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[lavenduluna]

To all those suffering, I hear you, and I’m so sorry you’re hurting. It’s not much, but i offer you my well wishes, love, and strength. I am sending them always, in hopes it finds you. Try to take it easy today, ok?

[lavenduluna]

To people who are desperately asking for fundz/donations on tumblr.

USE THESE REDDIT SUBS INSTEAD PLEASE FOR GOODNESS SAKE!!!!!!!!!

Hate Reddit if you want, but using these subs are your best chance. People gather in these subs because they have charity to spare:

/r/Assistance /r/legaladvice /r/RandomKindness /r/Charity /r/care /r/Random_Acts_Of_Pizza /r/Food_Pantry https://www.reddit.com/r/RandomActsOfPetFood/ https://www.reddit.com/r/RandomActsOfChristmas/ https://www.reddit.com/r/almosthomeless/ https://www.reddit.com/r/homeless

/r/freelance  /r/povertyfinance /r/thrifty /r/borrow /r/gofundme

/r/depression /r/familysupport /r/transitions 

I never see anyone actually getting any significant donations on tumblr and to be honest, tumblr is the worst place to ask for assistance. Use it as your last resort, it frustrates me to no end seeing people begging for help, reblogging the same post over and over, the same types of posts over and over, to no avail, when people are waiting to help you on a different part of the web  GO TO WHERE THE HELP IS. IF YOU WANT DIRECT ACTION TO WORK STOP WITH TUMBLR AND USE REDDIT.

PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF SATAN REBLOG THIS SO WE CAN START REDUCING THE AMOUNT OF DONATION POSTS THAT GET STUCK FLOATING AROUND THIS WEBSITE

[lavenduluna]

I'm being evicted

I thought I'd be moving in late august but they denied me after saying they would take me and Alan now thinks jve been lying to him about moving I have less than two weeks to move

He's demanding I get a hotel but I need something long term I can't afford a hotel long term

I'm a trans 21 year old turning 22 this July 28th and I have a cat I have enough savings to pay a deposit I have $4000 but I don't have renting history or a job currently but I will get one

If you need a roommate in Georgia or Florida PLEASE contact me or give to my ko-fi to keep me alive while I try to figure out what to do

Please rb even if you can't help it might reach someone who can

[lavenduluna]

my friend–the same friend who was struggling a while back with raising funds to move out of a shitty housing situation, which she did get out of–got into a car accident :( she’s physically ok but she was between jobs and doordash was her only source of income, now the car is totaled and she doesn’t even have that

[lavenduluna]

Happy Disability pride month!

This is me, and my girlfriend Brooke.

We are two disabled trans (I am TME) lesbians, and we are reaching out for help with purchasing mobility aids for our home.

The last few months have been rough for us as a single income household. I'm sure some have seen our previous post where I have explained my worsening health, as shown here, and unfortunately our situation has not greatly improved.

Our intention was to use this years tax return to purchase a Rollator/Walker, Orthotics, and additional mobility and therapy aids around our apartment, which would greatly improve our mobility and wellbeing as physically disabled autistic people.

Now our tax return has arrived, it was less than we expected, and while that has helped pay down some of the debt accumulated through lost hours at work, ambulance trips, and outstanding utility bills over the last three months; that has left us with basically nothing to work with to help us afford these needs.

My insurance is likely to cover 85% of my rollator/walker, $400.00 towards my orthotics, and no coverage for the cost of adding additional bars or handles around our apartment. I am only asking for help to aid us in affording the remaining costs that my insurance will not consider.

The walker I intend to purchase can be shown here. It has been recommended by my doctor, my physiotherapist, and my occupational therapist. It's likely going to cost me around $700.00 CAD, so $105 out of pocket. I have asked for a quote for Orthotics and Orthopedic Shoes from a local vendor, which will be $550.00 CAD and I will have to pay $150 out of pocket. The estimated cost for the remaining medical equipment such as grab bars for our bed, bath tape to prevent slips, noise dampening headphones, bolsters for my legs, etc, is going to be $200.00 CAD.

Overall we are asking for $450.00 CAD to cover these costs. Please ignore my deadname.

We completely understand if you are unable to help. However reblogs are super appreciated, and every small bit helps!! If you have any specific questions please don't hesitate to ask me! Thank you so much for reading. 💖✨

[lavenduluna]

How are you doing? How has your day been? I apologize if it’s been hard lately. I’m unbelievably proud of you for trying your hardest. Thank you, sincerely, for being here. For being alive, and for finding something every day to hold on to. You’ll keep finding reasons, I promise. Whatever weighs heavy on your heart won’t last forever. You’ll feel light with life soon. Things will look much brighter. Thank you.

[lavenduluna]

help a disabled LGBTQ young adult afford medical treatment

this is a continuation of this post, since donations and reblogs have stopped.

my name is arin and i’m a physically and mentally disabled (also LGBTQ+/nonbinary, if you care about that) 22-year-old living with abusive parents. i’m trying really hard to manage my illnesses on my own, and the next step in that process is to see a specialist who can address multisystem issues like mine.

unfortunately, that appointment is super expensive. i also recently had to buy a wheelchair since i am no longer able to get around without one, so in total my original goal was $3,600. BUT, thanks to some amazingly generous people, i’m now over halfway to that goal! i need to raise $1,600 to cover the rest of the costs for my initial appointment + one follow-up.

my paypal is paypal.me/arinitea and venmo is @arinbee. alternatively, you can help out with medical supplies from my amazon wishlist, which is updated periodically. i also have a ko-fi and gofundme, but please note that both take fees from donations. you can check back here for updates.

i would (still) be DELIGHTED to send pics of my cats to anyone who donates. i can also write personalized thank-you letters (with stickers!) and offer useless facts, usually about history. PLUS, a lovely and very talented friend is offering art commissions in exchange for donations.

i am very grateful for any support but please do not donate if you cannot afford it! if you want to help and don’t have spare cash, helping me to spread this post is also extremely important.

please reblog even if you can’t donate! $320/$1,600

[lavenduluna]

I’m rooting for you✨❤️

[lavenduluna]

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Depression Hotline: 1-630-482-9696

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[lavenduluna]

PLEASE don't scroll past this

My name is Aubrey. I am a member of a Native American-bodied, POTS-having, 16-year-old DID system. Our legs are messed up, as a result of a past injury and our POTS, and we're getting to a point where we sometimes cannot walk at all.

A wheelchair would greatly improve our quality of life. We found one (electric, because thanks to back problems a manual one is out) that isn't too pricey, but if we want to get it before our legs give out totally and permanently, we need to do some crowdfunding.

Please, PLEASE signal boost this and donate if you can.

Coffee app: https://ko-fi.com/welcometothearcade PayPal: bluehawkmonkey@gmail.com Venmo and Zelle available upon request.

Here's a link to the chair if anyone wants to see what we intend to spend this money on:

[lavenduluna]

If anyone can send money so me and my wife can get food today would seriously appreciate it [06/22]

Paypal // Venmo

[lavenduluna]

please boost to help a struggling autistic 18 year old transmasc person

please i really need help, i havent had anything substantial to eat in days now and i’m having brain fog. i need just a couple dollars and i can eat. i haven’t been able to get my medication or HRT for months now and i feel miserable. i got my car totaled in a head on collision by a speeding driver in February of this year that left me in debt and permanently with chronic pain + being a really, really traumatic experience. i live alone and i’m very, very behind on rent and i have nowhere to go since my parents kicked me out when they found out i was trans. i’m honestly really, really scared and i don’t know how stuff is going to work out for me here.

my paypal is @skyve please if you cant give a couple dollars just boost.

if you can’t donate and want to help besides reblogging if you message me and try to talk to me that would make me really happy i’m just feeling really scared and alone right now. if you need proof you can also dm

heres the link https://www.paypal.me/skyve

[lavenduluna]

so

we have this app called toogoodtogo where restaurants/cafes/bakeries/hotels and so on sell their leftovers for really cheap to reduce foodwaste

i got all of this for €4 from starbucks

bless

[lavenduluna]

I have an undiagnosed heart condition and need a wheelchair

Hi, you might remember me from my successful funding of my pink and zebra rollator post and I wanted to start off by sincerely thanking everyone who contributed to that, it has made a huge positive difference in my life.

Now though, I need y’all’s help again.

My heart rate has been getting higher lately, and I went to urgent care and then the ER for it yesterday. All the hospital tests came back normal so all they could do was refer me to a cardiologist that can’t see me until July 11th, and tell me to follow up with my primary care who can’t see me until June 24th. It is currently June 3rd.

Today I was all but bedridden from my symptoms, feeling lightheaded and a pounding chest from just sitting up in bed.

I need a wheelchair to be able to do literally anything at all besides slowly walking to the bathroom and back again with my rollator.

Please help me get this wheelchair, it is a pretty decent one especially for the price, a couple steps up from an awful clunky hospital chair (actual hell on wheels) at not much of a higher price, that I can make long term use with as a part time user even after my symptoms start to get managed better.

[ID: A “Sunrise/Jay” wheelchair screenshot with the price reading $283, and the original listing price being $405. The second image is showing the order total screen before clicking the final checkout button, being $283 because of free shipping.]

I can’t wait the amount of time it would take insurance to approve a prescription, if they would at all.

Please help me get this chair so I can live my life at all again. I need to work, I need to leave my house.

My C*sh/app is $jaysonbickel

My k*fi is /jaysonbickel

If you can’t d*nate please reblog at least so it might reach someone who can, and please check the notes for updates before reblogging and/or d*nating!! I will be posting as I near my goal and once I reach it

Thank you so much even if all you’ve done is read this far

[lavenduluna]

If you're a creator, please don't fret too much over constantly needing to always be creating for others. Doing so will only cause you to burn out. When creating, please consider why you do it. Consider when you feel most alive. Consider when you feel calmest, and most inspired. I wish to reach as many people as possible, but I cannot do so unless I am creating for me first. Always chose you first. So you can move ahead without hesitating.

[lavenduluna]

How are we feeling? Can we make it better? Please don't worry too intensely. Things will be calmer, and better with time. There's no need to grit your teeth. You are can be soft, and gentle with yourself. You can rest, you can breathe. One small step at a time, let's be soft, and loving with ourselves.

[lavenduluna]

If you're feeling scared, if you're afraid, if it feels like the world could nearly end, then find peace in knowing this will, without any doubt, pass. Nothing bad can stay. Whatever is making your heart so heavy will subside in time, I promise. You have made it past every single bad thought, every bad day. You have stayed strong through it all. Even if you feel as if you can't see anything ahead of you, I promise. Good things, peace, calm, and pure happiness will find you soon. Wait just a little longer for the clouds to clear.