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N: i get that entirely, i think it's definitely important to feel it out and trust who's going to be around your kid. i'd be the same in your shoes. it's probably the best way to go about things, especially in hollywood. of course and thanks, i'll keep it in mind. thank you, i'll need it when the time comes. i'll be honest.. i always thought we'd have just two, but taylor's from a big family and enjoyed it so he wants that. we'll have to compromise.

V: We'll see. At this point things are more complicated in that aspect because I'm not just going to bring anyone around my kid. Yep, you learn to deal with it and ignore it at some point. I appreciate it and it goes both ways. I wish you strength because I could never! I might be one and done.

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alright, so i'm here to once again be a decent friend who's still mentally lost between work and parenting. i'm kinda itching for a break from it all and you're the first that came to mind, so what are you up to ? how are things ? i feel it's been a minute since we spoke last. ( @xoemilyblunt )

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it really doesn't — and i was lucky enough to be on a project with him so it could happen. i do as well, so i took what he said to heart and it helped me a lot. we'll, i could share mine for sure i just think my husband's might be better with maintaining. i mean — look at that man, he's an adnois !

tips from hugh jackman? doesn't get much better than that. swear that man has been ripped from day one. i'll take tips from everyone - you, your husband, whoever else wants to throw some tips in. hit me with all of it, mate.

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to be honest — i had some hard lessons to learn in dating as well, but i appreciate everyone i was with to help me learn and grow to be who i am. i wouldn't be with my husband if it weren't for my last couple relationship experiences. i get what you mean, not dealing is so much easier. i hope but — i never asked much, but wish them the best. i'll have to give it a listen before my friends are all over it and telling me how behind i am on something again. i think it makes it easier for me to remember all i have to check out to do such with my husband. for me, i learned it's nicer so when i'm too busy they get it and can be patient if i'm not texting a lot. i've been rather lucky as well, me and my husband haven't been filming at the same time yet — might together before that happens.

Don't have to apologize, it's a hard lesson that I had to endure. I get it, me neither, cause people get weird and I'd rather not deal with that at all. As long as the partner is aware, I hope they got what they needed. His sport was inspiration for my last album, so it went pretty well and felt good that I could do that. Nothing wrong with listening together! Right, like having a partner that might have an equal schedule or in the same business. I don't think I could handle doing it either, and it wouldn't be fair.

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N: if it can happen for me, it can for you, darling, just give it time. they do and i appreciate everyone i have in my life. oh, wow, i had no idea. i think that's why focusing on those who truly know and care about you can go a long way. i get that and look, i'm here for you as much as i can be and you'll allow me, always. you're one of my best friends for a reason. oh my god.. i enjoy my sleep, barely having it between two kids and work, not sure i'm fully ready for a third, lmao

V: Somehow someday. Well yeah, your friends and family and everyone that knows and loves you. But when there's also a certain perspective sometimes, like in my case, I might even breathe wrong and they'll pounce. I've learned to block it and live my life for me but I mean I am at a vulnerable phase of my life currently so things might slip in and get to me more than I'd want. Aw thank you, I appreciate that. I mean I could def see you with another but like... sleep! Haha

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Messages 📲 ⇢ My Prince Nicholas ❤️

nicholas: hey, i need you for something.

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Joe: things are good actually! yes, please do! we can have a double date before you go back! that'd be so amazing and i know kit would agree.

nick: i suppose we could do that. i'd have to see with taylor first, but i'm sure he'd be down. i'm sure he would because kit adores me, lmao.

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PRIVATE ; yeah, quite close due to our history — i'd say. well, i feel quite lucky to be someone you'd want to come to. oh, um — something about you're boyfriend then — an engagement idea i'd assume or ballsy enough to elope randomly ?

PRIVATE: So um, we're close and all so I figured I'd talk to you about something, get some second thoughts before I do something completely life changing, perhaps even crazy? || @itsnickgalitzine

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yes, exactly and i'm making sure of that. well, i appreciate having you as a friend, truly. one of my amazing ones as well. i'm working on the whole balance thing more, it's a work in progress for sure. i think next break i have i should see more friends such as yourself. it's been a while.

No you are right its absolutely important you feel fulfilled in all things you endeavor to do. Least as your friend that is important to me. You need a bit of both and well imbalance to have balance. Daw I mean that was a special time to have it too!

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N: forever alone? i'm sure there's someone out there for you. i get that side as well. i think i just try to remember there's people who know and see the good in me so i try to ignore the negative. oh, i can imagine. if you ever just want to rant, i'm here for you, darling. it really does and yeah, so far i'm not quite there yet and just said we'd revisit the chat when the twins are at least a year old.

V: Of course you are! You make my forever alone heart believe haha. It's not about being shy for me, it's about what people are going to say and what negativity might come my way. It's a bit of PTSD I think. And I bet, having someone to do it with helps immensely. Oh my god, another?!

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i swear that show's been on my watch list but i haven't checked it out yet — heard so many good things though. isn't it just fascinating to see fans lose it over your work ? not sure i have a show i'm obsessing over — but last i watched were ❛ outer banks ❜ and ❛ heartstopper ❜ which definitely waiting for final seasons of each myself.

now that yellowjackets is in the midst of releasing episodes for season three, it's been pretty fun to see the fans of it collectively lose their minds after each episode. rightfully so also, i'm currently in the middle of a possible breakdown after finishing the first season of severance and all i'm wondering is how it took me so long to watch it in the first place. does anyone else have any tv shows they're currently obsessing over? please, i need to add more to my watchlist.

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wow — sounds like quite the experience and i'm sorry to hear about it. i never used a dating app, the idea just — i couldn't. i had this friend who got on tinder while with their partner, but they made sure their partner knew and it was for exploring their sexuality and making some friends. not sure how it went. i can only imagine what it'd be like to date someone in sports, let alone hockey. sounds like an amazing album i'll have to check out, but i feel my husband's heard it already. um — my busy demanding work schedule mostly. it makes hanging out hard sometimes, texting a bit slow. i think it's also why dating someone who gets it is beneficial.

I can't stop thinking about how I did a talk show two months ago where I just chatted bluntly about my life and then I somehow talked about the disaster of my last relationship where I found out my ex-boyfriend had a whole Tinder account while he was with me. The joys of dating hockey men, they really know how to hurt you. Well, don't worry, my album was definitely a great diss to him! What's something that's non-negotiable to you in your life, it can be about friendships, relationships or anything! I am taking notes just so I know what to look out for in my next relationships. I clearly pick the worst ones, sadly. @hfrpstarters

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I’m so in love with you

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N: are we really? well, we promise to keep being.. well us, lmao. i know exactly what you mean. i think i need a good moment to prep for events and such and not get so shy and in my head. having someone you know around really helps though. i barely understand how myself, but we're figuring it out, day by day. though taylor wants another, and we're just figuring out the best time for that which certainly isn't now.

V: And I adore you guys. You are the couple I live vicariously through. Yeah. So true. Since I've started slowly coming out of my self imposed mat leave I've had to give myself so many pep talks in order to get through things. Honestly I don't know how you guys can handle two. You are heroes.

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Joe: then i'll happily do that for you! can be useful, that's for sure! i promise to be careful on this but still.

nick: well, i truly appreciate you, joe. in all seriousness, how are things? might have to visit you and kit before me and taylor head back to LA.

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it's pretty much when as much as possible we'll probably travel as a family, just so i can be around for things as much as taylor. he's just more lucky his work doesn't take him too far for too long currently and we're not even thinking what we'll do when we're filming together again. might have like — a family member around watch them. it's definitely all the new parent feelings still as they're not even a year old yet and i'm still getting used to the idea of being a father. oh my god — taylor is the best husband and father ever, truly. i never felt luckier to have someone like him by my side and to call the love of my life. so far, we haven't had the issue of both working apart — but i've been away for work a couple times while taylor was back in LA still and he'd just have the twins and send me all the text updates, with pictures, videos and try to make me feel like i'm as much apart as possible. wow, i truly love that for you — i'll have to get properly acquainted with the amazing woman you've got feelings for and making you so happy.

I totally understand the anxiety and the sadness that comes when you have to separate from your family, especially when the kids are little. I have two boys and when the first one was a new born, I didn't want to leave his side. I was so anxious every time I had to leave, but i promise it gets a little easier with time, you get used to bring them everywhere with you until they start school, then things get a little complicated again. You have an amazing husband, I am sure he helps you a lot with it right? how do you do it when you have to work at the same time? - and yes, darling, things are becoming really serious between Eiza and me. You might know her, she is a super star, an amazing woman. I am obsessed with her.

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i think we barely handle being apart sometimes as well, if i'm being honest, but thank you for your kind words. it is and i never appreciated those i call friends more than i do now. i think we'll revisit the chat when the twins are at least a year and go from there — i think it'll just be figuring out when we'd like to try and add another to the mix and i really don't want to rush anything with more kids. plus i know how busy i'll be this year and i want to be as present as i can be the first few months of having a new kid in the mix.

You are, you two are doing fantastic for being apart. I think it is beautiful the community you two have built. To have friends you can call up and just be there with no explanations is such a luxury we dont appreciate till we need it sometimes. I can only imagine with double the two on your hands that time might be a little later, but I also want to say you two are the only ones who can say what is the right time.