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SOCIAL ANXIETY
overcoming social anxiety is one of the most misunderstood things. It's not necessarily a fear of being judged. It's a wall, a block, a mindset that causes so much pain and confusion. a feeling of so much disconnect from your true self. I want to post on how to overcome it, but truthfully I'm still figuring it out. I don't think it's something to overcome, it's something you must control.
expect a super helpful post soon..
hang in their girlies! love you all!!!
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ENERGY FLOWS WHERE ATTENTION GOES
what are you giving attention to?? a mediocre man? an insignificant insecurity? friends that make you feel shitty?
GIRL
get ur shit together and reallocate your energy
i've been doing a lot of observing over the past few weeks and I know for certain that we create our own reality. in my communications class my professor said: "OUR PERCEPTION IS OUR REALITY"
it's as simple as that.
If you want results, the power is inside you and NOTHING else.
love you girlies <33 stay positive, sexy, and free xoxoxoox
#girlblog#girly#aesthetic#music#self care#becoming that girl#coquette#divine feminine#girlblogger#selfcare#it girl#lanadelrey
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Be patient for the fruit to ripen, the flower to bloom; everything has its time ✧・゚: *✧・゚:*✧・゚:*✧・゚: *✧・゚:
#girlblog#girly#aesthetic#music#self care#becoming that girl#divine feminine#girlblogger#coquette#quote#inspiration
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we accept the love we think we deserve. don't settle for less. listen to your body and what feels right. ♥*♡∞:。.。
#aesthetic#girlblog#girly#becoming that girl#girlblogger#divine feminine#coquette#self care#music#resilience
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ₓ˚. ୭ ˚○◦˚.˚◦○˚ ୧ .˚ₓhey girlies, ₓ˚. ୭ ˚○◦˚.˚◦○˚ ୧ .˚ₓₓ˚. ୭ ˚○◦˚.˚◦○˚ ୧ .˚ₓv
as promised, here are 15 things that helped me seriously level up. I'm so sick of seeing the same things on every blog post and it's just like stay hydrated!!
try new hobbies until you find ones that bring you the most fufillment!! (examples to try: art, crochet, writing, making music, photography, gardening, cooking)
find YOUR exercise, whether it's yoga, pilates, sports, weight training, dance. I can't stress this enough.
I know meditation seems cliche, but it really can help clear your mind and bring balance. a tip that helps me is to visualize your tongue relaxing, almost like it's floating. that will help silence your mind so you can fully surrender.
pay attention to your diet. so much of what we eat is processed junk food. try to eat 80% Whole Foods and 20% processed foods. meal prepping really helped me also not buying junk food at all. this step seems difficult but i promise there is a healthy alternative to most of your favortite foods. remember, you are what you eat ;)
when it comes to beauty, the simpler the better (its also cheaper!!) some things I would invest in would be coconut and castor oil because they can be used on everything. also a gel nail kit and a good electric razor for your face. the more you obess on every detail the more it will consume you. you are enough and don't need a million beauty hacks. (also sun-in works nice for natural highlights)
no company is better than bad company, don't accept low-vibe behavior from ANYONE
make an it girl playlist with upbeat songs from rihanna, lady gaga, katy perry, marina, and other 2000s hits. I don't know what it is but those songs will bring out the inner goddess in you.
don't compare yourself to anyone!!!! everyone is on their own journey, focus on yours. everyone has their own energetic signature. be yourself. stop wanting to impress others.
listen to binaural beats if you have blocked chakras or want to attract wealth, love, luck etc). they're also super relaxing.
give up all your limiting beliefs, anything is possible if you want it bad enough. it's gotta be someone, why couldn't it be you?
go with the flow, things happen for a reason. if you find yourself regretting a decision, remind youself that the other choice may have been worse, how do you know??
take ownership for your problems, the only one to blame is yourself. i am a firm believer that you can change anything you don't like about your reality. you deserve happiness.
live in the moment. ask yourself are you enjoying the moment, if not, what can you change. if you can't change anything, LEAVE. protect your peace girl!
stop insecurity from the root. you don't love yourself becuase you haven't worked on yourself. you are a garden that needs watering. i promise, once you complete this list you will love the person you become.
surround youself with love. do every task out of love. speak every word from a loving place. love everyone. we are all human.
i really hope this helps. this list came from YEARS of self-work. i created this blog so girls can learn how to become their most healed beautiful selves.
love you girlies!! ₓ˚. ୭ ˚○◦˚.˚◦○˚ ୧ .˚ₓ
#aesthetic#girlblog#girly#music#becoming that girl#self care#divine feminine#girlblogger#coquette#self growth#manifestation#self development#healing#that girl#it girl#it girl habits#divinefeminine#lanadelrey
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✧hey girlies,
today while i was tanning i came up with this quote. if you enjoy the present moment, your focus will be where it really matters. if you're not enjoying the present moment, what a waste of time!! make little changes to make life more fun! I'll have to make a post soon listing ways to start living in the moment.
love you babe, follow for more༺♥༻∞
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hey girlies, welcome to my first blog post!! I'm so excited to share this with you. my goal for this page is to post everything that I've learned to help better myself and align with my dream reality (which is soo much) while also making it cute, fun, and easy to understand
a little about me:
im an 18 y/o college student *:・゚✧*:・゚✧
an aries *:・゚✧*:・゚✧
love everything fashion and design *:・゚✧*:・゚✧
love music, reading, and films *:・゚✧*:・゚✧
#girly#music#beach#aesthetic#girlblog#manifestation#self care#indie sleaze#life hacks#level up#skins#self love#love#2014 tumblr#2016 tumblr#self development#self growth#girlboss#girlblogger#coquette#self improvement
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