#// for clarifications contact the mun!

[hriobzagelthewanderer]

[Until Further Notice, This blog will be on a Hiatus. I still plan on being active on Discord, and following my friends and mutuals on here with likes, promotions, boosting, and maybe the occasional ask or two, but I genuinely haven't been able to maintain my focus and feel comfortable on this platform for some time now. I hope that changes, and do not plan on making any more overt actions than this, but all the same I cannot say when this will change either.]

[pantachorei]

Auction #1 presents;

Stellaron Hunter Kafka (@kafkaisms)

offering the lucky winner a round of drinks and a request (although she reserves the right to decline said request at her own discretion).

Interact with this post to place your bids in-character! Reply, reblog, whichever you prefer! Whoever places the highest bid within 24h officially wins. Main Post & FAQ

[fanplastik]

⋆｡𖦹°⭒˚｡⋆ temporary rules ⋆｡𖦹°⭒˚｡⋆

This is a low activity blog. I don't write daily. I am not fast. I have multiple blogs and a life outside of Tumblr. Please do not take any radio silence or inactivity personally; I am not ignoring you; I may just have things going on irl. That being said, I am usually pretty quick with OOC communication. My main goals for this blog are to have fun and develop strong IC and OOC bonds. I want to make friends. I may struggle with tone over text, so I may ask for clarification. I want clear, respectful communication OOC. Please tell me if I've upset you, etc. I can't usually tell otherwise.

This blog is 21+. Minors and those under 21 do not interact. Triggers that may be found on this blog include body horror/uncanny valley, comic typical violence, and mentions of eating disorders, body dysmorphia, and the poor treatment of models in the fashion industry. Any triggers will be tagged plainly as either 'trigger tw' or 'trigger'. I do not do fancy tags, nor do I really format my posts other than some bold and italics here and there. I do small text on occasion to match my partner's. My triggers include pregnancy, chainmail asks, and suggestive/smutty content. (I do write smut on occasion, and the reason it doesn't bother me then is because I can control what I see/my muse does. Boundaries do not get crossed when I'm in control.)

I enjoy memes/asks and think they are good icebreakers and can be used to guide plotting. Send as many as you'd like and don't be scared to send some. My slowness does not equal disinterest. Plotting is optional, as I know it can be difficult to do off the bat if some muses aren't from the same franchise/fandom. However, I do try my best to plot when the time comes and find it enjoyable when muses really click. I would like to plot any action-heavy threads, just so I can have a bit of an idea of how to approach the situation. It doesn't have to be in-depth, but a little guidance is beneficial to me.

I'd rather personal blogs not follow or reblog my content. If you have a roleplay sideblog, I will be more inclined to follow if it is clearly stated on your blog that you have one and it is linked on a pinned post. I'm selective in the way that I reserve the right to choose who I wish to follow and interact with. Do not attempt contact if I've soft/hard blocked you, my comfort and boundaries are not up for negotiation. Do not reblog any of my headcanons nor use them as yours. Do not steal any art featured on my blog and claim it as yours. I would rather not interact with blogs that pretend to be the character on Tumblr, blogs that mostly do one-liners, nor do I wish to engage in asterisks roleplay. I don't mind shorter content, but I prefer literate roleplay.

I love shipping of all kinds and wish to develop a number of unique relationships between our muses. Don't force a ship onto me, especially not a romantic one. I enjoy smut (when I write it) but please don't use Polly for just that kind of thread. I only write smut with those I am close with OOC and am comfortable with. That aside, I adore pre-established relationships of any kind. If you ever have an idea for one, please pitch it because I love developing them.

My mindset is that roleplay is a hobby and not a job. Please respect this and don't pressure or rush me with replies. I write when I want and can; I'm not paid to do this, sadly. Mun does not equal muse. I'm a stickler for open communication and would rather talk out conflict than let it fester and ruin a friendship. Please speak up if I've forgotten to tag something, if my wording or tone came off as wrong/weird to you, etc. I will gladly explain myself or take accountability where needed. Besides all of that, I hope you take the time to read Polly's bio and look through the Do's and Don'ts section below! I encourage questions if you have any at any time. I think they can be thought-provoking and fun, as well as maybe even contributing to new lore or a headcanon.

DO'S:

Allow your character to react negatively to Polly. Polly can be scary looking to the average person, especially those not used to her abilities.

Reach out for plotting and just general chatting! I'd love to get to know you and your muse or muses! I enjoy pre-established ships (of any kind) so much and find them to be more fun than starting every interaction from the very beginning.

Get physical within reason! I'm not saying to punch her randomly, but you can have your muse stretch her, shake her, grab her, etc. She is the human equivalent of a Stretch Armstrong.

Ask questions, whether ooc or ic! I want to make things as understandable as possible.

Talk to me about crossovers/potential verses! I'd love to create something fun with you.

DON'TS:

However, referring to the first point on the DO'S list, do not use this as an excuse to put her down/bully her ooc. Playful teasing is fine, but please respect my feelings.

Godmodding isn't fun. I would like any major or life-threatening injuries, deaths, etc. to be plotted out. Also, don't assume you know everything she's thinking and don't fully control her.

Please don't pressure or rush me to answer threads or asks. I will get to them as I can.

Please don't assume she and Plastic Man are carbon copies of each other. Something he may do might be something she wouldn't, and vice versa.

Don't feel the need to water down your muse!! Villains are villains, let it rip.

[strawberista]

⚅ — Rules and Guidelines — ⚅

★— PERSONALS/NON-RP BLOGS: You're welcome to follow me and like my posts, however please do not reblog my threads or art tagged with "do not reblog unless" or any variation of that. This is to keep my notifications clean and my friends safe. Thank you for your cooperation. —★

⚀ RP Etiquette Applies: No God modding, metagaming, etc. etc. If there's something here you don't already know about or are new to rping in general, come talk to me to settle out confusion. I'll help!

⚁ All players must be 18+: I'm an adult and I only wish to roleplay with adults. This is not a space that's safe for minors. Please do not lie to me for both of our sakes.

⚂ I do not accept unprompted M!As: Or anons causing a change to my character or their state, for clarification. Unless I ask for it, I won't answer these types of asks.

⚃ OC and Crossover friendly: Please have a bio for your character that I can read through, even if they're canon. I'm less likely to attempt to write with characters I can't learn about or get ideas for.

⚄ Duplicates friendly: I'm a-okay with and actually encourage duplicates on this blog. Other Hanekomas are some of my favorite muses to write with.

⚅ Shipping: Hanekoma cannot be romantically shipped canonically. However, non-canon ships of all kinds are welcome, and platonic and familial ships can become canon. I ship with chemistry, and even if we come out of the gate with a ship in mind I would still like to build up to it.

⚅⚀ About Connections: Connections are my main/affiliated, canon relationships. I do not make mains calls and I will most likely not be the first person to come discussing making a muse canon to Hanekoma's universe. I am extremely uncomfortable with doing so and would really much rather be approached about this potential instead. OCs are also welcome to be canon muses to Hanekoma's universe.

⚅⚁ NSFW threads are extremely rare: Mun is a severely sex-repulsed asexual and is not generally comfortable writing explicit scenarios. I'll only write smut with mutuals I really trust, and even in this case, there must be plausible build up to the scenario. I will not write it with new mutuals and I will not write it with mutuals I do not already have an ooc relationship with. All smut threads must be tagged appropriately, and they must be cut both for my comfort and my audience. Please respect my boundaries regarding this rule especially.

⚅⚂ Liking and tagging: I tag all triggers as "[trigger] tw" and will often add "ask to tag" which means you should inform me if there's a tag I've forgotten that you need. I also like (❤️) threads to signal that I consider them finished and do not expect a response. It's okay to continue the thread if you want to continue, though.

��⚃ Patience and Reminders: I don't mind if you spam me with reminders if you think I've forgotten something, even if you do it a lot. However, I ask you not to get short or impatient with me as I do have a life outside of roleplay that takes priority. Just don't get angry and we'll be golden.

⚅⚄ Drama: I will not be bothered by you posting drama (call outs, etc.) but please understand I do not personally support it and will not participate in it in any way. Feel free to tell me if you think I'm interacting with someone dangerous, but please understand that I won't always take your advice and I will make my own decisions regarding who I do and don't interact with. You are free to send me receipts, but I don't personally trust them and I will most likely make decisions based on my own personal experience and observations. Thank you for respecting my boundaries regarding this.

⚅⚅ Mun Information: Please read my mun page as there is important information about me there that may effect your comfort level with interacting with me.

★— Rules are subject to change without prior warning, so please check back if you're ever unsure about something and always feel free to contact me regarding them! —★

[saymynamekrp]

General Information

Say My Name is an twenty-one (21)+ general non-au roleplay based on mewe with a "nightclub" theme, posing itself as a "getaway" and "escape" from the everyday life and burdens of idolhood. All muns and muses must be at least twenty-one (21)+ years old internationally. 

We accept all Asian face claims even if they are not active within the Korean entertainment industry. However, we do not allow any youtubers, Instagram models, influencers, those involved in scandals/controversies, married idols, or those that have asked to not be roleplayed. Please feel free to reach out for further clarification as needed. 

Do not participate in any god-modding, metagaming, third-wall breaking, or mixture of IC / OOC interactions in public settings or group chats. OOC drama will not be tolerated. If you feel someone has participated in one of the above, or has made you feel uncomfortable, please reach out to the admin via dm or tumblr or report the incident using our report form. We wish to create a harmonious and safe environment for all.

Character changes are only allowed one (1) week after you’ve joined the roleplay. You must reach out to admin via tumblr or DMs on mewe to request a change. You must wait three (3) weeks between changes.

Activity Requirements

Activity Checks will be held twice (2) a month. The first activity check will take place between the 1st of the month to the 15th of the month. The second activity check will take place between the 16th of the month to the 30th/31st of the month. 

The activity requirements are as follows:  ❏ At least 1 timeline post (profile, tracker, aesthetic OR nsfw posts do not count!) ❏ At least 3 comments on others’ posts.  ❏ Always make sure you are up-to-date with your followers list!

In addition, you must select from one of the following: ❏ 2 additional comments ❏ Hosted a game, hyperbeam, or group activity ❏ Posted a plot call  ❏ Reached out to 2 new members via dm ❏ Participation in a prompt, AU, or event hosted by the admins ❏ At least 1 public or private thread reply

If you miss an activity check or appear inactive, the admin will reach out to you. You will have 24 hours to respond before you are removed from the roleplay for inactivity. 

For the best experience, try to reach out to everyone and make new friends. Try to respond to everyone’s comments and DMs. Tagging in posts is a good idea since MeWe can be fickle with notifications! It is recommended you go beyond the AC checks and comment on posts when you can to enhance connectivity with others. We cannot emphasize this enough that we are a community and must ensure that everyone feels included and welcomed!

There is a two (2) week dating ban for new arrivals. We would like to give everyone the opportunity to get to know one another. Please do not face-chase for the sole purpose of wanting your muse to date a specific muse. 

Roleplaying is a hobby. Many of us attend school, care for a family or hold a job. You may take a hiatus for up to two(2) weeks at a time. If a longer hiatus is needed, please reach out to admins in order to communicate this need. Before taking a hiatus, please inform admin of your hiatus start date and end date so we can mark you down accordingly and refrain from including your muse in any ongoing Activity Checks.

Application Process

We accept tumblr, aff, and mewe as a form of communication. We would like to be able to get in contact with you if we run into any issues during your stay here at Say My Name.

You are allowed up to two (2) muses when applying. If you choose to take on two muses, we do ask that you maintain consistent activity and meet the activity requirements on both accounts. The admin team may ask for you to reevaluate your ability to hold more than one muse if you are unable to maintain activity in accordance with our requirements. You cannot roleplay two members of the same group, nor siblings/family members.

Say My Name accepts move-in couples upon application. In order to guarantee spots for your boo and you, please make sure to reference one another in your application.

Reservations last for forty-eight (48) hours. If you choose to reserve anonymously, please make sure to provide a unique password so we know it’s you when you apply! 

Once Accepted

Once accepted, you have forty-eight (48) hours to add the admin account on mewe. To make things faster, you may add the admin when you apply.

After you’ve been accepted, please accept all seven (7) group invites. The NSFW group is optional. 

Please wait to post on your timeline or add friends until you have been announced in the Arrivals group!

Once you’ve been announced, you must make a feed post within 48 hours. Remember to emoji your own posts, it’s easier for others to react.

While not mandatory, it is recommended you post a plot call in the Plot Calls group. This is one of the easiest ways to start making connections and writing with other members of the community! We also encourage you to react to as many plot calls as you possibly can to keep your interactions fresh and ongoing.

It is recommended you put your muse’s basic info on their profile (stage name, age, group, relationship status & sexual orientation) to help everyone that may not know your muse well.

Once you’ve read all the rules and feel like our community is right for you, please go ahead and fill out the application.

[elegy-of-ashen-starfall]

I appreciate the intent of the lack of character banlist, but are you not worried about the alienation this might cause if you accept someone who roleplays a character from something that makes a lot of people uncomfortable, due to its content and what it stands for? ( sorry for the wordy ask, I didn't want to namedrop examples, but you know what I mean )

good afternoon, anon!

thank you for checking us out and for taking the time to ask us your question. there is a valid point when it comes to characters with more mature/explicit themes surrounding them and their subject matter.

we understand how not everything is for everyone, but there can also be instances where people avoid/wish for the removal of certain characters based on a dislike for them/their actions rather than for what the character as a whole delivers to the source material, or for a concerning reason/issue. of course, we believe in our current/potential members' judgement of what would be appropriate to introduce to the group's environment. with that being said, we hope that any muse is separated from the identity of the mun, and that an individual will not be alienated, harassed, or judged for their choice in muse if the representation/handling of that muse follows our guidelines. if there is a future reserve for a character who is widely considered an issue in the mfrp community, or who we feel would be a negative impact on our environment and members' experience, then we as moderators will take the required and appropriate steps in the vetting process as needed. of course, the safety and comfort of our members is our top priority. as of our initial creation of our documents, we do not have a ban list, yet that doesn't necessarily mean that won't ever be subject to change in the future. again, thank you for your question! we hope this helps address your concerns, but if you have any further questions or need clarification on anything else in our rules, please feel free to contact us! ⟢ mod vega

[waterworkscanada22]

Sewer Backups And Basement Flooding

Please additionally take a look at our FAQ section to be taught more about insurance claims, and information about what to do after you experience a loss. After calling to request a crew, a City dispatcher will contact the property proprietor to schedule the service call. Sometimes, the City or a plumber may help solve the same concern.

Get a backwater prevention valve that will enable water to cross via a pipe in only one direction. In the event of a backup, the valve will shut up, preventing water and sewage from coming up via sewage repair the drains. As mentioned, sewer backup protection is optional and may be added to your house, tenant, or apartment insurance package.

Be positive to check with your broker in regards to the protection you have in your policy. Maintain present protecting plumbing units in accordance with the manufacturer’s directions. Sewer backup protection under a home insurance coverage policy pays for unintended direct physical loss to your dwelling or personal property. Exact coverage limits range bycarrier, and nearly all providers require an optional endorsement on your homeowners policy for this specific protection.

If you wish to make a claim instantly in opposition to the City please discuss with themaking a claimsection on our web site. When performing regular upkeep, if you discover the backflow valve leaking, it'll sewer backup likely have to be replaced. But sometimes you’ll be facing a drainage downside or sewer back-up. Think of an annual check-up of your drainage system as a health check-up.

Flush away any particles found and examine the valve 'O' ring to ensure it does not need to be changed and that the valve is sitting correctly. Cleanouts smaller than four-inches aren't normally eligible for cleaning and digital camera work due to the size of the required gear and the chance of apparatus harm. The following table defines common phrases to familiarize yourself with when experiencing sewer issues.

How you get rid of fat, oil and grease can have a serious impact on your house and the surroundings. When poured down your sinks, drains or toilets, they ultimately cool and may clog the pipes that take the wastewater from your house to the therapy plant. It is the end result of wastewater now not able to depart the property by way of the sanitary lateral pipe that is linked to the City of Vaughan sewer, often due to a blockage. The following video supplies a very good clarification about such water and sewage flows, though they simply speak about a separated system surroundings. With a greater understanding of sewer backup coverage, we hope that you could make an informed decision on this elective coverage.

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Basements were left with inches of uncooked sewage, contaminating cherished possessions and inflicting extensive harm to floors, appliances, and partitions. Blockage of the principle could also occur from one thing improperly discharged by the homeowner which has flowed through the service lateral or sewer service line. Slow drainage, bubbling or gurgling out of your sink, rest room or bathtub may be a sign that a blockage is forming which can finally result in a sewage backup. When water backs up from a municipal sewer system or private septic system, and invades your personal home, the Allstate Limited Sewer Backup Insurance has you covered. In some cases, this natural gas inspection, which isn't carried out by the City, may take a day.

They are additionally designed to catch particles, such as sand, leaves and dirt, that has washed off the road, and maintain this material whereas permitting rainwater to empty to the storm sewer. Ensure you have provided clear entry to the sewer service clean-out. Sewer companies in St. Catharines are maintained and operated by way of shared duty by the City of St. Catharines, Niagara Region and property owners.

[spootsaline]

((okay so im vaguely aware of how tumblr functions, so i apologize if this sounds accusatory for no reason/it isn’t how tumblr functions 

 but *I think* someone i follow on here follows thinspo/weight loss blogs, and theyre starting to pop up even tho i have -0 interest in that 

it’s actually  a trigger for me, and i might need to unfollow you

[tealeavesandthorns]

RP Quick Guide - Rules/Muse/Mun/Links

Post Updated: 27/07/2024

I've made this quick guide for the RP blog @tealeavesandthorns so that you can have a brief introduction to both Maria and my RP Rules and decide if you’d like to investigate further.   I also run @dxnisheatingdetective (which is secondary and a sideblog) and @ohsolovingsouls​ (which is a very slow muse fleeting sideblog).

Maria Bloomsco - Tea nerd and Bibliophile

Links:  Opens / All Verses / General Bio / Headcanons / 

Maria Bloomsco - Mid 30′s-Mid 40′s - Tea nerd and bibliophile Main Verse (the verse I rp in most) - Bond!Verse - Mid 40′s - Mid 50′s - Former 00 now Head Archivist at MI6 -

Caring, loving, fiercely loyal. Once you're Maria's friend you're family and she will go to bat for you. Maria is a passionate lady with a tendency to ramble and babble, especially when she's nervous or excited.

Maria has been over ten years in the making and so far I haven’t found universe she can't be part of! She's incredibly versatile and each universe has a tweaked and tailored version of her

I have RPed as Maria since 2013 (possibly earlier) on tumblr (with me taking a break/deleting for a while and returning now) - previous handles have included - mariathecoffeeshopgirlrp, cxffeeshxpgirl, and possible variations of those.

Below is brief rules and a brief look at mun with important links for you at the bottom of the post.

Dropping below a read more so as not to clutter!

Rules - Expanded Rules

General Rules & Guidelines - Expanded Rules are available with more clarification and such: 

Mun and Muse are 30+ and I would prefer to write with muns who are at very least 18+

I have written Maria since 2013 (probably earlier).

I am UK based, run on GMT Timezone and work 40+ hours.

I DO NOT write on discord. I DO NOT RP via IM. I write on tumblr via posts and us the tumblr messaging system for ooc communitcation.

Asks are always open.

Hate is never tolerated, rarely published and for the most part simply deleted and blocked.

I’m open to most ships and subjects for threads. I will never force a ship or topic for a thread.

I look at every blog that follows me and make informed decisions about following back.

If you follow me first I will expect you to make the first move. If I follow you first I will make every attempt too. If no contact has been made/reciprocated within two weeks, unfollowing may occur.

I would prefer to write with mutuals, however not being mutuals does not mean we can’t do tester threads.

If you run multiple RP blogs and follow me from them/engage with me from them please let me know the other blogs you run, I won’t work it out.

Maria is heterosexual and hetero-romantic.

Shipping is based on chemistry and potential, this includes our writing styles meshing.

The verse I RP in the most at the moment is Maria’s Bond!Verse.

I find the best way to get interactions going is through icebreakers or memes.

I prefer to write paragraphs or multi-paragraph threads - I reserve one-liners and very short interactions for crack/seasonal things. I don’t like writing with anyone in first person (’I walked towards them’), and prefer third person interactions or dialogue.

If I reject an interaction, please try not to take it personally. I do due diligence before interacting with people and generally rejections are because I cannot see how our characters will interact, I don’t think our writing styles are compatible, or something else has put me off. Not everyone can like everything, not everyone will mesh well and that’s okay.

Please ask me before adding Maria to plots/interactions involving other characters. 

|All Verses |  General Verse | Bond Verse | Batman/DC/Gotham Verse | Marvel Verse | | Star Trek Verse | Bridgerton Verse | GOT Verse | The Boys Verse | | Once Upon A Time / Disney Verse | Deity Verse Tack on Verses:  | Single Parent Verse | Vampire Verse | Evil Verse  For Quick Reference: Headcanons | Open Memes

A Bit About Mun:

Mun is 30+, queer female, pronouns are she/they/that thing over there.

Mun has been writing for 15+ Years and first rp'd on Tumblr in 2009/2010

Mun is open to most fandoms and of course open to OCs!

Mun has Autism and potentially ADHD (a post about how this affects rping is here)

[rpbetter]

What happened to Raven? Are they okay?

Genuinely do not know, but I certainly hope they're okay. Really, really, hope that someone who saw that they were feeling suicidal contacted someone because that's concerning. I didn't see it, or I'd have reported, and I'm seriously begging y'all to take that seriously when and where you see it. I do not care if the person casually drops that in a "joking" way a lot, if they're prone to being a bit dramatic, if you don't think it's serious - this isn't something you want to be wrong about.

I can only tell you what I know, which is limited and definitely going to conflict with things on other blogs.

So, months ago, there was a post from an RPer's blog that some people took the wrong way and it blew way out of proportion. Raven took screenshots of the RPer's rules and went off about them because they felt they were ableist and variously unfair. An opinion they were entitled to, of course, but as you can imagine, that rubbed other people the wrong way. Some of those people reblogged the post or commented on it with opposing opinions, some other people sent messages about how it was wrong/their counterpoints, and still some other people sent hate anons.

Okay, this gets even more sordid and complicated. Because more than one person took this to a vent/confession blog and made some confessions about how they disagreed and/or were disturbed that a RPer's rules were being posted on a meme blog and reacted to like that. This got even more people involved. Raven reblogged one of the posts, there were arguments with people from that site. Someone decided it was a great idea to start a callout blog.

Now, I come into this because I like to look at what the common issues are in the RPC as expressed by the RPC. Especially if I've been gone for a while, and I had been for months. If people are still feeling a ton of pressure to make their blogs aesthetic paradises, still having no one reblog their promos or like their headcanons, still experiencing a lot of hostility, or conversely, have had great experiences resolving conflict or getting writing partners, I like to know. It's a good way to get multiple points of perspective.

So, while I'm over there, I witness some of this and I see some things I know are not true. I know the rules mun, I know exactly one RPer that also interacted on that confessions blog, so I'm aware that Rules Mun did not get asked for any clarification, wasn't addressed by anyone at any point, did not know this was all going on, and also, hasn't had their life ruined or anything by it. They were just as oblivious to this as I was and not very pleased that it had gotten so out of control without them even being involved. So, I kind of wanted to follow this trail, and it led to Raven.

At that point, much of their interactions had already been deleted. I absolutely believe they received hate anons because it's the tumblr RPC, but a good chunk of it were things I think were just destined to be taken as hostility and misunderstood at this point in a charged situation. I was not the only one to try to talk to Raven with the idea that maybe if this could be addressed a little differently, the entire affair could just die already. That was not taken well, it still isn't being taken well by other parties.

Regardless of what did or did not happen, what was and was not taken out of context, Raven deleted their blog after making some upsetting statements and has asked that their memes not be reblogged anymore. This is not something I have seen outside of screenshots, I want to be really clear about that! By the time I was able to look at tumblr again, it already happened.

So, seriously, I have no idea what's going on with Raven. All excessive hostility and need to keep fueling this going on with their friends aside, I really hope that one of them is checking on them and that a break, some extra care, whatever they need is happening for them. Since they're gone, at least where most people could find them, it's not like anyone can reach out to them right now. I highly doubt they'll want that if/when they return either, unless they express otherwise, it'd probably be better to give them space from this at that time. It can be upsetting all over again to bring those things up, after all.

Sorry that I cannot answer this better, Anon, or direct you somewhere that you could leave your concerns for Raven.

[confessionsofa-roleplayer]

I have a question perhaps you or some of your followers may be able to answer. When following a 'mutuals only' blog, what's the proper etiquette for contacting them? (Provided they have not specified a preference in their rules/guidelines, of course) Should I wait to see if they follow back, first? Should I send them a message expressing interest in writing together, even I don't have an idea immediately and the character simply interests me? Or should I message them first before following?

I confess I don’t have a lot of experience with mutual-only blogs, anon.  That said, I think, if it’s not specified in their rules/guidelines, your options are fairly limited.  If it were me, I’d probably do one of the following:

Send them an anon asking politely for clarification regarding their preferences in this regard.  (Some muns might not like this either; I don’t know enough about the general etiquette.)

Wait for them to follow back before initiating a conversation of any kind.

Can any of our followers who have more experience in this area be of help to our anon?

~ Mod MJ ~

[ironxkid]

With this whole "soap" going on with Carter and Pietro, what is Carter like as a lover?

((FDSJGHSDFHJ I’m so glad it’s become this thing now omg

anyway!!

I know I’ve mentioned this before already at least once, but Carter wears her heart on her sleeve, and loves deeply. She’ll love her partner with all of her heart, and not just part of it. Something she knows, and a factor into why she’s so hesitant to get into a relationship in the first place - not only does she want to be sure the person she’s interested in is someone she trusts enough to give her heart to, but she also wants to be sure that they’ll be returning her affections (not necessarily to the same degree, but that they’ll actually care about her) and that they’ll be accepting of them, since she fears she may come across as overwhelming

with that being said, she does run the risk of becoming codependent on her partner. But, it... definitely depends on her partner, if that makes sense? I’m gonna pull two examples off of my blog real quick: her relationship with Diana (@/fortislumen), for example, is one where I... actually don’t see her becoming codependent, because I feel like her being with Diana would actually help push her to stand on her own feet. Likewise, her relationship with Pietro (@/fasterthanmydemons) is definitely one where I can see her becoming codependent - after all, they’re both codependent on other people (she her father and he his sister), so with that already being an issue for both of them, it could easily bleed into their relationship. And, with that all said, those are only examples and what I think could happen - it’s not set in stone, and not something discussed atm! It could absolutely be different from what I’m saying, or it may not - it’ll depend on how it goes further in rp and if it’s discussed with their respective muns

but! insecurities and worries aside, she’s gentle. She’s going to care for her partner no matter what, even when they when they ultimately get into any disagreements or arguments. That happens, and it’s not going to mean she loves them any less, and, actually, her temper will be a helluva lot tamer dfjhdgfhj - she doesn’t want to hurt them, doesn’t want to lose them, so she’ll do what she can to keep things from getting out of hand but without folding in on herself. If that makes sense? Hopefully it does dfjhdfsjh - just let me know if it doesn’t!

Carter’s also going to be completely faithful - she would never cheat on her partner, even if she found herself falling out of love with them, because if that was the case, she’d end the relationship instead of stringing them along. I mean, she’d try to let them down gently of course, but she’d still end it. And, funnily enough, she’ll actually become a lot more open with them - it won’t be right away! She’s a private individual, but, given time, she’ll find it easier to open up about her problems and past, as long as her partner is okay with it. She would never force her issues upon them, nor will she ever expect them to fix her, but it’ll definitely be easier for her to actually communicate for once in her life sfdgjsdf

after all, Carter’s basically baring her soul to them to begin with - she’ll want her partner to understand her, to love her for who she is, and she’s already taking a risk by giving her heart to them. It’s something intimate and delicate, and she wants to hold onto it - wants to be sure that her partner understands that she does trust them fully. Now, it doesn’t mean that, when she does talk about things she keeps hidden, that it’ll be easy for her to do so, because she’ll still absolutely have a hard time acknowledging certain things, but she’s going to let herself keep her walls down to keep them in

honestly, she’ll be quite the sap lol - though! fun fact: her saying “I love you” is not easy for her to do so, and it will take a while for those words to actually be admitted to a romantic partner. It jumps back to her insecurities, but it’s also something that carries a lot of weight (in her opinion), and she wants to be sure that, whoever she’s saying it to (because this does extend outside of romantic relationships), they know she fully means it. Funnily enough though, I’ve always imagined her saying it for the first time to her partner accidentally lol - a simple slip where she may not even realize she actually said it aloud. And, once she does finally say it, it’s something that does become easy for her to say, and she will say it often

now, outside of a romantic relationship, Carter is not a physically affectionate person. Hugs are fine, though she doesn’t give them often and it absolutely depends on who it is, but other than that... she prefers to keep any physical contact to a minimum. However, in a romantic relationship? Physical affection is absolutely one of her main love languages (followed by quality time and words of affirmation). It doesn’t need to be anything big! She’s actually not fond of PDA (she’s shy and easily flustered lol), but... things like hand holding, leaning against them, or even just brushing shoulders means a lot to her. Now, that doesn’t mean she’ll use it to push her partner’s boundaries! If they’re not big on physical affection, she’ll back off - their comfort is important to her, and she’ll be just fine without touching

I’ve taken a few uquizzes for Carter regarding love, so I’m gonna link them here because I adore the answers since they’re quite fitting for her! 

how does it feel to be loved by you?

what hozier song represents how you love?

how do you need to be loved?

where do you hold your love?

uhhhh I think that about covers it?? I know I kinda rambled lol, but feel free to ask for clarification if you need it, or if you want me to go into detail about something specific!

[astralishq]

– ♡ alright my loves! the time has finally come, and the admin team is so thrilled to announce that astralis hq is officially OPEN for ic interactions! feel free to start posting on all of your characters, with a gentle reminder that if your intros are not currently posted, you’re about to be unfollowed! you have twenty-four hours from now to post ic on your characters, and we are so so so excited to watch it all unfold on the dash <3

in regards to our current open starters rule, which states that we ask all members to reply to TWO open starters before posting their own, we are going to wave this rule for the first twenty-four hours of the group being open! this means that you’re free to post your open starters as at the very beginning of the group as there won’t be anything posted right off the bat, with the one requirement that you reply to at least ONE open starter for every open starter that you post! by three pm pst / six pm est tomorrow, this rule exception will expire, and we’ll shift back into replying to two open starters before posting your own! hopefully that makes sense, but if you require any sort of clarification, please don’t hesitate to contact the main!

with that being said - HAVE FUN! we’ve got an amazing cast of muns + muses, and we can’t wait to see them in action!

[turkleader]

Just wanted to throw this out since you got more followers and i can't write on that reblog. If you go to a protest where CS might be used DONT wear contacts. CS can melt contacts to your eyes. If you're hit simply move to a ventilated area, wave your arms like a damn fool trying to fly and with in minutes you'll be fine. CS dissipates very quickly in open air, person will be fine in a minute or two. This is how we did it at boot after being in the CS chamber.

Clarification of the term “CS” for those that do not know: “The compound 2-chlorobenzalmalononitrile (also called o-chlorobenzylidene malononitrile; chemical formula: C10H5ClN2), a cyanocarbon, is the defining component of tear gas commonly referred to as CS gas, which is used as a riot control agent.”

[ooc]

Thank you, Tseng-mun. Any other information that is useful regarding the protests and self-protection, feel free to send my way.

All of you out there protesting? Please do research before going out. Have a plan. Have others to back you up and look out for you. Take care of yourselves.

I love you. I stand with you. So stay safe. We need you here.

[sign-language-positivity]

hi, i'm sorry if this is weird, but i've looked it up a lot and i can't find any information: i'm autistic and struggle a lot with reading facial expression, controlling my own facial expression, and maintaining eye contact. how much will this affect my ASL fluency?

Sorry it took so long to answer this anon! Trouble on the mun’s end of things.

While I can’t speak for ASL specifically, as I’m only fluent in Australian Sign Language, I can say that issues with facial expression will affect your fluency. Theoretically you should be able to manage with not maintaining eye contact as primarily you’ll be focused on hands, but facial expression is used to convey meaning, particularly with emotions, open-ended vs closed-ended questions, and negatives (shaking the head while signing to mean ‘not happy’ instead of ‘happy’).

Unfortunately your fluency will be affected, but I can say that you won’t be completely unable to sign without it. You or whoever you’re signing with may need to seek clarification at times, but that’s a normal part of learning the language and everyone has done it.

[falloutmarvelrp]

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