering, or tolerating strong emotions safely in an environment.   Boosts Self-Esteem and Confidence   Self-esteem is a cornerstone of mental wellbeing, and group therapy offers a platform to address how your emotions may influence it.   Hearing positive feedback from fellow group members may also help build up confidence. But some may prefer individual counseling over group therapy due to its increased sense of vulnerability that exposes one to peer pressure that can be difficult to navigate.   Some activities used in group therapy to boost self-esteem include writing down what you are grateful for, which helps refocus the mind on positive things in your life. You can click here to learn more about the health benefits of gratefulness.   Artistic expression can help build self-esteem in group settings. Members can create healthy image posters or collages as a means of exploring their feelings creatively while simultaneously increasing self-esteem and building up confidence.   Improves Social Skills   Group therapy helps you engage with people differently than in personal relationships. Listening to peers may reveal aspects of yourself that need changing or accepting, helping to foster empathy and develop deeper bonds between participants.   Your group sessions provide the ideal setting to develop active listening skills as you engage in small-talk before and after, or during breaks with fellow members. No matter if it be depression, an eating disorder, or another issue, members can serve as sounding boards and give advice from their own experiences - perhaps most importantly of all, mirroring back what might not have been apparent until now.   Early stages of group therapy involve members attempting to establish themselves within the group and become acquainted with its rules and procedures, often leading to conflicts among members; members learn healthy ways of handling conflicts during this phase. You can click the link: https://sas.uaa.uw.edu/healthy-ways-to-handle-conflict/ for some tips on how to do this.   Once the performing stage arrives, members establish cohesiveness within the group and commit themselves towards meeting goals within it.   The role of the therapist is to utilize his or her training and foster productive interactions among members. Most sessions may go by quietly, though he or she may occasionally provide prompts that draw your attention to significant events as they unfold.   Helps You Cope With Loss   Group settings can help you overcome some of the challenges associated with grieving.   For instance, they can teach you how to interact with other people without reacting negatively or acting out, and may introduce you to new forms of communication such as offering or seeking support - both of which release dopamine, which acts as a feel-good chemical and can improve your mood.   Group therapy also can provide you with the peace of mind that comes from knowing you're not alone. Many individuals feel alone when dealing with mental health conditions or grieving the loss of loved ones; seeing other people cope and make positive changes may provide inspiration and motivation to do the same for yourself.   If you're interested in group therapy, speak to your therapist or doctor for suggestions. They can recommend Nashville Group Therapy that is well-suited to your situation. Community mental health centers and hospitals may have groups organized around a specific issue or demographic (e.g. women over 50).   Some groups accept new members at any time while others have specific start and end dates.   Helps You Develop New Relationships   Group therapy allows individuals to forge new relationships while learning how to better relate to others, which can be especially useful if you struggle to trust others or often feel misunderstood.   Group therapy may also assist in working through issues that are hindering their personal relationship with themselves.   People in your group can serve as mirrors to reflect aspects of yourself that you might not have seen previously. Furthermore, they provide support as you take risks in social situations. Conflict may arise during group therapy sessions; when this does happen, a good therapist will guide constructive dialogue to help reach an amicable resolution that works for all participants involved.   Some groups focus on specific issues or helping participants develop healthy coping skills; these are known as psychoeducational groups and the therapist is more of a teacher than facilitator; unfortunately, these kinds of groups aren't appropriate for people experiencing serious mental health conditions.   Other groups offer support, interaction and emotional expression through process groups - often more informal meetings where the therapist encourages free-flow of conversation - which are designed to aid those struggling with interpersonal issues such as addiction or anxiety.   Bonds formed within these types of groups often last a lifetime through mutual respect and understanding between members.     Read the full article

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TW: depression, suicidal thoughts

My partner has been going through a very rough couple of years, and is in a suicidal depression episode for about 3 months now. I didn't fully realised this until last month, mostly because he had stopped consistently communicating with me (LDR). He even made plans, and only told me a week or so after he decided not to go through with them. He had even decided what he was going to leave me, which was very heartbreaking.

I feel like he has been getting better, and he started talking about future plans. But he also tells me that he relies too much on me for comfort, and that at the same time I'm his biggest trigger. I feel like all I do/say has the potential to lead him to a downwards spiral, where he gets anxious, can't sleep, and that worries me. For example, if I say I'm too tired to watch something together, he might find that extremely disappointing to that point. I try to fix it and say "ok, maybe something short", and then he will say no. I notice a pattern where I try to fix it, but then he just gets more annoyed at me. It's giving me flashbacks from a previous relationship, and I now feel sad and anxious in turn. How can I better deal with this situation?

Thank you!

Hey there,

It can be so hard when we are in a long distance relationship with someone and they are really struggling with mental health conditions like depression and suicidal ideation. The most important thing to remember though is that despite the fact you love your partner you cannot fix him. I know how hard this must be hard to hear but unfortunately in the end your partner has to decide to want to actively get better whether this includes therapy, other supports or in some cases medication.

Is your partner currently seeking medical or therapeutic help/ support? If not, then this is often a good starting point in starting to get one’s life back on track. The ways in which you may bring this up with him may be difficult though as you don’t want him to feel as though you are telling him what to do or that, but the fact he has stated that he relies on you too much may be the extra push he needs to get some help and support from a professional.

How are you going? It sounds as though you are putting a lot of pressure and stress on yourself in regards to meeting his needs and trying to help in the best ways you know how. So please don’t forget to look after yourself and practice good self-care (eating properly, getting in some daily exercise and getting a good nights sleep!)

Back now to how you may get your partner to seek help! You could try to just have a general chat with him, and casually ask if he has thought about seeing a doctor or GP. Another idea may be let him know that you know he is struggling a lot right now and that there is help and support out there that  he can access.

You need to know and remember though that you cannot force him to getting help unless he chooses to do so himself. You can help and support him in the process but you cannot make him choose to get help if he is not ready unless he is at immediate risk in which case it’s important to call his local emergency services or his local mental health crisis team.

I really hope that this has helped a bit and please know that I am thinking of you at this difficult time and hope you are going OK!

Please also let us know if we can help to support you in any other way!

Take care,

Lauren

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Who is Billy Gardell?

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hii can u do a astrology post like u did for mingyu on svt’s vernon? thamk u so much!!

I'm on it <3

The overall vibe I'm getting from Vernon's chart is that no one would ever love you as deeply and completely as Vernon loves you. Now I'll break that down.

Starting with the type of person Vernon would be attracted to... it's honestly not something I can tell you because I don't believe he has a "type" by any stretch of the imagination. He can be attracted to x part of one person and the complete opposite in someone else. He doesn't have a mental checklist (not even an unconscious one) of things he's looking for. He's not likely to care much about appearance, either, at least not more than the average person. It's literally all ~vibes~ with Vernon. If he feels good around you, that's all he needs to know. That being said, there are a few things that may push him away, but these are pretty common dealbreakers for most people: making him feel insecure, pressuring him to do things he's not comfortable with/doesn't want to do, expecting him to be any way other than he naturally is. The only thing he needs to feel with someone is security. But don't let that small requirement fool you: it's an extremely important one. You will not get anywhere with him if he doesn't feel that he can trust you.

As far as pursuit, Vernon is not going to pursue anyone in an obvious way. There are some conflicting energies in his chart, but they result in a less direct approach. His scorpio moon keeps most things to himself and his pisces mars is very passive. His capricorn venus is not interested in the "chase," but his scorpio moon is excellent at patiently going after what he wants. So I see this manifesting as him maintaining consistent contact with you (a big deal for his aquarius sun/mercury!) as much as he is able and being extremely supportive and sweet with you. He may be a bit spacey and forget to text back sometimes, but when he does, it's something so precious or thoughtful that you can't help but welcome him back with open arms. He doesn't talk about himself much (scorpio moon), but he will listen to you talk about yourself all day long and provide considered feedback. He'll make you feel seen, heard, and accepted. He may even say something really cheesy sometimes because he wears his heart on his sleeve (pisces mars), but all of this happens without him directly telling you how he feels about you (scorpio moon being careful). You'll probably have to drag it out of him. Sweet boy.

In a relationship, I can't imagine a love as beautiful as Vernon's. Genuinely. Once he has decided that you are someone he can fully trust and open up to (i cannot stress enough how important this is for his scorpio moon specifically), he will offer you all of himself. In fact, he has the innate urge to merge with you, to become one. He always wants to be closer. He doesn't express this in a clingy way, though. It's a bit hard to explain, but he seeks this through deep conversations (no topic is off limits), sharing the deepest and darkest parts of yourselves, and even through sex. There is almost nothing you could say to him that he would judge you for. He will accept you for everything that you are and love the parts of yourself that you hate that much more to make up for it. He sees you through rose-colored glasses without pretending that you have no flaws. He is highly tolerant and almost never fights with you. He puts you and your needs above everything else, including himself. Please make sure to encourage him to take care of himself and take care of him yourself, too! He will potentially self-forget to the point of self-neglect in your favor. We don't want that. Make sure to encourage and support his creative outlets as they are very important to him. He will still come across as spacey or detached sometimes (aquarius sun/mercury, scorpio moon), but he never is. He's just in his own head (probably even thinking about something to do with you). When he checks back into reality, his focus will immediately turn to you, whether you're actively seeking his attention or not.

This is the part where I dispel the myth that aquarius and capricorn placements are cold or detached. They may seem that way at first, but when they truly love someone, they love them with all their heart.

Okay, sex talk! As I mentioned before, sex is likely to be a big bonding experience for Vernon. He's probably not a highly sexual personal imo, at least not when it comes to sex just for the sake of it. For him, it's about being closer to the person he loves. He wants to feel your bodies merge in the way he imagines your souls do. When they say that sex can be a spiritual thing for pisces mars, I really believe that. Pisces mars is also the least assertive mars placement, so Vernon is not likely to be the initiator most of the time. Sex is probably something that just... happens in the midst of being together. Sex is more about intimacy than anything for him. However, His emotions can suddenly run high sometimes and sex can be a good way to soothe him.

To sum it all up, I just think that being loved by Vernon would feel like being the most adored person on planet earth. He might just be one of the most special humans out there.

[danses-with-dogmeat]

could you write the sensory overload prompt with fallout new vegas companions as well (including benny)? and maybe butch deloria if thats not too much ^^

Romanced! FO3 & FONV Companions React to Autistic!Six/Lone with Sensory Overload Anxiety

Whoops, I ended up doing all of the companions from FO3 as well, my bad 🤷‍♀️

But here they are! Thank you so much for the ask, and I hope you enjoy!

This prompt with FO4 R!Companions

FONV

Arcade:

The doctor would want to help, would actually know how to help, but he may just get overwhelmed as well. He tends to focus on Six themself, rather than the situation surrounding them, that’s where the panic tends to get to him. But Six, he can deal with. If possible, he will try to remove his companion from their stressful surroundings, but whether or not he is able, Arcade tries to stay calm, using his voice, and breathing techniques and exercises he’s read about to try and deflate their rising anxieties. He tends to make sarcastic comments in the aftermath, more so to expel his own pent up anxiety than to help Six, but they don’t need to know that.

Benny:

He's scared out of his mind the first time it happens. Six is pretty much invincible in his eyes, so this… just being around loud noises and such? That's what's rustling their jimmies? Wack. For a small moment, he feels like it's his fault, and even after the courier informs him that this is just a part of who they are, that they have always been this way, he still feels another dizzying pang of regret, knowing that a couple of bullets to the brain probably couldn't have helped their preexisting condition in any way. Over time, he'd get better about helping to calm his partner down, but he starts out rather overbearing, touching them too much, talking too quickly, having a panicked reaction that tends to only escalate the sensory overload they're experiencing. At least Six wouldn't have to worry about their safety in a combat situation with the Ben-man at their side. He's one of the best shots in the Mojave (if not the best). No one is getting past him. He may be an old hat when it comes to injuring Six, but he'll be hot diggidy damned if he's gonna let someone else lay a finger on them under his watch.

Boone:

First off, the sniper would try to prevent Six from entering into any stress-filled situations at all, reminding them that he is more dangerous from a distance anyway. However, he knows that, in the Mojave, avoiding dangerous or overwhelming environments altogether is damn near impossible, so he’ll try to be prepared. He’s dealt with his own vicious bouts of PTSD long enough to have developed coping mechanisms to help him, and has actively used tools like sunglasses and ear plugs in his time with the 1st Recon, which he would recommend to them as well. Boone would approach his partner in their time of need, trying to refrain from being overbearing, but ultimately his support wouldn’t waver as he helped Six try to come down from their state of panic.

Cass:

She honestly doesn't understand how Six has been able to survive in this world with their sensory overload anxiety, and she respects them even more now that she knows they have managed to. She may not be the best at helping them handle their stress, so she usually leaves Six to their own devices while she works on removing anything that could be causing her partner's apprehension. Once the threat is gone, she'll stand nearby until Six has managed to calm themself down, just to cover them and keep an eye out. When it seems to be over, she likes to bring them somewhere to unwind; and enjoys simply sitting with them and maybe having a drink or two as they recover their strength, and bearings.

Raul:

He’ll talk them through the whole ordeal. Is he nervous about their state of panic? Probably. But his partner doesn’t need to know that. The ghoul doesn’t know a lot in terms of dealing with meltdowns, but for Six, he’ll try. Whatever sort of exercises they start to engage in to get their anxiety under control, he’ll be beside them, trying to participate, to help them through it if they seem to be struggling. He’ll get better at dealing with it over time, but it always scares him a bit to see his partner this way. Evidently, he will become more and more aware of his surroundings the more they travel together, and will try to keep them away from the situations he finds tend to set them off.

Veronica:

Whatever it was that seemed to have Six panicked, Veronica would seek to expel it in whatever way she can (but she's most enthusiastic when it involves punching). Her physical assault of the enemies responsible would be relentless, but should the episode be caused by something else, Veronica would be less comfortable dealing with it, but she’ll be damned if she doesn’t try. She mostly leaves Six to figure out their meltdown on their own, maybe going through breathing exercises with them and sticking by their side, but letting them calm themself of their own accord. Her involvement with the Berotherhood has taught her enough to know not to add any pressure to someone enduring this amount of stress. However, when they do eventually tell her that they are through the worst of it, she would try to give them some form of physical contact to help reassure them that she’s there for them, if they are comfortable with it.

FO3

Butch:

He’s known Lone a long time, and since they were kids, he’s been learning about the sort of situations that set them off. Now that they’re together, he’ll try his hardest to think back to all the times they were overwhelmed, and would attempt to keep them from these types of environments as best as he can. That doesn’t always work though, given the differences between the vault and the unpredictable outside world. Despite this, he also tends to remember the way their father used to help them when they became panicked like this, and will try to replicate these actions in order to best help his companion. Once he's succeeded in helping them calm down, they might have to return the favor, as their panic tends to do a number on Butch. Though he has seen them in such a state more than a few times, that doesn’t mean he likes it one bit, or will ever be truly used to it.

Charon:

Calm and collected as ever, Charon would systematically eliminate all stressful factors that could be affecting Lone. When he had seen to that task, he would turn to his partner, standing by their side and waiting for direction of how best he could help them. If they can recover on their own, he’ll be nearby to cover them, but if they are in need of his assistance, as long as they tell him what they need, he will oblige. In the aftermath of Lone’s meltdown, Charon would keep his blue eyes locked on them as his worry wears away at his stoic exterior. They will need to tell him that they are okay, or else he will refuse to carry on with their travels. Until he knows they can handle it, he won’t allow them to set off again.

Clover:

The poor thing would do everything wrong in this instance. She would try so damn hard to help her partner in their time of need, but ultimately she would prove to only add to the list of overwhelming factors surrounding Lone. As soon as she saw the panic wash over her companion, she would be by their side, speaking to them quickly, and as quietly as she could, but her own anxiety would cause a high pitch to sound from her throat as she tried to talk her companion down, running her hands over their arms as she does her best to support them, her frantic touches only serving to quicken their heartbeat further as they felt trapped by her concerned caresses. Once Lone finally does manage to settle down, Clover would be almost hurt by their lack of reciprocation when she tried to aid them; that is, until Lone explains to her that there are better ways for her to help. Now Clover just has to remember this for future instances...

Cross:

She’s been a soldier long enough to know how to deal with stress on the battlefield, but it’s somehow different when it’s her partner going through the ordeal. She’ll be uncharacteristically tender as she takes them through the motions she was taught to use in order to calm her fellow soldiers’ nerves. Her voice would remain soft, her touches gentle, her brows knitted together in concern until Lone finally showed signs of calming down. The paladin would release a long breath, as though finally expelling her own apprehension at the situation, and then would straighten herself up, returning to the seasoned soldier she was in order to face whatever was left of the situation at hand.

Fawkes:

The super mutant has a difficult time with subdelty, and would be worried about overwhelming Lone from his own loud tendencies. Should they start becoming uncomfortable while in his presence, he would actually distance himself from them, trying to turn away any additional factors that could be playing a part in their overload. Once they appear to have calmed themself, Fawkes will check in, apologize, and ask if there was anything he could do to prevent such occurrences from happening while they are in his company.

Jericho:

Fucking hell. We live in the Capital Wasteland. The whole damn place is just one big ass stressful situation. Are they serious?! He’d be confused, and a little pissed off, but if he has a soft spot for anyone, it’s Lone. Dammit. He won’t really know what to do, but he’ll try his best to cover them and keep them from harm’s way as they attempt to calm down and deal with their overload. Afterwards, he’ll gruffly ask if they’re okay, telling them that what they did could’ve gotten them killed, his expression would be a combination of sternness and annoyance, but his body would betray him as it shook in relief at the sight of his companion standing uninjured in front of him. Jericho would nod for the pair to continue on their way impatiently, but his eyes wouldn’t leave Lone as they set off in front of him, concern shining in their depths when he knew no one was there to see it.

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School stresses (when jay comforts you when you’re stressed with school)

tags: fluff imagine, some(?) angst, boyfriend!jay, domestic au

member: bf jay x gn reader

words: 1,434 (mini headcanon and imagine)

request!: “could you do one for jay where his s/o is really stressed with school, and has a breakdown but he is there to comfort them? p.s i love your writing! ☺️”

a/n: i hate this 😭 btw!!! this includes mentions of a nervous breakdown/panic attack(?) with crying and im sorry if t i didnt portray this the most accurately ahh this is so messy sorry 😭😭

Looks up to you 100% yep yep

Looks up to you 100% yep yep

Looks up to you 100% yep yep

So whenever he sees that you’re struggling in school? he takes your emotions so seriously because he knows how hard you work for it and how difficult it is

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Will pause whatever he’s doing so he can sit in front of you and hold your hand and simply just listen to you rant, even if it takes hours

HIS SHOULDER IS ALWAYS AVAILABLE FOR YOU TO CRY ON

According to the members he is good at massages so yes you bet he will give you a massage to help you relax as a break

Does so of course after telling you that things will be okay, that you’re smart, that you know the information well and he believes in you

Very supportive of you in your studies!

Just wants to make you feel better and relieved asap

is the type of boyfriend that will reassure you and give you realistic solutions to your problems, so you always end up feeling a lot better and confident after talking to him!

will lay with you on your bed for hours when you need to relax, letting u lay on his chest as he rubs soothing circles on ur skin (:

The ticking of the clock in your bedroom room seeks to get more annoying the longer time passes.

School is stressful, is and always has been. But with the amount of anxiousness you’ve experienced in the last few hours and days due to all the work you have to do - you’ve started to question whether you’re really capable enough to do this.

Heaving a breath, you sit back in your chair, curling up into a ball as you stare through glazed eyes at the work on your desk.

You clench your fists, eyeing your papers and various textbooks that you’re having difficulty comprehending. Your laptop with your unfinished assignment sits on top of it all.

Is it worth it? Are you smart enough?

Frustration courses through you at simply staring at one of the pieces of work you’ve been given to complete. You don’t want to do it. You can’t. It’s too much.

Maybe you should just-

“Y/n?”

Jumping at the sound of your name being called, you look back at jay who stands in your doorframe.

He holds the bottle of water he had left your bedroom for, and for a second you stare dumbly as your brain stutters for a second in remembering this fact.

“O-oh, jay!” You say a bit too eagerly, an unsure smile on your lips as you clear your throat and blink your eyes. “Got your water?”

“What’s wrong?”

You blink. You’re always surprised by his bluntness.

Laughing lightly, you shake your head, thoughts running at a million miles an hour and brain seeming to pulse with the various number of things that are indeed wrong to you.

“Nothing.” You say breezily, shoulders tense as you look back at your desk once again, the empty page on your laptop screen seeming to taunt you. “I just..”

Jay doesn’t look convinced, a concerned expression now on his face as he walks closer towards you.

Heat rushes to your cheeks inexplicably, and you glance back at your work on the desk, and then up to your Calendar on the wall.

“It’s just.. just..”

You let out a breath, and you don’t even have to finish your sentence. Because it’s enough for you to break.

Turning away sharply from your desk and from jay, you cover your face with your hands as you feel the stress of the past week reach it’s tipping point inside of you.

“Y/n.”

Jay’s hugging you in an instant; strong arms holding you tight against his chest, pulling you in gently without hesitation.

“School is just so much. Too much. I don’t know if I can handle it.” You heave, chest constricting as you breakdown, hot tears streaming down your cheeks as you feel your face flush in embarrassment. 

“Hey hey hey, its okay.” you hear jay say distantly, followed by the soft thud of him dropping his water bottle somewhere, and you can only blink numbly as you try to dumbly process how quickly everything is happening -  from him taking your hand in his and leading you to sit on your bed to him wiping away your tears softly with his calloused fingertips, large palms holding your face gently in his.

“Breathe, okay? you can do that for me?” 

Blinking through your blurry vision, you nod as jay’s face slowly start to focus through your tears, heart thudding in your chest and adrenaline coursing through your veins as you start to follow along with your boyfriend’s lead.

“In, out. In and out y/n.”

You hear the concern in his voice, his expression clouded with worry as his thumb gently rubs your cheek, hushing you quietly and breathing deeply with you as you try to get your shallow breathing to slow down.

“Jongseong.” you mumble, feeling flustered as you break the eye contact at how quickly everything seemed to escalate. You were just sitting at your desk stressing about school a second ago and in what felt like in only a blink, youre in your boyfriend’s arms; safe.

The black-haired boy simply shakes his head, softly telling you to focus on breathing.

You’re unsure if you’ve ever seen jay so serious when it’s concerning you before, all jokes and lightheartedness leaving for this moment. It takes a few more minutes before your heart rate has slowed and the jelliness you feel in your limbs has left, and soon you’re feeling a lot calmer.

“Are you feeling better?” Jongseong asks, standing up away form you briefly to collect the water that was initially for him, handing it to you instead once opening the lid.

You nod as you take it gratefully and you gulp down the water. “yeah.”

Taking your hand in his, he sits down further back on your bed, guiding you so you’re sitting in front of him between his legs.

“So?” he says patiently, not at all imposing in his tone as he moves you hair away from your neck, sweeping it over your shoulder.

When you give him permission to touch you, you heave a breath at the feeling of his hand on your shoulders; palms pressing down smoothly and expertly soothing your tense muscles.

“I’ve just been really stressed i guess.” You say quietly after a comfortable silence, fiddling with your fingers and closing your eyes as you feel your fatigue drift away with the work of his hands, calmness settling over.

“Schools been piling up, and i just have a lot to do.” You murmur. “I dont know. I have a lot to study so I’ve just been feeling pretty overwhelmed.” 

Jay hums and you close your eyes, letting yourself relax into his  touch as he massages you without word.

“School does put a lot of pressure.” he says thoughtfully, and you feel him nodding behind you. “But I’m sure you’re going to do well, y/n. Don’t worry too much. You’re only going to stress yourself out even more.”

He turns you around gently, and your widened eyes meet his concerned ones. “Have you been taking rests when you study during the day, love?” Jay asks, and you feel butterflies in your stomach at the nickname.

“..yeah.” You say hesitantly, leaning in towards your boyfriend and his soft chest.

“Yeah..?” Jay drawls out with a chuckle, kissing your forehead. “Yah, you should y/n.  Don’t burn yourself out. Your health is just as important as school is. You’re going to ace it, okay?”

Pausing, he makes you look at him and repeat the words, “I’m going to ace it.”

“I’m going to ace it.” You say after him with a chuckle, rolling your eyes at your boyfriend’s insistent behaviour.

Jay smiles softly. “Give me your flashcards later if you have any so i can help you revise the, later, okay?”

You nod, smiling as you kiss his neck, wrapping your arms tightly against his chest.

“Okay.” You say fuzzily, enjoying the small circles he rubs into your side. “Thank you.”

Jay hums, leaning back so youre lying on top of him, his soft round eyes meeting yours, hand stroking your cheek softly.

“I love you, y/n. Please don’t hold in your stress anymore.”