#mun chatters

[spootsaline]

luz nocdea is vriska coded btw

[fanciful-fandoms]

someone should really be making ARG fandoms ngl

[spootsaline]

Hey look, as much as I'd love to believe this, I do honestly think this is mostly written in bad faith, because I genuinely have a hard time seeing it written as anything but that.

Look. Like, get real close to me for a second real close. RSD, at it's core is a set of symptoms that relate to a specific kind of rejection sensitivity, that people with ADHD (And others!) happen to experience. If it were not a thing that people experienced, then there would be no need for this terminology. The fact that there IS a word for it, means that it is there for people, that this is something real people experience! That's important!

The fact that it isn't documented medically as being a "real thing" doesn't really matter to be honest with you, because there is so much related to mental (and physical!) illnesses that are not documented, and you wouldn't call someone who experiences something undocumented as a liar, would you?

I think that's what it comes down to really. That for some reason you don't want to believe that peoples lived experience, nor the term they've made to describe it, and want to shame them for it...for some reason that is beyond me.

rsd is not a condition. rsd is not a diagnosis. rsd is not a medically recognized symptom of adhd and the experience “rsd” describes is not exclusive to adhd at all. this does not mean people with adhd can’t experience rejection sensitivity, but “rsd” as an “adhd” thing is a concept with no emprical backing developed by one man, with claims of it being brain-based without any evidence behind that claim, as well as many other claims surrounding the “nature” of rsd. adhd is a condition characterized by executive dysfunction, which can involve emotional dysregulation, but acknowledging that is different from the framework of “rsd” and seeing people on this site pass this around without critical thought and even claiming rsd is “adhd only >:(” makes me sick. you’re buying into what’s basically pop psychology instead of scientific research.

emotional dysregulation and rejection sensitivity is by no means adhd exclusive, and people with adhd experiencing those things doesn’t need to have its own special label or whatever when there’s no meaningful difference between someone with adhd experiencing those things and someone without adhd experiencing those things. that’s not logical and a ridiculous mentality of “rsd is adhd ONLY because our rejection sensitivity is SPECIAL” completely goes against building common ground with other neurodivergent people for petty and invalid reasons.

the amount of misinfo going around about adhd on this site is uncanny. please investigate claims others make about disability and do your research - actual research, which doesn’t include tumblr posts that lack citation and oft unreliable sources like ADDitude Mag and WebMD. it would be INFINITELY more productive to operate on a shared experience of emotional dysregulation and rejection sensitivity among varying groups of neurodivergent people than to feed into this nonsensical idea of “adhd-only special super rejection sensitivity.”

[polaroidxcamera]

pat pat pat !

𝑷𝑨𝑻 𝑷𝑨𝑻 𝑷𝑨𝑻!

Send "PAT PAT PAT" to pat my muse on the head

The Roi is suddenly pat!! He is momentarily stunned!!

@botanikos

[rcseadorned]

listen i just like my men clean shaven ok nothing against beards i just don't think they're for m-

[thekavseklabs]

If you noticed that my writing in the last ask was a little extra poetic and emotional that is because my grandmother, who is not doing well and has recently been moved into a home to be cared for while her cognition fades and we clean her house, has always had two frames up on her hallway wall, each with several sets of tiny foot and handprints pressed in white plaster and painted in primary colors. I found myself missing those plaster frames while I was writing. They were a little sign of how I was loved even when I was too little to remember it. My siblings and cousins were right there next to me. I have faint memories of cleaning the plaster off my baby cousin's hand.

Idk. Something to think about I guess. Such heirlooms fall in the same category as children's finger paintings or a favorite bracelet. It has no technical value in terms of money. But I know my grandmother would have sold her house to keep those two plaster frames. Just the same as how much she would give to keep the quilts sewn by her mother, quilts we recently split amongst my siblings and cousins. Mine is tattered, but it's the softest, because it's the one we got to snuggle. I called dibs and I know some were disappointed. It will be me that gets to sew the places where stuffing is falling out. I took her dishes, too. I left the expensive ones for siblings, because what mattered to me were the everyday things.

Cherish the silly things. Keep that sentimental item. It doesn't hurt anyone. If it comforts you, do it. Make a plaster frame or a clay tablet. Gift it to a loved one. It might not matter to you, it might not matter to them. But it probably will. And there's nothing quite the same as an everyday cherished thing.

[spootsaline]

uh so many of themmm buTTTT

Fernia, bigender gossip troll <3

Jelly is a mystery but goes by she/they!

Paldae, demigirl and a mystery

Dehmei is a trans gal!

Bahlia IDs as a silly little friend (any pronouns) !

Yk, had a phone convo with a guy that’s a transphobic ass so um. Rb this with ur fav trans and/or gnc ocs

[snapshotxsinners]

Pat pat pat to Roi! But... they are on their Halloween costumes :]c

𝑷𝑨𝑻 𝑷𝑨𝑻 𝑷𝑨𝑻!

Send "PAT PAT PAT" to pat my muse on the head

"Oh! My, aren't you friendly? Do please be careful of the flowers though, dear,"

@captainseamech

[spootsaline]

we might be getting a sburb lore book? which i LOVE the idea of, but last i heard hussie mentioned it they said they might pawn that crap off to someone else

and ngl if its not written by them i kinda dont want it

[universe-adoptables]

Pinned Info Post

Hey basically I'm going to start cross posting adopts from my DA adoptable account [Universe-Adoptables] to here as well!

I wassss just posting them on my main blog chirp-trolls, but like, I decided that spamming my barely active fantroll blog with adopts was like, not the thing? I also make more than fantroll adopts, so this is going to be everything everything.

All posts will have their prices, any bases used, and link to deviation post in it's tumblr post!

Everything will also be tagged!

Thanks for looking~!

[spootsaline]

Fernia is so normal about his cottage core lifestyle, but she actually puts the work in too

this does mean like the only time he uses electricity is when she's using her computer for her job so XD

reblog post and tell me a random fun fact about one of your muses!!!

my example this,

emarra is a vegetarian, this has no real importance in his story nor does it reflect his morals

he's just, inexplicably, a vegetarian

[shadowzgather]

Just gonna put this here and go back to sleep. Brain won't let me sleep until I put this up. Will reblog a few times tomorrow too.

[rose-from-ashes]

It has been said that Solus zos Galvus had never once shed a tear. It had been said that nothing could shock him, that he was a strange man wise beyond his years, that he acted as though he had already seen most things. Most of it was true. But the claim that he had never cried was not.

It was not the day the ordinary young man came home from hunting subtly changed by something no one else had witnessed. It was not his first battle, or his fifth, or the one where he lost near everyone close to him and won the day in a fight so long and gruesome that it had marked the turn of the endless war between Garleans and the world. It was not the day he was married to his cold wife Marcella or the day his first child was born.

It was the day that first child was laid out in his coffin for his father to look upon. Marcella had not been there, and his other son had been out for war. But little Varis had been. He'd seen that single tear roll down his grandfather's cheek. He'd clung to his sleeve, hoping both to comfort and be comfort, only to be chilled by the cold and hate filled gaze shot his way by the man who had always been a somewhat distant but warm and comforting figure before, someone he could turn to when his father was busy.

Varis did not only lose his father that day, but his grandfather too. With that single tear shed, Solus zos Galvus seemed to release the last dredges of his humanity. A cruel grandfather, a strict and harsh ruler, cold and mean and power hungry with a love for vengeance. He sought war with a hunger and Varis had seen on his face the cruel satisfaction when the emperor learned of the calamity in eorzea his people had caused. Varis did not know what drove him, but he knew that though Garlemald prospered, that was only a side effect of Solus's true goal.

It would only be years later, when Solus died and Varis was crowned, that he learned what his grandfather had truly wanted. It was only then when he realized why the man who had raised him could never love him. It was only then that Varis realized he had been the one to witness the last tears shed by an ancient for his mortal son, the one to witness Emet-Selch of the world unsundered lose his faith in the life of sundered mortals.

[spootsaline]

honestly this is so silly and I feel so bad for people thinking this was somehow swayed? like... 

this isn’t a competition to gain any real reward, its a competition for fun?  

there’s nothing involved in this other than a silly little label you get to carry around for a bit and some ic posts from your chara???

And for those interested in pie charts....

Here's a fun break down of our votes under the cut, and the top three vote pullers for each category!

For most of the time while the ball ran, Kairos and Entoma were locked in hand to hand combat!

Kairos Mikari pulled 35 votes

Entoma Phobia pulled 28 votes

Tohuro Sharqs pulled 26 Votes

This one kept me on the edge of my seat! The leader for this category changed quite a bit since voting began, and at the end was nearly locked into a tie!

Lilitu Troian pulled 33 votes

Lazali Arlott pulled 32 votes

Ceefor Topolm pulled 25 votes

This one surprised me the most - it stayed pretty constant since the beginning and I'm honestly really touched everyone loved my outfit that much!

"Lucile" pulled a whopping 74 votes

Arkkryen Scorga pulled 18 votes

Viserys Sakiit pulled 17 votes

[usagimen]

I also cut my hair today, now to strip the black out && replace it with an ash blonde, but uh...ultra rare mun photo.

Once upon a time my hair was as long maybe roughly Suguru's length? I don't have panda eyes for once but all my egirl blush faded, the price we pay.