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Conflict is not Abuse (great book) and triggers are yours to manage
#triggers#ptsd#recovering codependent#codependency#tw abuse#conflict is not abuse#conflict#clarity#gaslight gatekeep girlboss
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My Hallmark moment
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Note to self… about my patterns…
#bad romance#toxic love#toxic relationship#and they were roommates#recovering codependent#people pleaser#captain save a hoe
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How pity is the most useful tool for manipulation
#manipulation#tw abuse#recovering codependent#codependency#psychopath#sociopath#narcissistic personality disorder#toxic relationship#pity#poor me
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Maybe I should ask for more
#bad relationships#toxic love#toxic relationship#recovering codependent#codependency#actually autistic#autistic experiences
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An anecdote about when I was an acolyte in the Episcopalian church & why I’m like Frankenstein’s monster
#frankenstiensmonster#acolyte#episcopal#church#anecdote#story#storytelling#queer comedy#trans comedian#improv comedy
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Grief & the holidays
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For the nervous trans newbies out there
#trans story#trans guy#trans#transgender#trans joy#trans men#non binary#trans man#trans masc#trans hrt#ftm#ftm hrt#transition#transsexual#trans stories#transfem
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Working for perfectionists who remind you of your abusive childhood..
#perfectionism#recovering codependent#codependency#abusiveness#toxic relationship#bad bosses#generational trauma
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Merry Xmas Chinese Jesus
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Continuing the story from a previous post—and yes I realize misandry “isn’t a thing” in the system oppression sense. It’s still a giant red flag for another trans masc person to express & for someone trying to date me to be hell bent on. It usually indicates a lot of bioessentialist & transphobic beliefs & I am allowed to address it.
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What it costs you to be in caretaker mode all the time - no one sees you
#caretaker#recovering codependent#codependency#enabler#people pleaser#toxic love#toxic relationship#healing#healing journey#mental health#trauma
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Curse breakers missing the irony in other parts of their lives
#curse breaking#encanto#bruno madrigal#we talk about bruno#recovering codependent#codependency#truth teller#black sheep#generational trauma#toxic love#toxic relationship#exes
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I started saying what I thought & not holding it in anymore…
#recovering codependent#codependency#toxic love#toxic relationship#bad times#exes#truth#truth teller#people pleaser
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I’m not a service I provide - and other helpful mantras
#recovering codependent#codependency#people pleaser#toxic relationship#toxic love#healing#mental health#healing journey
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Don’t try to date someone who hates your entire demographic.
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Why does the truth hurt?
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